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原帖由 yyyyyy 於 09-12-30 14:02 發表
係呀! kiusha, 呢句野唔好講好d; 好麻煩架!

Ｆｏｒ　ｔｈｏｓｅ　ｈｏｒｓｅｓ　ｗｈｏ　ｗｉｓｈ　ｔｏ　ｇｏ　ｓｏ　ｍｕｃｈ，　ｔｈｅｙ　ａｒｅ　ｗａｉｔｉｎｇ　ｆｏｒ　ｙｏｕｒ　ｗｏｒｄｓ　ｌｉｋｅ　ｔｈｉｓ　ａｎｄ　ｍｕｓｔ　ｂｅ　ｃｌａｉｍｉｎｇ　ｙｏｕ　ｆｉｒｅ　ｈｅｒ　ｗｉｔｈｏｕｔ　ｗｉｔｈｏｕｔ　ｇｉｖｉｎｇ　ｏｎｅ　ｍｏｎｔｈ　ｃｏｍｐｅｎｓａｔｉｏｎ．ｗｈｅｎ　ｉｔ　ｃｏｍｅｓ　ｔｏ　ｍｏｎｅｙ／ｂｅｎｅｆｉｔ，　ｔｈｅｙ　ｓｕｄｄｅｎｌｙ　ｂｅｃｏｍｅ　ｖｅｒｙ　ｓｍａｒｔ．

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原帖由 KiuShaBB 於 09-12-30 14:07 發表

今次係未經c6同意而秘密進行, 我要好小心(希望得).

ｙｏｕ　ｃａｎ　ｅｘｐｅｃｔ　ｙｏｕｒ　ｃ６　ｗｉｌｌ　ｃｏｍｐｌａｉｎ　ａｆｔｅｒ　ａｌｌ．　　Ｂｕｔ　ｄｕｅ　ｔｏ　ｙｏｕｒ　ｄｅｓｐｅｒａｔｅ　ｓｉｔｕａｔｉｏｎ，　ｉｔｓ　ｕｎａｖｏｉｄａｂｌｅ　ｔｏ　ｈｕｎｔ　ｓｅｃｒｅｔｌｙ　ｗｉｔｈｏｕｔ　ｌｅｔｔｉｎｇ　ｈｉｍ　ｋｎｏｗ．

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原帖由 pollyw 於 09-12-30 14:07 發表

Ai...I'm not that high EQ. Ｉ’ｍ　ａｆｒａｉｄ　ｏｎｅ　ｄａｙ　Ｉ　ｗｉｌｌ　ｅｘｐｌｏｄｅ，　ｔａｋｅ　ａ　ｓｈａｒｐ　ｋｎｉｆｅ　ｏｕｔ　ａｎｄ　ｈａｃｋ　ｔｈｅ　ｈｏｒｓｅ　ｉｎｔｏ　９　ｐｉｅｃｅｓ． ...

in one time, i really hated them
i didn't want to go to CWB or Central & felt annoying in the fast-food restaurants which were crowded with them
i did not want any of them sat next to me in MTR

However, i could not but still have to get assistance from DH because my children are still young!
So the way out is to train my EQ law!

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原帖由 bbfish1992 於 09-12-30 14:09 發表

pass all the heavy duty to her
so that
you can spend more time with the children

my principle:
look after children is the first priority, then i will not care so much on the other household work u ...

你呢個情形, 我都試過, 又係佢地放假時間, 我都體諒既, 呢條吾著, 未著第二條law...........之後果晚, 佢就同我全部iron 晒...............

kiusha

收pm, 另, 斷約bun, 乜野原因都好, 吾好請, 吾係又會跌$多架啦

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原帖由 bbfish1992 於 09-12-30 14:09 發表

pass all the heavy duty to her
so that
you can spend more time with the children

my principle:
look after children is the first priority, then i will not care so much on the other household work u ...

