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重未揾到工入，

之前揾到個本地完約,前日話我知揾到第二個employer,唔來，我係working mum,冇得請假,老公又係。
我有兩個小朋友, 9 months and 4 years old,佢地做之前都知,來到又吾做,好辛苦，even未來都唔做，於是揾返之前陪月,話得,跟住今日打來又話唔得....我好黑呀,家中兩個b又細,又冇屋企人support,我老公開始埋怨我對工人奄尖,我成日買野比佢食，又幫佢諗下d野点最易做,我只係叫佢就算唔識英文唔緊要,得閒同細b睇下書，玩下波波，唔好只抱bb講電話，於是佢放假就去agent度揾new employer,(已立刻揾到)因佢有十年local experience,間agent重叫我唔好話agent會幫僱主，驚工人唔開心，我而家明la,佢地賺工人$好過賺我地hk人$,但都唔好咁冇道意,我當初揾佢,係喊住揾,因我坐月時新來bun bun話驚揍nb,一來就比one month notice我話唔做,又開始玩野,我賠机票 and $送佢走,坐月時成日

，而家個工人,當時重有2 days visa到期,我見佢都like bb,就請佢,我知佢冇揍bb experience, only 老人家，但我又就返工，舊agent又話冇人,就請佢...点知而家佢揾到new employer話走就走,我叫佢諗在bb份上,等新工人來先走,even全家總動員求佢,佢都係準時三＋一号走,咁我家小朋友点呀？点解政府只保障工人,我地d苦主就比人一獲蹺起,
我有個所謂老'親戚'話會幫我住d細,叫我比我準備賣又裝修好既屋比佢住,佢當時已冇提租金,結果佢都冇比,又唔比我同老公入屋,驚我地有菌,又唔比地產樓,就係咁我地好似冇左層血汘錢買返來既樓,老公又埋怨我...

請問大家可以点做，我其實哩排巳經發晒柔去揾agent,大agent就話冇,細個d又比d 40 幾歲,斷約(唔知点解),visa弟二日到期比我,我雖然好心急，但自問自己非有$人,又唔想再比d衰工人利用我過橋來揾 d new and comfortable job,我都冇應承,亦吾想wate, $4000比agent,最後又賠机票及$,再加上佢地對我d小朋友做d野我好怕，如將塊面'辣'落heater,而家細b塊面有個印,同d警察講，佢地只問'証拒呢'？
係哩刻,我好冇助,既然老公,家人又成日埋怨我生兩個做乜，我諗如我帶埋兩個細'走'，我知咁做好自私,但原來求人係咁難。

[ 本帖最後由 dream_cool00 於 10-3-21 00:54 編輯 ]

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cutekiddy

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你千奇唔好亂唸,你有2個小朋友係好幸福,有啲人真係好想生都無.

我個賓賓都係月尾到期,依家仲未搵到,要自己湊番2個小朋友.我其實都好驚,但係係自己生出嚟,幾辛苦都要頂硬上.

如果你真係未搵到,可以考慮保良局暫扥,可以月計 or 日計,有分bb及幼兒,好似係幾十蚊日.時間由早上7点幾8点至夜晚6点幾7点.bb可以全日,4歲嗰個可以半日.

你check吓啦!,偉大嘅媽媽,加油!

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原帖由 cutekiddy 於 10-3-21 01:22 發表
你千奇唔好亂唸,你有2個小朋友係好幸福,有啲人真係好想生都無.

我個賓賓都係月尾到期,依家仲未搵到,要自己湊番2個小朋友.我其實都好驚,但係係自己生出嚟,幾辛苦都要頂硬上.

如果你真係未搵到,可以考慮保良局暫扥, ...

cutekiddy,

多謝你既鼓勵，我真係

左出來，因為身边既人,包括老公,亞媽,都埋怨我，雖然同事見我瘦到似人型既樣都叫我quit份job,有頭髮想做'辣'哩咩？我唔做,唔通攞縱援咩？
雖然我唔係笌一次比工人蹺起,但今次真係好驚呀,因為多左細b,d工人老實d就say no, including overseas,唔老實就騎牛揾馬....

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sisilui

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千奇唔好唔開心, 我都請極都冇好工人, 唔係我炒佢, 就佢炒我。我都俾人講了好多閒話, 尤其是老爺99, 我明真係好唔開心。但困難一定會過, 再望返轉頭已無用, 不如想下點樣解決, 你係咪真係無相近的人可幫忙? 我試過請褓母, 雖然是貴了一點, 但請住2-3個月幫手先, 你可以去一D專請陪月的AGENT搵, 或再培訓局, 或勞工處搵。

唔好的工人或根本唔想做的工人留係到都冇用, 衰個D可能會傷害D小朋友, 所以你想下, 可能個工人走左係不幸中的大幸!積極D, 希望在明天!

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xoboy1125

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請 oversea 印印, 應該肯同你做 2 年嘅...

原帖由 sisilui 於 10-3-21 01:40 發表
千奇唔好唔開心, 我都請極都冇好工人, 唔係我炒佢, 就佢炒我。我都俾人講了好多閒話, 尤其是老爺99, 我明真係好唔開心。但困難一定會過, 再望返轉頭已無用, 不如想下點樣解決, 你係咪真係無相近的人可幫忙? 我試過請 ...

