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發表於 10-2-11 23:44 |只看該作者

我想改初四丫. 因為另有約會呢!!

CYMA, 你可以嗎?

原帖由 Hei001 於 10-2-10 21:41 發表
yes,Yau Tong
我初四/初五dinner都ok!

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發表於 10-2-12 22:24 |只看該作者

if both of u are ok, then I try la! In fact, I have to go to work on that day, I may probably ask maid to take her to MTR station to meet me.

Heima,

which MTR station is closest to you? In this case, my maid may need to join our dinner as well as she doesn't know the way back home alone.

What do u guys think?

原帖由 benben 於 10-2-11 23:44 發表
我想改初四丫. 因為另有約會呢!!

CYMA, 你可以嗎?

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發表於 10-2-13 22:16 |只看該作者

cyma,benben,
咁就一於初四dinner啦! 你地幾點到? 6pm ok嗎?
大家 check pm呀

原帖由 CheukYiuMame 於 10-2-12 22:24 發表
if both of u are ok, then I try la! In fact, I have to go to work on that day, I may probably ask maid to take her to MTR station to meet me.

Heima,

which MTR station is closest to you? In this ca ...

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發表於 10-2-18 09:59 |只看該作者

Heima

Thank you very much for your kind arrangement and the food/cake/drink. . . . . . & TOYS!!

Happy to chat with you all last nite!!

Again. . . Happy Lunar New Year!!!
Kung Hei Kung Hei!!

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發表於 10-2-22 22:36 |只看該作者

那天大人傾得暢快,小孩玩得開心,期望下一次的gathering.

兩兄弟的桌椅便是在這裏買的http://item.taobao.com/item_detail.jhtml?item_id=d108f3f0cda856b25ab9d04405739ec6&x_id=db2

原帖由 benben 於 10-2-18 09:59 發表
Heima

Thank you very much for your kind arrangement and the food/cake/drink. . . . . . & TOYS!!

Happy to chat with you all last nite!!

Again. . . Happy Lunar New Year!!!
Kung Hei Kung Hei ...

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發表於 10-2-24 22:15 |只看該作者

Poor me with no helper now as maid went back home. Still searching for a new one! 有掛捱!!!

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發表於 10-2-25 17:12 |只看該作者

cyma,
點解咁慘?工人唔再返來嗎?妳會請現成/未來過香港的?希望妳盡快請到一個好工人啦!宜家找好工人仲難過找好老公

原帖由 CheukYiuMame 於 10-2-24 22:15 發表
Poor me with no helper now as maid went back home. Still searching for a new one! 有掛捱!!!

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發表於 10-2-26 11:10 |只看該作者

cyma

下!! 個工人一去無回頭? 甘慘?
甘點丫. yiuyiu 那個take care??

要請 hongkong 現成的工人?

真係好怕employ new maid. . . .聽得太多唔好case!!

希望你有個好的coming啦!!

朋友請了個bunbun兩個月, 年初 4, 上個week, 同佢講breast有硬塊, 佢要留 hongkong 醫 wo!! 真係手尾長.

記住買insurance時買埋危疾!!!!

原帖由 Hei001 於 10-2-25 17:12 發表
cyma,
點解咁慘?工人唔再返來嗎?妳會請現成/未來過香港的?希望妳盡快請到一個好工人啦!宜家找好工人仲難過找好老公

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發表於 10-2-26 23:25 |只看該作者

Now, I take her to school bus evey morning then go to work. My mum helps to delivery lunch this week but will order from school from March. Mum also helps to pick her up from tutorial centre and prepare dinner for us. I pick her back to home after dinner. Up till today, still haven't chosen a suitable one.

benben

re your friend's bun bun, how old is she? can your friend claim all?

原帖由 benben 於 10-2-26 11:10 發表
cyma

下!! 個工人一去無回頭? 甘慘?
甘點丫. yiuyiu 那個take care??

要請 hongkong 現成的工人?

真係好怕employ new maid. . . .聽得太多唔好case!!

希望你有個好的coming啦!!

朋友請了個bunbun兩個月, 年初 ...

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發表於 10-2-26 23:28 |只看該作者

not decided yet whether have experience in HK or not as not many sources now!

原帖由 Hei001 於 10-2-25 17:12 發表
cyma,
點解咁慘?工人唔再返來嗎?妳會請現成/未來過香港的?希望妳盡快請到一個好工人啦!宜家找好工人仲難過找好老公

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發表於 10-2-27 15:51 |只看該作者

Do you guys have good part time clearner introduced ar?

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發表於 10-2-28 21:14 |只看該作者

cyma,
真係唔識喎,但在網上就有好多agent公司,會唔會考慮?
http://www.ezhome.com.hk/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=6&Itemid=70&lang=tc
http://www.homeassistanthk.com/service2.html

原帖由 CheukYiuMame 於 10-2-27 15:51 發表
Do you guys have good part time clearner introduced ar?

