===> 90% agree ga...唔係話"理唔到咁多"嘅...而係佢地三個自己都可以一齊玩, 有人陪喇...我地兩老有時反而多餘添喇 (對佢地)....so even we went out, 都冇咁 guilty, bcos we know 佢地有伴丫嘛...唔會 lonely, 反而你地一個, 就真係會唔捨得嘞....大家你 focus 佢, 佢亦只可 focus 你....有時都幾攞命架...
而且 no matter you got 1 or 3 都好, 都唔好因為 feel guilty 就 always 兩個陪住個細既, 而係你地兩個都要 get some private time together ga ma...this is very important for you 2 to maintain 兩公婆 relationship ga ....so even though sometimes 要掉低d細路, as long as 唔係日日, 我唔會 feel guilty ga wor...我通常同老公要飛d仔去拍拖之前都會同佢地諗定d節目, 等佢地可以有世藝丫嘛~~而且自私d諗...第日係個老公先會陪埋自己下半世, 唔係d仔嘛...咁我都要俾番時間大家架, right? :mrgreen:
我都明好多家長多數都係呢類原因唔想生多個 e.g. 要多d $$, 時間, 好多心力, etc....所以我都唔會 "hard sell" 生多個有幾好, 困難可以點克服, cos this is everybody's own choice ma...只要自己覺得冇問題就得喇....
我既"責任"係提供多個"方案"去俾大家去參考參考喇....
而且就算生多個, 都要睇 timing ga...if 大同細個個差太遠 e.g. 7+ or above, 生咗都冇用...因為都冇兄弟 feel, 只有"老豆同仔" feel 多d...咁佢地好難 get along 到, then 同獨生有乜分別丫... so 係生就趁呢幾年, 唔生就唔由佢算 lu.~~ :mrgreen: :mrgreen:
肺炎鏈球菌針雖然年紀細係要打多幾針 (好似我三少要打四針 la in total) 但都要架..因為 as doctor said, below 2+ years old 先更一定要打 (尤其入學前, if attend N1), 因為佢地年紀細, 一個 touchwood 中咗佢地先係高危有生命危險一族呀 (抵抗力冇大個d咁好嘛...) 所以先要打....呢d錢唔慳得...
我係帶佢地返浸會打既.....好似 $8xx 一枝
反而大d個d真係唔打都唔太大件事喇...so 我唔會帶大彥打, 中彥就會 - but he is 3 years old already, so 打一針就得~~
不過個網係咪真係咁緊要架
==>係...因為每個校網d學校係會留比例上最多既位俾番同一校網住既小朋友既, so e.g. if you lives at net 40, 你要揀 net 41 (e.g. Maryknoll Convent) d 學校, 就算係"跨網"....搞珠個時 if 你係揀番所屬校網d學校, 咁的話..位係少好多, 得幾個架咋....真係中六合彩頭獎都未必抽得到 (怕要中 3T 先得)....明冇~~
so 睇係想報咩學校喇...if you wish to 搏 Maryknoll Covent, of course net 41 la...if net 40 (SSP) 冇乜勁小學~~就係咁嘞....
but.....你依家 stay 響我地呢樹 (net 34) 都唔差噃..why move? net 41 only got Maryknoll, but net 34 有多好多岩女好既好學校噃...e.g. St Rose, Heep Yunn, MTC, etc etc...
我覺得做咗ftm 之後, 咩都focus 哂響個囡身上
d 轉數好似低哂咁
==> agree...係絕對會.....不過咩都有 "price" ga la...雖然係會轉數低d...但換番嚟係同仔女更親密既感情....to a certain extent...係值得既...而且...even 你係全職, 都可以令自己唔好 outdate ga ma...e.g. when kids go to school, you may go to learn something, or like 好姨 (work PT)..etc ..都 OK ga ma...
有冇可能再出嚟撈真係好成問題
==> 先唔講能力...而係好多 employers 見你好多年冇出嚟做嘢, 咁係未必請你 (因為嫌你 "no experience" ar ma..) or even 有 offer 比你, $$$ 又未必吸引, 但出番嚟做就可能要請 bunbun, 即係要 $$, 又要交稅, in this case 計落慢吓手唔做好過做...so finally 可能都 continue to be FT...
hee...一陣 dut 一 dut 又放工∼∼∼正!!!! 
:mrgreen: 
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