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珍珠宮

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181#
發表於 05-11-14 19:04 |只看該作者

Re: 結婚,女方要否出錢?

過大禮d禮金佢梗要比架啦,最少都要2~3萬啦,
佢要你出10萬咪姐係佢要入贅,食軟飯??
咁另外嗰d錢係由佢自己出定係由佢d屋企人出先?
如果係由佢出,佢又會出幾多呀?
我結婚嗰時罷左14圍先至6萬左右,
仲要有得收喎,都有5萬左右架,
連埋d什費total10萬左右掛,全部都係由佢屋企人出,
慢慢再還,就算要攞錢出嚟,都只好用喺自己身上,
最多1萬幾千~記住~
要人貼錢嫁嘅男人=
郁D就起晒鋼, o係論壇好難生存架, 學下大方d接受人地建議, 唔好咁小家!


大宅

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182#
發表於 05-11-14 20:29 |只看該作者

Re: 結婚,女方要否出錢?

比我就唔嫁 呢家人太自私. 不過我當年都係同你一樣, 我99叫我地結婚要買大d既屋, 寫佢同佢既仔既名, 但就我同老公供. 佢地一家大細同我地一起住. 我即刻同老公話唔使啦, 我唔嫁. 不過我老公都覺得要我供但沒寫我既名對我唔公平. 我地結婚時係租屋住, 我99有2層樓, 當時話1層比我地住(300呎)要交6000租(差晌, 管理費另計), 如果我地想去佢屋企吃飯, 1個月交5000元啦, 我叫佢留返層樓自己啦, 我自己係出面租好過. 之後我地買左樓, 佢阿媽上來話要住主人房 . 最老土就係結婚后唔準我跟我老公叫佢做阿媽, 要叫佢地老爺, 奶奶. 要記住自己身份哦 , 我照叫佢阿媽, 叫一下, 佢唔so我就算 :tongue:
如果唔係個老公錫我, 我先唔會嫁. 其實最緊要係個男人錫唔錫自己, 如果佢都係一樣自私, 點解要委屈自己.


大宅

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183#
發表於 05-11-14 22:01 |只看該作者

Re: 結婚,女方要否出錢?

這種男人不要也罷,成日怕老婆有錢要養外家,所以要搶哂你d錢,又話怕你係獨女,咁怕唔好要lor,唔通要人要呀。

我結婚時,我老公比10萬我媽,重問我媽夠唔夠,酒席全部我老公比錢,蜜月又係我老公比,連我要番台灣外家請飲都係我老公比哂錢,我老公都唔知幾願呀,重要買樓加埋我名,銀行的職員都話恭喜我咁後生做業主,又比左幾十萬我負責裝修間屋(餘下的錢比我落左格 ),但我老公唔係好有米,都係要用哂全部自己積蓄先結到婚,所以我真係未見過咁cheap的男人。

對你樣樣事斤斤計較,對你好極有限,最慘你係獨女,嫁左怕你要照顧外家都唔高興。
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發表於 05-11-14 23:05 |只看該作者

Re: 結婚,女方要否出錢?

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伯爵府

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發表於 05-11-14 23:11 |只看該作者

Re: 結婚,女方要否出錢?



係喇~就係兩公婆,所以個公仔都襯d既~~~hehe~~
由 kuno 於 2005-11-14 11:59:40

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happybaby&mom 寫道:
係喎, 仲齊齊叫樓主參加婚前輔導...定係你地係同一個人?? (唔好意思, 我自估架渣...)
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咁又唔係同一人,兩公婆o者


複式洋房

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186#
發表於 05-11-14 23:27 |只看該作者

Re: 結婚,女方要否出錢?

MikiShum,

結婚是開心的 ~~~
未有一致的共識,不代表對方是衰人。

想想你們愛對方嗎?!

等待恭喜你的兩公婆 ~~~~
我的羊聽我的聲音、我也認識他們、他們也跟著我。
我又賜給他們永生.他們永不滅亡、誰也不能從我手裏把他們奪去。
我父把羊賜給我、他比萬有都大.誰也不能從我父手裏把他們奪去。我與父原為一。  (約 10:27-29)
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方舟人家-http://hk.myblog.yahoo.com/BB-MAMA/


洋房

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187#
發表於 05-11-15 00:32 |只看該作者

Re: 結婚,女方要否出錢?

kuno 寫道:
MikiShum,

結婚是開心的 ~~~
未有一致的共識,不代表對方是衰人。

想想你們愛對方嗎?!

