my son is now 3yrs3mths old.
i need to lose much weight first so i want to have the 2nd baby later
how about you? why you want to wait until your daughter is 3.5yrs old?
I want to have the second BB when my daughter is around 4years old because she will be more steady and mature.You know, I still love to hug her and pick her up now.If I have BB,I cannot pick her up.I 'm afraid it will affect our relationship.So,I gave up the orginal plan.
I know it's good that the age gap of two children are not too big. Sometimes, I think my son may be happier or not be bored as now if he has a brother/sister as they can play together. However, my son is not kind of "easy-to-be-handled" baby so we want to give him more time now.
Anyway, let's work hard together. God bless you and your family.