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Re: 小朋友大脾氣,可以點教

jenniferkwok 寫道:
SandraLo
讚既方法我都會用，但畢竟小朋友點都會有曳曳既時候，咁我想問如果出現我所講個3種情況，係應該點糾正呢？

我敢講你一定未睇番之前啲 post，因為你若睇咗，你識得用讚嚟改正佢的壞行為，你就不用不停話佢，佢亦不會有這種反應；你先想想佢點解咁講/做，唔咁做佢又可以做乜；易地而處，如果你俾你老闆「不停咁話」你，你可以做乜？劈炮？

好明顯，佢呢d反應/舉動，代表無奈，無助，同冇嘢可以做，對2歲半小朋友嚟講，佢嘅表達能力同方式已經非常好，俾第二d，可能係大喊、掟嘢同打人！

問題依家出响你身上，你要學識点改正佢唔好嘅行為 (即係你要話佢嘅嘢)，而唔係冇用都堅持「話」佢，重要唔停咁話，然後叫我教你点樣令佢唔好咁反應！！！

唉，送佛送到西，你唔睇我唯有揾一個quote出嚟，我一向冇咁做係因為我知有媽咪一直追睇，我唔想重覆。一再重申，我係「十分」希望你睇番d post，at least多幾個，學識點讚，然後無須再「話」佢！

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現在徦設我們都不知道他為什麼發脾氣，但依然可進行「行為矯正」。
其實非常簡單，你用讚他一個好的行為來代替罵或者「話」他一個不當的行為。不要以為簡單便無效……
你說他每日有兩三次無故發脾氣，打人、大叫和掉嘢，於是這個便是不當的行為；相對地，他好的行為便是「不發脾氣的時候」。
好啦！我猜你不和他一起時他是不會發作的，當你和他在家好端端時，便讚他：bb好乖喎，冇發脾氣，冇打人又冇掉嘢喎，好好呀，我地一齊食雪糕啦 (可以是看TV或講故事，只要他喜歡的，hug一吓亦可)！
注意：一定不可以在他發脾氣時才用這些話試圖安撫，所以 timing 很重要。第一次用的那一天，可以早午晚講一次；假如他有次真的發了，不要罵或者「話」，只用堅定的語氣告訴他一次他打人和掉嘢不對 (他未必完全明什麽叫發脾氣)，然後可以用番你的方法罸他或ignore 他，要注意的是他吵鬧時你不可有任何反應，即是不可表現嬲，不可罵或話 (比如同佢講：我話咗你啦….又俾我罸….衰唔衰呀等) 甚至說話都可免則免；另外不好罸關在房中，因你見不到他只會更担心他在做些什麽，罸站或坐 naughty chair 也可，他離開便將他抱回，之後，簡單告訴他多一次他錯什麽，要他 say sorry，然後hug 他一吓，不用叫他當時解釋原因 (我猜他自己不會知道，也未識表達)，但可以往後閒談或story time時再傾番！
响香港嘅環境，我覺得唔適合 isolate小朋友响房，特別係佢地喊緊嘅時候，你要佢入房，雜物很多，關咗門又唔知佢做乜，五分鐘佢重喊緊時放佢出嚟，佢會以為因為勁喊所以放佢，下次會喊得重「持久」啲，所以响香港 Naughty Chair 較適合。
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以上case你可學點讚，但有啲嘢你未必啱用，三日前我亦解釋過点解我唔教媽咪用罸，你睇番，有問題或唔work再上嚟問啦！

教仔心得：媽咪容易犯的錯誤
http://www.baby-kingdom.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=951856&extra=&page=1

成日話「讚」可以改正小朋友壞行為，到底點解同點讚？
http://forum.baby-kingdom.com//v ... page%3D1&page=1

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Re: 小朋友大脾氣,可以點教

SandraLo,

幾星期之前我曾經請教過你d問題, 我真的發覺小女真的乖了很多, 雖然都有曳的時候, 還可接受, 你用讚的方法真的很有用(可用不同地方, 只要想她改的地方便可用), 在此再次說聲多謝!

