我實行左一排,囡囡喊少左,以前郁 d 唔順佢意就 :-( 依家肯聽我講左 
......講得多,佢想喊都變唔喊
wongpsv 寫道:
SandraLo,
掉野呀,係chair上跳下or亂咁走... 因佢成日扑倒,有次大件事到要入院 :-( 叫極都聽唔我我叫佢,我就會罸坐.堅持要佢坐1-2分鐘及say sorry & kiss
thanks!!!
b9lingling 寫道:
SandraLo,
I tried to praise her and it seemed that she likes it but same it only last for a few days. Right now she is starting to ignore me again. For example when I ask her to wear diapers when going to sleep, she will jump around and not letting me help her wear diaper. I tried to praise her like" let me see who is the good girl" but when I praise her and talk to her nicely she will pretend I'm playing with her and will start to jump around and run around. Everytime when I tell her not to do things nicely, she will smile at me and even do it again in front of me. I tried to hold her hands tell her not to but she will laugh and run around thinking I'm going to play with her.
~火火~ 寫道:
SandraLo:
唔該晒Sandra!你真係好好人呀 :-P
我之前剩係諗bb餐餐食飯都唔乖,點用讚呢個方法呢?
都係你醒(應該係我蠢),响佢未含飯之前讚,我今晚試咗喇,雖然最尾都有含飯,但少左好多
你講得啱嘅,其實佢要爭住做嘅野都係無傷大雅,都唔係好大問題.「遲些我驚你鏟佢都唔同你做」,hehe,有道埋
火火
好開心又有人成功咗！你唔係蠢呀！！ 呢 d 係行為理論，一般人多數都唔識架！ ，咁我就知你錯响邊 ，包冇問題啦 ！
SandraLo 寫道:
火火 (and 各位靚媽)：
客氣啦......
健康院姑娘教嘅方法其實都係「行為矯正」其中一招：對bb唔好嘅行為 (含飯) 俾一個後果佢 (apply consequence)，即係限時食，食唔完嘅後果就係「冇得食」。
我之所以好少教媽咪呢一招，除咗因為用讚已經好 work 之外，我好驚 d 媽咪行得唔夠徹底，搞到唔湯唔水，例如：半個鐘收咗冇得食，佢(或者婆婆之類)驚住bb餓，又俾d 零食佢，咁重搞亂哂d 飯餐，或者冇得食令bb大扭，d 婆婆又即刻俾番，重令bb學識扭！
讚用錯咗就唔 work(但都冇害)， 咁你就會返嚟揾我
完全明白 我會努力,堅持你教嘅做法. joel827 寫道:
「行為矯正」
還可以用係我的皇后到.
我贊佢煲D湯好正, 跟住就成日有湯飲, 重越泥越好味.
實如果你老闆贊下你的工作表現又加你人工, 你點都會再落力一D.
lyf 寫道:
SandraLo,
我都係咁non stop咁追d post呀,但係未睇得晒,我print埋出黎睇tim.
我有跟你做ignore,呀囝有好轉,但係仲有一個難題,就係我一去沖涼,佢就喊嫁啦,(我己經開左vcd俾佢睇),我老公都無佢辦法,喊到我出黎為止,有時佢會話要尿尿,咪俾佢入黎,屙完叫佢出去,但係佢話要我幫佢著返褲,(我仲未沖完涼)又唔要我老公幫佢著,抱佢出去,佢仲唔著褲係地下坐,我都想由佢坐,但係地下又有細菌,都唔知點好??
你有無招數可以教下我點做呀?唔該晒!
你地追睇呢個 topic 咁捧場，响行為理論上，當然又會 reinforce 咗我好努力咁答啦！ 辛苦啲都要啦！ 
cklamlam 寫道:
我個女是小氣型. 有次姑娘話佢坐好. 佢唔高興和大哭.
我應該如何做!
jenniferkwok 寫道:
當我地不停話佢時
1. 佢會話：唔好講野，shu
2. 佢會話：你曳曳，唔睬你/唔同你玩
當唔合佢意思，或我地亦佢意思
3. 隻手仔會打空氣或者打其他身邊既死物
洩？
jenniferkwok 寫道:
因為有時佢話極都唔聽lor
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