In my mind she's always 100 marks. No matter she failed or scored high marks I still feel the same. I don't want to give her pressure. I will feel happy as long as she tries her best, be a good person ( with good personality) and has a kind heart. Just like me when I was a girl, duk gwor Cher gwor. Scoring high marks in primary and secondary schools don't mean that she/he can have a good life when grows up. I wont give too much pressure to my kids, ESP if shes a girl.