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你地點睇初中仔女拍拖? [複製鏈接]

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我好反對, 覺得一定影響讀書
男仔讀書緊要
十年後揾食仲難
將來大把機會拍拖啦
我已經同呀仔講明唔好攪呢d嘢住

但我老公話有人一邊拍拖都可以讀書叻
冇關係, 佢0甘講好似支持呀仔拍拖,
剛嘈左一論

我好嬲呀!!

你地抱住咩態度? 點同佢地解釋?

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講起grad. party(美國prom), 我都做過人地partner, 個男仔追左我半年, 我唔鐘意, 但想去見識吓, 係由"接"開始, 我地都打扮得好靚, 我第一次着晚裝, 個男仔嚟我屋企接我, 一齊食晚飯(2人),都幾romantic架, 跟住一齊去prom, 真係差d愛上佢

當晚係拖吓手, 跳舞時攬吓, 送我回家時good-bye kiss, 都冇咩發生, 諗番呢個男仔真係不錯, 好有風度, 差唔多20年前了。

如果學校有埋車接送仲安全, 之後留意吓囉, F4拍拖真係好普遍了。

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原帖由靖嵐於 10-6-1 00:36 發表
其實你呀女講得係朋友, 我就覺得要相信, 唔係佢講完大人又唔信, 第日佢會覺得"反正你都唔信啦, 講黎都冇用", 咁就乜都唔再同大人講, 就算唔好彩出o左事都收收埋埋...

我會比佢去, 因為係一個難得o既經驗, 但要傾好 ...

i let her go already. she said the school will rent a ttc bus to drive them to the banquant hall in downtown; and then drive back to school afterwards. this solve the pick up/drop off problem for me because i seldom go downtown and do not drive highway.

on the other hand, she said they are friends only. she wants to go to the event only. the boy is Filipilo race, not chinese. hope this is the truth as what she told me.

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原帖由 motherlau 於 10-6-1 13:59 發表
我諗拍拖唔係比唔比既問題,係佢價值觀問題,
我從來唔會唔比佢地拍拖,只係會教佢地咩叫拍拖,拍拖唔包"SEX".......

Touch wood 佢地由細到大巳經明白,唔會太 open..
(多謝d電視、電影,拍親拖都上床 ,d細路睇 ...

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做家長當然唔想女女就咁早拍拖，

但有時唔到你比唔比，佢地拍拖都阻止唔到，如果強行唔比，只會反叛心仲重，

所以我地做家長不斷要灌輸知識佢知，性教育，要佢地好好保護自己先行！

我以前中五就同我而家個老公拍拖，當時我中五考會考，但我當時好識諗，無話只想拍拖唔讀書，所以又要睇下你小朋友自己識唔識諗，又會識唔識到個好男仔，好多因素架！

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原帖由 motherlau 於 10-6-1 13:59 發表
剛剛發生左d野,呀仔話佢有"戀愛既感覺"........
原來有個女仔對佢有feel,咁我就同佢分析下個女仔既人品等...
幾日後,個女仔要求呀仔表態,我一直都冇反對過，我比呀仔自己決定......之後呀仔同我講,佢已經同個女仔講左,大家係 "知己" ....

笑到我出唔到聲 .......乜呀仔你咁醒呀！！

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我諗拍拖唔係比唔比既問題,係佢價值觀問題,
我從來唔會唔比佢地拍拖,只係會教佢地咩叫拍拖,拍拖唔包"SEX".......

Touch wood 佢地由細到大巳經明白,唔會太 open..
(多謝d電視、電影,拍親拖都上床

,d細路睇得多,想唔open 都難.....)

剛剛發生左d野,呀仔話佢有"戀愛既感覺"........
原來有個女仔對佢有feel,咁我就同佢分析下個女仔既人品等...
幾日後,個女仔要求呀仔表態,我一直都冇反對過，我比呀仔自己決定......之後呀仔同我講,佢已經同個女仔講左,大家係 "知己"

....

