Ok, understood, that's the 'attitude' problem. It's very hard to change someone's attitude, esp. he is nearly 40.
But may I ask when he needed to find another job, did he resign himself or fired by boss?
He didn't find it a problem, because he is working in a 'hea' company (I've seen a 'hea' company before, everyone is just like that). If he can find a new job, that means he is quite clever actually.
I think it's just his work attitude is different from yours. Some ppl think needs to work hard, someone may think just take it easy & relax. So long as he pays you enough $$$, then that's ok. But if not, then you should ask him to find a higher pay job. For a higher pay job, usually ppl there may be more hard working.
Just like your son goes to a bad school, easily be influenced by others to be lazy.
I think not only his parents, but also yourself spoil him too much. Because you have paid for everything, why he needs to work so hard?
I also earn a lot much than my c6. But he must share at least 1/3 of the expenses (usually 50/50) even if he is unemployed. So to force him to take responsibility.
You better keep more money yourself and don't let them know, esp. your in-laws and c6. Just tell them you're poor and have no money.
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