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別墅

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發表於 11-8-6 15:50 |只看該作者

Yesterday, my bun and I went to the supermarket. She put her M , a bottle of coke, and coffee in the cart. Of course I paid for that. It is not a big deal, only around 50 dollars. But I am not quite comfortable with that because she did not even ask me. And except the coffee, I do not think it is my duty to buy those for her. I talked with my husband about that and he blamed me for being stringy. He said if she broke something at home, that will cost more 50 dollars. Just take it as a tips for her because she is doing good job here. Maybe men is more generous than women?

Today, there is a lady called my home phone for her. Later she told me that comes from the insurance company for her husband and son in Philippines. That sounds really tricky to me, to be honestly. Is it possible that she borrowed money from some companies?

Sigh...Staying with her is really like doing the EQ test every day. Anyway, she is quite good at the housework. And I do not want to find another one since the baby is coming. I am just complain here, that's it!


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發表於 11-8-8 18:02 |只看該作者

回覆:lovesunny 的帖子

Of course she should pay for her own stuff. If I were you, I would talk to her immediately.




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發表於 11-8-8 17:55 |只看該作者
回覆 lovesunny 的帖子

Buying birth control pills for her is not enough!! Mine took BCP while on vacation but she then told me she only started 3 days before her menstual period I can only blame myself not verbally instruct her on the direction... maybe you need to tell your bun bun to start at least one cycle before just to be sure ar..... i don't want you to go thru the same thing as i did. good luck!


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發表於 11-8-8 17:23 |只看該作者
回覆 Juliaqq 的帖子

She is a very experienced helper who has been staying in HK for long long time. Her last employers trained her very well. So, I never waste my time training her anything. Yesterday, I talked with her about that. She took it well, at least she looked like she will change later. Hope so...

Yours got pregnant? You poor thing! I will cry if she got pregnant...Mine is going home soon and I've already bought the birth control pills for her. I hope she will be fine. God bless us please.


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發表於 11-8-6 22:36 |只看該作者
你應該同佢講, 今次我比無所講, 不過下次你要自已買.
吾好比佢老馮咁, 將來更加得寸盡呎, 你就麻煩.
另外, 如果佢ok, 你可以買些小禮物比佢, 或者佢的仔女都得, 咪當bonus, 做得吾好就吾使買.
我可以請佢食生果, 等等, 不過我吾會買佢既日用品. 其實, agent都有講, 吾使包架.


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發表於 11-8-6 22:23 |只看該作者
點解要幫佢比呀,同我去超市買嘢係工作時間,係工作嘅一部份,比佢買私人物品已經係一個favour,我唔會幫佢比任何錢.

佢唔打爛嘢係應該嘅,唔應該當係bonus比佢囉.
我們都以為,很努力去做,就可以做好一件事。但原來我們是很用力地,去做錯一件事。


水晶宮

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發表於 11-8-6 19:57 |只看該作者

回覆:Staying with your helper like doing EQ test everyday?

Bathing facilities should also not open to her. Since she just come for 2 months, you should be more straight to her, if not they will just take it for granted and have more request afterward!



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發表於 11-8-6 19:53 |只看該作者

回覆:Staying with your helper like doing EQ test everyday?

Yes, it's EQ test everyday! Btw, all that coke, coffee, M pad should not be supplied by employer! Tell her to pay for them herself. Your food at home is already open for her to eat, that's enough!



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發表於 11-8-6 19:16 |只看該作者
It is really hard to draw a line between "too generous" and "too mean" in terms of hiring domestic helper. I do agree that Men in general are more generous than women!! My bun bun is pregnant after going home for holiday and my husband suggests that we should give her 1-2 months worth of salary so that she will leave on her own will... I just feel we already needed to pay all that extra to hire another one to replace her and now we need to pay more?? back to your problem, i really think you are being too good la! Is your helper new to HK?


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發表於 11-8-6 18:12 |只看該作者


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發表於 11-8-6 17:04 |只看該作者

對唔同人應有唔同方法, 佢唔識感恩既人, 你比多多佢都唔會滿足, 相反, 如果我知佢唔係老馮既人, 我比多多都樂意.


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發表於 11-8-6 16:43 |只看該作者

回覆:Staying with your helper like doing EQ test everyday?

The problem is you treat her too good!



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sillything  agree  發表於 11-8-6 22:17
mmami  Agree!  發表於 11-8-6 18:12


別墅

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發表於 11-8-6 16:01 |只看該作者
Actually, I do not think I am a bad employer. We give her $3740 even we signed the contract for $3580. We gave her a cell phone for free because she said hers is broken. We have already pay for the ticket back home during the Christmas. And she just came to our house for 2 months. Everything at home is open for her including the drinks, fruits, desserts, snacks. Not mention those bathroom facilities. I don't think she is thankful for all we did for her. Maybe she just think that she is lucky enough to find a easy boss. And she continue to try our bottom line.

Like someone said, I really do not know how to be a boss!

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