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發表於 08-8-17 09:17 |只看該作者

小吉梨, 你個b幾大呀?
我個b五星期大,不過佢好早就已經喊到撐上床頂,而且仲打橫添
我train 我個b的第二晚,朝早四點幾,佢都喊左成個鐘,結果我俾奶佢飲,不過佢之後把聲沙到而家(兩三日了)
仲有bb床唔係你房ga? bb喊我都無覺瞓呀,要留意住佢會唔會係床到打撗整親

[ 本文章最後由 Fabianne 於 08-8-17 09:24 編輯 ]

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Queenie
講返我呢兩晚的情況
前晚第三晚,佢兩點半喊,喊左十五分鐘(好大聲,而無跡象收聲),結果俾左奶奶佢飲,之後自動瞓到七點,又喊,抱左一陣仲去車仔落公園一陣,係bb車已經瞓左,到八點先餵奶

昨晚第四晚,時間表2000飲,本來到2300先飲,但係佢2100瞓到2200醒左,喊得好勁,以為係因為濕片所以喊,但係換左片抱住都係咁喊...結果2215俾左奶佢飲晒,之後瞓(未試過唔扭)到今朝五點半扭到六點(其實半夜兩點幾同四點幾佢醒過,喊左一聲又自己瞓返),餵左奶奶後佢都好精神,不過自己在床上無喊。到七點半又開始喊,到八點先再餵,但係食淨40ml 已經瞓左唔食,跟住又再瞓

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發表於 08-8-18 10:23 |只看該作者

唔知點解唔見左我昨天的文章??
前晚亞b十點喊得好厲害,本來十一點先夠鐘飲奶,結果2215俾左佢飲,之後自動瞓覺。到第二朝五點幾醒左,喊左15mins,都係開左奶俾佢飲,之後跟時間表0800飲。

昨晚又十點喊,不過今次抱下佢都氹到佢,所以跟返2300先飲奶奶,飲得超快,而且之後放落床仲好快瞓著,無喊過(好感動) 。今朝0630開始喊.... 不過我抱住佢氹佢,間中又放佢落床,結果0745俾佢飲。

但係佢呢兩朝都瞓唔到八點先醒,咁早醒又喊,我應該點做呢? 餵奶? 抱佢可唔可以? 會唔會令佢習慣左早起床又嘈呢? 但係唔抱唔得,佢把聲沙左幾日啦

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發表於 08-8-18 11:21 |只看該作者

聽落你都進展得幾順利, 阿B訓到咁多個鐘, 最緊要你話佢朝早5,6點醒過但你冇理佢, 做得太好, 呢個就係你成功第一步

原文章由 Truffle 於 08-8-17 01:23 AM 發表
我尋晚都係大約 2145 俾佢食 Last meal, 佢食完都扭左一陣,不過 endup 佢都可以喺 2300 前瞓左,仲瞓到今朝 0710 先食第一餐 (5 , 6 點好似醒過,但我冇理佢,嘻嘻) 跟住 "醒" 到 8點左右又再瞓過,仲瞓到 11點幾...結果 ...

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發表於 08-8-18 11:35 |只看該作者

1. 會架, 我BB都係喊到上左床頂架, D被又會冇晒, 所以我係佢訓之前已經做足準備, 將佢笠落個BB背心型睡袋度, 只係凸番個頭仔同對手仔出黎, 咁就唔怕佢full晒d被啦, 又唔會上左床頂, 只係佢對腳仔自己係咁係度踢

2. 我唸佢係有可能喊得耐, 個口入左風, 你下次俾佢喊完, 試下同佢掃風, 掃完風先餵佢食奶, 多數都掃到架
3. 記得同佢掃多d風, 肚仔有風食奶都會食少d
4. very good, 冇俾佢飲但都pump定奶, 但我都係建議你準時叫佢起身啦, 咪佢一訓天光你就鬆懈, 佢d時間一亂番, 半夜又醒架喇

原文章由 小吉梨 於 08-8-17 07:36 AM 發表

hi queenie 及各位努力中的媽媽:

見到大家都有成果真係好呀!又分享下我的進度及問題. 我bb基本上都keep到3小時一次, 不過, 係有時有+/- 30mins的時差吧. 我盡量keep佢0630第一餐, 因為想返工後都可以親自餵埋先出門~

不過, 早兩日半夜bb34點又哭, 又係哭得非常嚴重好大聲同撐得好勁, 無晒被得來仲撐上床頂哩! 我見佢無被又有冷氣, 仲一路哭, 都唔知去唔去蓋被好..結果, 我關了冷氣...

