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發表於 05-4-24 06:37 |只看該作者

Re: 請一起跟我走過在紐約黑暗無助的日子

Monogram, Nillie

My honey is keep bugging me to stay here.. I promise that I will come here to stay after the Chinese New Year... Even he was not happy, but he still respect me.. and frighten me that if I don't come then, he will pack his luggage & go there..

Have to go for dinner now.. talk later

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發表於 05-4-24 08:09 |只看該作者

Re: 請一起跟我走過在紐約黑暗無助的日子

Nillie_Mami ,
宜家先看到妳寫呢篇

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發表於 05-4-24 21:59 |只看該作者

Re: 請一起跟我走過在紐約黑暗無助的日子

731mon,
我產後抑鬱(PPD)咗多過一年, attemp suicide好多次, 試過差啲harm埋BB...上年6-7月, 99愈來愈過份... 需索無道, 我喊住同自已爸爸申訴, 我已經顛喇.... 但我爸爸對住我喊番轉頭, 點解一路自己唔講, 屈埋屈埋, 我話有啲咁嘅上門親家, 真係羞到開唔到口... 但之後, Amanda生日, 爸爸媽咪攞假過嚟睇我, 我已開心好多, 到今年2月, 我肥bearbear老公揾到BK呢個網頁,自從寫晒啲唔開心嘢出嚟, 醫生都話我已冇PPD 喇, 我要好多謝BK俾我有個地方express我嘅感受, 所以我做咁多forum幫返其他媽咪囉
winnieyiu,
I can feel why your honey's getting upset.. and I feel feel how you're worry about..
As this time, you did not feel bad.... right..
so try to stay next year, I did say again and again, that it is not possible for a pair of couple, separate in 2 places.
As your hubby tried to stay in hk, and this time, show how you love your hubby, please try for a while, stay in toronto for him, as your mom and relatives can come and visit you anytime.. ^o^ I will come and visit you too!

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發表於 05-4-25 15:36 |只看該作者

Re: 請一起跟我走過在紐約黑暗無助的日子

Nillie_Mami
張相係咪Amanda? 她著住件韓國衣服好得意呀

你都要多多保重身體呀!!!!

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發表於 05-4-25 17:01 |只看該作者

Re: 請一起跟我走過在紐約黑暗無助的日子

Nillie_Mami 寫道:
Monogram,
我哋揾咗nursery 架喇!
我哋諗住年尾conceive, 出年生多一個, 咁Amanda會有個伴囉!

Nillie_Mami ,

原來妳已想好生多個架啦, 咁點都好, 下一次坐月要遠離衰奶奶, 真係無咩事都唔好叫佢黎, 自己請陪月同埋做咩決定都唔需要同奶奶講, 費事佢又搭咀。
我都打算生多個, 昨天去幫老公求簽, 個解簽佬問我地兩公婆既時晨八字, 佢話呢兩年內我應該會大肚

係就好啦。

我個仔至從上次比衰印印虾之後, 今次請新印印, 奶奶每星期都會突擊來我家睇吓印妹做成點....佢經過上次事件已知唔可以唔理個孫, 因為上次個印印做得太衰啦。

所有遇見，皆有因果
要是每個人都懂你，那你得有多平凡

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發表於 05-4-26 00:26 |只看該作者

Re: 請一起跟我走過在紐約黑暗無助的日子

小詠,
我估新印印開頭上工會避忌些, 但你同99唔好鬆懈下來, 因為一過幾個月, 先會知佢點做嘢呢... 咁都好, 99開始有番自覺性...
喂!喂!去求簽不如喺屋企努力[造人]..

mayuki,
我開始食燕窩喇, 希望身體會好啲啦....

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發表於 05-4-26 17:38 |只看該作者

Re: 請一起跟我走過在紐約黑暗無助的日子

winnieyiu,nille,

I totally agree about what Nille said, this is not possible and not too good to seperate a couple in 2 places. Let try again in Chinese New Year. I can feel that your hubby loves you so much, of course you do too.

If you stay in Toronto for good, when I come to visit my family, I can also visit you too.

I really hope that both of you do not need to separate anymore.

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發表於 05-4-27 10:30 |只看該作者

Re: 請一起跟我走過在紐約黑暗無助的日子

Nillie, Monogram

Nillie -- Last time, it was too rush that I have forgotten to say "Congraudation" that you get a satisfy job ar..

When will you start working ar ??? So, enjoy your free time before work lar...

Thanks for both of your advise and comments, in fact, I know it dosn't make sense for a couple apart... However, I have my own concern & worry that I explain to my honey, and he also agreed & we already compromise

He will come to HK for the Chinese New Year, then I come back with him...

