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songsongyeah 發表於 11-5-1 00:52
所以呢,驗到個幾個朋友仔呀,你地宜家就諗下坐月個時係家人幫你定請陪月,如果係請陪月,宜家就拎定contact,照 ...

你唔好甘激動la, 有個陪月幫你咪好lor, 始終都係孖, 到時冇甘辛苦ar ma, 你自己生完都要休息多d la.....

不過你唔講, 都唔知d陪月甘搶手, 我同老公都有諗過請個陪月, 因為e生之前驗血話好大機會係孖, 如果真係兩個, 我都好驚我到時拿手唔成, 不過而家又未到照閃閃, 好似未confirm甘, e院都未book, 甘快就要問陪月...........不過我都想問係咪即係一照到閃閃就要即刻book ga la?? 定係而家都要問定先?? 你可唔可以pm d 資料俾我ar....唔該!!

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各位,

其實我原本個plan呢,係6-7月就搵工人,咁等佢2-3個月(即是我生前1-2個月到啦),咁到生左,我已經問定我個有陪月媽咪既fd,佢媽咪可以因應我個情況話比我知要食咩,咁我就叫媽咪整
至於洗野,食物要洗要切,其他家務,我都會叫工人做,咁媽咪真係煮野食同有時幫我湊下bb囉,我打算盡量自己做既

所以媽咪都話好架,冇啦啦尋日又話薑醋都唔煲,呢個我唔expect唔include係照顧我既範圍裡面,所以唔好煩,搵陪月囉
我知宜家有陪月,係可以加錢要陪月煲定薑醋比我既,不過我老公話問下99會唔會煲先喎,99宜家係canada,6月中先返黎hk,件事就係咁囉

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lovebb123 發表於 11-5-1 01:51
Songsongyeah : 唔該晒你報料，唔係我都唔知陪月都咁搶手，我仲諗緊請唔請好，奶奶連煮飯湊b都唔識，上胎同 ...

首先你老公如果要接女返學放學,時間上係唔係真係得先?如果你地信唔過工人,真係唔好比佢湊出街,到時你生左,一定擔心死你呀

如果你個case,請陪月好似好d,至少都可以同bb沖涼,咁你老公就同大女沖囉
佢要返工,始終都唔可以太辛苦架,同埋睇下陪月可唔可以train下工人,坐完月之後工人都識煮d你啱食既野,但如果陪月餐,就好似好多bb野要你照顧,加埋大女,你都會好辛苦

我宜家個陪月,單b收13k,孖收16k,佢算好平,因為我有朋友宜家用緊o個個係單b都收16k
不過我呢個就返5日,一日8個鐘,我個朋友就係返6日,一日8個鐘囉

你再同老公商量下,如果要請,你宜家都要即搵,唔好拖,我自己會對朋友用過既有信心囉,唔想搵d機構同我搵,咁朋友用得,多數都係好多referral,所以full得好快

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denise333 發表於 11-5-1 01:51
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我以前m 緊都會去做針灸的,但因為呢次係做克ivf,我覺得d m 顏色有d唔正常,免得 ...

其實我估你真係有著過床,如果唔係你唔會用棒棒驗左兩次都有,不過可以好多原因令你miscarriage既,可能本身個胎唔夠健康,生長唔到,自然淘汰,又可能係你子宮support唔夠,比唔到足夠養份bb,又可能你之前太多擔心,太影響你既荷爾蒙,其實真係可以有好多原因架

不過你宜家流咁多血,真係唔樂觀,如果你想搞清楚,你可以搵個婦科問下,再check下囉

總之你之後都小心身體,同埋唔好比情緒影響你健康,好唔抵架~

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ADA88BB 發表於 11-5-1 05:48
原來那麼多人做ivf

大家好~我今年六月排定私家DR.陳~IVF

家人反對,都仲可以唔同佢地講
不過老公個方面真係好重要,你開始ivf前,再同你老公傾好去,要佢支持你先會成功,如果唔係,你成個過程都好辛苦架
同埋你打咁多藥係身,你情緒唔多唔少一定受藥影響,呢個時候,老公既support好緊要,如果唔係,你d壓力唔知點先可以放到出黎

如果你真係未傾點,我會suggest你遲多一兩個月先開始,settle左你老公對ivf既反感先啦

good luck呀!!!

