Kwan,
I won't join the gathering. My daughter is my only child, our daughters can play together. My daughter is not living with me. My mother-in-law who also lives in Fanling looks after her. I'll take my baby back to my home only during weekend if I don't need to work on Sat/Sun. However, I can see my baby everyday because I'll go to my mother-in-law's home to have dinner. Kwan, are you a full time mother? If no, who is looking after your daughter?