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Re: 小朋友大脾氣,可以點教

chansc912 寫道:
SandraLo,
幾星期之前我曾經請教過你d問題, 我真的發覺小女真的乖了很多, 雖然都有曳的時候, 還可接受, 你用讚的方法真的很有用(可用不同地方, 只要想她改的地方便可用), 在此再次說聲多謝!
chansc912

太好啦，你知道「可用於不同地方, 只要想她改的地方便可用」，就證明你明白哂点用！

只要記住唔好「話」太多，(尤其係當小朋友上咗小學功課多時)，平心靜氣，必可平穩過渡至五年級！

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Re: 小朋友大脾氣,可以點教

KarissaMaMa 寫道:
SandraLo,
好開心見到E個topic,我係一個全職媽咪，亦有工人幫手。但由BB出世至今(下個月2歲)，都主要係我照顧佢，但佢的脾氣很大，其實早於半年前(歲半)，佢已經成日話打人，唔順佢意思就會打人，我哋之前都有罰佢去naughty Room,出嚟都會話俾佢知佢做錯D乜，仲會hug佢。因為佢每次去naughty room都哭，話好驚，我哋就停咗罰佢，轉咗好嚴厲地告訴佢做錯D乜！近來，再罰佢去naughty room，佢都唔驚，反而係入面玩！(我覺得佢嚟度撐)

我跟daddy 真係俾plenty 的attention佢，我哋都exhausted。

(1)快近2歲，脾氣更壞，常常舉發脾氣(一日很多次)，打人，甚至出手打我，我開始體罰，打她的咀，並告訴她，她講了一些不應講的說話。有效嗎？
(2)她的脾氣大，而且很跟我。但我想放佢去全日的pre-nursery，讓佢知道要珍惜爸媽，有用嗎？
(3)身心很疲倦，很想去返工，這時離開女兒，會不會有更負面的影響？
謝謝您！

KarissaMaMa：

我啱啱 quote 番呢個 topic 之前嘅一個post 上嚟答jenniferkwok，就啱哂你個 case..... 快啲睇番....

你的問題：
(1) 除咗呢個 post，重有好多你都啱「洗」，有時間 study 吓，跟住做，又係寫包單包掂！不用打，亦不要打。

(2) 小朋友適應力强，返學係遲早嘅事，你搞佢唔掂，可以俾佢返半日的pre-nursery，目的係自己休息，但記住唔好俾佢覺得你要佢返學係要嚟罸佢見唔到爸媽，咁會有反效果，亦令佢以為返學=被罸，佢太細，未識珍惜一樣嘢，重有，如果你決定要佢返學的話，就唔好因為佢喊或者唔鍾意而 quit！

(3) 「負面的影響」就多數都冇，但要留意小朋友的情緒反應；全職媽咪並不是一份容易的エ作，因為係24小時 on call加很難有實質的成功感 (唔知幾時至算 complete的project)，所以唔係個個啱，你要睇吓自己係邊類人嚟決定(我就一定要返工嗰隻)，如果有保留，試吓返 part-time 先都好，重要睇埋你エ人是否 reliable！

我建議你用讚嘅方法搞掂佢嘅脾氣再諗，如果唔搞，長遠佢去返學或者你去返エ都係冇用！

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Re: 小朋友大脾氣,可以點教

SandraLo

Thx. 唔好意思

其實我都有睇，不過可能我digest得唔係幾好&蠢，同埋到實行時又做唔到俾返哂先生

我諗雖然我成日讚佢但可能個the wording is not right or the timing is not right！ i guess i should practice more to find out. thx

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Re: 小朋友大脾氣,可以點教

SandraLo,
我個女呢排好鐘意在眾人面前或餐廳玩水,將水倒到通地都係,我唔可以ignore佢,因為有好多朋友,佢地以為我唔教佢,又唔可以擺佢去naughty chair或naughty corner,咁可以點做?
Thanks!