1. 你地d bb哭時會不會這樣? 是不是都等佢停哭先去處理? 我是擔心埋去佢又會哭大聲d, 唔去又會冷病哩...你地b會不會撐成咁?

2. bb 日間是可以自己睡的, 有時哭小小便ok(5-20min). 而且, 那種哭聲同夜晚好唔好, 夜晚哭極都唔會停...前晚我地見佢日間都ok就比佢哭下, 點知又係哭了好多小時 (最少3-4)無停, 又係哭到6:00先停在呆呆下....結果, 昨天又是唔對路似的, 仲嘔了好幾次奶, 係食下一餐之前嘔的. 唔知係咪冷親定唔消化....

3.而且, 昨天佢叫唔醒, 個schedule係咁改, 不過, 佢自己3.5-4小時會起到身食一次奶, 但每次都食少了. 我見佢咁, 都唔迫佢食, 等佢自己休息番好d先...不過,就盡量keep住第一同最後一餐的時間...

4. 昨晚佢11:45最後一餐(之前一餐9:20, 我本想佢唔起身就算, 不過, 又有嘔, 只係唔多), 今早我630試下搞佢都唔醒, 就決定等下佢. 佢昨晚半夜無起身lu. 而家我也決定今早第一餐等佢醒, 已等了一小時la (而家先730).. 不過, 我唔想影響奶量, 剛才自己手pump了4安奶先~

我今天會觀察下bb係咪仲唔太妥, 會不會唔舒服, 同埋, 看看個schedule的時間需不需要再延長一點...而家比佢sleep下先...可能真係唔可以比佢哭太耐了...(本來我都決定晚上唔好train得太harsh, 但那晚實在太倦了, 3點幾本想比佢哭少少便停, 但抱佢都唔停哭...而我地又再等下, 後來我地2個竟然自己關門睡了@_@...都唔知佢哭了幾耐...好對bb唔住呀)

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發表於 08-8-18 11:40 |只看該作者

hi qunnie,

You really an expert of 戒夜奶 , hope you can give some comment on my case.My baby is 5 weeks todays, I start the schedule of 6:00/9:00/12:00/15:00/18:00/21:00 /24:00 2 days ago.

On the first day
My husband and I try best to feed him on schedule but he start to cry on the 2 hour after feeding, than after 0.5 he will cry crazy nothing can stop him, only can 抱him. If we don't 抱him, he will keep cry and my husband will feel he cry like 有肺積水. On the first day , he shows me super hungry on 20:00 so I feed him on 20:00 and 21:00 and feed him again on 24:00 then 04:00.

On the second day
His cring patten is the same,so terrible. However, this time I can feed him on schedule except postpone the 24:00 to 01:00 becasue I am over sleep. He then wake up agin on 03:30/05:00/06:15 everytime cry crazly and need to drink milk.

In fact,

(1)I not sure is my son too young for training or he can't stand the milk for 3 hours. Before start this schedule I feed him on every 2 hours.Kindly advice how to make sure he can drink enough milk for 3 hours, everytime he seems already feel super hungry after 2.5 hours of feeding,cry crazly again

(2) If my baby still want to drink milk after feeding him for 45 mins, what should i do?Keep give him or stop , if stop he must cry crazily

kinly give me some advice on my case

thanks

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發表於 08-8-18 23:34 |只看該作者

Hm... No good la ~
呢兩日都醒得早,拖左陣又氹吾番佢瞓,唯有 feed 佢喇 ... 0410 and 0500 ! 不過好彩日頭個 schedule 仲跟得番...
0815.. 1145..1515..1845..2145-2200
所以依家要努力攪好天光嗰餐 ~

(阿b 起得早,吾知關吾關佢 20xx 瞓左一輪呢 ?!)

