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Out curfew time is 8:30pm. Once she was late until 11:45pm! Usu she is late for 1 hour. We tolerate for 5 times. Last night, we asked another bun bun to remind her. But she became angry and hide in my boy's room and said she will go back philipines.

How long i still need to tolerate!

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我接受唔到工人咁無禮...
好似要脅番僱主咁...

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原帖由 wittymom 於 10-9-20 09:38 發表
Out curfew time is 8:30pm. Once she was late until 11:45pm! Usu she is late for 1 hour. We tolerate for 5 times. Last night, we asked another bun bun to remind her. But she became angry and hide in my ...

我接受吾到
1. 成1145先返
2. 無禮貌
3. 威脅僱主
佢既然話要返菲律賓, 叫佢比resignation letter 比你, 比一個月通知你, 一係賠1個月人工1你, 比佢走

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i recently hire a new bun bun to serve this bun. actually this problem bun is good in taking care of baby. i will give her 70 mark here. but she doesn't know how to cook and organise things and always speak in a way as if she is my boss lor. for this, i can only give her 20 marks. but overall, 55 mark, and so i recontract her lor

原帖由 wcpcelia 於 10-9-20 09:48 發表
我接受唔到工人咁無禮...
好似要脅番僱主咁...

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原帖由 wittymom 於 10-9-20 10:02 發表
i recently hire a new bun bun to serve this bun. actually this problem bun is good in taking care of baby. i will give her 70 mark here. but she doesn't know how to cook and organise things and always ...

要搵個對ＢＢ好既工人唔難。

不過你咁樣縱個工人，新工人好易有樣學樣，唔係鬥蛇，就係練精，一齊恰太太。

工人咁發係脾氣都忍得，你在家的僱主地位已到谷底，再唔做Ｄ野，幾好既工人都會俾你教壞。

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原帖由 wittymom 於 10-9-20 09:38 發表
Out curfew time is 8:30pm. Once she was late until 11:45pm! Usu she is late for 1 hour. We tolerate for 5 times. Last night, we asked another bun bun to remind her. But she became angry and hide in my ...

Definitely, cannot accept the bun to return home so late. My Indo maid usu. back home at 9:30pm, sometimes before 9pm tim....

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actually this problem bun started take care of my bb when new born. my bb was premature and very very weak in health (my bb has operation twice) . i remember when she 1st came, she would come to our room & help me to put bb to sleep even at 3am. this happened for about 3 to 5 times, but i appreciated that. she is also careful and i still feel that she would 'give more than u asked for' in taking care of kids.

i still ve an elder kid. so i hire a new bun bun to help her lor. she cannot cook & organise.

also, she is pretty but never wear sexy. i feel that she really likes my bb and the standard did not lower even now. sometimes when i talk with her, she is quite educated, she used to be a teacher and care for patients.

now all household matters & cooking is with new bun bun, and problem bun take care of kids & like a manager. but i know she also borrow $ outside.

actually, i can accept her weak points. i ve no schedule of cleaning etc but as long as matters don't bother me, its ok la.

i only cannot tolerate her attitude, always speaking like a superior to me. i think her character is this- vain. i dare not tell what i want because of her black face. i will just do it myself.

but sometimes, if she thinks sth is her responsibility, she would do without me asking. e.g. she will even ask me what shoes i like to wear!

原帖由 mylulu007 於 10-9-20 10:07 發表
要搵個對ＢＢ好既工人唔難。
不過你咁樣縱個工人，新工人好易有樣學樣，唔係鬥蛇，就係練精，一齊恰太太。
工人咁發係脾氣都忍得，你在家的僱主地位已到谷底，再唔做Ｄ野，幾好既工人都會俾你教壞。 ...

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你個工人炒得啦, 佢做唔掂, 我唔介意請多個返嚟分擔, 但唔守我規則, 要我受佢氣, 就一定冇得撈.

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工人第一日遲番就要同佢講, 遲左咁多次都冇出聲, 自然以為你默許可以遲返, 同埋有咩唔滿意最好直接同工人講, 唔好嗌另一工人傳話, 咁佢可能會覺得冇面.

