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Re: 2004年8月媽咪會 (Part 5)

我都係呀, 霖霖都係同我訓的. 佢的牀仔已經收埋好耐. 佢自己訓, 一晚就醒3-4次, 同我訓, 有時可以一覺天光, 有時都會起一,兩次身

金媽, 你唔忍心"訂" 金仔落街的. 佢咁可愛:mrgreen: :mrgreen:

金毛B媽寫道:
嘩...聽完你地咁講, 原來咁多 B 都要同 daddy, mami 訓架, 雖然金仔平日好痴身, 不過佢一訓覺就自己訓係床仔, 好小醒, 而家佢好多時日頭自己係床仔訓, 工人話佢唔駛暗, 我諗佢覺得呢排冬, 係被"豆"暖 d 掛

如果金仔仲要晚上成日起身, 我諗我可能會"訂" 佢落街, 所以佢就乖乖自己訓 :mrgreen: :mrgreen:

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Re: 2004年8月媽咪會 (Part 5)

PoPo/如媽

你兩個的睡眠質素又真係差點呀

PoPo 寫道:
[quote]
如如媽寫道:
ssa,
我有時仲要左一個右一個 :cry: :cry: 諗起都想 :-( :-( :-(

如媽: 妳簡直講出我寫照 :-( :-( [/quote]

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Re: 2004年8月媽咪會 (Part 5)

c我呀

GiggsMom 寫道:
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ssassa 寫道:
傑斯媽,

緊係由房做到出廳, 再做到入廚房, 跟住去埋玩具房, 最後返入睡房, 跟住應該無晒力, 可以順便訓覺喇~ 哈哈哈哈!

喂!妳個行程漏左廁所wow![/quote]

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Re: 2004年8月媽咪會 (Part 5)

你講到佢咁難玩呀

ssassa 寫道:
天欣總之訓覺就要搵人陪, 佢好似驚我地去左玩唔預佢咁~

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Re: 2004年8月媽咪會 (Part 5)

NN,
我CHECK 過喎~~ 冇其他多既嘢呀!!!!

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Re: 2004年8月媽咪會 (Part 5)

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Re: 2004年8月媽咪會 (Part 5)

各位.......我可能生得喇....而家個肚好痛....不過未見紅, 唔通金妹真係趕住出黎同大家見面

.......好痛呀............. :cry: :cry:

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發表於 05-12-31 06:07 |只看該作者

Re: 2004年8月媽咪會 (Part 5)

金毛B媽寫道:
各位.......我可能生得喇....而家個肚好痛....不過未見紅, 唔通金妹真係趕住出黎同大家見面

.......好痛呀............. :cry: :cry:

Kam Ma,

All the best for your labour!!!
I hope to see Kam Mui very soon!!!
Take care and relax!!!

Hi Everyone

Hoyin used to have sleeping problem when he was 9 to 14 months.
He has always been sleeping by himself since 1 month.
He sleeps through the nite since 3 months.
When he was 9 months old, he had a cold and was sick for a month.
We tried to comfort him and held him quite a lot during that month.
My 99 was very attentive (she would run to his bed and pick him up immediately).
Hoyin then developed a bad sleeping habit (wakes up a few times a nite and needs to be held or sleep with adult).
My hubby and I went to do a parenting course and they taught us very detailedly how to deal with bb sleeping problems (many different kinds).
When Hoyin was 13 months (couldnt stand it anymore), we used control crying method.
He then slept through by himself and resettled himself in two weeks.
It's a simple method but need a lot of determination to achieve.
It includes mealtime schedule, bedtime routine, sleeping by himself, what you say and do before bedtime, bedroom environment, how to deal when he wakes up at nite, control crying.
He now sleeps by himself day and nite and when he wakes up at nite, he will settle himself back (cry a bit).
Well, I think it is hard work to begin with but it's all worth it (a good nite sleep everyday).
Hoyin goes to bed at 8pm and sleeps until 6:30 to 7:30am.
He has one nap for two hours (after lunch) usually.
My hubby and I really enjoy the quiet nite time that we can use (I watch TV or book and he plays games).
Please let me know if you want to know more.

I wish you all a very Happy New Year!!!

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Re: 2004年8月媽咪會 (Part 5)

金媽，
點環境呀?? 生咗未??
祝你生產順利...金妹肥肥白白..

hiyinma,
好耐冇見你喇...你點呀?工作順利嗎?
嘩...你好勁呀...2個星期已經可以控制到hoyin乖乖地自己瞓...真係要多多向你學習...其實個方法要點實行呢??
小魚而家瞓覺好過以前..不過都係...

..近呢個月仲衰..半夜起身要認人...只可以婆婆同我抱...好慘呀.. :cry: :cry:

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Re: 2004年8月媽咪會 (Part 5)

金媽,
金妹可能想做2006年第一個bb呀!
小心d呀!放鬆心情去迎接金妹既出世,我地等你好消息

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Re: 2004年8月媽咪會 (Part 5)

金媽,金爸,金仔,
收到消息金妹已出世,congraduation!!!

