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大宅

積分: 2108


221#
發表於 06-11-24 18:23 |只看該作者

Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

我今日去睇過中e,中e叫我食鹿茸,他話冬蟲草同花膠太温和,唔適合小產過同虛的女人!


複式洋房

積分: 481


222#
發表於 06-11-24 21:07 |只看該作者

Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

cherrychris,

既然中醫叫你食,你可以試小小先,因為鹿茸都未必人人ok架!我食左就好易流鼻血了。希望你食左之後,有good feeling la...俾心機呀!

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cherrychris 寫道:
我今日去睇過中e,中e叫我食鹿茸,他話冬蟲草同花膠太


複式洋房

積分: 203


223#
發表於 06-11-24 22:12 |只看該作者

Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

oiluen,

Your 血報告 have to wait a few months? Why?


複式洋房

積分: 203


224#
發表於 06-11-24 22:16 |只看該作者

Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

Cherrychris,

I also went to 中e 2 days ago and he also recommend me to take 鹿茸 but suggest only once a week.

Maybe you should start with that pattern too!


洋房

積分: 41


225#
發表於 06-11-25 00:36 |只看該作者

Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

cherrychris,
We sure understand your feeling. It is like rolling coaster. I have similar feeling as you do on the first few days. Doesn't want to get in touch with anybody. Just need some time to calm down and accept the fact. Writing on BK will certainly help you. As time goes by, you will be fine. Hang on with us. Try to talking to good friends. But not everyone understands. Hang on with us if you don't feel good.
I went back to work this week, 2 weeks after the operation . It is quite difficult to face the pregnant colleagues / friends. I choose to stay away from them as possible. I also reject all gathering, except close friends that support you until my heart is totally recovered.
My theory is, if this will make you feel better and not harming others, just do it. Time cures. Add oil ah!


洋房

積分: 41


226#
發表於 06-11-25 00:43 |只看該作者

Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

Oiluen,
I have follow up consultancy today in QM. I think I have similar blood test of anticoagulants as you do.
For Chromosome (Karyotype), need to wait 18mth if referring to QE. So I pay to check as if private case, but the price is cheaper than private clinic.


大宅

積分: 1566


227#
發表於 06-11-25 01:38 |只看該作者

Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

jojobb23 寫道:
Oiluen,
I have follow up consultancy today in QM. I think I have similar blood test of anticoagulants as you do.
For Chromosome (Karyotype), need to wait 18mth if referring to QE. So I pay to check as if private case, but the price is cheaper than private clinic.


jojobb23,
咁, 你幾時再往QMH覆診睇報告?
我唔使驗Chromosome, 因為我是第一次流產, 而驗關於凝血功能及免疫系統既血, 係因為我個case比較特別。
囝囝的blog : http://lhc1128.blogspot.com/


大宅

積分: 1566


228#
發表於 06-11-25 01:40 |只看該作者

Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

Sanmama 寫道:
oiluen,

Your 血報告 have to wait a few months? Why?


其實係因為醫院唔會安排咁密既覆診比我, 所以安排兩個月之後先有得覆診。
囝囝的blog : http://lhc1128.blogspot.com/


大宅

積分: 1566


229#
發表於 06-11-25 01:42 |只看該作者

Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

我下星期五開始返工啦, 就快要面對好多同事的關心、問候~ 但, 有時真係想大家當無事發生... 你地知呢, 太多人問, 真係都幾尷尬... 不過, 我都知道大家都係關心自己的。
囝囝的blog : http://lhc1128.blogspot.com/


複式洋房

積分: 203


230#
發表於 06-11-25 15:58 |只看該作者

Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

oiluen,

You had a good long rest then! Did you rest for 1.5 month if I remember correctly?

I am sure you will do fine at work as you have always been very positive. I went back to work for 2 weeks now, it's only the 1st day where it can become awkward but when you show to them that you are ok, then people will start to forget about what has happened. Afterall, it is US who feel the most pain, and not others!

Add oil!


洋房

積分: 41


231#
發表於 06-11-25 23:16 |只看該作者

Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

Oiluen,
I also take the immunology and anti-coagulation test, which I think similar to yours and QM dr is so nice to do it for me.
For Chromosome test, I prefer to pay for faster path, rather than wait for 18 months in public queue.
I think the result will be ready in 1-2 weeks time but same as your case, you won't know until next visit. My next visit is Mar07. It's ok as I will take rest until then. So as you do la.

