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原文章由 Fabianne 於 08-8-14 04:05 PM 發表

Hi queenie
我睇完你個post,我都買左果本書
之前我都係每3個鐘餵一次(奶粉),不過唔係fix死一個時間
昨天跟書講定左0800,1100,1400,1700,2000,2300
我個bb踏入第六週大,佢一向都好準時晚晚十點幾開始喊(不論有無食飽)我地就抱佢氹佢搞足兩個鐘,所以我就訂左晚上果餐係2300
結果昨晚佢食飽,喊左13mins就自己瞓左,到早上5:40醒,開始喊,我餵30ml水俾佢,點知佢唔夠喉,而且仲醒晒...我再放低佢,佢又喊半個鐘,我又再俾1oz水佢...又放低佢,佢又喊...斷斷續續成個鐘
結果連聲都沙埋(心痛...)
如果下一晚佢五點幾又醒,咁我應該點?佢真係好肚餓,食埋手,又"答答"聲


2.另外,本書有一part講bb喊點處理,我個bb除左瞓,就係喊,要人抱佢先收聲,咁點呢? 係唔係次次由佢喊呢?

3. 作息時間係飲奶--->清醒---->小睡
但係我個bb永遠朝早至下午四五點都係瞓,飲完奶就即瞓,根本無清醒時間,點算好? 所以夜晚好夜都唔瞓,慣性十點幾大人瞓佢就喊

原文章由 sywong 於 08-8-14 10:59 PM 發表
我想問下,最后一餐最早可以幾點鐘?[因朝早可以6點系第一餐的話]

原文章由 Truffle 於 08-8-14 11:07 PM 發表
等我報告吓我隻 b 既情況先....
今日實行左第三日,基本上日頭既 schedule 已經跟到 -
0815...1145...1515...1845...2200
不過天光嗰餐起得好反覆 ..
1st) 0500 2nd) 0620 3rd) 0440
我有嘗試到吾理佢,不過佢越喊越大聲,我怕佢嘈到人,所以都開左啲 formula 應酬佢,吾知係咪佢喊醒哂,結果食完奶都瞓吾番,今朝仲喊(扭)足成粒鐘添,點算好

原文章由 小田 於 08-8-15 09:37 AM 發表


慘啦, 呀b愈來愈早起身喇, 今朝5點已經嘈得好緊要, 我諗住餵少少等佢訓佐之後6點再叫醒佢, 點知佢5點果轉已經食佐平時一半既份量(100ml), 之後自己訓佐(未試過自己訓架), 我6點又叫醒佢飲, 但只係飲得100ml(平時一 ...

原文章由 queeniechan2004 於 08-8-15 15:02 發表
1. 老一輩既人成日都話俾多D水BB飲, 其頭BB頭幾個月係唔應該餵水, 因為如果餵左水, 係會影響佢食奶既胃口, 除非已經証實你阿B有便秘, 可於餐與餐之間餵不超過1oz的水, 但如果沒有便秘問題, 你果30ml水可改為奶來黎佢 ...

原文章由 queeniechan2004 於 08-8-15 15:13 發表
佢6點飲到幾多唔緊要, 重點係佢飽未? 如果飽晒就ok, d bb未必餐餐胃口一樣, 有時會餓d, 加上佢5點先飲過, 緊係食唔到平時咁多啦, 但下一餐你一都照番schedule叫佢食喎, 我唔知你係9點定10點, 總之每個法定時間都一定 ...

原文章由 tongbetty 於 08-8-15 11:43 AM 發表
queeniechan2004,

thanks for your advice

last two days, my bb's still cries a lot, she cries a lot during daytime, after feeding, usually, she can keeps alert, as she takes around 45 mins to finish milk, I usually play with her for about 30 to 45 mins and then put her in the baby cot, however, she always keeps crying (sometimes stops 1 min and then cries again) till next feeding. she does not sleeps for the whole morning,

her pattern is like this:

