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伯爵府

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2101#
發表於 05-2-22 15:36 |只看該作者

Re: 牛池灣及九龍灣媽咪會

heima
yes. . . . i also feel the maid 有誠意 . . . . will call her today after work . . . . check her English and tone!!

early work ~ hubby said, if we both out for work, leave the maid at the beginning, loyeh and 99 hard to communicate with her wor. . . . and hubby also afraid 程程 will not follow her ar!!

he said it is better if i can have my leave when the maid arrive.


男爵府

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2102#
發表於 05-2-22 15:53 |只看該作者

Re: 牛池灣及九龍灣媽咪會

6/10

YanyanMom 寫道:
heima,

妳expected date係幾時ar?


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2103#
發表於 05-2-22 16:01 |只看該作者

Re: 牛池灣及九龍灣媽咪會

benben,
但到時會唔會有太多事情要照顧呢?
不過如果妳有99幫手,應該問題都唔大ge!

benben 寫道:
he said it is better if i can have my leave when the maid arrive.


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2104#
發表於 05-2-22 16:17 |只看該作者

Re: 牛池灣及九龍灣媽咪會

heima
that's my worry!!
Hei001 寫道:
benben,
但到時會唔會有太多事情要照顧呢?
不過如果妳有99幫手,應該問題都唔大ge!

[quote]
benben 寫道:
he said it is better if i can have my leave when the maid arrive.
[/quote]


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2105#
發表於 05-2-22 22:30 |只看該作者

Re: 牛池灣及九龍灣媽咪|

benben,
我老公恨女恨到發燒啦!不過佢成日話呢個似係仔wor!可能佢唔想比壓力我啦!

benben 寫道:
heima
your hubby want to have boy again?


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2106#
發表於 05-2-22 22:37 |只看該作者

Re: 牛池灣及九龍灣媽咪會

benben,
其實如果經濟許可,就比maid早少少嚟,如果妳怕佢同99溝通唔到,可以等妳哋兩公婆都在時才帶maid見99,其他時間maid都留在妳家,而程程就照常去99度,但當妳哋收工或放假時,就可以比maid同程程&99多d接觸,等佢哋慢慢接受maid.
我始終覺得係生之前安頓好一切會好d,唔係都時妳又要照顧小b,又要教maid,咁就麻煩啦!

benben 寫道:
heima
that's my worry!! [quote]
Hei001 寫道:
benben,
但到時會唔會有太多事情要照顧呢?
不過如果妳有99幫手,應該問題都唔大ge!

[quote]
benben 寫道:
he said it is better if i can have my leave when the maid arrive.
[/quote][/quote]


大宅

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2107#
發表於 05-2-23 08:13 |只看該作者

Re: 牛池灣及九龍灣媽咪會

Dear all
Very busy these two days. Just finished the revision on what you've discussed these days.

Heima
Add oil! We all support you! Imagine a family with four happy members!

Benben
Yes, my past experience tell me that it's better to let the maid arrive before baby born. My maid arrived after baby born (late arrival due to SARS at that time). Very busy and trouble - busy in taking baby and at the same time coaching the maid!


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2108#
發表於 05-2-23 10:19 |只看該作者

Re: 牛池灣及九龍灣媽咪會

heima
我老公都好 like bb girl ar!!
as now 我大肚, 抱唔到程程, so she stick to her daddy so much . . . 而佢 daddy 又 very lump her. . . . love to be sticked!!

d 男人都係 like 俾女人 stick 住

don't think too much, 仔女已定

cyma and heima
$ for 1 or 2 month is not a big deal.

程程 still stay at 99 home. . . maid arrive, but bb still in my belly, 甘佢做 mud 好? ! ?-(


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2109#
發表於 05-2-23 11:18 |只看該作者

Re: 牛池灣及九龍灣媽咪會

有仔實恨女ka la~~~ :mrgreen:
佢唔想比壓力妳都係錫妳jet~~ :mrgreen:

[quote]
Hei001 寫道:
benben,
我老公恨女恨到發燒啦!不過佢成日話呢個似係仔wor!可能佢唔想比壓力我啦!


