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男爵府

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Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

MUJIMUJI,

你係唔係比較熱低架?
其實我一直身體都係陰虛火旺,好易喉嚨痛,但自己睇左中醫之後,體質好似改變左,冇甘怕熱氣,食燥熱野都ok,所以而家甘補都冇問題.醫師話我遲d可以食人參tim(以前唔食得,一食就流鼻血),而家都冇問題.

你同先生去check dna都好,起碼知過明白有冇關係.重有,你不如check下你兩公婆生活上會唔會有好多污染因素存在,可以o既話去避免下或改善下可能有幫助.
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發表於 06-11-22 22:00 |只看該作者

Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

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子爵府

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發表於 06-11-22 22:29 |只看該作者

Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

ann&andy,

我本身是有染色体的問題, 但是隱性的, 而且基本上我全身97%的染色体是正常, 所以由小到大我都不知我自己有問題, 直到懷孕才出事, 但醫生都不太肯定是否的的染色体問題, 但第三個就是因為柒色体問題, 因為驗過, 但頭两次小產就沒法驗到, 因為懷孕的週數少

ANYWAY, 醫生跟我說, 所有懷孕都有20-25%會流產的, 主要是自然淘汰, 我現在都沒深入研究, 因為生命是神所給予的, 沒有人可以創造生命, 所以我所有的都沒太大打算, 由神安排吧, 因為經歷這三次的小產令我看到很多東西, 亦明白很多事無法強求的 :lol:
以馬內利, 神與我們同在! :-D  :-D
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發表於 06-11-22 22:55 |只看該作者

Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

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大宅

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發表於 06-11-22 23:21 |只看該作者

Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

Manwah 寫道:
DOLL_FISH,

我由那個TOPIC "神我何時能承受產業"已經見到你的, 那時你有了BB, 看到很高興, 到今天的你.....

其實可能我是你們當中最有經驗的, 我試過7W小產, 又試過9W小產, 最後那次是24W也是最最傷的一次(身, 心也傷), 你們經歷的我都試過了, 也試過在第二次小產入院因手術做得不好入2次醫院(前後住近2星期醫院)!

事實第3次小產(2001年9月4日)到今天我都沒法忘記, 這是應該的, 因為那是個痛苦的經歷, 相信沒有一個媽媽想經歷呢!但我們跟我們的BB也共同努力過, 這是真的!

直到最近2006年6月做第一次IVF, 都是失敗, 那時我真對所有的都沒希望了, 但今天我正在做第2次IVF, 但我將所有的都祈禱求神叫我放手, 讓神掌管一切!

但我在這些經歷上真是學到些東西, 神讓我明白我的不足, 及我要改善的地方, 可能真是要讓主去教導我們怎去行我們的路
願主保守每個曾受苦難的姊妹, 我也為你們祈禱


每個人都有自己的感受, 但我覺得你很勇敢, 希望你這份勇敢可以感染這裡的姊妹。
亦希望你第2次IVF成功。
囝囝的blog : http://lhc1128.blogspot.com/


別墅

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發表於 06-11-23 09:37 |只看該作者

Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

manwah,
多謝你祈禱!
在出事前,我覺得好痛苦,好難行過,但我知道世人有很多人比我慘,好多人也能走過這段路!所以我同自己說要堅強.更何況我們是神的兒女,背後有很多的支持.
當然有時也有軟弱的地方,我會旦白同神說.但心裡有平安.明日去看中醫,不知如何?希望5月倒可以再努力.
昨日去西醫覆診,照到兩邊的卵巢也大,醫生說可能一個是之前懷孕時脹大,現在未縮小,另一個有可能是準備製造卵子.但這是可能,她建議我在三個月後或打算要bb再檢查。希望沒有事!


子爵府

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發表於 06-11-23 10:55 |只看該作者

Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

doll_fish及各位姊妹,

我不覺得自己很堅強, 只是每個人的人生總會有福有禍的, 我覺得我其他生活各樣的東西都合意, 目前只是生育那方面困難的, 聖經有提及"主未曾應許天色常藍" 即是不會天天好天! 那我會想我足與不足之處, 總算比上不足比下有余了!

