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發表於 05-1-18 10:58 |只看該作者

Re: 靚靚大肚婆吹水會

Last night, Jasmine went crazy AGAIN, She was so mad at me as I woke her up for taking bath. I have told my maid not to put her to sleep before she takes the bath, it is just the common sense. As usual, no one can calm her down, she screams even when she was taking the bath which is very abnormal as she always likes taking bath.

After finishing the bath, I tried to feed her, AGAIN she refused the feed. I gave in and let my maid feed her and I had my dinner. After the dinner, I took over taking care of the bb, and of course, she cried when I took over and immediately woke up from her sleep. My maid was very reluctant to give the bb to me but as I am the boss, she gave in.

I soothed, patted and stroked Jasmine to sleep. At the very beginning, she resisted but after I repeatedly comforting her, assuring her, talking to her, she finally fell asleep. You know what, I feel very happy as I can put the grumpy Jasmine to sleep which I have never done before. I can feel the bond between me and her. It is so sweet !!! However, a trustrating thing happened ... of course it is caused by my maid AGAIN !!!

She told me that it is no good to let the bb cry at night time. I feel very weird to what she said as how can you control bb not to cry at night time??? And I think it is ok to let the bb cry as long as she does not scream. So I ask her why she says that and what is the rationale behind. But she just repeatedly said that it is no good it is no good. It makes me angry as she pointed out 'my fault' but she has no solution for that???? It is totally ridiculous !!! So I seriously told her that I feel nothing wrong with that.

I know what she means, she did not agree that I took over soothing Jasmine to sleep as she knew that I will make Jasmine cry if I did so. She blamed me for letting bb cry by sending her away. You know what, I did it out of goodwill as she did not have her dinner yet and I took over so that she can have dinner and finish the washing so as to save time. Of course I am the mother of Jasmine and I am responsible for taking care of my baby and I feel nothing wrong with that.

[size=medium]AGAIN, my Bun Bun made me MAD last night !!!

Sorry for the long messages but I just cannot tolerate what she implied and want to share it with you all. :evil:

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發表於 05-1-18 11:07 |只看該作者

Re: 靚靚大肚婆吹水會

Muimui,

Poor you.......ai.......your Maid is really.....!!!!!
I think she just don't want Jasmine cry, but what she say and talk is a bit over the boss and maid......stupid her, when I read your message of course totally understand why u take over Jasmine is because u want to let your maid have dinner la!!
She can't see this point ka mei??? Don't angry, don't angry, ignore her la, as u say u are the boss ah ma...ignore what she say, tell her that, as she can see finally u can calm Jasmine down and let her fell asleep is okay la. BB cry is good for their lung tim bor!!! :mrgreen:

Little Natalie join to our family on12.2004.

Little Hayden join to our family on 2.2007

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發表於 05-1-18 11:13 |只看該作者

Re: 靚靚大肚婆吹水會

Kiki,
Sometimes I need 阿Q精神for that... In my case, Jasmine is so attached to her jer jer and all my friends even all of you told me that it is ok as bb will know who is the mother when she grows. So I wait lor and even she does not like to stick with me when jer jer is around, I spend as much effort as I can to take care of her so that I will have no regret.

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發表於 05-1-18 11:17 |只看該作者

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Kiki,
Thanks for the comfort.

The stupidest thing is she knows I can finally calm the bb, but she still says those words to me lor...

It is just like I am the bad mother to let her bb cry and you should suffer yourself ...

Of course I ignore her comments as they are all bullshit to me. However, it makes me a bad mother in front of my maid lor... which I am not indeed.

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發表於 05-1-18 11:34 |只看該作者

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Muimui,
If as u say, seems u become a Bad mother in front of your maid, that's totally fine wor...
Because she only work for u, and it doesn't matter than u are good or bad mother in her eyes...WHO CARE??? The most important point is u are good mummy to JASMINE.
Agree that what she say and she think is all BULLSHIT. Nevermind la, at least here have the place to let u speak out the unhappiness,right?!
Anyway we are happy to hear all the things from u ka!!

Little Natalie join to our family on12.2004.

Little Hayden join to our family on 2.2007

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Morning all

Li
我無constraint Jne去介夜奶ka，不過我知道佢前晚係報假案law，因為尋晚11:00pm食完奶，佢到4:30am又叫飲奶lu

pan pan, kiki, cicy, cc12 & all mama
我以前d返工褲 or 乜褲都著唔到，家陣都係家姐借d jeans過我著咋，希望返工前可以著得番law，唔想"side"$買過ma

cc12
我而家都係減左唔係好多咋，尋晚磅過都係122 lbs，大肚時148 lbs，未大肚時103 lbs，希望可以減多10 lbs la

cicy
我都好多謝你教我咁多野，尤其係我第一日出院返到屋企，自己好似仲發緊夢咁，好在你比左好多意見我，真係要比billion thanks 你ar

My lovely Jne was born on 12 December 2004

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發表於 05-1-18 11:48 |只看該作者

Re: 靚靚大肚婆吹水會

mui mui
你個工人雖然對你囡囡好好，但係佢唔係好識分"莊同閒"既角色law，總之你要努力ar，囡囡始終都係"痴"媽咪ka，無野可以分開到，果種感覺係好難講既...

pan pan
有時真係好想叫d奶奶收嗲

xyzabcijk :evil: 不過算la，佢係你honey既"媽打"，當佢發"up"風law，比面你honey同囝囝，大人不記小人過，我都係咁樣同自己講，我應該會係新年前搬去新屋，而家奶奶果邊又話會裝修wor，咁佢哋會搬過黎同我哋住個零兩個月，我而家都頭痛緊，我驚到時我會

佢

My lovely Jne was born on 12 December 2004

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發表於 05-1-18 11:52 |只看該作者

Re: 靚靚大肚婆吹水會

Cicy

Chester goes very well for lunch nap and morning nap, however he continues to sleep after 2p.m. feed. Really don't know why ?-(

Also, he woke up at 1:30a.m. and cried for milk, I let him cried until 2:00a.m. and feed him... but then he didn't sleep until 4:00a.m. la

Little Chester born on "Boxing Day" Chester's Home Updated on March 1

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發表於 05-1-18 11:53 |只看該作者

Re: 靚靚大肚婆吹水會

Mui Mui

What should I do if this is eczema? Should I consult Dr?

