Now with 2 choices
1. 我家姐個 Philp maid 既家姐, age 37, with 2 kids ( age 4 & 7), worked in Singapore and UAE before, now in Phil, waiting to have job. 我家姐個 maid 做野好 slow, but very c man, 因佢係 Phil 係 teacher. My sister does not mind her slow. . . cos’ 我家姐個 single daughter 都已 age 7, 家姐, 姐夫都 work all day . . . . slow or fast 都無 mud 所謂. . . . . . and the maid 好 cool, 好少 talking. . . . . . ng g 佢個家姐 like her or not lei?! And佢個家姐 連 college 都未 graduate wor!!
2. 我亞媽個印印既細妹, age 25, 未 marry. 係香港 and Singapore 做過. But even her sister 都 comment this maid comparatively 野性. . . . e.g. underpay in HK last time, she request have $ increase. Must have 2 Sundays leave per month. Upon finish her contact, she said marry wor. . . . . so did not continue. . . . . but actually NOT marry lor!! . . . . . . but she is good at cooking and take care bb, good in Cantonese. . . . . 亞媽個印印 is very good. . . . 有佢 look 住 her sister lor. . . . hubby said Sunday leave is normal, we also have holiday on Sunday, can take care bb and 程程 by our own la.
Which 1 is better lei?
係咪 with their own kid's maid is better, more stable. . . . ?-(
i don't choose the indo maid lar. . . .when i further ask her for the no. of pervious employer for comment. . . . she said 佢做唔做都仲要 think again, give her 1-2 weeks time wor!! :evil:
i guess may be 佢不太想 do. only 佢家姐 want her to work. . . . or she scare her previous employer will say bad things on her lor!! :-|
相反, that Philp maid is will want to work for me. . . . i talked to my sister's maid (佢細妹) . . . she passed me the photos and CV already . . . . any agency fee . . . . she will pay for me as well. (~$3xxx)
that means she really want to be hired. . . . really need the job. . . .this morning, my sister passed me her photos. . . .都okay, cc man man.
re : 2nd b
exactly the same feeling as you when preg. this stage. . . . i also talked to hubby that time. . . . 如果知道甘 sun fu . . . 就唔生. . . .好唔想生 ar!! can't hug 程程, also very guilty, always sleep on bed. . . . 程程 原本好chi 我, but can't stick to me. . . . :cry:
but 過多兩個月, you will find comfortable and can play with heihei again . . . even can't hug him!!
但 actually with 2nd b . . .many things to concern . . . money, time management, their study lar, their living lar. . . . very trouble!! 一個有一個好, 2個有2個好. . . 既然有左. . . . of course need to face it lar!!
hard to know . . .she must say she is healthy lar. . . . arrival HK to have a body check ~ just a simple one, can't sure whether her health is okay or not.
healthy is a must to me. . . . as she need to take care new born and kid of age 2!!