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Re: 2004年8月媽咪會 (Part 5)

congraduation

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Re: 2004年8月媽咪會 (Part 5)

金家:

CONGRADUATION呀!!!!!

[size=medium]*Humphrey*

[size=small]04年8月28日10:40am係浸會出世7磅3安士

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Re: 2004年8月媽咪會 (Part 5)

[size=xx-large]HAPPY NEW YEAH!!![size=large]祝個個都身體健健康康,小朋友快高長大,心想事成,咩都最好!!!

[size=medium]*Humphrey*

[size=small]04年8月28日10:40am係浸會出世7磅3安士

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發表於 05-12-31 16:47 |只看該作者

Re: 2004年8月媽咪會 (Part 5)

jollydophin 寫道:
金媽，
點環境呀?? 生咗未??
祝你生產順利...金妹肥肥白白..

hiyinma,
好耐冇見你喇...你點呀?工作順利嗎?
嘩...你好勁呀...2個星期已經可以控制到hoyin乖乖地自己瞓...真係要多多向你學習...其實個方法要點實行呢??
小魚而家瞓覺好過以前..不過都係...
..近呢個月仲衰..半夜起身要認人...只可以婆婆同我抱...好慘呀.. :cry: :cry:

Kam family,

Congratulations for the born of Kam Mui!!!
I m looking forward to seeing her soon!!
Must be a very pretty bb girl like her mum!!!

Jolly,

As I said before, this method involves mealtime, bedtime and during waking up time.
You need to be able to stand small fish crying and not pick up him immediately.

First of all, set up a timetable for him.
He will have his milk at least 30mins to 45 mins before bed time.
After milk, he will need to stay in his bedroom to calm down (no running around and playing too much).
Then develop the bed time routine (must do everything the same everyday).
Hoyin's routine is like this:
1. Have his bottle
2. Close the curtain and turn on the nite light (must be dark enough)
3. Listen to music (signal for bedtime)
4. Brush teeth
5. Read stories to him (about 1/2 hour)
6. Say goodnite and ask him to sleep
7. put him to bed and leave

We then wont go in his room until he is sound asleep.
He will cry a bit at the first few days then will be less and less.

The key is the whole routine and the bedroom environment and the right timing (dont put him to sleep when you know that he is not tired at all).

Also put him down when he is awake is very important.
After that, if he wakes up at nite, we will not go to see him immediately.
We will first wait for 5 mins (listen to his crying) then go to see him and comfort him (not picking up).
when he is settled, we leave him.
He might cry again and we will wait for 10 mins to go to his room.
For the first few nites, he might end up crying for a couple of hours.
When he gets the message that crying will not get attention, good behaviour does, he will then sleep by himself happily.
When he sleeps by himself and not crying at nite, give him a good kiss and praises in the morning.

We had a hard time when we started this programme as Hoyin only stayed with us 5 nites then stayed with his grandparents.
His grandma wont let him cry for a few seconds.
We need to work even harder to achieve this as he experiences two systems.
I think Hoyin is smart enough to know what he can do at home and at grandma.
He started to sleep well at home then slowly at grandma's.
He still plays up a bit sometimes at grandma's but generallly sleeps very well.
He has been sick for a while for the past two months and he is sleeping through everynite.

Add oil!!
I can type the book for you if you want to know more (just a few pages).

Happy New Year to everyone again!!!!

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Re: 2004年8月媽咪會 (Part 5)

Happy New Year to all of you

Hoyinma,

nice to see u again in BK!!! and hoyin grows up alot!!!

my method used to let Joshua to sleep in our designed routine is quite similar to yours... but something in addition to your procedure... I know Joshua likes to 'touch' a cloth (紗) and he will sleep in a short time...

however, we find that if he doesn't eat much solid food during dinner time... I have to wake up during 3 am again... :-( :-( :-(

so... I must try my best to push as much food as possible every nite

I have gone over the baby bible again and again to him... and so thus the rhymes...big picture books...

but still I find that even though Joshua can understand most of our instructions ... (without hints)... he still doesn't speak out!!!

吾家三隻小豬樂融融 ;-) ;-) ;-)

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Re: 2004年8月媽咪會 (Part 5)

金媽,金爸,金仔,
congratulations
!

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Re: 2004年8月媽咪會 (Part 5)

各位..新年快樂...

HOYINMA,
你講得好詳細呀...唔該晒..
我真係好偑服你能夠實行到呢個方法..而家hoyin咁乖，肯自己瞓..你真係有一定功勞...
對我嚟講...每晚既私人時間我冇咗好耐lu..最多都要等小魚瞓咗先可以有少少..而且你個方法對我嚟講真係有d難度..我個case同你個case某部份一樣..小魚同樣由婆婆照顧﹝夜晚同婆婆同房﹞..你話婆婆點會比小魚喊咁耐吖..唉...c症...
今日婆婆唔係度...我用咗我方法..諗住要小魚自己瞓..我放佢係我張床度碌..要佢自己瞓..點知佢碌碌下就喊..喊咗好耐我都唔抱佢..佢都係繼續喊..終於..我又衰係佢手上..

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