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sister,

Maybe Dong Dong's health makes you harder.....

Many things in life can't be caculated/measured ga! For me, I believe "companionship" & "learning among siblings" is "No Price".
I'm willing to bear for their best interest eventhough we're busier and tired. I'm very happy to grow with 2H, it's the gift from God! I think you too, coz. we're mother!!

原帖由 bbpooh 於 09-2-16 13:40 發表

其實噹噹出世後，我地好開心，但係如果你要我返轉頭，再揀生唔生第二個，我答唔到你！

因為有家有兩個小朋友，所有的事比相像中辛苦和吃力。雖然現在過得開心，但總覺得如果只得丁丁一個，對丁丁的裁培各方面會較現在好，生活也會變 ...

God is here with us! ^ ^

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講真, 我地而家真係好輕鬆ga, 生活模式同經濟上都係, 想去街就去街, 想買嘢就買嘢, 好free.

原帖由 bbpooh 於 09-2-16 13:40 發表
因為有家有兩個小朋友，所有的事比相像中辛苦和吃力。雖然現在過得開心，但總覺得如果只得丁丁一個，對丁丁的裁培各方面會較現在好，生活也會變得更較鬆。

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發表於 09-2-16 14:13 |只看該作者

Yeah. I would pray for the consent between the 2 of you, and we hope that both of you will have no regrets later in life. We will support you no matter which road you decide.

原帖由 onyeebb 於 09-2-16 14:00 發表
係呀, 我都有尋求神既旨意同帶領, 交托給神!

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發表於 09-2-16 14:15 |只看該作者

Yes I agree. The companionship is irreplaceable. it is definitely more work than anticipated, but i think it is worth it. A few years from now, when the 2nd kid is as old as our eldest, we will all look back and laugh!

原帖由 honey2h 於 09-2-16 14:11 發表
sister,

Maybe Dong Dong's health makes you harder.....

Many things in life can't be caculated/measured ga! For me, I believe "companionship" & "learning among siblings" is "No Price".
I'm willing t ...

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I can feel it whenever we go out for entertainment with Hayes only!

原帖由 onyeebb 於 09-2-16 14:11 發表
講真, 我地而家真係好輕鬆ga, 生活模式同經濟上都係, 想去街就去街, 想買嘢就買嘢, 好free.

God is here with us! ^ ^

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原帖由 honey2h 於 09-2-16 14:11 發表
sister,

Maybe Dong Dong's health makes you harder.....

Many things in life can't be caculated/measured ga! For me, I believe "companionship" & "learning among siblings" is "No Price".
I'm willing t ...

唔。。。。。。可能噹噹的身體係其中個問題，當然我深知噹噹是神所賜，他是祈禱後得來的，我現在也沒後悔有他，所以我先前說有了噹噹，我們都很高興。

只不過有了兩個小朋友，在好多方面要有好多的考慮，有好處其實也有壞處。我覺得我時間不足，覺得精力不足，好多不足。。。。。。

歡迎來看丁噹的成長點滴

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原帖由 belu 於 09-2-16 13:07 發表
cyn姐，

星期六我地係圖書館見到呀，深彥睇書好專心，好乖呀!

我知呀, 爹爹仲冇記倒問琛彥有冇個同學叫恩恩喎....

琛彥個個星期六放學都要上去圖書館先肯返屋企, 佢學校起圖書館樓下.

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我都係呢個原因想生多個, 唔生好似對安兒唔住

原帖由 honey2h 於 09-2-16 14:11 發表
For me, I believe "companionship" & "learning among siblings" is "No Price".

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FSY,

recall me that "Life must go on!"

環境似乎又唔容許? See if you can adjust living standard & sibling for Tsz Chun is your pirority lar?! My friend resigned job to give birth 2n. BB, living standard is adjusted but with super happy family life! Kids enjoyed with companionship too...

原帖由 fsy 於 09-2-16 13:44 發表
呢啲嘢真係好講天時地利人和, 我哋咪又係咁. 前兩年經濟許可, 但又唔想生住, 而家好想搵個細佬/妹比子進, 但咁既環境似乎又唔容許. 不過有時諗, 如果真係前兩年已生第二個, 而家又會點呢?

一切自有安排, 大家放鬆 ...

God is here with us! ^ ^

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原帖由 bbpooh 於 09-2-16 13:26 發表

其實餵人奶要兩個人的配合，老仙你係個人問題而奶量少，我呢？都想放棄！因為噹噹成日唔肯飲樽！我都唔知為乜！每天見到姐姐餵奶餵到無晒心機，噹噹就勢C反抗，我真係唔知為咩？

昨天我又掉左6包冰奶，呢D係我上次出差去北京時泵的，基 ...

妳仲有丁丁做妳 super 粉絲, 點解要掉呀, 唔比丁丁飲????

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多謝你! 好感動呀

原帖由 ivyscyip 於 09-2-16 14:13 發表
Yeah. I would pray for the consent between the 2 of you, and we hope that both of you will have no regrets later in life. We will support you no matter which road you decide.

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發表於 09-2-16 14:28 |只看該作者

Yeah...I agree with that. I often feel that I do not have enough time or energy for the both of them, which results in me having very low EQ. Sometimes when I go home, I have to take a few deep breaths before I walk in the door. I am happy to see the kids, but I know that it will be a challenge on both my physical and mental strengths.

原帖由 bbpooh 於 09-2-16 14:22 發表

只不過有了兩個小朋友，在好多方面要有好多的考慮，有好處其實也有壞處。我覺得我時間不足，覺得精力不足，好多不足。。。。。。

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原帖由 honey2h 於 09-2-16 14:26 發表
FSY,

recall me that "Life must go on!"

環境似乎又唔容許? See if you can adjust living standard & sibling for Tsz Chun is your pirority lar?! My friend resigned job to give birth 2n. BB, living stand ...

二個人既駛費始終比一個人多嘛, 而家我家得一個人搵錢, 雖然話慳啲駛都夠糊口, 但為咗 no. 2 而要減 no. 1 既開支, 又好似好唔公平咁.

學安兒媽話齋, 我哋而家都尚算輕鬆呢.

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發表於 09-2-16 14:34 |只看該作者

你地提醒咗我一樣嘢, 雖然我可能唔會後悔(如果唔睇不育科), 但我都要為安兒爸諗, 如果唔試, 佢可能會後悔, 我諗我知應該點做.

原帖由 tingfai 於 09-2-16 14:09 發表
Totally agreed with 2hma!

For me, if I have the $$ and time, I think I will go for a try... no one know the result and of course there is no guarantee for the successful rate ...but as least u have t ...

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