now the most important is to check if you can bear BB just after few months C-section.... in my understanding, 最少一年 d開刀既傷口先叫完全好返, 醫生都建議要隔一年先再有 bb.... 都係快d搵醫生睇下先 la!
但都係果句, 個天比得你有你就可以生, 以後的生活應不會是太大問題...
好似我咁, 自己有病, 理應唔 arm 生仔, 但又 '意外' 有左 (仲 '中' 左 2 次 tim!!), 而家生左2個仔 (大的 2.5yrs, 細的7個月), 咪又好好地生活 (仲好開心 tim!), at the begining 係會辛苦d (我而家好辛苦, 2個 b好困身), 但見到佢地2個一齊玩, 你會覺得辛苦是值得的!!
First of all, don't think of losing the baby first la!! as most bloggers suggest, this is really a gift from God. Your baby will be soo happy to have a brother & sister to accomply & play with always.
And yes, for sure life will be more challenging from now on, as there are 2 babies to take care of. But there is no problems that cannot be solved.
If u really wanna move out, then you have to think abt financial issue. If not moving out, and living with 99, that means u have to have a better communication with 99 la!! i know there must be some conflicts here, sometimes it is also a lesson for us to learn to communicate & accepts the things we cannot change.
You see, my grandparents has 6 children, and they were very poor in the early 40-50s, living in china too. How can my grandparents take care 6 babies at the same time ne??? After i become a mom, finally i realize the greatest love of all is "mommy love" la!!
So don't worry too much, remember this is a happy thing !!! Life maybe more "SUN FU" from now on, but at the same time, MORE " happiness" in your life and ur second baby must teach you to become a better mother!!!!
This is a gift from God. You should be very happy. Financially, you can choose to deliver the baby at Government Hospital. Since you have c-section last time, you can choose to have c-section this time.
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