Ｔｈｉｓ　ｉｓ　ｎｏｔ　ｂａｄ　ｌａ！！

ｉｆ　　ａ　ｈｏｒｓｅ　ｈａｓ　ｏｎｅ　ｋｉｎｄ　ｏｆ　ｓｔｒｅｎｇｔｈ　ｉｎ　ａ　ｃｅｒｔａｉｎ　ａｒｅａ，　ｔｈｅｎ　ｉｔ　ｓｈｏｗｓ　ｉｔ’ｓ　ｖａｌｕｅ　ｔｏ　ｂｅ　ｈｅｒｅ．　Ｓａｙ，　ｅｉｔｈｅｒ　ｇｏｏｄ　ａｔ　ｃｏｏｋｉｎｇ，　ｃｈｉｌｄｒｅ，　ｈｏｕｓｅｃｈｏｒｅ　ｗｏｒｋ，　ｅｔｃ．

Ｙｏｕ　ｃａｎ　ｓｅｅ　ｆｒｏｍ　Ｋｉｕｓｈａｂｂ’ｓ　ｄｅｓｃｒｉｐｔｉｏｎ　ａｂｏｕｔ　ｈｅｒ　ｎｅｗ　ｈｏｒｓｅ，　ｔｈａｔ　ｉｔ　ｈａｓ　ｎｉｌ　ｇｏｏｄ　ｐｏｉｎｔｓ．　Ｔｈｉｓ　ｉｓ　ｔｈｅ　ｔｙｐｅ　ｔｈａｔ　ｔｏｔａｌｌｙ　ｂｅｌｏｎｇｓ　ｔｏ　ｈｅｌｌ．ＬＭＬ　ｉｓ　ｏｎｅ　ｏｆ　ｔｈｉｓ　ｔｙｐｅ．

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原帖由 bbfish1992 於 09-12-30 14:18 發表

in one time, i really hated them
i didn't want to go to CWB or Central & felt annoying in the fast-food restaurants which were crowded with them
i did not want any of them sat next to me in MTR

H ...

wahaaaaaaaaaaa 我吾可以吾去cwb.................

但我放假, 尤其係佢地d 大節, 我一定早出早歸, 吾同佢地鬥迫, 我試過連去大快活食飯, 都無位架, 依家.............買外賣返屋企食算

有次, 吾知定, 去kfc, 排隊排左成粒鐘先買到野食, 如果吾是多得呀stubborn 仔一定要食kfc, 我轉頭走左啦

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原帖由 pollyw 於 09-12-30 14:03 發表
Slow progress due to conflicts w my c6. c6 puts a lot of restriction and complications on my horse-hunting. he's of very stubborn type. I'm only his horse to execute and he's the legislator. And h ...

tell your hubby that LML wants to break the contract ASAP wor because she's gotten a dancer job at Japan which she will become a superstar of 藝技

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原帖由 bbfish1992 於 09-12-30 13:51 發表

can't keep this 游魂
from my experience, their attitudes are hardly changed

but if possible plan ahead first
1) not give money to her so easy
2) have enough time to look for replacement or at least ...

我俾朋友鬧, 話我應該上星期就要搵人啦, 仲等? 工人只會越做越差, 佢咁嘅款又點會突然會改好? (原本佢只知工人用凍水同2個b沖涼, 同埋佢個游魂款已叫我換人, 一聽到游魂假期唔幫手就鬧我).

我唔會再有額外野俾佢, 借都唔會. :tongue:

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發表於 09-12-30 14:32 |只看該作者

原帖由 KiuShaBB 於 09-12-30 14:28 發表

我俾朋友鬧, 話我應該上星期就要搵人啦, 仲等? 工人只會越做越差, 佢咁嘅款又點會突然會改好? (原本佢只知工人用凍水同2個b沖涼, 同埋佢個游魂款已叫我換人, 一聽到游魂假期唔幫手就鬧我).

我唔會再有額外野俾佢, ...

你隻游魂係第一次黎hk??
好計較喎

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原帖由 bbfish1992 於 09-12-30 13:55 發表

in these years as employer of DH,
I learn what is EQ & thanks to them cos they train my EQ

I know my EQ is really poor, just start to learn now.

[ 本帖最後由 KiuShaBB 於 09-12-30 14:35 編輯 ]

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原帖由 bbfish1992 於 09-12-30 14:21 發表

tell your hubby that LML wants to break the contract ASAP wor because she's gotten a dancer job at Japan which she will become a superstar of 藝技

He basically does not object to find a replacement, but the conflict is between is us is hiring a young/smart looking (C6's point is energetic and less sickness), versus middle aged lady (which I find out tend to more accept my job, and be more stable/patient).