原文章由 queeniechan2004 於 08-8-18 11:21 發表
聽落你都進展得幾順利, 阿B訓到咁多個鐘, 最緊要你話佢朝早5,6點醒過但你冇理佢, 做得太好, 呢個就係你成功第一步

[ 本文章最後由 Truffle 於 08-8-18 23:44 編輯 ]

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發表於 08-8-19 08:16 |只看該作者

前晚第六晚,但係今朝我亞b依然係五點醒,喊下停下咁到六點都唔瞓,抱下佢放下佢咁到七點半俾奶奶佢飲(本來八點)
佢朝朝五點幾六點就醒,點好呢...?好難捱到八點俾佢飲奶喎!
我應該將全日的時間提早半小時至一個鐘嗎?

第七晚,亞b一樣飲完2000奶,2100左右瞓。2300叫醒佢飲最後一餐,之後再瞓。但係今次瞓到0400就醒左,喊一陣又啜一陣手指,重複又重複咁...到0520我終於沖左奶奶佢飲。之後佢自己舞完一輪就瞓著了。今朝八點再叫醒飲。兩次都飲得晒喎(150-160ml)

點解亞b起身時間仲未定ga?

[ 本文章最後由 Fabianne 於 08-8-20 09:05 編輯 ]

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發表於 08-8-20 17:57 |只看該作者

Dear Qunnie,

I really need your help as I headach for few days. I start the schedule for 5 days and baby still wake up at night, sometimes more than once. Do you know anything I should work better. My baby is 5 weeks now and got 5.13kg now. My schedule is 600/900/1200/1500/1800/2100/2400

Baby wake up on 4:00 after feeding him the 2400 milk on 2nd and 4th day

He wake up on 2:00/5:00 after feeding him the 2400 milk on 1st and 3rd day

I discover
(1) Not sure he is already full or not as he always cry after 2.5 hour of drinking milk , I tried force him to drink more , then he 嘔奶

(2) He seems big size baby never sleep more than 3 hours after breast feeding

(3) He really cry very crazy, he tired to cry for 1 hour, then reach the feeding time and stop by breast feeding

(4) He always fell sleep while drinking breast milk

(5)What can I do , I really suspect I don't have enough breast milk for him , but he can gain 1.57kg within 35 days

Hope you can help me, I really want to be a happy mother and he can be a happy baby

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發表於 08-8-22 09:52 |只看該作者

Hi Queenie
好多謝你的分享,我BB5wk,一直都係人奶feed on demand,但係佢schedule好唔定,好多時一個鐘叫一次,我真係好累.好想試下你介紹這方法,跟左1日,schedule係7am/10am/1pm/4pm/7pm/10pm/2am/5am.有d問題請教:
1.其實2am同5am係BB自己喊要食,請問set time table,夜晚都固定時間叫醒佢食?
2.食奶=>清醒=>睡,BB睡醒都未到食奶時間,而佢又唔餓,咁應該唔理佢,定可以同佢玩?攪到食奶=>清醒=>睡=>清醒,怕唔怕?
3.You said feed BB more when last meal of the day. How to force BB eat more? I'm using ChuChu. Milk will flow out only if BB suck.
Thanks

[ 本文章最後由 cmpjoanna 於 08-8-23 10:56 編輯 ]

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發表於 08-8-22 10:27 |只看該作者

Hi Queenie

我都有用你嘅方法幫BB戒夜奶，我BB嘅schedule係730 / 1030 / 1330 / 1630 / 1930 / 2300，試咗成個星期佢都仲响 4 / 5 am 喊醒要食，佢會ee er成大半個鐘先，我地已經冇理佢until 佢真係喊先比佢食。我會餵人奶around 10 - 20 mins 佢就可以瞓番，之後7am 佢又會醒，730am 先俾佢再食。

想問問，BB 4/5 am 可以食咁少是否代表佢其實唔肚餓? 但係唔俾佢食佢又會唔肯瞓咁點算?

Thanks!

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發表於 08-8-22 16:36 |只看該作者

hi queenie

finally my son has some improvement lar! (after a few weeks, sigh!) for the past few days, after last feeding at 2330, my son can sleep until 7am sumthing in the morning. Then my husband will play with him and hug him for awhile so that can feed the first meal around 8.15-8.30am in the monring now!

