Well, I'm still worried. We've really listened to my doctor to wait for a year to try to have another baby. Now a year has passed and hopefully this will be a healthy pregnancy. When I went to see my OB for the first time, we saw the baby and the baby's heartbeat, so for sure it's not like last time (complete molar pregnancy, which there's no fetus but a group of abnormal tissues or cells there.) However, baby's size is smaller, so my OB has moved my due date to a later date. She's not that concerned yet because my menstrual cycle is like 33 or 34 days, and she said probably I ovulated late. Anyway, I've been very worried and I'm very afraid that I would see any bleeding whenever I go to the bathroom. My next OB visit will be on Oct. 20. I hope everything will go smoothly. God's answered my prayer (for a baby) and now I keep praying for a healthy and safe pregnancy.
I've been holding the news, but I guess I would go crazy if I don't find any "more" support. So far only my parents know about that, and we haven't told my in-laws yet.
Today, my husband made me so upset. What I can say is he's like supporting me in a "negative way." He was saying I shouldn't put expection (because of the past experience), so that if there's anything wrong, I wouldn't be too sad. If we don't have expectation, our life is meaningless, don't you think so? I want some positive support, but I don't understand why my husband would say that to me. Now I'm quite upset and I think negative again:cry:.
Thanks for your support :-P. I hope everything will go fine.
Matthias has been drawing me attention all the time. When he goes to bed at night, he wants me (and sometimes WITH his daddy - three of us) to sleep with him. He wants me to carry him, he wants this and that from me. He wakes up almost every night and cries for me. If I don't appear, he would cry and say "Mommy disappears!! (in Cantonese)" I'm not sure if it's because he knows there's a little baby inside mommy's tummy. He just started Sunday school at church last Sunday. He didn't want his daddy to be in the classroom, and I stayed with him for the whole class. When it's circle time, everybody had to sit on the floor, and I tried not to, but he insisted me to sit on the floor with him, and even sit on my lap. Well, my church friends haven't known my pregnancy yet, and I didn't really wanna show them. Anyway, I hope the first trimester (the first 12 weeks) will pass smoothly and everything will be fine.
I'm having the morning sickness and stuff. My appetite is better at lunch but not really dinner. Luckily I didn't vomit (throw up.)
I just hope my little b is growing healthily.
Where's everybody else? How come it's been so quiet lately? ?-(
e+ lei shu d mami . . .nearly all have 2 kids. . . .must be very busy, esp. full time mami. I also won't have time to BK during my holiday/weekend lar!!
you have to tell yr son u have bb inside . . . let him prepare to be big brother. . . .show him some preg. books . . let him know more about this. good chance to learn about bb and life.
when i hv 2nd b inside tummy, i tell and tell my gal, tell her be responsible for this & that . . . . arrange sth for him to do!! there are some story books about having 2nd b. . . . tell him lar!! he will understand!! DO NOT HOLD HIM!! Explain to him!!
Benben, that's a good idea. I'll try to explain more to my boy. I have some pregnancy books at home. well, I'm still very 矛盾 and I'm afraid if I explain more and if there's something wrong in my pregnancy, I'll need to explain to my boy again. Life is full of challenges. Him Him knows there's a little baby inside, and he's usually nice to my tummy, I mean he would kiss my tummy. However, after kissing my tummy last night, he started to cry, yell . . . non-stop!!! He kept saying "Little baby, little baby . . ." and asked "Little baby 呢? 喺邊度呀? ..." He cried with tears. At first we tried to comfort him, but I know he doesn't/can't listen when he's crying like crazy!! Finally, my hubby and I just ignored his crying, but we're still staying with him on the bed. After some 30 mins. or so, he finally stopped and 主動 talked to me . . . Then I patted him, kissed him and he fell asleep very quickly. Ai. My hubby says maybe he's already jealous??!!
I'll have my second prenatal visit on Oct. 20. Hope everything will go well. Usually we don't get an ultrasound until some 16 weeks, but I had my ultrasound in my first visit in September because the doctor wanted to make sure it's a baby inside but not a mole again. I was delighted to see a tiny little baby with a heartbeat on the screen. I'm not sure if I'll get an ultrasound this time.
Because it's a second b, I've lost my waist very quickly. I can't put the regular pants on. I hope the baby is really growing healthily inside but not me gaining fat (or something else) inside my tummy. I know I have a lot of concerns, but it's hard to control because of my past experience!!!!
I've tried very hard NOT to carry/hold my boy. I'm a full-time mommy and we don't hire a maid. My hubby has been working long hours lately, and he'll have a business trip to Detroit (Michigan) for a week next week, and another trip to Florida in November. My doctor does say it's quite ok once in a while, but do not "mau" 低 and 抱起個仔. I've explained to Him Him and I hope he does understand :-|
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我個工人都係甘架. . . 對亞仔好好好. . . 因為由細 (new born)開始 take care亞仔. . . . .相反, 對亞女就差少少, 都係既, 由age 2先開始"接手", 感情點都差 d 架啦. 無甘有heart對亞女.
不過, 我由佢. . . 我地兩公婆都係 lazy type!!
我會多d 叫亞女關照佢, e.g. pass maid some snacks, drinks ; 等 maid 姐對佢好 d 甘lor!!
亞女都明白maid既關係 = short term, 2 yr one contract ; she understand & feeling OK. (as my maid will return home after 2 yrs, we must hv a new one, i did explain to my gal about this.); thus 亞女好 chi 我 & 老公!! but my son, sticky to maid!!
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himhim cry . . . . as he feel unsecure, and sth he doesn't know. Keep explain to him, show him preg books and tell story is WORK ga!!
. So far only my parents know about that, and we haven't told my in-laws yet.
話佢...就佢唔開心,唔話佢...就我唔開心 :( 唉...呢個時勢,揾個ok工人真係好難,尤其我同老公呢d咁lazy的人,乜都唔親力親唯,仲想舞照跳,馬照跑
e+我覺我家好似請左奶奶返來多過請左個工人
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