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我大仔而家歲半，今年9月第二個BB會出世，姐姐表示不會續約了!雖然我都預左，不過佢親口話唔續，我都好心煩!

因為佢廣東話好，會湊初生又會煮餸，仲鍾意貓(我有兩隻貓貓)!

而家著手搵第二個，唉!不過可能好難有人肯做!

一個歲半，一個初生+兩隻貓!
唉!

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actually I don't have any racial prejudice but I tend to think that most of the maids like to lie (very professionally) and act stupidly as mrshoho said, pretend to know nothing but inside being real cunning, that's the most annoying! this is from what I heard and experienced by myself, it's only by a v small chance that you could have a real good & honest maid. My friends even said "lying is the culture of the maids" haha

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Yes, maids are maids only, if no good, then find another one!

What I have learnt from my experience are - don't trust them, don't believe what you thought would happen will happen, they are usually lazy and love to act stupid, their attitude will only get worst and we should not have any hope!

SO... if a maid said NO to you when you ask her to renew a contract, then that's it, NO MEANS NO, no need to offer her more money, no need to try to keep her, I am saying all these based on my own experience.

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mrshoho, I totally agreed with you, at least 90% (if not all) maids regardless of their nationality are selfish 'coz to them, you're just a stranger employer, why they need to put their hearts into the jobs? my maid is also v 'cheap' as she resigned before the birth of my bb with an excuse of getting married, only idiots will believe coz there're still >8 months before the contract expires, nonsense.

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原帖由 catlover2001526 於 10-4-7 11:55 發表
我大仔而家歲半，今年9月第二個BB會出世，姐姐表示不會續約了!雖然我都預左，不過佢親口話唔續，我都好心煩! 因為佢廣東話好，會湊初生又會煮餸，仲鍾意貓(我有兩隻貓貓)!
而家著手搵第二個，唉!不過可能好難有人 ...

bunbun通常都唔想湊2個架, 當年我件老2係6月出生, 姐姐9月完約, 佢都係唔肯續.

我仲記得, 佢走時, 我大女(當時3歲)問佢去邊, 佢仲喊哂咁.

不過, 如果你真係同佢夾, 又滿意佢, 就不妨問下佢仲會唔會係hk打工, 如果會, 你試下提議加少少$比佢, 睇下佢肯唔肯.

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發表於 10-5-22 23:36 |只看該作者

i had the same experience about 2 years ago! haha.. I also have 2 kids (one 3.5 years old and one almost 2 years old + 2 cats )

finally, I hired a maid without experience in taking care of new born.. and I trained her and kept very close monitoring... my baby girl is almost 2 year old la ~~ (even though my current maid still very weak in taking care of new born / baby).. but we survive.

well, i guess there aren't much work for 2 cats.. except the maid really have to clean / mop the floor .. coz' it's very easy to find out if she didn't do her work (with the cat fur everywhere)...

don't worry, you still have time and you are stay home mom, you have time to monitor and train the new maid. found someone with kids themselves and with family burden..

原帖由 catlover2001526 於 10-4-7 11:55 發表
我大仔而家歲半，今年9月第二個BB會出世，姐姐表示不會續約了!雖然我都預左，不過佢親口話唔續，我都好心煩! 因為佢廣東話好，會湊初生又會煮餸，仲鍾意貓(我有兩隻貓貓)!
而家著手搵第二個，唉!不過可能好難有人 ...

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發表於 10-5-22 23:24 |只看該作者

She is so selfish!!!

I hope you can find a good one soon!!!! It is very hard, but I wish you good luck!!!!

原帖由 vhunghk 於 22/5/2010 11:50 AM 發表
Exactly!!!! 勸樓主仲有時間找第二個.

我5月3日生了,我工人在5月8日RESIGN. 我之前已問佢幾次多一個B掂唔掂,佢無話唔得,成日話LET'S SEE... 我保留佢的原因係佢做野STABLE(做了三年),有頭有路, 無偷野打斧頭,唔算 ...

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發表於 10-5-22 23:23 |只看該作者

No matter how well you treat them, they don't know how to appreciate and will keep ask for more in return!!!

原帖由 ms.aeroplane 於 21/5/2010 04:37 PM 發表

mrshoho...agree with you!I fired my maid after we signed the second contract for two months.....!
After fired her, i decided to take care my dauhgter by myself!They are not the believeble guys.
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Exactly!!!! 勸樓主仲有時間找第二個.

我5月3日生了,我工人在5月8日RESIGN. 我之前已問佢幾次多一個B掂唔掂,佢無話唔得,成日話LET'S SEE... 我保留佢的原因係佢做野STABLE(做了三年),有頭有路, 無偷野打斧頭,唔算錫我大女,不過佢都算係咁,所以無諗轉人,雖然有親戚話佢照顧NEW BORN可能唔得,EVEN買野SALES都有D懷疑問我佢湊過NB 未, 不過我係STAY HOME MUM,又係第二胎,又有屋企人幫手,諗住佢負責清潔及照顧我大女為主. 點知佢用了一些唔MAKE SENSE的EXCUSE去RESIGN.