姊妹人生就是有起跌先有回憶, 如果你各方面都很好, 那就沒法把世界看得完全透徹, 所以在困難之處, 要回想自己有好的一面, 生活會有意義些, 而且痛苦會快點過, 這些都是我所經驗過的.. :lol:
以馬內利, 神與我們同在! :-D  :-D


大宅

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發表於 06-11-23 11:58 |只看該作者

Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

manwah,

我認同你的想法。
多欣賞自己好的方面, 做人都會開心些, 痛苦真的會易過些。
囝囝的blog : http://lhc1128.blogspot.com/


複式洋房

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發表於 06-11-23 13:09 |只看該作者

Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

Manwah, thank you for support to us!! You are very positive and strong! I hope your 2 iui will be successful!!

how do you know 全身97%的染色体是正常? Is there test to check?

I terminated pregnancy because baby proved to have down syndrome, but doctor said nothing it's not 本身染色体的問題.


別墅

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發表於 06-11-23 14:34 |只看該作者

Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

各位姊妹:
我想問你們小產後去西醫覆診,有沒有照超聲波?照的時候有沒有照卵巢?
昨日去覆診,照到兩邊卵巢也大,醫生說可能一邊準備製造卵子,另一是可能之前排出卵後成孕,而懷孕時是會大,現在小手術後未回復.她建議我如想有bb再檢查.如3個月後.
你們有沒有聽過或試過有這情況。


複式洋房

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211#
發表於 06-11-23 14:51 |只看該作者

Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

NaughtyLuiLui,

我個中醫話體質係會有變化的,今日燥熱,要戎某d食物,唔代表永遠都係...俾佢激c:evil: so...我到而家都唔知自己係咩底law, 佢亦未曾講出我有什麼問題存在,只係成日話d藥可以幫到我調理,會好訓d,but ~~~睇左佢3個wk,都係訓得不是太好,出院以來晚晚都發夢同半夜"扎醒",好慘:-(

所以我打算星期六同埋老公一齊去試下睇"吉叔",睇下夾唔夾law.....

NaughtyLuiLui 寫道:
MUJIMUJI,

你係唔係比較熱低架?
其實我一直身體都係陰虛火旺,好易喉嚨痛,但自己睇左中醫之後,體質好似改變左,冇甘怕熱氣,食燥熱野都ok,所以而家甘補都冇問題.醫師話我遲d可以食人參tim(以前唔食得,一食就流鼻血),而家都冇問題.

你同先生去check dna都好,起碼知過明白有冇關係.重有,你不如check下你兩公婆生活上會唔會有好多污染因素存在,可以o既話去避免下或改善下可能有幫助.


子爵府

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發表於 06-11-23 15:22 |只看該作者

Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

sanmama,

正常人都會生down syndrome的, 可能你沒染色体問題, 我的是turner's syndrome較少見的, 你不用担心啦
以馬內利, 神與我們同在! :-D  :-D


大宅

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發表於 06-11-23 19:34 |只看該作者

Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

hi! all,

very touching msg! This is the 3rd time of my pregnant. The 1st time in 2001, I've terminated pregancy because my husband and me is not ready for a baby (at that time we still haven't get married).

I have the 2nd BB on Nov 2004. I was not aware I was pregnant until one day I felt stong abdonminal pain and go to the emergency board. They said I was preganat but can't see anything in ultrasound. I stayed in the hospital for 5 days and the doctor confirmed I miscarriged and had to do operation.