等待恭喜你的兩公婆 ~~~~


Hi MikiShum,

"想想你們愛對方嗎?!" - kuno is absolutely right and I saw that he has got the key question - though he didn't tell the answer that we all know based on the limted background information that we got from you.

Think about Jessy's previous mentioned testing question before she married her bf. Just 想想 if he really loves you or what?? Is he just want to find someone to be his servant or "slave", "make" a baby for him, help him to pay the mortgage (in some degree, "eat soft rice"......sorry, it's just my own personally feeling).

What a man did before marriage cannot be serious - he must show his best and treat his gf well so that she'll agree to marry him. What he will do after marriage is more important. Do you think he and his family will treat you well after marriage?

"結婚是開心的".........so what's next???? How about rest of your life? And your baby (It may be a girl!!) Do you think you baby can live happily in the "future family"?

There is one thing that I think no one has touched of - your bf is the only son, look his mother's behaviour and what your bf said. If you cannot "give" them a baby boy, what do you think his mother will treat you or ask his son to do?

Just don't think of what if your husband die after marriage.......if someone's husband does not treat her well, so what if his husband can live long or "forever"???? comeon.....

It seems that your bf is not with you/ supporting/ care about you, at least not for now. Do you think he will change after marriage - you believe in miracle? Let's pray for it.............

When one grew older, having no $ and have to take care of his/her parents as well. How poor and hopeless will he/ she be?

I am not telling you to do anything. Just list out all the questions/ facts and do a objective situation analysis for your own, then decide what to do.

Don't listen to anyone, including me. There might be lot of bullshit here. You just make your own choice. Because that's you, and not anyone here, to face the consequence of your decision afterwards. But once you have made up your mind, don't feel regreted and face the result bravely - you still got a long road ahead!

It's a big decision for you. But it's just one of the many important decisions of your whole life.....

Go luck!



大宅

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188#
發表於 05-11-15 00:47 |只看該作者

Re: 結婚,女方要否出錢?

太多留言無睇晒...但係睇到你話....(結婚要出錢,但業權冇我份)哩句就好肉過份左喎...話晒你地一齊儲架嘛...
咁不如分返d錢好過....講真..兄弟姐妹就真係無得改....
老公哩個位置就真係話唔埋....除時變動呀~~
請你想清楚好d...
好話唔好聽...結埋婚又要返工...返到屋企仲要做佢阿4...
仲要唔比家用的話....嘩.......好難想像呀..... ?-( ?-( ?-(


大宅

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189#
發表於 05-11-15 00:58 |只看該作者

Re: 結婚,女方要否出錢?

pingbaby 寫道:
我覺得最有問題嘅:
1.講到明要你出10萬先結婚,而佢又唔係無$,人工高你咁多.
2.講到明要你生咗BB先加你個名落層樓到,係咩意思先?
3.你地都去到談婚論嫁嘅階段,點解佢有幾$定期都唔比你知?擺明驚你吞咗佢啲$
我睇唔到呢個男人有咩值得你嫁...太自私
以上既答案係...佢老公有女人恐懼証....以前一定比女人呃唔少....


大宅

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190#
發表於 05-11-15 01:17 |只看該作者

Re: 結婚,女方要否出錢?

我家姐當年話結婚同買樓...
都係出左10萬...不過係比買樓既..其他就老公出...
屋企既支出就我家姐出水電煤果d....樓就老公供....
咁佢地話結婚呢...男家就出10萬禮金....我地無要到酒席..
因為無咩親戚....結果係.....結唔到婚......因不幸.....
其實我係想講...如果佢係愛你...而佢既能力都可以的話...
點解要出d咁既條件先會結婚呢...不是你不願意去出...
而係你出得有無價值....唔好諗住用時間就會慢慢咁改變一個人呀...哩d日子係要經過好長時間去磨練架...請細心想想...

sorry......我太多說話啦....呃左3個留言....(我係一路睇...一路認唔住要回).....原諒我啦~


別墅

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191#
發表於 05-11-15 07:57 |只看該作者

Re: 結婚,女方要否出錢?

kuno 寫道:
MikiShum,

未有一致的共識,不代表對方是衰人。


如果一個男人對你唔好, 佢就算係聖人對你都完全冇意義.