REASON FOR RESIGNATION HAS TWO (發生在生前一星期):
1. 我見佢好多野在家,主要係衣服鞋襪,有兩袋野在上格床,我叫佢清左佢,我建議佢存倉同寄番家鄉,點知佢話要CLAIM返我,我亦表明這不是得負責,佢剛來時只有一個GIP,難道佢之後有十箱野我要DUMP左自己野俾地方佢用佢定係租倉俾佢呀,成日話係EMPLOYER'S RESPONSIBILIY.
2.佢話要十月返PHIL有教會活動.我話唔可以,因我要人用,BB才5-6個月,大女又要十月TEST,唔APPROVE,佢又話我之前AGREE,但我真係無,EVEN有,我現在有BB點都唔放佢,佢下年五月到期,點解仲要十月返去.

BASED ON THE ABOVE, 我在5月1日找到一個OVERSEA BUN,諗住新一來便炒佢,點知佢快我一步RESIGN, LAST DAY 6月6日.

上星期佢俾RECOMMENDATION LETTER我SIGN,我話你現在找工新EMPLOYER都未必俾你放十月,佢話係,咁我再問,若我放你十月,你會唔會做落去,由佢言談中其實係怕辛苦,因以前佢可以若十點晚上休息睇聖經,但佢話有BB後做唔到,咁我都無野好講,佢係怕辛苦,但係佢又唔開心見誠同我講,找埋D 咁的EXCUSE 去唔做,仲係要等BB出來,我坐月的時侯先咁,佢完全唔體諒人.

樓主,你工人算係好,唔想做咁早同你講,LET HER GO LA.勉強無幸福.

原帖由 幸福黃太太 於 10-5-21 21:29 發表
好彩工人一早講你知唔續約, 如果到時先講, 要請工人重煩~

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好彩工人一早講你知唔續約, 如果到時先講, 要請工人重煩~

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原帖由 mrshoho 於 10-5-20 23:30 發表
find another one, I just renew a contract with my maid, then after signing the new contract, her attitude changed 180 degrees!!! I called agent and immigration 4 days before new contract begins to ...

mrshoho...agree with you!I fired my maid after we signed the second contract for two months.....!
After fired her, i decided to take care my dauhgter by myself!They are not the believeble guys.
樓主,你如果自問係用個心對佢,又想佢留低的話!你都係回頭事岸好啦!佢地唔會真係用個心對你ka!
而且佢講得唔做,就唔好逼佢啦!可能唔係你放生佢,係佢放生你.....都唔定!

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find another one, I just renew a contract with my maid, then after signing the new contract, her attitude changed 180 degrees!!! I called agent and immigration 4 days before new contract begins to cancel it... I increased her pay to $4000 for new contract because I tihnk she is ok good with my son and I wanted her to keep working for me, then after I told her I will give her a pay increase, she started to bargin with me, she thought I need her so much that I will let her be rude and show me black face............. so, don't ever give them pay increase!!!!

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你揾過個啦!假如你加人工留佢,佢會覺得你冇左佢唔得,同埋你夾硬要留佢,佢都未必做得情願!如果到佢真係頂唔順唔做,好嘅當佢一個月通知你,你就得返一個月揾第2個,如果衰起上嚟,突然玩失蹤,咁仲冇預算啦...!再唔係博炒...!
好似我有時我隨口噏,同阿女講不如生多個b比佢,我個過氣賤印即時响我面前同我個女講,"如果你mami生多個,姐姐就唔做ka la.....!"佢特登講比我聽,咁我咪話"係呀!到時我唔會炒你ka,你唔做就同我講呀!"我心諗你估我會留你咩!死臭8.......

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發表於 10-5-20 01:48 |只看該作者

都係估下嫁咋

其實工人無講過嫁，但我有4大1小1b有車，我估係lee個原因嫁咋，so我覺得有野咪講lo。

原帖由 ahusband 於 10-4-8 00:06 發表

妳都話應該係佢覺得辛苦，咁即係妳都覺得佢 workload 都唔細.. 但又千百萬個唔明百..

究竟係點架？

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我同樓主個case差唔多, 姐姐8月約滿, 而我第2個bb將於8月出世, 到時大b先得2歲, 姐姐又係話8月約滿後唔做(佢係講俾我99知既, 但佢講比我地知前係唔知我又有左bb架).....我問佢點解, 佢話4年無返過屋企, 好掛住個女, 同埋又搵夠喇, 可以番去開檔賣野喎, 唔洗再打工喎~~但再傾落去, 我發現佢似想反去生多個仔~~唉!! 宜家都好心煩, 我怕一個唔好彩請到個好差既就慘喇!! 宜家呢個唔係叫好好, 但至少bb肯跟佢, 而佢又都幾錫bb嘛!!

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原帖由 CrabPincers 於 10-4-7 21:03 發表

我都係甘話, 兩個小朋友都難請工人, 還要加貓...............

我都係咁話..有貓唔怕影響 bb 氣管咩 ????

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佢唔續約要再搵新僱主係要比agent fees
我估 1) 佢想番家郷唔想再做啦
2) 博妳留佢家人工

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