What is your financial plan for the future? How old are you? If you are still young, may study something to change job later and for better salary. Also learn how to invest (although no easy to master the skills). I think once you have financial stability, you will have more choices.
Now, understand that you cannot divorce, then just be patient and make use of his resources to build up your own future, e.g. use the maid to take care your sons so that you can have some free time to learn, to work or to prepare for yourself. Don't give up and be strong !!!
yes, your are right, I want to take some course for upgrade myself , for the job , for my future, but NOW no more time to do that, this year my Son is P5 , have more EXAM and need me to push my son everything
Does your son have tuitor? If yes, you try to sit-in so that you can learn as well, esp. for languages such as English, I think you will be benefited. I mean, while doing something for your sons, try to see whether you can also benefit from it.
Also for your cheap 99, have you thought about it when she gets old, who will look after her?
I just think that if she or your cheap c6 thinks that they need to rely on you (for caring, etc.), they will respect you more. So even you don't earn as much as your c6, but make yourself worth in terms of non-$$ things so that they have to rely on you. May be this can help your situation.
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YES, I will try it, my son have New Tuitor, I hope this is work
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