After many attempts, I found pregant again on 21/10/2006. I was so excited and I told myself this time the god will give me a baby!! I've been extemely careful and hope he/she can be okay! on 8/11, I went to see a doctor and he said can see the heartbreak but very slow. I was a little bit worried at that time. 15/11, I went to the doctor again and the BB size is growing with fast heartbreak. I felt so exctied again and think that this baby should be okay! Because I want to make sure I'm okay! I consult another doctor again on 20/11 but he said he can't see the heartbreak!I was very surprised and told myself it was the doctor's problem, not mine! Therefore, I went back to the first docttor who I visited on 15/11 at the same day. He confirmed the BB didn't grow anymore and wrote me recommendation letter to the hospital. I hasn't cry when the doctor told me and I felt very calm at that night too, it seems that I don't have any tear to cry. I went to bed at 11:00p.m. but until 3a.m, I woke up, I suddenly felt very very lost! I started to cry and cry.... my husband comfort me but I saw he cried too!!

I went to PMH on 21/11 and have operation at the same day! Whenever, I touch any topic about BB, I can't help my tears to come out!!!

It seems like dreaming and I always blaming why the baby has come but has gone?

I was totally losing confidence and don't want to see any ppl except my husband!

I have some friends are pregnant also and I feel don't want to talk to them anymore! I feel very inferior!!

Besides, I'm really afraid that my chance to succeed next time is getting smaller and smaller.

I really want a baby in my family!!



:-( :-( :-( :-( :-( :-( :-( :-(


大宅

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發表於 06-11-23 20:55 |只看該作者

Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

cherrychris,
我們明白你的感受,請容許自己喊,接受自己不開心!但,請記住小產不是你的錯,不要怪責自己!
如果你暫時不想見朋友,便暫時不要見吧! 因為今天也只是你發生事件後的第三天, 不要強迫自己去見朋友。待平伏心情才算吧!不過, 我希望你可以慢慢將你此事與你的好友傾,因為你不能屈在心裡!我們會擔心你的。
至於將來能否有bb, 我們暫時不要諗吧! 你現在除左平伏心情外, 也要調理自己身體呢!
請多與我們傾, 我們會支持你的, 因為我們都經歷過。
囝囝的blog : http://lhc1128.blogspot.com/


複式洋房

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215#
發表於 06-11-23 21:04 |只看該作者

Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

cherrychris,

我們這裡每一個人也很明白你,we share your tears!
我第一次知道bb可能已唔得,我也是甚麼人也不想見,電話不想聽,媽媽的電話也不聽。這是正常的。

要哭便哭吧,抱著你的丈夫哭吧。

我的經驗是,當你把自己的感受,說出來、寫出來,會好一點的,我以「寫作治療」走過這段路。如果有些甚麼,你覺得可以為失去的孩子做的,可以嘗試。我與丈夫曾在家中做了一個小小的追思會,讀經、唱詩、祈禱,寫心意咭,然後我們兩人抱頭痛哭。我會為你,及這裡每一位祈禱。

http://blog.yam.com/littlesand_sea
cherrychris 寫道:
hi! all,

very touching msg! This is the 3rd time of my pregnant. The 1st time in 2001, I've terminated pregancy because my husband and me is not ready for a baby (at that time we still haven't get married).

I have the 2nd BB on Nov 2004. I was not aware I was pregnant until one day I felt stong abdonminal pain and go to the emergency board. They said I was preganat but can't see anything in ultrasound. I stayed in the hospital for 5 days and the doctor confirmed I miscarriged and had to do operation.

After many attempts, I found pregant again on 21/10/2006. I was so excited and I told myself this time the god will give me a baby!! I've been extemely careful and hope he/she can be okay! on 8/11, I went to see a doctor and he said can see the heartbreak but very slow. I was a little bit worried at that time. 15/11, I went to the doctor again and the BB size is growing with fast heartbreak. I felt so exctied again and think that this baby should be okay! Because I want to make sure I'm okay! I consult another doctor again on 20/11 but he said he can't see the heartbreak!I was very surprised and told myself it was the doctor's problem, not mine! Therefore, I went back to the first docttor who I visited on 15/11 at the same day. He confirmed the BB didn't grow anymore and wrote me recommendation letter to the hospital. I hasn't cry when the doctor told me and I felt very calm at that night too, it seems that I don't have any tear to cry. I went to bed at 11:00p.m. but until 3a.m, I woke up, I suddenly felt very very lost! I started to cry and cry.... my husband comfort me but I saw he cried too!!

