我大約早一個月同我仔仔講,佢今年4歲,之前個姐姐由佢出世就湊,啱啱兩個約,要返屋企結婚,佢地感情好好,而仔仔亦大個明白道理,所以我地選擇同佢講.
我地話俾仔仔知,姐姐離開左自己屋企咁耐,係時候要返去佢爸爸媽媽身邊,你都鍾意爸爸媽媽喺身邊,會開心啲,你都想姐姐開心係咪?
另外,要俾仔仔知道姐姐走左仲有好多人錫佢,佢唔會孤單,我有同仔仔班主任講,等班主任同佢傾計.
so far姐姐走左1個月,仔仔都有問起佢,話擔心佢,我話佢有爸爸媽媽照顧,唔使擔心.
無安全感 is what I am worry about. How long has your maid been working with you? but I'm afraid if we tell him too early, the maid will speak something to make him sad. Last time when I fired the maid when he was 3 years old, I didn't let him stay home on that day. He didn't ask why we can't see her anymore afterwards but he still can remember her sometimes.
Now is he 5 years old and he understand more, so I'm not sure how to talk to him. Tell him she is just an employee becase we pay her salary, and she has to go home to take care of her children.....?
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