複式洋房

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192#
發表於 05-11-15 09:02 |只看該作者

Re: 結婚,女方要否出錢?

parker 寫道:
[quote]
kuno 寫道:
MikiShum,

未有一致的共識,不代表對方是衰人。


如果一個男人對你唔好, 佢就算係聖人對你都完全冇意義. [/quote]

我的羊聽我的聲音、我也認識他們、他們也跟著我。
我又賜給他們永生.他們永不滅亡、誰也不能從我手裏把他們奪去。
我父把羊賜給我、他比萬有都大.誰也不能從我父手裏把他們奪去。我與父原為一。  (約 10:27-29)
天約的世界-http://www.mymicah.com/
方舟人家-http://hk.myblog.yahoo.com/BB-MAMA/


複式洋房

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193#
發表於 05-11-15 09:17 |只看該作者

Re: 結婚,女方要否出錢?

Beeruma 寫道:

Don't listen to anyone, including me. There might be lot of bullshit here. You just make your own choice. by feeling+discuss+communication+knowledge Because that's you, and not anyone here, to face the consequence of your decision afterwards. But once you have made up your mind, don't feel regreted and face the result bravely - you still got a long road ahead!



支持你 ~~~
我的羊聽我的聲音、我也認識他們、他們也跟著我。
我又賜給他們永生.他們永不滅亡、誰也不能從我手裏把他們奪去。
我父把羊賜給我、他比萬有都大.誰也不能從我父手裏把他們奪去。我與父原為一。  (約 10:27-29)
天約的世界-http://www.mymicah.com/
方舟人家-http://hk.myblog.yahoo.com/BB-MAMA/


大宅

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194#
發表於 05-11-15 13:02 |只看該作者

Re: 結婚,女方要否出錢?

MikiShum,

見你咁耐都無回應,應該同男友取得共識,祝你搞婚禮事事如意,高高興興


複式洋房

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195#
發表於 05-11-15 13:13 |只看該作者

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CYK 寫道:
MikiShum,

見你咁耐都無回應,應該同男友取得共識,祝你搞婚禮事事如意,高高興興


我的羊聽我的聲音、我也認識他們、他們也跟著我。
我又賜給他們永生.他們永不滅亡、誰也不能從我手裏把他們奪去。
我父把羊賜給我、他比萬有都大.誰也不能從我父手裏把他們奪去。我與父原為一。  (約 10:27-29)
天約的世界-http://www.mymicah.com/
方舟人家-http://hk.myblog.yahoo.com/BB-MAMA/


洋房

積分: 406


196#
發表於 05-11-15 19:05 |只看該作者

Re: 結婚,女方要否出錢?

若是真的話,我也要恭喜你! 恭喜! 恭喜!




下了決定後,以後再也不用post這些topic了!

恭喜! 恭喜!


別墅

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197#
發表於 05-11-18 13:44 |只看該作者

Re: 結婚,女方要否出錢?

咁多位媽媽,聽您哋講話結婚時D樓,同埋保險都加你名,同轉你個名,你哋先至肯嫁,其實係個男人主動題出定係你哋要求,我作為女仔當然好想有D份保障,佢出聲會好開心,但係如果個男唔主動出聲,女方出聲,咪好似好 ,佢會唔會以為我想某財害命,有時見到你哋D Ma Ma,好幸福,好似好理所當然,但其實係咪真係咁著數,咁如果你有樓又會唔會加佢個名,同埋會唔會買份保單比佢,如果個男人家務同煮飯都一定係女人做,工作就一人一份,生活上佢出多d錢,咁你哋會唔會嫁,如果佢成日同你講第時結婚......,但佢無儲蓄,你哋係咪會開口叫佢儲錢,同埋定個日期結婚,咁係咪好醜,我真係好多夥唔識,自問都蠢蠢地,但又唔想比佢食住我,我都想第時嫁得好好地,自己開心,家人放心至得嗎!!

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