When I decided not to hire another maid for replacement, I did have a serious house meeting with my hubby/kids. I told them it is impossible to do all housework by myself. i.e. cleaning, cooking, washing...etc. I prepare not cook every night. I am working mom, so every meals done at home will be very tired. May be 3 times per week... my girls can share some simple housework so I may feel more easy without helper.
Even though I have a helper for years, I still buy all stuff in supermarket by myself (my hubby will take the heavy stuff such as drinks/rice/toilet paper.) The helper cannot help me to sort out what I want. Due to her "ability", she is already busy all the time.
I hope our family will enjoy without helper because there is no "外人" anymore in our flat. Of course, we need to pay efforts in exchange of freedom.
Betty媽咪人生總是充滿挑戰與無奈, 好多事并不是自己所能控制, 但仍希望可以將所有障礙一一闖過, 健康的活下去......... :-P :-P