Regarding work, yes, it is really hard to face it. I intend to hide from all colleagues, even my boss. Just let HR knows and keep it confidential. Colleagues come and ask me what happen. I just say "Things should be going well now. Thanks for your loving care." I did send the email to most of the ppl who knew I was away with same message. Surprisingly, no much people ask me for more. If they ask again, I say, '女人野, 講你都吳明啦! 我無事啦. 謝謝.', they will just shut up. haha.


複式洋房

積分: 144


232#
發表於 06-11-26 00:08 |只看該作者

Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

oiluen, 努力! 加油! 我幾乎每次上來都見到你在線上,不知上班後,你會否少了時間上網?

我復工已經三個多星期了,仍然有同事不知我已經小產了, 昨天剛有人問候我的BB....但是我是OK的,有點尷尬而已。

反而今日睇完明報又睇「一仔」,有關內地孕婦迫爆的報道, 看到有些媽媽的遭遇, 心酸到流淚了(如大家未ready,不要看)有時很擔心,如果明年可以bingo, 會否又因「金豬年」效應, 遇上些不好的事。

都是不要多想了,現有唯一目標是盡力調理身體, 剛大口大口喝下苦藥。
oiluen 寫道:
我下星期五開始返工啦, 就快要面對好多同事的關心、問候~ 但, 有時真係想大家當無事發生... 你地知呢, 太多人問, 真係都幾尷尬... 不過, 我都知道大家都係關心自己的。


大宅

積分: 1566


233#
發表於 06-11-26 00:16 |只看該作者

Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

Sanmama 寫道:
oiluen,

You had a good long rest then! Did you rest for 1.5 month if I remember correctly?

I am sure you will do fine at work as you have always been very positive. I went back to work for 2 weeks now, it's only the 1st day where it can become awkward but when you show to them that you are ok, then people will start to forget about what has happened. Afterall, it is US who feel the most pain, and not others!

Add oil!


Sanmama,
係呀, 個醫生比左我六星期病假, 而小產之前, 我已經一直拎緊病假, 前前後後總共拎左三個半月... 真係休息太耐, 可能返工都傻傻地, 要慢慢適應呢~
囝囝的blog : http://lhc1128.blogspot.com/


大宅

積分: 1566


234#
發表於 06-11-26 00:28 |只看該作者

Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

jojobb23 寫道:
Oiluen,
I also take the immunology and anti-coagulation test, which I think similar to yours and QM dr is so nice to do it for me.
For Chromosome test, I prefer to pay for faster path, rather than wait for 18 months in public queue.
I think the result will be ready in 1-2 weeks time but same as your case, you won't know until next visit. My next visit is Mar07. It's ok as I will take rest until then. So as you do la.

Regarding work, yes, it is really hard to face it. I intend to hide from all colleagues, even my boss. Just let HR knows and keep it confidential. Colleagues come and ask me what happen. I just say "Things should be going well now. Thanks for your loving care." I did send the email to most of the ppl who knew I was away with same message. Surprisingly, no much people ask me for more. If they ask again, I say, '女人野, 講你都吳明啦! 我無事啦. 謝謝.', they will just shut up. haha.


jojobb23,
你個醫生有無同你解釋點解要驗呢兩種血?
至於chromosome test, 咁你會o係邊度驗? 普通醫生?
我暫時無諗過驗chromosome test, 因為我都係小產左一次, 應該唔關事吧?!
至於immunology and anti-coagulation test, 講真, 我真的有少少擔心自己有問題... 我成日諗, 如果無問題, 點會個積血大到好似個橙咁 (6.x cm X 7.x cm X 3.x cm), 重要不停咁流血... 流足個幾月, 直至小產先停... ... 不過, 而家都無乜野可以做架啦, 如果真係有問題, 我都要面對架啦!

至於同事方面, 個個都知我乜事, 有好多都黎左探我, 不過, 始終有d人會好奇架嘛~ 如果有人問我, 我會講比佢地知既, 到時睇下點呢~
囝囝的blog : http://lhc1128.blogspot.com/


大宅

積分: 1566


235#
發表於 06-11-26 00:32 |只看該作者

Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

sasamum 寫道:
oiluen, 努力! 加油! 我幾乎每次上來都見到你在線上,不知上班後,你會否少了時間上網?

