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小仙女mummy & JojoB

“嚴是愛,鬆是害”

我就諗，嚴同鬆都係愛。
而做左full time mom 後，一來多左時間對住清林，二來其實清林開始大左開始識性，我自覺我既 approach 係傾向比較嚴架。
我既底線係不用暴力，但鬧就一定有，而且有時仲好惡 tim.
我覺得，要比佢知有咩規則要守（通常都係有關安全同尊重別人啦），如果唔守規則，要受罰，可能係比媽咪鬧，甚至係要立即走冇得繼續玩！
我都試過帶佢去 shopping mall 佢走左去，媽咪去想捉返住佢佢居然玩 lur 地，我就立即同佢返屋企，一路行一路話因為你係 shopping mall 唔肯同媽媽一齊行仲要摟計所以我地冇得行要返屋企。
Lee d 就係我既嚴。
我就覺得我老公好鬆 law. 有時比佢激Ｃ啦。例如，去酒樓佢係會比甚至鼓勵清林落地走圍行，仲話「怕咩危險，我睇住」，我覺得就算你唔介意你個囡比人一碗面兜頭淋，但Ｄ waiter 好介意law, 你可唔可以唔好將你既快樂建築係人地既麻煩身上？仲有，到頭來，你咁叻叫返個囡坐返上張 highchair 度？
所以，我個囡已開始識唔聽爸爸話。

我係清林.歡迎來看看清林誌

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嚴同埋鬆真係好難去拉得一個平衡

有時過份緊張都會變左嚴
例如:
我6299好怕佢會跌到甚至向屋企木地板上面轉佢地都會叫Adrian唔好轉因為會跌到痛
又例如:
我老公伯佢會剪到手指唔俾佢玩交剪

對於我來講我既紅燈係係唔好傷害別人多於唔好傷害自己

好似以上咁講我覺得我老公同埋我6299 對Adrian好嚴連佢自己想做、開心想轉既行為都制止

所以相對上我老公會覺得我好縱個囝

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發表於 08-7-30 15:43 |只看該作者

“嚴是愛,鬆是害”

我也要學習呢。
99成日話，如果佢掉野落地，or naughty，你打下佢手仔law，但我從來無做過，一來我唔捨得，二來我唔會打小朋友用暴力。
我連大聲d同佢講野都好少，唔通我真係太鬆？

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發表於 08-7-30 19:07 |只看該作者

Waikiki
咁又唔係，我都好想我好少機會去鬧清林，如果可以緊係樣樣事都和顏悅色好啦，唔通會有人想日日攞個囡來鬧咩。
有一次，我老公問我，好似好耐冇鬧清林，我話你傻架，你估我好想鬧你個囡（佢好多時見我鬧清林都「悻悻然」咁，好似鬧埋佢咁！），個囡其實好多時都好乖，只要你唔攪禍就得啦。
例如，我一向 set 好左清林可以入廚房但唔可以玩櫃內既野，lee d 係我同清林既君子協定，但有一日，我只係離開左屋企兩個鐘，清林就係度玩碗碟啦，因為我老公「鼓勵」佢，佢話，我睇住佢架。激Ｃ我，我又要從頭同清林達成協議！！！
有好多野係習慣，如果 Larissa 好聽話，樣樣野可以和平解決，咁洗咩出手或出口先。

我係清林.歡迎來看看清林誌

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發表於 08-7-30 21:52 |只看該作者

原文章由 小仙女Mummy 於 08-7-28 08:53 發表
MrsBee,
your boy can understands 3 lanuages right now? wooow.. how old is he? can he also can speak these 3 different lanuages?

i'll send my girl to learn the Japanese~~ it's not too late right?!

...

小仙女Mummy,

My little boy is almost 23 months. We mostly talk to him at home in catonese. He learns english from school and DVD programs. Our friend's wife is a japanese in US. She helped me to take care my little boy when I needed. She only talks to my boy and her boy(13mo. older than my boy) in japanese. I only talk to her boy in catonese. She told me that my boy can understand the basic japanese. He speaks some japanese, eg. painful, empty, school, yummy. My japanese friend reminded me to get a japanese playgroup for my boy to practice japanese after we back to hk. Our friends and I want the kids to learn as much as they can.

