Manwah 寫道:
DOLL_FISH,
我由那個TOPIC "神我何時能承受產業"已經見到你的, 那時你有了BB, 看到很高興, 到今天的你.....
其實可能我是你們當中最有經驗的, 我試過7W小產, 又試過9W小產, 最後那次是24W也是最最傷的一次(身, 心也傷), 你們經歷的我都試過了, 也試過在第二次小產入院因手術做得不好入2次醫院(前後住近2星期醫院)!
事實第3次小產(2001年9月4日)到今天我都沒法忘記, 這是應該的, 因為那是個痛苦的經歷, 相信沒有一個媽媽想經歷呢!但我們跟我們的BB也共同努力過, 這是真的!
直到最近2006年6月做第一次IVF, 都是失敗, 那時我真對所有的都沒希望了, 但今天我正在做第2次IVF, 但我將所有的都祈禱求神叫我放手, 讓神掌管一切!
但我在這些經歷上真是學到些東西, 神讓我明白我的不足, 及我要改善的地方, 可能真是要讓主去教導我們怎去行我們的路
願主保守每個曾受苦難的姊妹, 我也為你們祈禱
NaughtyLuiLui 寫道:
MUJIMUJI,
你係唔係比較熱低架?
其實我一直身體都係陰虛火旺,好易喉嚨痛,但自己睇左中醫之後,體質好似改變左,冇甘怕熱氣,食燥熱野都ok,所以而家甘補都冇問題.醫師話我遲d可以食人參tim(以前唔食得,一食就流鼻血),而家都冇問題.
你同先生去check dna都好,起碼知過明白有冇關係.重有,你不如check下你兩公婆生活上會唔會有好多污染因素存在,可以o既話去避免下或改善下可能有幫助.
cherrychris 寫道:
hi! all,
very touching msg! This is the 3rd time of my pregnant. The 1st time in 2001, I've terminated pregancy because my husband and me is not ready for a baby (at that time we still haven't get married).
I have the 2nd BB on Nov 2004. I was not aware I was pregnant until one day I felt stong abdonminal pain and go to the emergency board. They said I was preganat but can't see anything in ultrasound. I stayed in the hospital for 5 days and the doctor confirmed I miscarriged and had to do operation.
After many attempts, I found pregant again on 21/10/2006. I was so excited and I told myself this time the god will give me a baby!! I've been extemely careful and hope he/she can be okay! on 8/11, I went to see a doctor and he said can see the heartbreak but very slow. I was a little bit worried at that time. 15/11, I went to the doctor again and the BB size is growing with fast heartbreak. I felt so exctied again and think that this baby should be okay! Because I want to make sure I'm okay! I consult another doctor again on 20/11 but he said he can't see the heartbreak!I was very surprised and told myself it was the doctor's problem, not mine! Therefore, I went back to the first docttor who I visited on 15/11 at the same day. He confirmed the BB didn't grow anymore and wrote me recommendation letter to the hospital. I hasn't cry when the doctor told me and I felt very calm at that night too, it seems that I don't have any tear to cry. I went to bed at 11:00p.m. but until 3a.m, I woke up, I suddenly felt very very lost! I started to cry and cry.... my husband comfort me but I saw he cried too!!
I went to PMH on 21/11 and have operation at the same day! Whenever, I touch any topic about BB, I can't help my tears to come out!!!
It seems like dreaming and I always blaming why the baby has come but has gone?
I was totally losing confidence and don't want to see any ppl except my husband!
I have some friends are pregnant also and I feel don't want to talk to them anymore! I feel very inferior!!
Besides, I'm really afraid that my chance to succeed next time is getting smaller and smaller.
I really want a baby in my family!!
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