I went to PMH on 21/11 and have operation at the same day! Whenever, I touch any topic about BB, I can't help my tears to come out!!!

It seems like dreaming and I always blaming why the baby has come but has gone?

I was totally losing confidence and don't want to see any ppl except my husband!

I have some friends are pregnant also and I feel don't want to talk to them anymore! I feel very inferior!!

Besides, I'm really afraid that my chance to succeed next time is getting smaller and smaller.

I really want a baby in my family!!



:-( :-( :-( :-( :-( :-( :-( :-(


複式洋房

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發表於 06-11-23 22:45 |只看該作者

Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

cherrychris,

我都曾經"身同感受" 3次失去期待己久既寶貝,現階段,無野緊要得過自己身體,你要多d休閒,可以的話,放耐一點假先返工,待心情平伏一點之後先再作其他打算....例如...要唔要check下dna之類等test....

有咩唔開心....真係要講出來的, 如真的不想與友人分享....就上來同我地傾啦...大家都願意為你分擔的...

你一定要加油呀


複式洋房

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發表於 06-11-24 00:18 |只看該作者

Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

cherrychris:

I want to have baby in my family too. Don't be sad and give up. All our BK sisters will support you.

我05年因bb有先天性心臟缺憾, 在13weeks 時要做中止懷孕......, 回想當時要踏入病房一刻. 眼淚都不受控地流出. 我bb 當時仍有心跳, 但我要親自將她送走......, 但我知道, 冒險繼續懷孕只會令她好辛苦. 她的心臟己出現一個洞.
當時我身邊有超過6個與我同期懷孕的親人及朋友. 見到他/她們健康的出生又開心又痛心(回想我自己的bb).
今日, 我仍每個月努力等待我第2個小bb的來臨. 雖然尚未成功. 但我會努力面對. 就算不可如願, 我都會接受.
我們每人背后都各有一個經歷. 多與我們儘吐心聲吧. 不要埋藏傷心事. :lol: :lol:


大宅

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發表於 06-11-24 01:02 |只看該作者

Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

對, 講多d出黎同人分享真係有用。

其實, 我諗起我小產前一個鐘, o個陣時有陣痛, 咁醫生同我check, 已經開左1度, 但個胎重有心跳... 但我又知道保唔住個bb... o個陣時實在太痛, 護士講返比我聽, o個陣時個樣痛到面青口唇白, 所以o個陣時唔識諗咁多... 而家有時諗返, 個心都會痛, 因為成日都會諗, 個胎重有心跳...

但, 我明白我要做的已經做了, 所以要面對不開心, 我而家希望過幾個月後, 血報告無問題後, 我會有好消息, 亦希望呢度既姊妹都會有好消息!
囝囝的blog : http://lhc1128.blogspot.com/


大宅

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219#
發表於 06-11-24 08:40 |只看該作者

Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

多謝大家的關心,呢種心情真係未經歷過唔會明白!
而家最怕的係如果再有左,又係吟,真係無法承受果種創傷!
有時侯又不禁想起如果BB仲係我個肚度,今日會點呢?

e生話唔使檢驗,呢D仲未係慣性流產,但如果我真係想驗,可以驗什麼,去邊度驗?

真的希望大家都可如願已嘗!


複式洋房

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220#
發表於 06-11-24 15:13 |只看該作者

Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

cherrychris,

無錯!有過同樣既經靂同感受,先明白的。

其實我都將來懷孕存有陰影的,但又不我不承認,我同老公係十分十分想要一個bb的,只要一個,都萬分滿足。

所以,我同老公唯有努力去面對,盡量找出原因,我12月尾會去將軍澳醫院睇婦科,到時,會睇下佢地會點樣幫我,如果佢地唔幫我同老公做詳細dna檢查的話,我地就會遲下去私家醫生度做, 仲有....趁呢一年...我會再比心機d調理好個身體,之前都調理了半年~~~半年唔得我調理夠一年,總之~~~我一定要盡我最大既努力,你都要俾心機呀 !


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