7 a.m. feeding --> alert ---> cry--> 10 a.m. feeding ---> alert ---> cry---> 1 p.m. feeding ----> sleep right after feeding ---> wakes her up for 4 p.m. feeding ----> sleep rihgt after feeding ---> wakes up at around 6 p.m.---> cry

yesterday, as she cries very loud at 6:30 p.m., I feed her that time, instead of 7 p.m., after feeding, she is alert but when I put her in cot at 8 p.m., she cries, then my husband decides to feed her at 8:50 p.m., she drinks much more (180 ml) than usual (usually 100 -110 ml), then she sleeps, wakes up herself at 2 a.m. and 5:45 a.m., I feed her both time, I then feed her again at 8 a.m. (not the 7 a.m. as usual as it is so near to the previous feeding at 5:45 a.m.), after feeding, she never sleeps and keeps crying, then after 10 a.m. feeding, she keeps crying till now (already 45 mins.)

I feel very headache for her continuous crying, she can cry 1 hr +, more than the book suggest 30 mins., she sometimes splits out the milk, very poor, I try not to carry her, but feel so hard, esp. my husband cannot tolerate her crying and sometimes suggest to feed her earlier. so the scheudule is sometimes unstable

any suggestion to make her cry less, she cries 1 hr.+

sometimes, she cries more than 30 mins., I pick her up and after she stops crying, I put her down again, she continuous to cry, am I right to pick her up?

I wrap her with blanket to sleep hoping to keep her feel secure but she always kick all the blanket away, how to solve this problem

she cries very loud before next feeding, does it mean she does not have enough milk at last feeding?

you said you son may also never naps and she still put him down in cot, does he cry also?

my husband always asks is it too early (she is only 3 wks) to train her to sleep or should we carry her more?

原文章由 queeniechan2004 於 08-8-15 08:35 發表
1. 既然你知佢多數呢餐都要食, 你何不晚晚11點叫醒佢黎餵呢? 好過等佢自己幾時醒就幾時食, 時間表你定俾佢麻, 唔係佢自己亂黎^_^你餵得咁上下, 三個月打後, 先考慮skip 11點呢餐啦

2. bb就算唔食夜奶, 半夜都係一定 ...

原文章由 queeniechan2004於 08-8-15 15:08 發表 你俾d耐性唔好咁心急, 第三日係咁上下架喇, 天光果餐係最最最麻煩的, 真係要花d時間先可令佢朝朝同一時間喊食, 10月懷胎你都等到, 宜家呢d小兒科啦, 繼續keep住個schedule, 會越來越在你掌握之中架喇, 佢朝早醒左(4- ...

原文章由 Fabianne 於 08-8-15 03:17 PM 發表


1. 阿b有左時間表都係兩日,今日第三日,佢呢排飲少左,唔知係唔係按時俾佢佢唔覺得肚餓呢?
戒左半夜(2-4am)起身幾耐的問題,其實早兩星期都已經唔會半夜三個鐘叫佢起身,係佢喊先俾佢飲,而朝早就三個鐘飲一次,之前半夜有時三個幾鐘/四個鐘先喊。呢兩晚係捱得耐左ga la

2.次次由佢喊, 你又試左幾多天幾多次? 都係兩天。
其實我等佢收晒聲先抱佢做得o岩唔o岩? 或者佢瞓醒唔喊我就抱佢,相反佢喊緊我就唔會抱。不過佢真係好長氣,會喊好耐。另外,佢昨天同今天都係聲沙緊
如果係因為濕片,痾臭臭,肚餓而喊,咁應唔應抱佢呢? 還是等佢收聲?

3. 朝早食完奶盡量唔好俾佢瞓,真係無辦法,點都係唔會醒ga

原文章由 bb628 於 08-8-15 03:54 PM 發表
我train咗亞b成個星期, 佢都係11pm食完最後一餐奶就瞓到第朝6am, 要呵或抱住瞓先瞓到8am, 究竟有咩方法可以一直瞓到
8am呢?

仲有, 整晚唔餵奶, 半夜已經好"曲", 如果咁, 遲d會唔會越來越少奶or冇奶. ...