Mui_Mui 寫道:
Miffy,
Are the '粒粒'white in color or red??? If it is white, it is very common among NB but if it is red, it may be eczema !!! ?-(

Little Chester born on "Boxing Day" Chester's Home Updated on March 1

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MM,
你個Billion thanks to Cicy多過我個Million thanks喎,下次我要講Trillion thanks至得

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發表於 05-1-18 11:59 |只看該作者

Re: 靚靚大肚婆吹水會

Miffy,
Re: Eczema
As I told Kiki, better consult Dr for that as eczema may become worse if you ignore it, if Chester's case is serious, better go to see Dr but it is mild, would prefer to consult Dr at the time when he has his injection there.

Re: Nap Time Schedule
I do not know if I am wrong -- according to GF, you should wake the bb up no matter how deep he sleeps when nap time finishes. Otherwise, it will ruin the whole sleeping schedule for the bb, GF is very strict on that. ?-(

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發表於 05-1-18 12:18 |只看該作者

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Mui Mui

Thanks for your advice. As BB will go to "Kin Hong Yuen" this friday, I will consult doctor at the same time ga la.

About nap time, I did wake him up when nap time finishes, but he will fall asleep again when I feed him... ?-( He seems really tired!

Also, don't be angry with your maid la. You know, compare with those maids we heard news, your one is really a good one to Jasmine. I agree with you that it is very annoying to hear that she comments your action... just show her YOU are BOSS and she is MAID and let her know what she should do --- "Work hard and less comment".

Little Chester born on "Boxing Day" Chester's Home Updated on March 1

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發表於 05-1-18 12:22 |只看該作者

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Panpan

Seems everyone is facing a "Ma Fan" MIL, don't you remember that I also faced the same problem as you last week. Ignore her and just pretend you are listening la.... I am now only give my MIL minimum feedback and sometimes I just think she is singing around

All
I am now weight 130lbs, 26 lbs less from the time I give birth, still have 20lbs to reduce!!!
I also can't wear any pants and skirts la... I am now always wearing the sport pants with elastic bands one... so poor!

Little Chester born on "Boxing Day" Chester's Home Updated on March 1

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發表於 05-1-18 12:25 |只看該作者

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Ki and CC12

Chester was a US resident before... just like Natalie and CC's son. But he switched the day and night back after I follow GF's schedule. I would highly recommend you to follow the schedule as well.

Are you going to buy that book or I can type you the schedula wor. Let me know if you want it.

Little Chester born on "Boxing Day" Chester's Home Updated on March 1

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發表於 05-1-18 12:27 |只看該作者

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[size=large]Can I once again say "THANK YOU" to Mui Mui and Cicy?

[size=xx-large]THANK YOU VERY MUCH!!!

Little Chester born on "Boxing Day" Chester's Home Updated on March 1

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ki & cc12,

I will email the schedule to the two of you.

miffy,

I've already typed it out.

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我今早有小小時間唸住打俾Ching 1啦, 點知佢工人話佢8點入左院啦, 希望佢快d 有生到阿b 唔駛痛咁耐啦.. 祝佢同bb 都身體健康

ki

我阿媽都話bb 蝦我喎.. 因我有奶味喎... 所以我一抱佢佢一定唔肯飲水囉.. 因以為我俾奶奶佢食嘛

Li

"雪印"係我家姐同個friend 既bb都食開叫我bb 食既, 醫生其實suggest A+ 囉, 但家姐話bb 食A+ 好熱氣, 轉左"雪印"就好左好多囉, 咁佢咪叫我不如一開始就食"雪印"啦, 咁係醫院已食"雪印", 醫生睇左佢幾日話依隻奶粉都岩佢囉..

:-D

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HelloMoon 寫道:
[quote]
cicy 寫道:
MM,
The book actually has a lot of theory. But if you believe it will work without reading the theory for now. I have actually typed out 4-6 weeks schedule (for my parents to follow). I can email to you and you can see how it works and try first before you get the book law.

cicy
我就係聽你哋講本書好好ar :mrgreen: 真係可以ar??好呀好呀

如果可以既話麻煩你send去[email protected]

million thanks :lol: [/quote]

cicy
想問你係咪send左去我公司email呢??因為我而家開唔到公司個a/c，而我又未收到ar，麻煩你send去[email protected]

thanks a lot :exclaim: :exclaim:

My lovely Jne was born on 12 December 2004

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cicy

我都想要呀, 可唔可send 埋俾我呀??

muimui

你唔好唔開心啦, d 工人始終係外人, 佢都bb 好已好好架啦, 你唔好咁啦..

MM

你點呀, 滿左月啦喎... 揍bb d 野係咪乜都上晒手啦, 我仲係好無用呀, 慢手慢腳呀..

all

我今日12朝啦, 但老公都叫我唔好沖涼住喎... 怕我凍親呀, 我又要忍忍忍呀..

nopan

你都唔好理你奶奶啦, 佢講咩你都當佢唱歌啦, 你咁strong 一定攪得掂佢既, 你唔好cry 啦, 我依兩日都好左好多啦, 無cry 啦..

:-D

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