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發表於 07-12-18 04:06 |只看該作者
SY_Mom, my son just turned 4 in Nov and we bought him a bike (with training wheels) for his bday. He is still not very good at it yet, but certainly enjoys staying outside. Your son seems to be pretty advance!!

Yeh, you could have come by yourself!! Well, let's have our next gathering early next year and hope you can join us next time.

I am waiting for the photos too as I didn't bring a camera. Thanks!!


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發表於 07-12-18 05:15 |只看該作者
Good to meet you all in the gathering. All of you are so nice and all kids are so cute ah. Looking forward to see you all again in the next gathering.

mrschao & SY_Mom: I don't know how to post the pic in BK, so I uploaded that in my facebook. I PM you both my email address for you both to find me in facebook.com, please check your inbox.

[ 本文章最後由 HappyMatt 於 07-12-18 05:19 編輯 ]


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發表於 07-12-18 07:06 |只看該作者
mrschao,

my son started to bike when he just turned 2. at that time, there were still lots of young kids in our neighborhood so he went out to bike almost every day. however, i had to run after him when he biked and i could barely be able to keep up with him.
my husband also let him to ride on the scooter (adult-size but adjusted to lowest height) maybe when he abt 2 1/2. i thought my husband's crazy. he also wanted our son to ski and skate since he's 2. when i said he's too young to do so, my husband always said "what's the problem?" they both just care about "playing" at every minute.

i'm sure yr son will be able to "run" on his bike pretty soon. they could bike very well within a week. maybe both my son and yr son go out to the park to bike together sometimes.

原文章由 mrschao 於 07-12-18 04:06 發表
SY_Mom, my son just turned 4 in Nov and we bought him a bike (with training wheels) for his bday. He is still not very good at it yet, but certainly enjoys staying outside. Your son seems to be pretty ...


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發表於 07-12-19 06:29 |只看該作者
Would you PM me your email address @ facebook too? Thanks.

原文章由 HappyMatt 於 07-12-18 05:15 發表
Good to meet you all in the gathering. All of you are so nice and all kids are so cute ah. Looking forward to see you all again in the next gathering.

mrschao & SY_Mom: I don't know how to post the p ...


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發表於 07-12-19 08:11 |只看該作者
原文章由 bunnymonkey 於 07-12-15 07:12 發表
rose-mag,

arm arm saw your msg in another topic. I think #1 doe hai ng duk. siu siu suspicious. And the temp too high is not good for the kid either. In my son's daycare, many kids don't want to leav ...


bunnymonkey,
Finally, we chose the #2 which is so far okay amongst all. My husband cancelled the appointment of the $600 one on last Friday and the reason was that he was too tired. When I called this Monday again to schedule appointment with the owner. The owner told me that someone dropped by Friday night and signed contract with her right the way. Now, she has no more opening. That owner was quite talkative and she told me that her home care has been opened in the same spot since 1977 and the kids usually stay in the center for years. We talked a bit on the phone and she seemed to be very nice and I know that we might like her but we just missed the chance. This owner wrote down my phone # and promised to inform me when there's opening again. I was sort of mad to my hubby who screwed up. To prevent this happen again, we went to sign the contract with #2 daycare yesterday night. This owner is sort of protective and she somewhat scares of my hubby who asked all kinds of questions and some of them are very indepth about fire safety, property safety, etc. Our concern is that her backyard is shared with another house which is also owned by her. There is a gate door which can lead through to the backyard is unlocked because of the fire regulation. However, her tenants always leave it opened and everybody can walk into it without difficulty. When we asked her about it, she said that when she take the babies out to the backyard, she has a half door locked (we saw that) and the caregivers would be with the kids watching. My hubby is still not too convinced but it's towards the end of the year and I'm told that finding a daycare at this moment is difficult. So, we finally take this one. We have 2 weeks' probation period and if it doesn't work out for both us and the owner, either of us can terminate the contract with 2 weeks' notice.

By the way, 20 minutes for 7 blocks is talking about walking time, not driving time. I will not drive to the daycare. First of all, I have not have a driver license yet. Secondly, parking around the area is so difficult to find. Thirdly, it is easier for me to walk there, drop off Spencer and take the bus to work (the bus stop is just around the corner of the daycare center).

Honestly speaking, costs of daycare in SF differ so much. It ranges from $600 to $1,200 per month. Home care is usually cheaper but it depends on the location and what kind of people it serves. Chinese home care is always lower in cost. The one that I like before costs $13,000 per year but they are big and a few of my coworkers put their kids there and they all love it.
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發表於 07-12-22 06:30 |只看該作者
rosemag,

so when will you start putting your son in day care and when are you going back to work? Jan 2?

by the way, my previous company has already filled the job position. The person is an existing employee in another department. So it's an internal transfer.