原帖由 wittymom 於 10-9-20 10:35 發表
actually this problem bun started take care of my bb when new born. my bb was premature and very very weak in health (my bb has operation twice) . i remember when she 1st came, she would come to our r ...

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last night, we had a mid-autumn festival carnival in the estate and i told my problem bun bun if she wants to join, she can come directly. and when i tried to call her to tell her how to get to the place, she is not even answering the phone.

i feel so stupid because my invitation was only taken as an excuse to be late for home.

原帖由 seanandangus 於 10-9-20 13:41 發表
我個前度工人都係錫小朋友但係就一D 家務都唔做, 仲要當我係傻仔,以為我唔知..所以縱使佢對小朋友好, 但係我都炒左佢換人, 我唔想好似生活向垃圾場咁.... ...

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你隻野真係炒得啦! 我以前個bun, 第1次放假都係已經遲到, 返黎話唔識路, 但我果時住MTR上蓋. 之後, 我地諗住忍佢, 俾機會佢, 點知佢當左老馮, 仲要sorry都無句, 想我地主動發脾氣炒佢咁.

最後, 我地無上佢當, 佢之後攪左好多野, 跟住resign. 宜家我請左個完約印印, 暫時相當滿意, 照顧BB, 同清潔都好OK, 又識煮野, 唔駛我諗. 好過個bun多多聲.

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but when i think of asking her to leave, i would think of her better sides. eg. once our hair dryer is out of order, she used a fan to fan my wet hair; e.g. once my neck became stiff, she use some oil to message for me....

原帖由 siusiu2010 於 10-9-20 15:16 發表
你隻野真係炒得啦! 我以前個bun, 第1次放假都係已經遲到, 返黎話唔識路, 但我果時住MTR上蓋. 之後, 我地諗住忍佢, 俾機會佢, 點知佢當左老馮, 仲要sorry都無句, 想我地主動發脾氣炒佢咁.

最後, 我地無上佢當, 佢之 ...

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原帖由 seanandangus 於 10-9-20 13:36 發表
我都係咁話, 要我受工人氣即係等如貼錢買難受! 同埋佢咁遲返,你有權鎖門唔俾佢返, 俾返d color 佢睇...我個前工人試過1130返, 我地即刻鎖門仲要叫保安叔叔唔好俾佢上黎..

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原帖由 CrabPincers 於 10-9-20 10:02 發表

我接受吾到
1. 成1145先返
2. 無禮貌
3. 威脅僱主
佢既然話要返菲律賓, 叫佢比resignation letter 比你, 比一個月通知你, 一係賠1個月人工1你, 比佢走

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原帖由 wittymom 於 10-9-20 15:45 發表
but when i think of asking her to leave, i would think of her better sides. eg. once our hair dryer is out of order, she used a fan to fan my wet hair; e.g. once my neck became stiff, she use some oil ...

其實個個都話呢個工人唔掂，你覺得佢好，你就留佢啦。

不過我想問，你個風筒有幾何會壞呢？工人會唔會日日用風扇同你吹頭（我想問我有無睇錯？你既頭髮都要工人幫你吹？！）

佢可能唔係對你係咁，幫你massage，可能對男主人都一樣。。。。（講笑）

我就唔會叫工人做工人以外既野喇，好老實，我唔ｃ服會出去搵人massage，都唔駛請件manager俾佢食俾佢住個個月出3千幾。

一來唔知佢會唔會以為自己同你好熟，二來唔知佢手勢會唔會出問題，三來唔知佢係唔係les，四來唔知佢會唔會反面走去告你，要求佢做ｄ唔係外傭做的工作範圍.....

樓主究竟想要個工人黎做乜? 做d十年都唔一潤既野丫, 定係真係一個domestic helper?

老實講, 最受氣果個唔係你, 因為你話晒都係出糧俾佢果位. 最受氣係你既新任工人, 怕且新工人唔會做得長.

[ 本帖最後由 mylulu007 於 10-9-20 18:06 編輯 ]

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