WHo the hell won't prefer to have a perfect horse into our house. But the point is, how the fk will a perfect lady be willing to work in our house...

Another constraint C6 puts is: If I replace right now, it's more worthwhile, assuming that I give one month compensation in return for not seeing LML for the coming 9 months. If I replace, say 3 months later, then, the one month compensation is juz in exchange for not seeing LML for only 4 months or so, which C6 claims not worthwhile. SHit!

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原帖由 bbfish1992 於 09-12-30 13:59 發表

i had such experience with my former maids
then i explained the 'child abuse law' to them instead of
pan 佢即刻走

i am afraid to be trapped by such wordings!

一時火遮眼. 唔會有下次.

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原帖由 yyyyyy 於 09-12-30 14:00 發表
12點咁早, 點食呀? 之後味好肚餓 law.

無辦法, 我地輪班, 返9am食12點, 返10:30am食1點.
通常我同d同事會偷偷地1pm至食(公司lunch唔會close), 到4~5點再食少少野.

我咁為食, 有1個櫃統全部係食嘅野, 好彩食極唔肥.

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原帖由 yyyyyy 於 09-12-30 14:02 發表
係呀! kiusha, 呢句野唔好講好d; 好麻煩架!

知喇.

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原帖由 pollyw 於 09-12-30 14:03 發表
Slow progress due to conflicts w my c6. c6 puts a lot of restriction and complications on my horse-hunting. he's of very stubborn type. I'm only his horse to execute and he's the legislator. And h ...

真唔明d男人點諗.

好似今朝c6渣車(搵食車)送2個b返學, 去到成8:45am我返工實遲到啦, 見到大佬一家+工人送侄女返學(侄女同2個b係同1間學校), 我見咁多人, 可以即閃啦. 佢個工人好好人, 經常會幫我2個b換鞋. 我同C6講, 你睇佢幾好, 做野又快手, 又肯幫手, 唔似得我地d工人淨係識企喺度, 佢答咗我一句"隔離飯香啫".

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原帖由 bbfish1992 於 09-12-30 14:09 發表

pass all the heavy duty to her
so that
you can spend more time with the children

my principle:
look after children is the first priority, then i will not care so much on the other household work u ...

佢嘜都唔識, 不論工作幾大幾小都講好耐.

好似尋晚叫佢煮飯, 將一碗隔夜飯倒埋落去一齊煮, 講咗幾次, 終於佢倒咗碗飯去碟餸度另外用個煲一齊蒸.

由佢啦, 尋晚得佢自己食啫.

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原帖由 KiuShaBB 於 09-12-30 14:43 發表

無辦法, 我地輪班, 返9am食12點, 返10:30am食1點.
通常我同d同事會偷偷地1pm至食(公司lunch唔會close), 到4~5點再食少少野.

我咁為食, 有1個櫃統全部係食嘅野, 好彩食極唔肥. ...

WA, 好晒呀.................

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原帖由 pollyw 於 09-12-30 14:15 發表
ｙｏｕ　ｃａｎ　ｅｘｐｅｃｔ　ｙｏｕｒ　ｃ６　ｗｉｌｌ　ｃｏｍｐｌａｉｎ　ａｆｔｅｒ　ａｌｌ．　　Ｂｕｔ　ｄｕｅ　ｔｏ　ｙｏｕｒ　ｄｅｓｐｅｒａｔｅ　ｓｉｔｕａｔｉｏｎ，　ｉｔｓ　ｕｎａｖｏｉｄａｂｌｅ　ｔｏ　ｈｕｎｔ　ｓｅｃｒｅｔｌｙ　ｗｉｔｈｏｕｔ　ｌｅｔｔｉｎｇ　ｈｉｍ　ｋｎｏｗ． ...

我舖咗路喇, 洗過吓腦話睇游魂個款都做唔長, 有可能會走路/唔做, 同埋我叫咗a盡(扮野)問吓游魂究竟想唔想做, 到時咪話游魂自己唔想做囉.

其實c6都唔係幾鐘意佢, 佢曾經講過寧願游魂走路都唔想我炒, 以為可以唔駛補1個月俾佢喎????? 等我搵到第2個出埋visa都要2~3個月時間, 呢段時間內發生咩事, 我有個準備好過嘜都無.

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