原文章由 叉燒媽 於 08-8-15 04:32 PM 發表


多謝你既意見呀!! 我會再努力~~~~~~~~

丫...queenie...我有樣野想問呀...
我記得你都係餵人奶?
你幫bb戒左夜奶之後....夜晚咁多個鐘唔餵奶....d奶量會唔會少左?? 我頭果幾日唔餵夜奶...朝早起身個乳房會好似石頭咁, 仲漏哂奶...但今日已經無咁硬喇....好驚會少左好多奶呢....我本身已經係窮媽媽喇

原文章由 Truffle 於 08-8-15 09:22 PM 發表
我都知我比較貪心同心急....
不過尋晚阿 B 都吾知係咪食左 "狂喜",下晝 TOTAL 瞓左都吾知有冇 5HOURS,點知食完 LAST 一餐 2145, 就係甘扭,結果扭到夜晚 12點幾,焗住俾多餐佢食, ENDUP 扭到點幾先瞓,所以今朝 0815 先 ...

原文章由 alandic 於 08-8-15 10:07 PM 發表

Hello Queeniechan2004, 我阿B 已經兩個月零6日大, 每天7餐, 每次飲4oz 奶粉. 我依你嘅schedule 去做咗7日, 6:30am / 9:30am / 12:30noon / 3:30 pm / 6:30 pm / 9:30pm / 12:30 pm. 但係BB 都會係半夜大約4時鐘醒, 佢會係到啜手指, eee ur ur, 跟住會開始喊. 我唯有俾奶咀佢啜, 但係BB 又成日用手 fing 嚟 fing 去, 攪到奶咀掉下來, 阿B 又喊, 好煩呀. 如果奶咀唔掉下來每次可以瞓到30-45 分鐘. 有咩辦法解決? 我很快要返工啦 ! 仲有食住奶咀瞓會唔會無咁好? 希望你指點, 謝謝.... !

原文章由 chanpcdaisy 於 08-8-15 10:18 PM 發表

hi queeniechan2004,

Thanks for your patience on helping our babies to skip the night feeding..

it's has been a few days upon last update, let's have a look of the update first:

Tue:
BB cried again and get up at 6am sumthing, and finally have to feed him so he can sleep, then the first meal can be done at 8.40am (is hard to wake him up to feed him some mouthfuls)
then 11.30/14.30/17.45(sleep so delay a bit to eat as hard to wake him)/ 2030/2330,
then finally waked up at around 6.45am and cant resist on his crying (getting more loudly) and I decided to pick him up, then after around 20-30min, he slept back without feeding and he can sleep until 0800am then cried on Wed

Wed:
0805/ 1115/1430/1740/2030/2330
Again cried and get up at 6am sumthing and hug him also cannot and finally the first meal was given at 0715

Thur:
0715/1050/1440/1730/2030/2330

Last night wake up earlier at 5am sumthing, do everything I can but he looked so so hungry and I fed him at 6am sumthing, then today's schedule is:
0850 (tried so hard to give at 0830 but finally delay)
1150/ 1510/1750/2035 (I will feed at around 2330 again - plan to)

So after a few days observation, my son doesn't have good improvement, I tried so hard to fix his first meal schedule but for the day time schedule, it seems he can get back on track... but still have a few questions:

1) after trying so hard to fix his schedule (but sometime really hard to wake him up etc) so I should wait 3 hours for next feeding from his first meal on that day, OR I should keep everyday similar time (like 11.30/14.30/17.30/2030/2330 no matter the first meal at 0800/0830/0900)

2) since my son has a sensitive bottom and at around mid night he cried and get up I think partly because he is cyring when he is going to poopoo (stomach a bit pain maybe) but poopoo will wake him up, and we need to change him to prevent further rash, so is hard for him to sleep through whole night....

3) if he wakes up at 5/6/7sumthing, I should let him cry cry cry or can pick him up to sooth his crying? But let him to cry he will cry so loud, everyone will get up and my husband asked why I don't feed him

4) I still have troubles to make him alert after feeding and nap, as he always nap after feeding and being alert after nap... I also tried hard to wake him up after feeding, but seems so hard to change this...

I think every BB is different and got different problems to solve....I am still trying and hope he can sleep through a whole night till 8am....maybe just my son needs some more time to do so...

原文章由 queeniechan2004 於 08-8-17 00:19 發表
點幾先訓, 但訓到第二朝8點幾都未醒, 都OK啦.....如果可以早番D訓, 就會早番D醒, 咁就PERFECT!