我復工已經三個多星期了,仍然有同事不知我已經小產了, 昨天剛有人問候我的BB....但是我是OK的,有點尷尬而已。

反而今日睇完明報又睇「一仔」,有關內地孕婦迫爆的報道, 看到有些媽媽的遭遇, 心酸到流淚了(如大家未ready,不要看)有時很擔心,如果明年可以bingo, 會否又因「金豬年」效應, 遇上些不好的事。

都是不要多想了,現有唯一目標是盡力調理身體, 剛大口大口喝下苦藥。[quote]
oiluen 寫道:
我下星期五開始返工啦, 就快要面對好多同事的關心、問候~ 但, 有時真係想大家當無事發生... 你地知呢, 太多人問, 真係都幾尷尬... 不過, 我都知道大家都係關心自己的。
[/quote]

sasamum,
哈哈, 我如果無出街, 基本上係會長開電腦架, 下星期返工後, 當然會少左上網, 不過, 我日日都會開既, 已經成習慣了。

我無睇明報又睇[一仔], 我都想睇... 好多人都想生豬仔豬女, 我都想生架, 不過, 而家重緊要都係攪好身體先! 其他野都唔到我地諗...

我諗住下星期一睇中醫啦, 我見你地個個都睇, 我都想睇下, 我會轉中醫師架啦, 諗住睇蘇元元教授, 我阿媽話佢唔錯, 佢話好似睇婦科幾好喎, 睇下我地夾唔夾先。
囝囝的blog : http://lhc1128.blogspot.com/


洋房

積分: 41


236#
發表於 06-11-26 13:40 |只看該作者

Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

jojobb23,
你個醫生有無同你解釋點解要驗呢兩種血?
至於chromosome test, 咁你會o係邊度驗? 普通醫生?
我暫時無諗過驗chromosome test, 因為我都係小產左一次, 應該唔關事吧?!
至於immunology and anti-coagulation test, 講真, 我真的有少少擔心自己有問題... 我成日諗, 如果無問題, 點會個積血大到好似個橙咁 (6.x cm X 7.x cm X 3.x cm), 重要不停咁流血... 流足個幾月, 直至小產先停... ... 不過, 而家都無乜野可以做架啦, 如果真係有問題, 我都要面對架啦!

至於同事方面, 個個都知我乜事, 有好多都黎左探我, 不過, 始終有d人會好奇架嘛~ 如果有人問我, 我會講比佢地知既, 到時睇下點呢~

因為我是recurrent miscarriage (2 times), 所以qm醫生都覺得值得check下. Chromosome 血都是在QM抽. Blood will be sent to Tsang Yuk Hospital Prenatal Diagnostic Lab as if private patient.
For me I think if I know the reason is coagulant problem, I will feel better. Since it is the most treatable one by medication. If it is chromosome problem, nothing can be done. If both cases are negative, I need to bet for the next with anxiety.
For attitude of being asked by colleagues, every environment is different. Most people are good and caring but only a few are really nasty that could make me feel bad with their words. I just think 事情和自己交待就得了, 不必要跟所有人交待, 對嗎?


大宅

積分: 1566


237#
發表於 06-11-26 18:04 |只看該作者

Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

都係既, 如果係chromosome既問題, 真係無乜野可以攪。即使係coagulant既問題或者係immune system出左問題, 都係好麻煩架啦 ... 不過, 我相信大部份都係搵唔到原因既~

你講得無錯, 相信呢度既姊妹計劃有下一個時, 都會充滿憂慮, 但, 我地都會繼續去試, 是嗎? 我計劃3至4個月會再試架啦 ^^
囝囝的blog : http://lhc1128.blogspot.com/


大宅

積分: 2108


238#
發表於 06-11-26 21:52 |只看該作者

Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

jojobb23,

hi! you have miscarrige for 2 times? I have also two times miscarriage but the doctor said I need not to check.

do you know if I want to check, where can I check it?

What's the different between coagulant problem & chromosome problem?

cherrychris


大宅

積分: 2108


239#
發表於 06-11-26 21:53 |只看該作者

Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

oiluen,

no matter what! you still have some sisters with the same experience with you. hope you have a good starting on your work!

cherrychris


大宅

積分: 1566


240#
發表於 06-11-27 14:23 |只看該作者

Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

m終於黎探我啦! 我等左佢成6個星期嘛, 而家可以安心啦, 不過份量唔多呢~

今日睇埋中醫, 佢話我氣虛, 而我既體質唔適合大補, 只適合溫補, 例如用黨參、北芪、巴戟等補, 而唔可以用高麗參同鹿茸, 怪唔之得, 我燉左幾次高麗參之後, 覺得個人燥左, 又生左粒大暗瘡同訓唔著啦, 希望今日飲完佢開既苦茶之後, 會好好訓啦~
囝囝的blog : http://lhc1128.blogspot.com/

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