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Re: 小朋友大脾氣,可以點教

MrsBunBun 寫道:
SandraLo,
我個女呢排好鐘意在眾人面前或餐廳玩水,將水倒到通地都係,我唔可以ignore佢,因為有好多朋友,佢地以為我唔教佢,又唔可以擺佢去naughty chair或naughty corner,咁可以點做?
Thanks!

MrsBunBun：

你有冇睇chansc912尋晚個 post？我估佢都可以教到你啦！

每逢去到餐廳或有人嚟時，响佢未玩水[size=medium]之前，一定要未開始玩時，讚佢：嘩你今日好乖喎，冇玩水整到周圍濕喎，快啲嚟睇呀鍾意食セ媽咪請你啦！
搞掂！

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Re: 小朋友大脾氣,可以點教

jenniferkwok 寫道:
SandraLo
Thx. 唔好意思其實我都有睇，不過可能我digest得唔係幾好&蠢，同埋到實行時又做唔到俾返哂先生
我諗雖然我成日讚佢但可能個the wording is not right or the timing is not right！ i guess i should practice more to find out. thx

加油！你一定得架！

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Re: 小朋友大脾氣,可以點教

Hi SandraLo

我每晚同我仔食飯都好勞氣 -- 因為佢坐唔定, 一開飯就話唔食, 好辛苦(又氹又罵都要食一個鐘)至食完半碗飯(兒童闊碗), 佢知我會收碗, 所以叫我比機會佢, 又會攬住隻碗唔放
出街食又係唔坐定定, 又企上chair又玩fork/ spoon/ plate/ bowl, 試過比佢帶玩具/ 畫畫, 都只可令佢坐一陣(當然亦都有大力讚賞, 但都只係坐定一陣), 但佢好快又要落地四圍走, 或搞搞陣

我而家令佢食飯的「利誘」係可以同我zzz(佢最鐘意), 食飯限時一個鐘, 食唔晒d飯我就收碗(又要我全程睇住&勞氣一輪), 收碗佢就無得同我zzz(佢的死穴), 要自己zzz

[我覺得呢個方法好似唔work:
一/seems that 佢唔怕hungry, 只要有得玩就ok;
二/要自己zzz ==>變成罰佢自己zzz(理應encourage自己zzz, not a punishment, right?)
三/如果無得同我zzz, 我地要攪好耐至令佢zzz – after 12.00 am (佢會喺房出出入入 request many many times for my companion, of course會 :-( :-( :-( :-( :-( :-( but 我唔理佢, then dad will explain to him & sleep with him, ===> 結果佢果晚會zzz得唔好, 影響next morning唔肯起身返學, 訓得少, 個人累, 放學回家又容易發脾氣, 食飯又無心機啦, 咪好似一個惡性循環?!)

===> 專家你點睇呀?

我地平時食飯唔睇tv, 不過有一次我處理完佢d脾氣(成個鐘呀), 我去沖涼, 開隻vcd叫佢食住先, 點知佢自己一個又坐得定又食得好快喎

, 到我坐埋一齊食呢佢又故態復萌, 咁我可以點做呢?

唔知係咪我份人比較燥, 好容易罵佢,唔知係咪罵得多, 我覺得佢有點「軑皮蛇」, 我罵佢佢好似聽唔到, 仲嘻皮笑臉,被佢激c

佢仲有發脾氣(可能我唔夠堅持la)<如喺街上發脾氣, 佢仲會打人tim>,例如放學回家我快過佢除鞋洗手呢, 佢就會發脾氣打我 (佢知唔啱, 會呵返我, 但佢次次都會忍唔到手打人--打咗再呵返&道歉), c 都要我著返對鞋等佢怏過我, 我試過 ignore 佢呢d行為, 教佢, 佢對我死纏難打(攬實我對腳唔放)唔肯受罰eg naughty chair, 可以點改佢呢?

btw, 我都好想佢早d zzz, 佢返全日, 喺學校 zzz 咗 afternoon sleep (if don't let him sleep, he will lose temper easily), 晚晚早極都要stay on bed until 11.30pm 至zzz (10.30pm go to bed already), 第二朝又唔願起身…唉!

