原帖由 Frangipani 於 09-11-17 12:03 發表
我祈了禱後再作反思。我看見自己陷在自己的困局裡﹐把奶奶的問題放得很大很大﹗I turned myself into a victim. She occupied most of my thought with all negative feeling. 神讓我退後了一步﹐看見整幅圖像。我的生 ...
I would like to thank you for posting this post. Actually I have the same dilemma in the daily interaction with my in-law. I also have similar feelings as you. It's happy that you have 反思 after prayer. I also need to learn from you too.
原帖由 Frangipani 於 09-11-17 12:03 發表
我祈了禱後再作反思。我看見自己陷在自己的困局裡﹐把奶奶的問題放得很大很大﹗I turned myself into a victim. She occupied most of my thought with all negative feeling. 神讓我退後了一步﹐看見整幅圖像。我的生 ...
原帖由 Frangipani 於 09-11-17 12:03 發表
我祈了禱後再作反思。我看見自己陷在自己的困局裡﹐把奶奶的問題放得很大很大﹗I turned myself into a victim. She occupied most of my thought with all negative feeling. 神讓我退後了一步﹐看見整幅圖像。我的生 ...
我祈了禱後再作反思。我看見自己陷在自己的困局裡﹐把奶奶的問題放得很大很大﹗I turned myself into a victim. She occupied most of my thought with all negative feeling. 神讓我退後了一步﹐看見整幅圖像。我的生命和精力不是應該放在更有意義的事情上嗎﹖可是我卻不斷的反復思想著奶奶的行為﹐原來是我讓她不單只影響著我的生活﹐連我的心情和思想也上了當。
Indeed, it would be so hard on you especially when "老公是傾向他亞媽那邊﹐我是孤軍作戰﹗".
I think reality could be this way: even we have done right in front of God, that does not mean the right thing we do will have a good witness in front of people.
If you feel 犯罪無數 because other make you think this way, and not coming from reading the BIBLE yourself, then, don't worry about it. You should not accuse yourself 犯罪無數.
I will pray for your 99s to have the same standard as you as what is their own business and what is your own business. To pray that your 99s will only mind their own business only, not to mind your own business.
I will pray for your 99s can help you by using your way instead of their own way to help you.