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發表於 09-2-16 15:33 |只看該作者

Will u consider to leave the decision to the God and just take action this year?? As he will arrange everthing for your family, he will decide whether u will got it successfully!
May be Tsz Chun pa will find the job just at the moment u got pregnant.

(BTW, i am not a 教徒)

原帖由 fsy 於 09-2-16 15:21 發表

其實子進爸都有講過, 只佢一搵到 stable 既工, 我哋就會開工. 但今時今日咁既時勢, 要搵工都幾難呢. 年紀相距都幾考慮因素, 原來兩個年紀相差太大, 第時細果個有可能變成大果個既負擔, 好似變成弄巧反拙咁. 而我, ...

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原帖由 tingfai 於 09-2-16 15:33 發表
Will u consider to leave the decision to the God and just take action this year?? As he will arrange everthing for your family, he will decide whether u will got it successfully!
May be Tsz Chun pa w ...

我真係有咁諗過, 不過覺得好似好冒險....

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發表於 09-2-16 15:42 |只看該作者

If I were a 教徒, I guess I will "talk" to the God and obtain his answer from the bible or from the pray.

haha, sometimes I feel I have very good potential to be a 教徒.

Risky?? But u are not 2hma ar, won in every shot every time!
It takes time ga.

原帖由 fsy 於 09-2-16 15:36 發表

我真係有咁諗過, 不過覺得好似好冒險....

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發表於 09-2-16 15:51 |只看該作者

While I am not a 教徒, so I think i will work out the budget first. I will work out whether I could afford it if I have the second child. BTW, it won't spend very much in the first two years especially if we feed them with mama milk. U could reduce it further if u use cloth nappy.

That's all together u have 10 month pregnancy + 2 years time for Tsz Chun pa to find a job.
If both Tsz Chun Pa and you agree to have the second child, I think u can take action now.

原帖由 tingfai 於 09-2-16 15:42 發表
If I were a 教徒, I guess I will "talk" to the God and obtain his answer from the bible or from the pray.

haha, sometimes I feel I have very good potential to be a 教徒.

Risky?? But u are not 2 ...

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發表於 09-2-16 15:51 |只看該作者

Life is an adventure that I can trust God to go....

A surprise(No.2) may be waiting for you!!

原帖由 fsy 於 09-2-16 15:36 發表

我真係有咁諗過, 不過覺得好似好冒險....

God is here with us! ^ ^

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發表於 09-2-16 15:55 |只看該作者

number guy tingfai,
such a Very good measure!!!

FSY,
Go ahead! If you're pregnant in one time tonight

....Tsz Chun'll already be more than 4 years old lar!!

原帖由 tingfai 於 09-2-16 15:51 發表
That's all together u have 10 month pregnancy + 2 years time for Tsz Chun pa to find a job.
If both Tsz Chun Pa and you agree to have the second child, I think u can take action now.

God is here with us! ^ ^

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發表於 09-2-16 16:06 |只看該作者

原帖由 tingfai 於 09-2-16 15:51 發表
While I am not a 教徒, so I think i will work out the budget first. I will work out whether I could afford it if I have the second child. BTW, it won't spend very much in the first two years especia ...

真係比你既分析笑 c 我!

雖然話有咁長時間比子進爸搵工, 但當中既壓力一個大肚婆未必咁易承受得起喎...

如果我高薪厚職, 當然唔駛諗咁多啦, 但我呢啲小腳色, 搵得果雞碎咁多, 要養一家六口 (+工人+婆婆), 真係有啲難度喎. 最好就係快啲中六合彩.... 發夢無咁早...

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發表於 09-2-16 16:14 |只看該作者

原帖由 fsy 於 09-2-16 16:06 發表

真係比你既分析笑 c 我!

雖然話有咁長時間比子進爸搵工, 但當中既壓力一個大肚婆未必咁易承受得起喎...

如果我高薪厚職, 當然唔駛諗咁多啦, 但我呢啲小腳色, 搵得果雞碎咁多, 要養一家六口 (+ ...

