原文章由 Nillie_Mami 於 08-3-31 23:04 發表
Alisonli,
but it is a 9-5 (Mon-Fri) job, and 1 weekend each month... Ying EE said that is better for me, as I have so much trouble with Hayfever, I shouldn't work at night.
we had a nanny for a long while (before I gave birth to Gabriel, she is the one who takes care of me even when I sit moon) but when Gabriel's 8months old, she diagnosed with breast cancer, then she has her surgery and chemotherapy. we gave her extra 2 months (back to china) to help her recover.. and last week, she came back to NYC, and now.. she is here.. (we picked her up last night).
I still have a week off, so Gabriel can get used to Ying EE again.
from next week, I will go for my new job orientation.
the offer of this job is good.. if there is no problem.. I will work for them at least 3 years to save the experience (then I can take a specalist exam again.. to make my salary even higher).
babygigi,
same here.. worry free.. is very cool.
I don't want Gabriel to suffer from infection and end up to have this procedure under GA (全身麻醉).
I would say.. boys are too active, and I don't believe that I can grab his penis to wash inside the foreskin when he takes a shower everyday.. once they reach 3-4 years old, they won't let you to touch them (and my experience at day care, highest infection rate will start from 3-4 years old in class).
原文章由 babygigi 於 08-3-31 11:59 AM 發表
我兩個仔仔都係出世就割左﹐一個禮拜左右就好灑﹐無後顧之憂呢
Nillie,
I feel terrible & guilty for making alvin going through another surgery again, his foreskin is now grow with the penis cuz we weren't told that we have to pull the foreskin often after having it done..my current pedi said we have to wait till alvin is big enough to do another surgery to fix it..is it true that he could have LA instead of GA when he has it done later in life? i hope he wont blame us for putting him through this when he grows up......
Alisonli,
for Kids, definately for GA only, because they can't cooperate with the surg.
we put the foreskin back after the site healed. until we see the ring or we call the 成個"kwai"頭.. that was told by OB and peds..so, Gabriel's one is ok..
but he may need a surgery like Alvin.. (but another surgery, to correct the 尿道口位置, otherwise, he may always pee at the side.. and wet himself.
原文章由 ALISONLI 於 08-3-31 02:40 PM 發表
Nillie,
I feel terrible & guilty for making alvin going through another surgery again, his foreskin is now grow with the penis cuz we weren't told that we have to pull the foreskin often after having ...
Nillie,
dr pang didnt tell us to retract the foreskin after the surgery..glad that he's retired.....hopefully alvin could have the surgery done when he's old enough to go under LA...r u waiting for gabriel to grow up to see if he needs that surgery? i cant stand having my kids go under GA....
good to hear that ying ee is coming back..so fat bear can join the workforce again ! no more nite shift is good for u la, u could spend more quality time with ur husband and the kids. if u have result from the G&T let me know. i havent got anything back...
原文章由 Nillie_Mami 於 08-4-1 03:50 發表
Alisonli,
for Kids, definately for GA only, because they can't cooperate with the surg.
we put the foreskin back after the site healed. until we see the ring or we call the 成個"kwai"頭.. that was to ...
Alisonli,
we need to bring Gabriel continue for follow up at urologist clinic..
the doctor said that, we need to keep an eye on it.
I am worrying if he really needs a surgery as well
原文章由 ALISONLI 於 08-3-31 03:10 PM 發表
Nillie,
dr pang didnt tell us to retract the foreskin after the surgery..glad that he's retired.....hopefully alvin could have the surgery done when he's old enough to go under LA...r u waiting for ga ...
BabyRnC,
now I got both of them.. I would said.. boy and girl are the same..
girl.. if you don't clean their genital area, they will suffer from all kinds of infection as well.. especially after bowel movement.. because of the E-coil.. UTI, vaginal infection also occur in infant girls as well..
boys.. if they are not circ. may easy to have UTI, and all infection of the renal system because all bacterial trap inside the foreskin and bacterial "swim" back up to urinary bladder then cause lots of trouble. we got baby boy here, suffered from it months ago. The way to prevent infection is.. to gentle clean the foreskin every time you change diaper, once they growth older.. then you need to pull back his foreskin and clean for them.. but if the foreskin is really long, peds will suggest you to have circ. anyway, because it will cause trouble when he pee and will lower his self esteem by wetting the pant every time after pee.
haha..same here BabyRnC,
Amanda is 100% daddy's girl since she's born.
Gabriel sticks with his daddy as well.
I guess.. may be because daddy goes to work.. and they always stay with mom.. so they miss daddy.
that is good somehow.. because daddy is role model as well.. they learn how to be tough and independent from father model, they learn how to do fine thing and care for other from mother model.
Amanda says baba when she was 4.5 months old, and she starts calling me when she was 21months old.. does she know how to say mama? she knows! she calls her grandma when she was 6 months old
for me.. that is fine. as they have preference.. it is very important, your husband better be the angel for her and you run the discipline at home.. as she relies on daddy.
Nillie,
Can the baby take Claritin? And pedi prescribed that to him because Ivan has bronchitis now.Poor baby, it is second time he got the same desease. All is my fault.
BabyRnc,
Congratulation! one boy one girl is a good thing. I also want to a baby girl because my first baby is a boy. My boy did the circumcision too. Just want him to clean up easily by himself. If he do it when he get older, he will have a painful memory.