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socloudy,
My STD is starting on 12/26, but technically my last day will be on 12/21, coz 12/24 & 12/25 is company holiday mar

原文章由 socloudy 於 07-11-30 09:43 發表
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我自從大肚後都懶得就懶,依家等我老細放完假返嚟同佢開会分配一下我d工作, train吓人,然後我想1月中放maternity leave.你幾時放假呀?

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muimui,
At least the national lego step up to take care and reply the email as well, save your guys a lot of energy lar

原文章由 muimui313 於 07-11-30 14:52 發表
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峰迴路轉呀, 今日隊lego 又冤魂不息咁, 打左封5-6 頁紙既信回應, 佢地死都唔面對現實, 上次我地已經答左佢, 無可能俾佢地去state tournament, 真係白紙黑字, 佢地既回應信夠膽話無人答佢呢個要求. 又續繼 ...

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alison / muimui,
yup 85% is not too bad especially we are a small company, better than nothing mar. I can't belive that it is not a requirement to pay in NY, just ridicules

原文章由 ALISONLI 於 07-11-30 23:25 發表
vivi_ma
85% paid is not bad la. when i was working in a cpa firm (when i had my 1st baby) it was just NO paid leave!!!
meaning they keep your position but not paying anything..
cuz in nys it's not re ...

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Alison,
我買e間屋之前都係貪佢個学區,但Corey唔適合住co-op. co-op d heat太勁,搞到佢好燥,易留鼻血.而佢一溜就溜得好多,好嚇人.所以我迫住要賣囉.不過Corey係交俾我阿爸湊,即係話小学佢都會响我阿爸嗰边d local小学 (#25)讀ga la.

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發表於 07-12-4 09:12 |只看該作者

Vivi,
我依家已經想放產假喇!但起碼要做多6,7個礼拜.真係jealous你呀!

原文章由 vivi_ma 於 07-12-4 03:42 發表
socloudy,
My STD is starting on 12/26, but technically my last day will be on 12/21, coz 12/24 & 12/25 is company holiday mar

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Socloudy,
huh. 留鼻血迫住要賣? hahaha u r too funny. my friend who sold her condo, used to wear tank top during winter time , now she is wearing down in her house ma. cuz now she has to pay for the heat ;p but anyway, have you tried using a humidifier ah ? that might help to stop Corey 留鼻血.
there're lots of school in # 25 & 26 so i guess u could go to nyc dept of ed to check out the school report to make sure which school u r zone to before you buy another house.
about 留鼻血 alvin last time 溜得好多,好嚇人 too. the reason is my 99 gave him crocodile meat soup. tell me how i could live with her for so long....................

原文章由 socloudy 於 07-12-4 09:08 發表
Alison,
我買e間屋之前都係貪佢個学區,但Corey唔適合住co-op. co-op d heat太勁,搞到佢好燥,易留鼻血.而佢一溜就溜得好多,好嚇人.所以我迫住要賣囉.不過Corey係交俾我阿爸湊,即係話小学佢都會响我阿爸嗰边d local小 ...

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發表於 07-12-5 11:13 |只看該作者

Alison,
Corey試過留幾次鼻血,每次個枕頭都濕成半.实在留多咗d囉.佢個人係燥底,食多幾條french fries (maybe
like 10)都會响嗰睌瞓咗之後就留ga la.我房入面都開咗cool mist humidifier.今年我直情turn off咗房入面個heat,剩開其他地方.佢2weeks前咁都仲留咗少少鼻血.e+迫住房冇heat同要幫佢响鼻入面搽cream,等d血留唔到咋.Corey响我parents屋企住都要開小d heat, then着多件衫.唔係又會溜鼻水.真係幾煩.
我再買樓時一定要再請教你点睇school zone嗰方面.我都唔係好識睇.

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發表於 07-12-5 14:48 |只看該作者

Alisonli,

what happens if yr son doesn't do well for the statewide test? is it required for 3rd grade and up in NY?

socloudy,

since corey is so 燥底, do u let him take the school lunches as they're usually deep-fried or so-called 熱氣 in chinese?

原文章由 ALISONLI 於 07-12-3 23:31 發表
SY_Mom,
my 8 yr old can't even take care of himself. he is so used to others taking care of him so he's clueless about what he needs to do. he has no self discipline. 99 and c6 r not helping, they cri ...

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發表於 07-12-5 23:56 |只看該作者

Socloudy,
if u really turn off the heat then Corey might have running nose la, have u tried seeing different pedi to see if they have any other solution? u might want to have him check up again if it's persistent. hopefully he is gonna be better when he gets older. cuz in school they do give out quite alot of "hot air" food..like fried chicken for lunch..u have to tell corey to be a good boy and pick something else. if not, like andrew 8, got sick easily after "hot air" food, would have sore throat and cough then throw up...he's home sick with fever today. austin 6 is coughing too and his catholic school dont even allow kids to have a sweater on...poor kid..have to transfer him out sooner or later cuz i personally cant stand their stupid school rules. alvin, 2 has running nose and i was told cold medicine is not safe...........

原文章由 socloudy 於 07-12-5 11:13 發表
Alison,
Corey試過留幾次鼻血,每次個枕頭都濕成半.实在留多咗d囉.佢個人係燥底,食多幾條french fries (maybe
like 10)都會响嗰睌瞓咗之後就留ga la.我房入面都開咗cool mist humidifier.今年我直情turn off咗房入面 ...

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發表於 07-12-6 00:06 |只看該作者

SY Mom,
some kids got 1 and they got held back, meaning repeating 3 rd grade again. can't imagine how some chinese's parents dont even know any english and their kids could go to gifted class and get all 4......tell me how that works...