不過如果你今日即有左，你起碼有1年時間唔怕公司炒你囉！

歡迎來看丁噹的成長點滴

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原帖由 bbpooh 於 09-2-16 16:14 發表

不過如果你今日即有左，你起碼有1年時間唔怕公司炒你囉！

老老實實, 我又真係唔驚公司會炒我喎, 點都仲會有人墊底啩....

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原帖由 fsy 於 09-2-16 16:16 發表

老老實實, 我又真係唔驚公司會炒我喎, 點都仲會有人墊底啩....

既然係咁，你都無咩經濟壓力啫!

歡迎來看丁噹的成長點滴

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原帖由 bbpooh 於 09-2-16 16:22 發表

既然係咁，你都無咩經濟壓力啫!

我意思係, 我一個人賺既錢唔夠養兩個細路呀! 如果真係中咗, 而子進爸一直都搵唔到工, 前路茫茫, 你話大唔大壓力吖? 比著係你, 你敢唔敢搏?

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發表於 09-2-16 16:27 |只看該作者

係囉, 如果妳同子進爸都其實心想要 no.2, 就即管去馬試吓啦, 話曬依啲嘢唔係妳想要就一定要, 仲要睇妳哋一家人嘅緣份.

原帖由 bbpooh 於 09-2-16 16:22 發表

既然係咁，你都無咩經濟壓力啫!

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發表於 09-2-16 16:31 |只看該作者

That's one of the reasons why i insist to have at least two kids.
They can talk and share with each others when their parents have problem.
No need for one to suffer all the burden....

原帖由 fsy 於 09-2-16 16:06 發表

要養一家六口 (+工人+婆婆), 真係有啲難度喎.

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發表於 09-2-16 16:32 |只看該作者

剛才睇CAM

噹噹唔肯食奶，姐姐要用針管餵佢，你話為咩？？

歡迎來看丁噹的成長點滴

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發表於 09-2-16 16:33 |只看該作者

妳唔記得咩? 必要時, 妳可以叫子進爸改行做導遊, ok 㗎

話時話, 妳同子進爸依兩日點? 妳采番佢未?

丁媽,

成功 la, 真係好似妳話齋, 㩒吓㩒吓就得

不過吓吓要㩒都幾煩, 同埋啲圖好似細咗啲, 睇到我眼都矇

原帖由 fsy 於 09-2-16 16:25 發表

我意思係, 我一個人賺既錢唔夠養兩個細路呀! 如果真係中咗, 而子進爸一直都搵唔到工, 前路茫茫, 你話大唔大壓力吖? 比著係你, 你敢唔敢搏?

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發表於 09-2-16 16:34 |只看該作者

我都係, 唔想第日晴晴有咩事要獨力承擔.

原帖由 tingfai 於 09-2-16 16:31 發表
That's one of the reasons why i insist to have at least two kids.
They can talk and share with each others when their parents have problem.
No need for one to suffer all the burden....

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發表於 09-2-16 16:39 |只看該作者

You never know the future/definite answer and then make decision bor, God lead our future ga ma, right?!

For those uncountable 如果 assumptions make u more hesitated to go, but "time never wait people" ga...

原帖由 fsy 於 09-2-16 16:25 發表

我意思係, 我一個人賺既錢唔夠養兩個細路呀! 如果真係中咗, 而子進爸一直都搵唔到工, 前路茫茫, 你話大唔大壓力吖? 比著係你, 你敢唔敢搏?

God is here with us! ^ ^

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發表於 09-2-16 16:39 |只看該作者

U know both of my hubby and I come from big family.
When my parents or parents-in-law have problem (illness or others), we siblings will talk and share! Very warm ga!

原帖由 nan_nan 於 09-2-16 16:34 發表
我都係, 唔想第日晴晴有咩事要獨力承擔.

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發表於 09-2-16 16:40 |只看該作者

原帖由 tingfai 於 09-2-16 16:31 發表
That's one of the reasons why i insist to have at least two kids.
They can talk and share with each others when their parents have problem.
No need for one to suffer all the burden....

我想生多個好大原因都係咁, 呢兩年經歷咁多嘢, 真係多個兄弟姐妹差好遠.

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