Support U Always cos I also want to adopt child
though I don't read through all the posts but I see years-ago myself from you
both my hubby and I like children very much & we planned to have a big family
but
my situation is different from U that I have 2 baby fish already
so my consideration involves not only my hubby's view but also my children's views
2. 老公話等多幾年 -- the main pt. Try to explain to him how sad u are....
Men is very strong self -esteem animal. But, when he see how suffer u f been taking in these yrs. He'll know what u want, maybe a yr or years later. So, U must be tough, very very strong to tackle the problem & also to prepare to be a MOTHER !!
3. Austraila education -- many auntie's kids graduated from the U w/ 1st honour but unemployed , forced to return HK to find job.