原文章由 SY_Mom 於 07-12-5 14:48 發表
Alisonli,

what happens if yr son doesn't do well for the statewide test? is it required for 3rd grade and up in NY?

socloudy,

since corey is so 燥底, do u let him take the school lunches as they'r ...

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Alisonli,

my dad's cousin's grandson was exactly in that case. his parents came from china but didn't know too much english; however, he just went to a "so-so" public elementary and middle schools, but he got in Lowell high school last year and he's even one of the youngest in the class. Lowell is one of the best public high schools (nationwide) and u hv to pass their entrance exam (not just live in their neighborhood) in order to get in. it's equivalent to the top private college prep schools.
even i seldom meet their family, i was so excited and couldn't wait to get him a little prize.

so i think it really depends on the individual kid. some kids who have self-discipline and not easily influenced by the peers, they're just fine even if they don't go to the top schools. unfortunately that's not the case for my boy.

原文章由 ALISONLI 於 07-12-6 00:06 發表
SY Mom,
some kids got 1 and they got held back, meaning repeating 3 rd grade again. can't imagine how some chinese's parents dont even know any english and their kids could go to gifted class and get ...

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socloudy,
Actually time is flying by, I can't believe my BB will be born on next month

, 6-7 weeks is easy to pass by gar......

原文章由 socloudy 於 07-12-4 09:12 發表
Vivi,
我依家已經想放產假喇!但起碼要做多6,7個礼拜.真係jealous你呀!

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發表於 07-12-6 08:59 |只看該作者

SY Mom,
Corey依家冇去学校讀書,所以食物方面都冇乜問題.佢summer時上summer school但学校要家長自備食物因太多唔同國籍嘅学生,有d又唔食豬,有d又唔食牛喎…或者我遲d俾Corey上半日学,等佢返屋企食飯.醫生話小朋友4歲前嘅鼻膜未develop好所以易留鼻血.等佢大小小時要再reevaluate囉.

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發表於 07-12-6 09:11 |只看該作者

Alisonli,
好似可以做d小手術加厚鼻膜,但Corey又未到4歲.我想到時先再睇係咪需要去做囉.Corey似足佢爸爸,熱氣燥底再加易手腳凍.我都唔敢想像佢正式返学時會点…
你可唔可以俾Austin着件保暖內衣先再加校服呀?又會有d咁怪嘅rule ge?
Andrew係咪俾人傳染ga?屋企個triple A都病实心痛死你喇!
Hope they are feeling better.

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Vivi,
我老細唔想我train人做我嘅嘢咋,唔係我train完就响屋企抖下.我最慘要take subway返屋企.要企almost 25 minutes先maybe有位坐.而e幾個礼拜就最難頂,subway又多人,Christmas shopping bags又多…

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Alisonli,

the school doesn't let the kids to wear sweater. is it becoz it's too warm in the classrooms with the heater on?

原文章由 ALISONLI 於 07-12-5 23:56 發表
Socloudy,
if u really turn off the heat then Corey might have running nose la, have u tried seeing different pedi to see if they have any other solution? u might want to have him check up again if it' ...

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SY-Mom, Socloudy,
true. it really depends on the kid himself. anyway, i used to think that going to good high school and college is not a big deal cuz it doesnt mean he will be successful after he graduated. socloudy has to agree with me, it really depends on his/her interpersonal skills and on who he/she knows. but still, so many non-english speaking chinese parents r pushing their kids to the best schools la. and they dont mind spending alot of $$ on tutoring the kids even they dont make that much. they r so proud of their kids, unlike us, every parent teacher conference i almost have to cover my face cuz i feel so embarassed :ppp
I really dont think corey need that operation la. just make sure he wont eat too much "hot air" food in school, should be fine. school never has enough heat, both of my boys complained that it's freezing in school. andrew wore like 5 layers. poor austin, cuz his catholic school makes everyone wear blue shirt with no sweater on, so i put a sweater under and i got a note from his teacher...austin, is now sick at home cuz he has stomachache all nite, i feel so bad like i am abusing him for sending him to catholic school..socloudy, no one really gives out seats on the train when i was pregnant, and the ones who do r women, i feel bad for the man..they just pretend to sleep or read..

原文章由 SY_Mom 於 07-12-6 02:52 發表
Alisonli,

my dad's cousin's grandson was exactly in that case. his parents came from china but didn't know too much english; however, he just went to a "so-so" public elementary and middle schools, ...

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發表於 07-12-7 07:36 |只看該作者

alisonli,
天蠶衣白色底衫得唔得? 佢哋有kid size..
catholic school 有microwave呢, 可以叫老師reheat 呢.. 島嘅st. mary 同st. joseph hill 都有microwave re-heat 食物架喎..

原文章由 ALISONLI 於 07-12-6 10:53 AM 發表
SY-Mom, Socloudy,
true. it really depends on the kid himself. anyway, i used to think that going to good high school and college is not a big deal cuz it doesnt mean he will be successful after he gra ...

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發表於 07-12-7 07:46 |只看該作者

what is 天蠶衣底衫?

for the two preschools that sean attended, they said they would microwave the lunch for u at the beginning; however, later they changed the policy that they wouldn't reheat the food for the kids any more. so they recommended either u take the school lunch or bring yr lunch in a thermo lunch box.

原文章由 Nillie_Mami 於 07-12-7 07:36 發表
alisonli,
天蠶衣白色底衫得唔得? 佢哋有kid size..
catholic school 有microwave呢, 可以叫老師reheat 呢.. 島嘅st. mary 同st. joseph hill 都有microwave re-heat 食物架喎..

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