My BB (8mths)is take care by my maid now, everyday my mother come to my home to help to take care her for few hours.
However, my mother has no time now because she needs to take care my grandmother.
If only my maid to take care BB , I’m so worry because sometimes she is careless.
So, I may change to 全職媽媽. I ‘m think whether I still need my maid.
I would like to ask 全職媽媽:
1) Are you the only one take care BB, anyone(mother/maid) help you?
2) Is it very difficult if take care BB only you?
Because quite a lot of家務 to do specially for BB , need to keep clean.
3) Is it boring ?
It really depends if you are rely on your maid or not. For me, I just quit my job (only 1.5 weeks .. hhee), my son is 6.5 mths. But I always rely on my maid .... what I do now is only playing with him. Bad mum I am !!
Be honest, nothing is impossible, if you dont have a maid .. then you really have to do yourself.
When I was working, my maid was the only one who takes care of my baby, she can handle it. She do the house work while baby is sleeping. And she sometimes said she is bored, would like to have more work to do , haha !
If you have the patient & passion, I believe you really can do it !!
Havent check BK for so long tim !!
I quit my job because I had to travel alot before, like 1 - 1.5 weeks away from HK per month !! I think my baby cannot recognise me as his mother !! Maybe he thought the maid is his mummy !!!
I will not fire my maid, as I think she is pretty good, she did a good job, she can handle my baby & housework pretty well. Also, be honest, we have rely on her already. If we fire her, then my husband & I wont have free time to go out, hahha !
But now, I have more time to go out with my baby & play with him, hope he knows I am his mummy by now !!
原帖由 maomaokk 於 09-7-9 15:21 發表
babyakambm,
so, why you quit your job? Will you fire your maid and take care BB by yourself?
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