Due to a multi languages environment, he doesn't speak a lot of words but he understands a lot. He speaks more english than others.

age 0-6 is the prime time to learn language. I will add at least 2 languages for my boy before 6yr.

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原文章由 JojoB 於 08-7-28 06:28 發表

所以佢地一個打工一個車衫好辛苦咁供我地三個讀大學
真係唔容易

家下我都係咁諗咋
只要係好既學費 ...

JojoB,

I have the same feeling! I got a part-time job in the college. thus, I didn't need to pay the overseas student tuition. I tried my best to reduce my family financial stress. I was lucky to get a job after college. My boss paid for my master degree.

I hope my boy can get a scholarship for his college!!! (a kind of day dreaming) it's very expensive now. it's about US$4000 per semester for a local student.

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發表於 08-7-31 09:10 |只看該作者

原文章由 MrsBee 於 08-7-30 21:52 發表
Due to a multi languages environment, he doesn't speak a lot of words but he understands a lot. He speaks more english than others.

我仔都係咁家下重未講到好多野
不過每個人同佢講唔同既語言(廣東話,國語 & 英) 佢都明而做出指示既東西

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原文章由 MrsBee 於 08-7-30 22:03 發表
it's about US$4000 per semester for a local student.

CRAZY!

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發表於 08-7-31 10:35 |只看該作者

Hello MrsBee,
Your boy is really smart.. the research said, people who can handle multi- lanuages are more confidence, smart.. but it will delay to starts speak, BUT it's worth..
My girl just turn to 22m.. we teach her English/Mandarin/Cantonese.. now she can say a lot of words, but not sentence yet.. and i wanna add Japanese, the lanuage which i like but have no idea about..

原文章由 MrsBee 於 08-7-30 21:52 發表
小仙女Mummy,

My little boy is almost 23 months. We mostly talk to him at home in catonese. He learns english from school and DVD programs. Our friend's wife is a japanese in US. She helped me ...

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發表於 08-8-1 02:14 |只看該作者

virgo
君子協定，呢家野我有同感。
話說larissa呢排愛上stroller，我出街唔使用hip seat，幾好呢。
點知c6幫我推佢一次後，我就c得快d。
佢問亞女：爸爸推你快d好唔好呀？
我話：唔係賽車，唔使咁快，我地鐘意慢慢行散步架，間中我仲要停低同呀女講野。
c6當然唔聽，當我無到。
有時d野比人整聯jor，好激氣。

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發表於 08-8-13 13:45 |只看該作者

Dear Vigorbb

I am very interested in 蒙特梭利教育法 but when i clicked into those 2 links, it goes to the wrong web. Is it possible to post those links again.

many thanks

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噢，果Ｄ website 都係引用人地既，如你有興趣，可以去甲由既 website 有好多有用link,好齊架

http://www.baby-kingdom.com/?uid-63340-action-viewspace-itemid-4551

另外仲有lee個愛和自由既 site

http://blog.sina.com.cn/0lovefreedom0

[ 本文章最後由 virgobb 於 08-8-13 19:28 編輯 ]

我係清林.歡迎來看看清林誌

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vigorbb

thanks for all the info

, i will try soon

Merci
joe

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天后開jor間新ge montessori school，教ge先生係ami，唔係native eng speaker，但又用英文教，個classroom唔算大，環境一般啦，我會話：整體不過不失啦，但就無驚喜law。

點解係香港咁難搵到間又好又近ge monte學校呢？

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發表於 08-8-26 12:34 |只看該作者

hihi各位．．

我個囝係0610既小朋友．．
見你地傾緊蒙特梭利教育法．．
我請問下你地，其實除左兒童無限
知唔知邊度重有好既playgroup可以俾小朋友上呢？
因為我個囝宜家就快返完八堂親子班，本來想同佢renew，但係平時同佢返，次次要請假，而我又大住肚，真係好辛苦，所以想睇下有冇ｄ係星期六日，可以揾埋老公一齊陪．．

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原文章由 birdchai 於 08-8-26 12:34 發表
hihi各位．．

我個囝係0610既小朋友．．
見你地傾緊蒙特梭利教育法．．
我請問下你地，其實除左兒童無限
知唔知邊度重有好既playgroup可以俾小朋友上呢？
因為我個囝宜家就快返完八堂親子班，本來想同佢renew，但係平時同佢返，次次要請假 ...

若果九龍好似 best concept 都OK喎

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