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發表於 10-2-28 21:18 |只看該作者

thanks Heima. My sister just introduced 1 for me, 3 hours a week. Let me see and share with u all later!

Have been to 2 agents today, no 收穫!

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發表於 10-2-28 22:03 |只看該作者

cyma,
找到個幫手,解決了暫時的問題,算是鬆一口氣了.
揀工人真的唔可以急,好工人可遇不可求,希望妳可以盡快請到新工人.

原帖由 CheukYiuMame 於 10-2-28 21:18 發表
thanks Heima. My sister just introduced 1 for me, 3 hours a week. Let me see and share with u all later!

Have been to 2 agents today, no 收穫!

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發表於 10-3-2 17:48 |只看該作者

一下子沒有工人用, 真係頭痛. 好彩有你 mom 幫手咋.

用住 part time 先, 再找 new maid 啦. 希望你快快合心水的. yiu 已經 whole day class, 應該沒有大problem啦. 係要放工做番 d 家務.

my fd maid's age 好似 30+, 手尾好長. 又唔炒得佢, 又要負責佢醫藥 $$.

真係要有個good maid 真的不容易!!!

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發表於 10-3-2 22:44 |只看該作者

very trouble these days, not because of the maid, but of Yiu Yiu. She changed quite a lot after 1st school term. She's quite obedient in 1st term that she could finish homework and she took good care of dictation, with an average of 90+ marks. But, these days, situation totally change, not care of school things and most importantly is her attitude. Very 反叛, 駡人, very impolite, intends to be opposite!

Remind her to do dictation revision ,she replied "唔合格咪唔合格, 有人得十分tim", 最哀就係媽咪, 我而家唔鍾意你嗱!" still many many 一言難盡, really sad!!!

How's your kids?

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發表於 10-3-3 21:37 |只看該作者

cyma,
"唔合格咪唔合格, 有人得十分tim, 最哀就係媽咪, 我而家唔鍾意你嗱!"
聽到這樣的話,相信妳一定會很難過.妳有沒有分析過她的行為?為何她會變成這樣?受同學影響?功課/考試壓力?媽媽迫得太緊?沒有娛樂?
在現階段,我認為先要處理好親子關係和大家的情緒,至於學業成績要暫時放低.
由幼稚園升上小一,她面對的轉變似乎很大,由happy school轉到傳統名校,對她來說,每天就只是返學,補習,做功課,溫習,課外活動(不知她喜歡那些課外活動嗎?).就連星期六日都是沒完沒了的功課溫習和課外活動,沒有娛樂.
不知道她是否將這一切都歸咎於妳,所以才出此言?
如果我以上的猜測是對的,我想,我會嘗試多關心她,對她多一分同理心,給她多點空間.如果是因為壓力太大,就要cut一些課外活動,多點親子時間.
對我來說,學習的興趣遠比學業成績重要,要keep到她的學習興趣,他日不難趕上.相反,如她已對學習感到厭倦,即使現在在媽媽的威迫下取得好成績,也難以維持長久.

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發表於 10-3-3 21:44 |只看該作者

cyma,
哥哥學校的功課考試壓力不大,他仍然每天愉快地上學,星期日一般是family day,會帶他出去玩輕鬆下.

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發表於 10-3-4 10:43 |只看該作者

cyma

如果聽到個女甘講, 一定好hurt, 好唔開心.

真係好似 heima 所講, 好好正視佢心理質素先, 暫時唔好理 d 分數住 (or 唔好 emphasis on her marks too much).

佢一放學, 又要上功課class, 你回家之後又同佢溫習, 星期 6 & sunday 係唔係都好 full, 要上堂丫?

甘樣既生活又真係幾辛苦架!!

真係要有 play time for her to relax & 盡情甘玩下 wo!! btw, she is so energetic, full of energy and power, 真係要放佢玩下, 才有心機 study !!

有無 d class 可以 cut 甘 d 丫? 問下佢既comment先. now, 唔係你安排咩佢地都 like, they have their own opinion!!

my gal case :
佢都可以 so far keep 到 d 成績. 不過, 有時都有怨言, e.g. 好busy, 好多野要做, 都未有時間玩. 最happy係星期三, 因為最輕鬆, 無野要上, 好多時間.

佢近排好like 跳繩 & 玩 fu 拉圈, 我就 let her play in between study time and Homework time after school. 佢就幾 happy and enjoy LOR!

sunday. . . . is our family time and play time. only swim @ the morning (有時都好 lazy to wake up), then afterward, play or go to library, then have tea time, or study time!! NO RUSH!!

& 要有多一點的獎勵, little gifts...etc.

亞女 like 喜羊羊, I will buy her books as gift sometime.

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