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2110#
發表於 05-2-23 11:19 |只看該作者

Re: 牛池灣及九龍灣媽咪|

just for reference - copied from other mami

剛剛去完日本旅行,果個導遊話中國人鍾意有一個仔一個女,這完全是父母的自私行為喎!日本人就剛剛相反,如果佢地第一個生女,第二個都希望係女,如果第一個生仔,第二個就希望係仔!佢地完全係為子女著想,唔係為自己既喜好!因為認為小朋友有同性既兄弟姊妹一起成長會比較好,原因係佢地志趣相投,感情會融洽。佢舉例話個妹妹玩化妝,哥哥回家後妹妹開心地問哥哥我靚唔靚呀,哥哥完全無興趣地答唔好煩我啦,隨即走去打佢心愛既電腦遊戲!換轉是兩姊妹會一起玩得很開心了!佢話唔同性別既小朋友鍾意玩既野唔同,生一仔一女又唔係結婚,咁點解一定要一個仔一個女?生一仔一女是父母開心,生兩個仔或生兩個女就是他(她)們開心,你地會點揀?


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2111#
發表於 05-2-23 11:20 |只看該作者

Re: 牛池灣及九龍灣媽咪會

比工人早d適應妳屋企環境lor~~
幫妳執下屋都好ar~~

[quote]
benben 寫道:
heima
我老公都好 like bb girl ar!!
as now 我大肚, 抱唔到程程, so she stick to her daddy so much . . . 而佢 daddy 又 very lump her. . . . love to be sticked!!

d 男人都係 like 俾女人 stick 住

don't think too much, 仔女已定

cyma and heima
$ for 1 or 2 month is not a big deal.

程程 still stay at 99 home. . . maid arrive, but bb still in my belly, 甘佢做 mud 好? ! ?-(


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2112#
發表於 05-2-23 11:22 |只看該作者

Re: 牛池灣及九龍灣媽咪會

呢個理論我都聽人講過...........有d道理ke........

[quote]
benben 寫道:
just for reference - copied from other mami

剛剛去完日本旅行,果個導遊話中國人鍾意有一個仔一個女,這完全是父母的自私行為喎!日本人就剛剛相反,如果佢地第一個生女,第二個都希望係女,如果第一個生仔,第二個就希望係仔!佢地完全係為子女著想,唔係為自己既喜好!因為認為小朋友有同性既兄弟姊妹一起成長會比較好,原因係佢地志趣相投,感情會融洽。佢舉例話個妹妹玩化妝,哥哥回家後妹妹開心地問哥哥我靚唔靚呀,哥哥完全無興趣地答唔好煩我啦,隨即走去打佢心愛既電腦遊戲!換轉是兩姊妹會一起玩得很開心了!佢話唔同性別既小朋友鍾意玩既野唔同,生一仔一女又唔係結婚,咁點解一定要一個仔一個女?生一仔一女是父母開心,生兩個仔或生兩個女就是他(她)們開心,你地會點揀?


伯爵府

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2113#
發表於 05-2-23 11:38 |只看該作者

Re: 牛池灣及九龍灣媽咪會

煩死人拉……

覺得家姐個 maid’s sister 不錯 la. . . .
1. Talked with her last night, English ok.
2. See her photos. . .. look ok.
3. Age 37, with 2 kids already, so with new born bb experience la.
4. Worked in Taiwan before, cooking ok.
5. 好有誠意, if I hire her, she pay all the agency fee (~$4K)

as I have no time to go to Immigration dep . . . must appoint agent lar.
a mami told me a contact / agent . . . I called her. . . . she raised some problem if I employ that maid.