笑到我出唔到聲

.......乜呀仔你咁醒呀！！

怒傷肝，喜傷心，思傷脾，憂傷肺，恐傷腎........

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其實你呀女講得係朋友, 我就覺得要相信, 唔係佢講完大人又唔信, 第日佢會覺得"反正你都唔信啦, 講黎都冇用", 咁就乜都唔再同大人講, 就算唔好彩出o左事都收收埋埋...

我會比佢去, 因為係一個難得o既經驗, 但要傾好幾多點返, 大家當朋友傾o下如果個男仔有咩特別行動, 佢會點做... 大家可以用咩態度面對大家o既"感情"...

原帖由 ckkwkl 於 10-5-31 22:56 發表

my daughter is g.10 (F.4), a g.12 boy invites her as partner to the grad. dinner. i asked her why he invited her, she just said they are friends. let her go or not?

我想要9999呀...

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我會一路同佢講讀書唔淮拍拖(尢其未上大學), 如果佢真係拍拖, 除非佢可以保得住d成績, 個人覺得一定會影響.....

雖然我知今時今日子女好難會肯聽, 不過我唔會比個signal佢話我贊成..

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我就"接受唔到lor".所以我一路向我個囡落藥,教佢要保護自已,教佢人生漫漫長路,讀完書(大學畢業),有分析力,有能力,會理性思考,咁拍拖會安全d開心d.so,佢都好受教!Thank God!

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我朋友個女小學已經拍拖, 另一個朋友話湊放學, 親眼睇住個女仔走埋唻拖住佢個仔, 應承我同我拍拖啦, 你唔好鍾意阿邊個, 佢響後面睇到o晒咀!!

ckkwkl, 囡囡都F.4, 被邀請去grad. dinner真係一個美好回憶, 如果係我, 我會藉呢個機會同佢講我concern係乜, 希望唔係拍拖只係enjoy一個party, 反正唔可以外出過夜, 相信佢, 希望佢自己識諗, 為自己著想! 要避, 其實日常咁多機會出去, 逃避唔係最好辦法!

講野唔好笑又唔識講爛gag
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原帖由 ckkwkl 於 10-6-1 02:51 發表

i have the same feeling as there must be some feeling from the boy as grad dinner is a very very important events for the high school kids. he invited my daughter for this ..... also, they will all ...

如果個男仔品格唔錯我會畀個女去,
當然要教佢要守什麼禮儀,
係保護自己亦都保護呢段友情,
唔可以去得太快.

因為係important events,
其實被邀作伴都係令佢開心的事,
一個特別的經驗,
至於係咪繼續拍拖就和阿女慢慢再傾.

[ 本帖最後由 ZZdaphne 於 10-6-1 12:34 編輯 ]

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原帖由 vet 於 10-5-31 11:28 發表
difficult decision to make

I would say NO but if she insists...........let her go.

I guess maybe they are just friends now. If a boy invites a girl to a grad. dinner, there must be ...

i have the same feeling as there must be some feeling from the boy as grad dinner is a very very important events for the high school kids. he invited my daughter for this ..... also, they will all dress up very formal and the event took place in a banquant hall. allow or not allow, i have to tell her tonight. so hard to decide.

[ 本帖最後由 ckkwkl 於 10-5-31 13:54 編輯 ]

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difficult decision to make

I would say NO but if she insists...........let her go.

I guess maybe they are just friends now. If a boy invites a girl to a grad. dinner, there must be something. IS kids start dating early. You should have prepare.............

原帖由 ckkwkl 於 10-5-31 22:56 發表

my daughter is g.10 (F.4), a g.12 boy invites her as partner to the grad. dinner. i asked her why he invited her, she just said they are friends. let her go or not?

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原帖由靖嵐於 10-5-31 00:17 發表
THX~! 又要做功課...

my daughter is g.10 (F.4), a g.12 boy invites her as partner to the grad. dinner. i asked her why he invited her, she just said they are friends. let her go or not?