原文章由 rose-mag 於 07-12-19 08:11 發表


bunnymonkey,
Finally, we chose the #2 which is so far okay amongst all. My husband cancelled the appointment of the $600 one on last Friday and the reason was that he was too tired. When I called ...


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發表於 07-12-22 12:23 |只看該作者
原文章由 mrschao 於 07-12-22 06:30 發表
rosemag,

so when will you start putting your son in day care and when are you going back to work? Jan 2?

by the way, my previous company has already filled the job position. The person is an existin ...


mrschao,

Spencer will go to daycare on Jan 2 and I'll go back to work on Jan 7. So, he has a few days to get used to the daycare. Both I and my hubby are kind of worry about him. He's so many behavioral issues now such as tantrum when he wants something but we refuse to give it to him; split out food when he does not like it; etc. Actually, he's going thru a lot of issues now -
1) teething for his last 4 teeth - he drools a lot and keeps putting his fingers into his mouth, bits everything even us. We scare that he would bit the other kids in the daycare and he maybe kicked out from there
2) cannot sleep without us next to him, we tried to train him to sleep on his own but his eczema is so bad recently and he sort of becomes so fussy
3) becomes jealous of the sister and would grasp her legs, scratch her face or hit her head when we pay attention to the sister only or when we scold him of doing things bad

I'm very tired recently on taking care the 2 little ones. I cannot imagine after I resume working.
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發表於 07-12-22 13:37 |只看該作者
rose-mag,

i absolutely understood yr son's sleeping problem due to eczema, coz my son's been having the same problem for 4 yrs now. when he wakes up, he wanna go to the bathroom too but he wants us to stand at the bathroom door to wait for him.

btw, i thought spencer's eczema problem's been improved after he's seen the chinese herbal doctor in chinatown. my son's been seeing a chinese herbal doctor on and off in our neighborhood for about couple months now, but the eczema still comes and goes. so i'm not sure quite sure if it really helps.
my friend's son (1-yr-old now)'s eczema's been completely gone after he's seen that dr. yu (who charges $120 to $160 per visit) in SF for 5 months. now he's stopped seeing the dr. for more than 3 months now and his eczema has never come back so far. so i'm thinking to take my son to see dr. yu again if he's eczema still not improved in 3 to 4 months.
my another friend's son (2-yr-old now)'s asthma also taken care by dr. yu. once he was hospitalized due to asthma attack.
so that chinese dr seems to be good, but i don't like her personality and afraid that my son might get allergic reaction from her herbs again.

原文章由 rose-mag 於 07-12-22 12:23 發表


mrschao,

Spencer will go to daycare on Jan 2 and I'll go back to work on Jan 7. So, he has a few days to get used to the daycare. Both I and my hubby are kind of worry about him. He's so many be ...


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發表於 07-12-22 13:42 |只看該作者
rose-mag,

for the temper tantrum problem, i think the kid'll usually got improved once they goes to day-care/preschool. my son had the same problem probably starting around 18 months old. since i couldn't handle it myself and couldn't find the right nanny, i couldn't wait to send him to preschool when he's 2. amazingly he's tantrum been improved a lot when he's 2 1/2, although he's still very active.

原文章由 rose-mag 於 07-12-22 12:23 發表


mrschao,

Spencer will go to daycare on Jan 2 and I'll go back to work on Jan 7. So, he has a few days to get used to the daycare. Both I and my hubby are kind of worry about him. He's so many be ...


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發表於 07-12-23 03:01 |只看該作者
SY_Mom,
Yes, my son's eczema has been better controlled before, just occassionally appeared but not serious. However, we needed to turn on the heater at night recently because of the cold weather. It made his skin dry plus we accidentally put J&J baby oil on him which contains fragrance. My sister in law told my hubby that she used mineral oil on herself and her 2 sons and gave them fish oil. They all had very bad eczema before and now it was totally cured. So, we went to buy mineral oil but only J&J baby oil which contains mineral oil and fragrance was available. We put it on Spencer for 3 days and his own body was rough and covered with red dots and rashes. Then, I stopped using it and my mom made some soup with 東瓜皮、荊介、片糖for him to take a bath. My mom used this on him for so long and it worked so good. However, it boostered his rashes this time and I could tell how itchy he felt. Spencer could not sleep at night and kept scratching. Not until the next morning that I realized how bad it was. It's the worse that I have ever seen on him - all red rashes, swollened... then I put a lot of Desonide 0.05% ointment on him and gave him hydroxyzinc at night to calm down to sleep. All these were subscription from dermatologist. This morning, although the skin is still rough but all the redness gone. Hope that he won't have problem any more.

Would you pm me the contact of dr. yu? Just in case that my son has problem again. In these days, we have made a lot of soup for my son anf gave him a lot of water everyday which is supposed to be good for skin.
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發表於 07-12-23 08:53 |只看該作者
各位Bay Area 媽咪,聖誕快樂,你地青春常駐,同老公恩恩愛愛,BB聽教聽話,快高長大,健健康康。

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發表於 07-12-24 08:18 |只看該作者
rose-mag, thank you for sharing the photos. nice pix!!