Monogram,

May be we can meet in HK when I come back ar..

Where do you work ?? :wink:

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發表於 05-4-27 11:58 |只看該作者

請一起跟我走過在紐約黑暗無助的日子

Winnieyiu, monogram, Wendy, Mayuki, 小詠
I got another offer today, that I need to relocate to California, they will ring me tomorrow morning, to confirm ..will I consider their offer... very attractive offer
sign in bonus USD7500
relocation USD7000
month expense for 3 of us each month USD 1200
salary USD 31/hours (40 hours = full time)

They planned to book the air tickets, car rental and hotel (3 days 2 nights) for 3 of us (me, hubby and amanda) for the hospital pre-view, then we will decide to sign the contract or not.
Very attractive.. really wanna give up the offer in Manhattan ... ( I am a bad girl)

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發表於 05-4-27 13:34 |只看該作者

Re: 請一起跟我走過在紐約黑暗無助的日子

winnieyiu,

This is good about you guys have been talked about this matter and compromised already. I do hope that you two do not need to be apart anymore soon.

Oh yeah, we can meet in HK, how silly I am. I am a full time mother.

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發表於 05-4-27 13:39 |只看該作者

Re: 請一起跟我走過在紐約黑暗無助的日子

Nillie,

How does you hubby feel? If I am you, I will go and see. It is a really good offer. But, the other consideration is you have to move to there...

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發表於 05-4-27 15:54 |只看該作者

Re: 請一起跟我走過在紐約黑暗無助的日子

Nillie,

那妳真係不用愁, 以妳既專業知識去那兒都不愁生計...可以比妳奶奶睇清楚, 邊個話無才能的!

所有遇見，皆有因果
要是每個人都懂你，那你得有多平凡

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發表於 05-4-27 20:08 |只看該作者

Re: 請一起跟我走過在紐約黑暗無助的日子

小詠,

絕對同意你所講呀﹗

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發表於 05-4-28 11:35 |只看該作者

Re: 請一起跟我走過在紐約黑暗無助的日子

winnieyiu, monogram, 小詠, mayuki, minima,
hee hee.. we accepted the offer, and they will start to plan the site visit for us very soon.
Beside, my sister will come over to New york for visit, we will go to Boston to meet her & my old high school friend, then we will go to florida for a week.. to disney world resort.. yeah!....
then when she leaves, time for us to pack and go to californina

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發表於 05-4-28 12:57 |只看該作者

Re: 請一起跟我走過在紐約黑暗無助的日子

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發表於 05-4-28 13:29 |只看該作者

Re: 請一起跟我走過在紐約黑暗無助的日子

nillie,

好呀﹗絕對贊成你地一家去睇下﹗咁會幾時過去？

嘩﹗正呀﹗Florida, Disney World Resort﹗﹗﹗等我的小朋友再大d，我一定會返Toronto時順道同家人去玩呀~~而家就發住夢先啦﹗

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發表於 05-4-29 00:15 |只看該作者

Re: 請一起跟我走過在紐約黑暗無助的日子

tcj,
如果肥bearbear老公喺melbourne揾到食, 我根本唔會過new york. 你都知melbourne啲人工幾低架啦!
我都好掛住melbourne啲friends, 親人同一草一木呢... :-( :-( :-(
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你老公會唔會好唔開心, 佢Ｄ屋企人咁差, 連自己亞媽都係咁樣 ! 点解重要住近佢地呀 ? 番澳洲咪會開心D !
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因為佢以為俾錢99佢哋,佢哋會對自己好咯, 向來最失竉嗰個細路都係對屋企最忠心架啦... 最得寵嘅,反而最易敗家... 佢屋企人係好例子.

反正唔同99住,又冇血緣關係, 咪做hi-bye relative咯... 唔好太介懷佢講乜, 唔答咀, 唔好expect 佢會當自己係屋企人, so far, 佢只不過係路人甲乙丙就算... 開心啲喇!

monogram,
快喇, 我哋應該6月搬去加州lu!

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發表於 05-4-29 01:29 |只看該作者

Re: 請一起跟我走過在紐約黑暗無助的日子

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發表於 05-4-29 09:38 |只看該作者

Re: 請一起跟我走過在紐約黑暗無助的日子

Nillie,

咁妳先生點睇?去加州住要搬離佢家人,同埋, 妳先生係咪要在加州再找工作呢? 小朋友的保母也未必跟埋一齊搬架!

所有遇見，皆有因果
要是每個人都懂你，那你得有多平凡

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