我同你Case almost 100% same!! Husband do nothing after work!!!! I am U grad too and quit a job to take care of baby. 個時真係好委屈．want to cry any second!!!! Luckily my parents and sister support me, otherwise maybe already divorce. 我已經唔會依賴我老公照顧/幫我，總之佢比夠家用．其他野我已經唔理佢．．我做反好我既本份．My son still need a father and I would not think of Divorce. But I don't need him so much, he is like a room mate now hahahahha! Maybe when my son grow up, we can get back to good relationship. No one knows. But now I think you no need 死忍, scold him la. D 男人唔鬧唔舒服． 仔一定要自己湊．起碼湊到佢識講比你聽工人點對佢．
你老公話你唔識湊，你叫佢quit job and come to take care of the son and the home la and then you go back to work lor.
我老公仲衰, 話我掃地都唔夠斑呀. 又話我唔煮飯, 好辛苦煮到餐飯, 又係彈...又話點....! 我初初都有忍下,因為懷疑是自己唔夠好. But now I think it was very difficult for a woamn who never do housework. When the son between 6mth - 2years. It is very busy to watch him, he need solid food and milk... all day to prepare food for him and change diaper and take him to walk outside...very very busy la. As a new mother, don't know how to arrange and manage. And also need to wash clothes...take care of myself...!!
Of course I can do it now after 1 year traning / practise. 總之，慢慢來啦．你同佢講－－－你唔識就問下ｄ專家孩子係邊個湊先好．. 其實你講咩佢都聽唔入耳架啦． 唔好理佢最好．我以前都好似你咁認真聽ｃ６講野，後來先知原來佢係連自己唔記得講左ｄ咩．嬲來都side氣! 你老公多多野講就一定要即時還拖，唔係佢仲多癈話．記住：They always are not listening to the content but they will scare if you speak 理直氣壯!!! 爭吵－－男人永遠都係輸架． All mother 都會覺得自己未夠好，no need blame yourself. 盡力做就得架．至於你老公，叫佢collect skin la. Don't waste energy / time to quarrel with him la.
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