And for the past days, the schedule seems more stable like:
0815-0830/ 1130/ 1430/ 1730/ 2030/ 2330

Though he still cannot maintain the 'feed-alert-sleep' mode everytime, but in someway I can see he can be alert after feeding but sometime cannot

One more thing, he did not have any poopoo in the mid night already so that I can relax a bit on his bottom for the rash.

Hope he can keep this! and thanks for your explanation and comment everytime.

For others mums who trying hard to help BB to skip the night feeding, work hard and all the best... my son takes so long time to skip it (a few weeks) and he is now in 2.5months already!

But so happy can see he can sleep through night!

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發表於 08-8-28 19:21 |只看該作者

唉!
我都好想train我個b
但每次阿b一喊, 我只係由佢喊左一分鐘唔夠
我奶奶已經馬上入房睇(我同奶奶一齊住)
見我唔抱阿b就鬧我
我話要train佢自己訓
奶奶就鬧我話"邊使!bb仔大個就會識, 佢喊梗係要tum架啦!由得佢喊又成肚風肚痛, 你都唔識湊仔既!"
然後就啦啦聲抱走佢個孫

食奶方面
我阿b唔太乖, 成日食5分鐘就好似飽咁自己鬆口
但1x-4x分鐘之後又會喊晒叫肚餓
想佢食左5分鐘之後繼續餵, 即使叫醒左佢
佢都會封嘴抗議, 想塞個nipple入佢口都唔得

加上奶奶成日話bb一喊就要餵
我同佢講要戒夜奶, 佢又鬧我
話bb會自己戒
又話3個鐘先俾佢食好殘忍
話我刻薄佢個孫!

好辛苦呀, 佢就識抱識同阿b玩, 成日由阿b抱住訓
結果佢平時返工時間同夜晚阿b扭計就搵著我黎搞!
我夜夜都冇覺好訓
同佢講佢咁會就慣阿b, 佢又係o個句"點會!?我湊大3個仔都係咁, 係你唔識湊之嘛"

好唔開心呀

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發表於 08-8-29 10:39 |只看該作者

睇完你的情況真係人都癲，99就係咁GA LA
我諗個個99都係一聽個bb喊就立即沖去睇
不過你個99就唔聽人講,咁就真係慘d
你洗唔洗返工ga?
你同奶奶係暫時or長住ga?
你老公點講?我諗要你老公出口先得
仲有你買本"從0歲開始"的書俾佢睇

原文章由 emilyy 於 08-8-28 19:21 發表
唉!
我都好想train我個b
但每次阿b一喊, 我只係由佢喊左一分鐘唔夠
我奶奶已經馬上入房睇(我同奶奶一齊住)
見我唔抱阿b就鬧我
我話要train佢自己訓
奶奶就鬧我話"邊使!bb仔大個就會識, 佢喊梗係要tum架啦!由得佢喊又 ...

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發表於 08-8-29 11:02 |只看該作者

queeniechan2004 and other mums,

I have tried the 3-hr schedule and to keep bb alert after drinking milk for about 3 wks. (she is now 6 wks old)

here is the progress:

so far, I keep a regular 3-hr schedule, even she is sleeping at the feeding time, I will wake her up.
sometimes, she is sleeping when she drinks and she usually takes 45 mins to finish (150 ml).
after she finishes milk, I will try to wake her up, most of the time, she could wake up and keep alert for about 30-45 mins.
then, I will put her to sleep, sometimes, she can sleep at once (no crying, but very rare), sometimes, she cries a few to around 20 minutes and then sleep, she could sleep 1 to 1.5 hr., yet, she sometimes wakes up and cries after around 50 mins sleeping and could not sleep again, I will let her cry till next feeding and try not to carry her except she splits out milk.
still sometimes, she cries very loud when I put her to sleep and she can cry for more than 1 hr. till next feeding.
is it ok if she does not nap after feeding during daytime?
at nite, after last feeding at 10 p.m., she still wakes up at around 2 a.m., sometimes, 3 or 4 a.m., after feeding, she sleeps again but always wakes up at 5 a.m.+ and cries a lot, but she does not seem hungry and I give her pacifier but she does not really like it, very headache.
as she cries a lot at 5 a.m., (not just makes noises), what should I do?