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FlowerLee 發表於 11-5-1 08:34
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唔好火滾啦! 人地講要保持心境開朗, 如果唔係第日BB會成日哭架, 你重要孖, 要雙 ...

其實以我所知,宜家係有人癲到用棒棒check到就book陪月,連醫生都未睇就book架喇
所以我會覺得,你地宜家check到,就拎定心水陪月個contact,再係電話傾下個期同聽下啱唔啱傾先,再考慮埋佢返工時間同價錢
之後可以約大概兩星期後見面(即是你6w見到心跳左右,其實見到心跳先再約見面,我覺得係等我地自己心安d,好似真係見到bb成長緊先confirm咁囉,都唔一定話見到心跳先可以action既),再傾下d細節,咁如果覺得ok就問下個陪月要幾時比deposit,宜家都仲有部份陪月係會hold個期比你,不過等到你過左3個月stable左先比deposit都得,但個個陪月都唔一樣,呢樣要傾
如果你又真係好鐘意個陪月,咁傾好左就比deposit都冇問題既,deposit好似係比2-3k既

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songsongyeah 發表於 11-5-1 11:27
首先你老公如果要接女返學放學,時間上係唔係真係得先?如果你地信唔過工人,真係唔好比佢湊出街,到時你生左 ...

songsongyeah: 我唔知甘問係咪好低b tim....haha!! 因為真係咩都唔知.....

我想問16k係咪即係1個月16k?? 甘陪月係咪陪一個月, 定係陪幾耐?? 幾時開始陪ga??

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bigsugarbb 發表於 11-5-1 10:37
你唔好甘激動la, 有個陪月幫你咪好lor, 始終都係孖, 到時冇甘辛苦ar ma, 你自己生完都要休息多d la.....
...

咁你係唔係冇論一個定兩個都會請陪月呀?如果係,你都要搵定資料架喇
我一陣pm你

宜家初步同我個陪月傾,佢就問我會唔會有工人姐姐,如果會,佢一定會train埋工人湊bb同照顧我,咁我覺得好好喎,同埋佢叫我唔好介意,因為有兩個呢,佢初初都一定要train個姐姐去配合佢幫手照顧bb,佢唔可以一個人湊晒兩個
當bb作息時間調教好,咁佢一個湊兩個都得,我覺得佢都好reasonable,所以感覺佢真係唔錯

同埋佢聽到我係孖,佢好鬼開心,佢即刻話孖係好辛苦架,不過我接到係會好開心,聽得出佢真係鐘意bb囉
同埋我宜家係11月中edd嘛,佢宜家手頭有個10中edd既媽媽架,咁佢真係好多湊孖b經驗,所以揀佢囉

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bigsugarbb 發表於 11-5-1 11:49
songsongyeah: 我唔知甘問係咪好低b tim....haha!! 因為真係咩都唔知..... 我想問16k係咪即係1 ...

唔低b,如果唔係我好多朋友生過bb,我都唔識架

陪月係計4星期啦,有分一星期返5 or 6日,一日返6 or 8小時,不過宜家好少陪月肯做6小時架,因為唔夠時間用,煮唔切兩餐飯比你,所以多數都返8小時架喇

幾時開始陪,就係你出院個日就去你屋企計,做4個星期囉,如果佢一星期返5日工,就即是會返20日,如果一星期返6日,就即是會返24日
一般講幾錢,就係指大概呢20-24日既價錢,當然,你可以叫佢返足7日,都係加返錢比佢,同埋睇下陪月唔休息o唔ok囉