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困難時期我都遇過, 但記住只係暫時性, 會有改善嘅一日. 千期唔好求工人, 佢地根本唔會諗你死活, 你試吓 cutekiddy 講, check 保良局暫托啱唔啱你, 或者搵托兒所照顧兩個細路. 又或者本地 ee 頂住先. 面對困難時, 要用積極心態去將問題解決, 唔需要覺得自己慘, 只係覺得慘解決唔到問題. 亦唔好理其他人講物嘢生兩個, 佢地出生就係同你有緣份, 唔好再搵本地工人, 佢地好多都係騎牛搵馬, 最後都係害自己. 祝你好快解決問題同搵到好工人.

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Jasmine-4711

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黑暗之後便是黎明,千祈米亂諗野.

你可找臨時日托或月托,唔好急到請籮底橙.年紀>35或冇nb exp或本地完約/斷約都唔好要.

你個親戚霸完樓,唔交租又唔湊仔,你好快d收番層樓.否則,12年後樓就係佢的. Possession without paying rent for 12 years give her ownership by law.

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原帖由 xoboy1125 於 10-3-21 01:43 發表
請 oversea 印印, 應該肯同你做 2 年嘅...

但要等兩個月,加上agent話冇人啱我,我同老細講過,佢只係話揾屋企人幫(但冇..亞媽自己有份工，亦唔會QUIT,奶奶巳90歲)...唉!

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原帖由 Jasmine-4711 於 10-3-21 01:49 發表
黑暗之後便是黎明,千祈米亂諗野.

你可找臨時日托或月托,唔好急到請籮底橙.年紀>35或冇nb exp或本地完約/斷約都唔好要.

你個親戚霸完樓,唔交租又唔湊仔,你好快d收番層樓.否則,12年後樓就係佢的. Possession without ...

my god, i don't know this,我諗佢會係到養老,仲想我負責佢及其姊姊的医療及生老死'裝'!(唔好意思,吾係curse老人家),但我同老公都feel到,因佢地冇親人,其實我都唔係,只係我細個mummy冇乜理我,佢見我咁可憐,有時會煮下飯我食,而我大個左,都一路揾佢,諗住報答下佢,但又冇諗過養佢喎，因為自已未搞得掂！

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Don't think too much . Be positive. Find a local EE to take care of your two children first. And then , find an agent or local maid . Where do you live ? I try to find more information to you .I have a friend who knows a philipine maid she can look for some finish-contract maid in church.Tomorrow is sunday, maybe I can get her news. Don't cry in front of your children . If you know my story , you are not too bad. Some time , god had arranged every thing.

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3509

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你試吓搵啲 agent 可以係網上睇工人cv同 video, 咁樣可以快啲, 唔使成日走去agent到睇cv. 試吓海 x僱傭啦, 我以前都係咁上網搵, 同埋你可以上去同佢地講你想揀點樣嘅工人, 叫佢地一有新cv就通知你, 佢地啲工人都去得好快.

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cutekiddy

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formulababy,你搵完比dream可唔可以跟手幫我搵一個?不過dream urgent啲,你有就比佢先啦! thanks a lot!

原帖由 formulababy 於 10-3-21 02:02 發表
Don't think too much . Be positive. Find a local EE to take care of your two children first. And then , find an agent or local maid . Where do you live ? I try to find more information to you .I have ...

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多謝各位mummy夜人靜仲咁有心安慰我,但我感到絕望，除左係工人冇情外,再加上d人停'nut'底,好似個天有心玩我咁,家人冷言冷語都令我心力交碎,好朋友亦只有愛莫能助,連本地ee都'nut'底 or 冇

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cutekiddy

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你住邊區?試吓幫你搵local ee!開心啲啦!

原帖由 dream_cool00 於 10-3-21 02:07 發表
多謝各位mummy夜人靜仲咁有心安慰我,但我感到絕望，除左係工人冇情外,再加上d人停'nut'底,好似個天有心玩我咁,家人冷言冷語都令我心力交碎,好朋友亦只有愛莫能助,連本地ee都'nut'底 or 冇 ...

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cutekiddy and formulababy ,
pm you too already. thanks

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[quote]原帖由 dream_cool00 於 10-3-21 02:07 發表

多謝各位mummy夜人靜仲咁有心安慰我...
Don't beg anyone !! For me, I am the only one person working in the family .I needed to earn more than $40,000 for the family. My daughter doesn't eat even though my husband feed her. Because of some reasons , I needed to find a person (randomly) to take care of my daughter immediately.I just only give my daughter to a stranger to take care of my daughter. But this time , god opens eyes, The EE is caring , My daughter started to eat. A very very good maid will work for me two months later. Anyway I just want to help you. Where do you live ? I need time to find certain people or organisation to help you. Tomorrow , I will call my friend to help you also . PM your number to me .Remember , don't cry.

[ 本帖最後由 formulababy 於 10-3-21 02:20 編輯 ]

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[quote]原帖由 cutekiddy 於 10-3-21 02:10 發表

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I think , you need to change the agent .

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