thanks for your advice

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發表於 08-8-29 13:34 |只看該作者

queenie,
您好呀!我係新手媽媽,唔係太識用親子王國,唔知o係呢度請教你ok嗎?
我今天開始你的方法,有幾個問題:
1:如BB哭後睡了30mins,但睡不到下一餐便醒了繼續哭,應怎辦?
2:晚上他睡醒由他哭15分鐘然後才抱他?然後給奶他?
3:我BB的第一餐是8:00,所以BB在3:30pm沖凉的,但你說7:00pm前不要給BB睡,我又不能6:30幫BB沖凉,但如果要BB 5-8pm都清醒(又不包括冲凉)就很難............

希望BB盡快戎到夜奶,因我9月8日要返工了.....十萬個謝謝

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發表於 08-8-30 09:37 |只看該作者

唉!冇用架
我奶奶佢地係福建人, 佢地成家得我呢個新抱係廣東人
而我奶奶不嬲都好討厭廣東人
所以我係屋企係冇聲出
試過一次我買對手套洗衫都俾佢鬧呀!
我只係講左句"我隻手唔濕得手丫嘛"
佢就鬧我頂撞佢喇.........><

因為我地經濟未support到自己住, 所以一路都要同奶奶住
遲d仲要同埋我老公細佬一家3口一齊住
一間500呎的屋迫8個人..........

我唔敢返工俾阿b奶奶湊呀
佢地太污漕喇, 我奶奶竟然可以用馬桶當水桶洗地
仲放埋隻腳入馬桶洗腳呀!
佢洗完腳就踩上我張床
我又唔夠謄出聲.....你話如果我出左去做野
阿b會點我真係唔敢諗

我老公又太錫阿媽
成日叫我忍忍忍
佢係唔會同佢阿媽講架

原文章由 Fabianne 於 08-8-29 10:39 發表
睇完你的情況真係人都癲，99就係咁GA LA
我諗個個99都係一聽個bb喊就立即沖去睇
不過你個99就唔聽人講,咁就真係慘d
你洗唔洗返工ga?
你同奶奶係暫時or長住ga?
你老公點講?我諗要你老公出口先得
仲有你買本"從0歲開始" ...

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發表於 08-8-30 09:53 |只看該作者

福建人．．．而且仲好重男輕女添
我都聽聞嫁俾福建人好慘ga

原文章由 emilyy 於 08-8-30 09:37 發表
唉!冇用架
我奶奶佢地係福建人, 佢地成家得我呢個新抱係廣東人
而我奶奶不嬲都好討厭廣東人
所以我係屋企係冇聲出
試過一次我買對手套洗衫都俾佢鬧呀!
我只係講左句"我隻手唔濕得手丫嘛"
佢就鬧我頂撞佢喇.........> ...

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唔好意思, 最近很忙所以沒時間回覆, 希望唔會太遲啦^^
1. 你阿b 得5週大, 唔洗逼佢三小時一餐, 因為如果係食人奶的話, 咁細個bb可能捱唔到3小時, 2.5小時就應該冇問題, 你阿b好明顯係肚餓先會"cry crazly", 同埋如果係食人奶, 佢宜家咁細, 2.5小時會比較對你上奶有好處, 你可以等到佢有8週先改3小時一餐, 但要佢由2.5, 慢慢咁加上去, 唔好一改就改成3小時, 佢一定接受唔到.

2. 如果45MINS佢未食完, 當然要俾佢食到夠為止, 45mins意思係中間冇訓著覺, 如果有訓左覺或者佢根本都冇啜夠45mins, 你就要俾佢食夠為止, 但盡量教佢正經食, 唔好食下停下, 正常45mins可以食到好多架喇

原文章由 fukam 於 08-8-18 11:40 AM 發表
(1)I not sure is my son too young for training or he can't stand the milk for 3 hours. Before start this schedule I feed him on every 2 hours.Kindly advice how to make sure he can drink enough milk for 3 hours, everytime he seems already feel super hungry after 2.5 hours of feeding,cry crazly again

(2) If my baby still want to drink milk after feeding him for 45 mins, what should i do?Keep give him or stop , if stop he must cry crazily

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