宜家約呢,大家都係用預產期約,如果個陪月好full,比如你上一個遲左生,你又早左生,佢會睇下係confirm左邊個先而決定幫邊個先既
比如你一早book左佢,之後中間先有人攝入,咁佢都會同你上一個講,如果你早生,佢上一個要早d完,你一生左佢就要幫你,但調返轉呢,如果係你上一個book先而你係後,可能佢會幫上一個足一個月先可以過黎幫你,咁你要問清楚,如果有呢個情況,陪月可唔可以夜晚過你屋企,教下你屋企人要點照顧你同埋整咩比你食,如果佢話唔到黎,又可唔可以電話傾住先
呢個情況多數都係疊住幾日姐

大致上係咁囉~

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songsongyeah,
我去表弟屋企見佢倍月姨姨幾好，佢都係朋友用過介紹比佢，你唔講我仲諗住自己定d起碼足三個月先問佢攞料約佢倍月。真係過多一個月扮幫朋友搵為理由問佢攞料先（費事咁早話比人知我XX)

Make a pregnancy ticker

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Thanks all for your comfort. Day 5 may be too earlier to conclude.

I have to pay for the medication cost for Gonal-F of course. I wanted it for free. But, why would the doctor give it to me for free? In fact, the doctor's wordings are not encourging. Maybe because I doubted them or sounded a bit of blaming them.

My 1st IVF + one FET (should not have done this FET as the thawing result was not good), I spent HKD75,000.

This 2nd cycle would be around HKD55,000 (i am not going to use full anthesitian).

Yes, it's costly. but money can be earned back in the future. I am prepared to spend HKD200,000 in this whole process (giving me three full cycle chance).

If this cycle does not work, I will change to another hospital/clinic for sure.

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I used traditional IVF last time as my hubba's sperms are fine.

But this time, I asked doctor to do ICSI.

I tried to use all methods that could help increase success rate - ICSI, assisted hatching.

Congrats to your and other JM's bingo. You're all are very blessed.

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songsongyeah 發表於 11-5-1 12:02
唔低b,如果唔係我好多朋友生過bb,我都唔識架

陪月係計4星期啦,有分一星期返5 or 6日,一日返6 or 8小時, ...

唔該哂你呀!!

其實我99就住得好近ge, 過馬路就係, 不過我地都咪問佢會唔會幫ga, 而且又未真係好confirm係孖, 都唔夠膽話俾佢知係孖住. 我之前都有同老公傾過, 就算佢肯幫, 都唔知攪唔攪得掂, 因為我都唔係太知佢識唔識, 不過如果真係孖b既話, 就好大機會攪唔掂......哈哈!! 因為佢應該都未必可以全日都係度, 都要返過去佢自己屋企到做下野, 煮下飯甘, 到時得番我一個係屋企個時, 兩個一齊哭, 都唔知抱得邊個.

我都要再同老公商量下先............

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IVF is quite safe (from my experience) and not very tough (at least I didn't experience any side-effects superficially from the medications).

Tell your hubba that women have timing for fertility. We have to grasp hold of the golden fertile period.
See IVF as a treatment to address some issues. Don't need to see it as something abnormal. That's what I told my hubba too. He was convinced in the end.

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發表於 11-5-1 13:51 |只看該作者

波兒，

你唔好等多一個月先問，宜家就話朋友想要，拎左個電話先啦
反正你都鐘意呢個陪月

我識得最瘋癲既case係個女人遲左m,未check就已經打比陪月叫佢hold期，不過陪月唔肯，叫佢真係confirm先好約

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發表於 11-5-1 13:54 |只看該作者

Bigsugarbb,

你有冇諗第時自己湊定請工人？如果你99識湊識煮野食，之前train定工人，咁你唔請都得囉，不過如果得你99一個而又孖，同埋唔請工人，咁就要陪月喇
你兩星期後就知係唔係孖啦，呢兩星期同你老公傾下，同埋套下你99會唔會幫我囉

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