1. If she arrive HK 先知佢有左, 都要用佢.
2. No training
3. Come HK 先有 body check wor!!
4. if she pay the agency $ for me, she can complain me afterward if any argument between us!!
5. if 用佢介紹果 d maid (~$2K). . . . will check her when she is in Philp.
6. with training (5 days) in Hong Kong upon arrival
7. further training during weekend (2 month)

點算? 俾佢講到好 risky if I choose that one.


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2114#
發表於 05-2-23 13:21 |只看該作者

Re: 牛池灣及九龍灣媽咪會

YanyanMom,benben,
其實我老公係我生浚僖之前已經想要女啦!成日話想生個女似我wor!
雖然我都好想要女,但其實又會唸,生仔可以等浚僖有個伴,可以玩得開心d,所以仔女都無所謂啦!

YanyanMom 寫道:
呢個理論我都聽人講過...........有d道理ke........


大宅

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2115#
發表於 05-2-23 13:24 |只看該作者

Re: 牛池灣及九龍灣媽咪會

Benben
I'm not very familiar with overseas maid Employment Law so I'd prefer through agent. At least, somebody is responsible for checking/ensuring everything for me.

Also, I wont' let the maid pay the agency fee for me. I don't want to leave any trouble for me if there's any unhappy events happened in future that she will definitely claim this point.

Is the agent introducing her maid with salary around 2K, I don't want to do such illegal things!


大宅

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2116#
發表於 05-2-23 13:25 |只看該作者

Re: 牛池灣及九龍灣媽咪會

I haven't heard this before but it's quite interesting and reasonable!

[quote]
YanyanMom 寫道:
呢個理論我都聽人講過...........有d道理ke........


男爵府

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2117#
發表於 05-2-23 13:30 |只看該作者

Re: 牛池灣及九龍灣媽咪會

benben,
其實唔經agent請工人,真係煩好多架!日後如果個工人有問題,都唔知搵邊個好!我有個同事本來都有個心水工人,但最後都係怕煩,所以都係搵agent介紹!所以我覺得要睇下妳認為呢個工人係咪真係信得過,值唔值得妳咁做lor!
其實如果妳而家請,都要二至三個月至到,所以都唔係好多時間架!如果佢早到,咪正如yanyanmom所講,等佢做下家務lor!妳都應該多d休息喇!同時,又可以等程程有多d時間適應工人,如果太遲嚟,我怕程程要面對太多改變,又新褓姆,又細佬,父母照顧又自然少了,所以個人始終覺得,响細佬出世前,先比程程接受咗個工人先會好d!


伯爵府

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2118#
發表於 05-2-23 14:34 |只看該作者

Re: 牛池灣及九龍灣媽咪會

cyma
the agent introduce 果 d 都係正價, not under pay kar!!

so much changes towards 程程 . . . i also worry about this. . . . she is very sticky now. . . . only follow hubby & I, lo-yeh and 99 . . . . once can't see we 4 around her. . . she will cry!!

during pg. . . always cry when we leave for a while.

last night, rec' letter from N1 . . . .she can start on 1 Mar. . . 到時有排 cry ar!! :cry:


子爵府

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2119#
發表於 05-2-24 11:39 |只看該作者

Re: 牛池灣及九龍灣媽咪會

放心la.......小朋友係不斷改變ka~~ 慢慢佢會習慣新ke學校生活........比d信心佢la~~

得閒講多d學校ke野比佢聽, 等佢作好準備la...........

[quote]
benben 寫道:
cyma
the agent introduce 果 d 都係正價, not under pay kar!!

so much changes towards 程程 . . . i also worry about this. . . . she is very sticky now. . . . only follow hubby & I, lo-yeh and 99 . . . . once can't see we 4 around her. . . she will cry!!

during pg. . . always cry when we leave for a while.

last night, rec' letter from N1 . . . .she can start on 1 Mar. . . 到時有排 cry ar!! :cry:


子爵府

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2120#
發表於 05-2-24 17:26 |只看該作者

Re: 牛池灣及九龍灣媽咪會

做mud今日無人ke ?-(

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