No need to worry too much about Spencer's mis-behavior. As long as you and your husband give him fair attention and reassure him that his little sister will not replace his position in the family, he will eventually understand. One thing he has to learn gradually is the concept of sharing. It will take time and going to day care should help. It's normal for small kids to bite each other at school. If it's not too serious or just happens once or twice, it's not a big trouble. I also told the day care when Shana started to go at 1.5 years old that she was a biter at home as she was teething. The teacher paid extra attention to her for a while. Nothing happened. Sometimes kids are naughty at home but behave very well at school.

原文章由 rose-mag 於 07-12-23 08:53 發表
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發表於 07-12-24 11:30 |只看該作者
hi all,

i'm so glad to find this 美國媽媽會 forum and meet so many bay area moms. i moved to sunnyvale since may 2006 and have liked here a lot. our first baby is due in may next year and i'd love to hear from you your experience and suggestions.

hope you all have a nice holiday and happy new year!!



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發表於 07-12-24 18:25 |只看該作者
babytomato,

Welcome. I live very close to Sunnyvale. :) How long have you been in the States? I have a 18 months old son. :)

原文章由 babytomato 於 07-12-24 11:30 發表
hi all,

i'm so glad to find this 美國媽媽會 forum and meet so many bay area moms. i moved to sunnyvale since may 2006 and have liked here a lot. our first baby is due in may next year and i'd love ...


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發表於 07-12-26 04:25 |只看該作者
i've been in the states since 1995 lar.... but have been moving around. we'll settle down in california as we just bought a townhouse in sunnyvale.

your son is 1.5 years old lar, are you a stay-home mom? i'll need to start looking for day care after the new year, any suggestions? thanks......


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發表於 07-12-26 04:54 |只看該作者
I see. I have been in the State since 1994 and have been moving around as well. I am not a stay-home mom and I go to work full time. I put my son in a Chinese Family Daycare (licensed) in Santa Clara. What type of daycare are you looking for (family daycare, nanny, American daycare facility)? Do you work full time? How long you plan to stay home after your baby is born? It depends how old your baby is when you put him/her to daycare. Most daycare may not take baby who are under 3 months old.

原文章由 babytomato 於 07-12-26 04:25 發表
i've been in the states since 1995 lar.... but have been moving around. we'll settle down in california as we just bought a townhouse in sunnyvale.

your son is 1.5 years old lar, are you a stay-home ...


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發表於 07-12-28 10:57 |只看該作者
Bunnymonkey,

i plan to send my baby to day care around 4 to 6 months, 4 days a week, do you know roughly how much the monthly cost would be?

also for the comcast cable subscriber, now we have all day tvb programs on channel 262 until mid jan....


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發表於 07-12-28 14:46 |只看該作者
For family daycare, it's about $900-1100 a month (for those I've visited). For American daycare facility, it's about $1400-1900 for infant. Older kids (like 2 yr or older) could be cheaper for those daycare facility.

I only have the cheapest comcat cable so I miss out the TVB channel. I heard from the radio that you can get those satelite Chinese for $20-40 a month. Anyway, I don't have time to watch much TV so we don't want to spend extra money on the cable. I found that I am online much more than watching TV :D

Is that TVB program live (tiny delay from HK's or are those TVB program that was produced for the US region?

原文章由 babytomato 於 07-12-28 10:57 發表
Bunnymonkey,

i plan to send my baby to day care around 4 to 6 months, 4 days a week, do you know roughly how much the monthly cost would be?

also for the comcast cable subscriber, now we have all da ...


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發表於 07-12-30 13:36 |只看該作者
Bunnymonkey,

do you like your son's daycare center? what is the caregiver to children ratio? does your son go there 5 days a week?

i just came across this website to buy children's shoes and they're mostly $1 or $2. they've the sale until 12/31...

www.darlingshoes.com


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發表於 07-12-30 16:51 |只看該作者
My son's daycare is fine. The place is nice, clean, and spacious. When my son first joined, the ratio was 1 to 1.5 caregiver (part-time helper) to 5 kids (my son was youngest - 11 months at the time). Now, they have 2 caregivers to 9 kids (which I think .. is a little bit too much now). But there are 6 kids older than my 18-month son and 2 younger. My son goes there Monday-Fri from ~9am till 6 pm.

Thanks for the link. Good price tho we need to consider the shipping cost too. :D but most of the shoes there only have smaller size left... so I won't be ordering anything for my son. :)

原文章由 babytomato 於 07-12-30 13:36 發表
Bunnymonkey,

do you like your son's daycare center? what is the caregiver to children ratio? does your son go there 5 days a week?

i just came across this website to buy children's shoes and they'r ...

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