請賜教賜教!!謝謝!!

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Re: 小朋友大脾氣,可以點教

twg 寫道:
Hi SandraLo

我每晚同我仔食飯都好勞氣 -- 因為佢坐唔定, 一開飯就話唔食, 好辛苦(又氹又罵都要食一個鐘)至食完半碗飯(兒童闊碗), 佢知我會收碗, 所以叫我比機會佢, 又會攬住隻碗唔放
出街食又係唔坐定定, 又企上chair又玩fork/ spoon/ plate/ bowl, 試過比佢帶玩具/ 畫畫, 都只可令佢坐一陣(當然亦都有大力讚賞, 但都只係坐定一陣), 但佢好快又要落地四圍走, 或搞搞陣

我而家令佢食飯的「利誘」係可以同我zzz(佢最鐘意), 食飯限時一個鐘, 食唔晒d飯我就收碗(又要我全程睇住&勞氣一輪), 收碗佢就無得同我zzz(佢的死穴), 要自己zzz

[我覺得呢個方法好似唔work:
一/seems that 佢唔怕hungry, 只要有得玩就ok;
二/要自己zzz ==>變成罰佢自己zzz(理應encourage自己zzz, not a punishment, right?)
三/如果無得同我zzz, 我地要攪好耐至令佢zzz – after 12.00 am (佢會喺房出出入入 request many many times for my companion, of course會 :-( :-( :-( :-( :-( :-( but 我唔理佢, then dad will explain to him & sleep with him, ===> 結果佢果晚會zzz得唔好, 影響next morning唔肯起身返學, 訓得少, 個人累, 放學回家又容易發脾氣, 食飯又無心機啦, 咪好似一個惡性循環?!)

===> 專家你點睇呀?

我地平時食飯唔睇tv, 不過有一次我處理完佢d脾氣(成個鐘呀), 我去沖涼, 開隻vcd叫佢食住先, 點知佢自己一個又坐得定又食得好快喎 , 到我坐埋一齊食呢佢又故態復萌, 咁我可以點做呢?

唔知係咪我份人比較燥, 好容易罵佢,唔知係咪罵得多, 我覺得佢有點「軑皮蛇」, 我罵佢佢好似聽唔到, 仲嘻皮笑臉,被佢激c

佢仲有發脾氣(可能我唔夠堅持la)<如喺街上發脾氣, 佢仲會打人tim>,例如放學回家我快過佢除鞋洗手呢, 佢就會發脾氣打我 (佢知唔啱, 會呵返我, 但佢次次都會忍唔到手打人--打咗再呵返&道歉), c 都要我著返對鞋等佢怏過我, 我試過 ignore 佢呢d行為, 教佢, 佢對我死纏難打(攬實我對腳唔放)唔肯受罰eg naughty chair, 可以點改佢呢?
btw, 我都好想佢早d zzz, 佢返全日, 喺學校 zzz 咗 afternoon sleep (if don't let him sleep, he will lose temper easily), 晚晚早極都要stay on bed until 11.30pm 至zzz (10.30pm go to bed already), 第二朝又唔願起身…唉!
請賜教賜教!!謝謝!!

twg：

唔……. 其實你都相當清楚問題响邊……. 只係你冇「的」起心肝去改你自己一啲唔好嘅習慣！

請必先留意三大錯處： (1) 罵、話係冇乜用，重要我覺得佢巳經有啲attention seeking，即係你話佢除咗冇效之外，佢有機會故意做曳嘢等你反應。 (2) 唔多覺你有用讚嚟處理佢發脾氣同打人(之前教過)；你亦從未成功地ignore佢，換句話說你未用得倒ignore呢招！(3) 錯誤地apply consequence (罸) – 將食飯同瞓教掛勾，引起更多問題。
如果「一開飯就話唔食」，佢會唔會係 tea 得太勁或者係零食太多影響胃口？首先，等佢餓啲至食，份量再减啲，務求佢完成得到就讚佢，等佢可以嚐到讚的甜頭，点讚睇番之前的post，千祈唔好讚錯，讚錯一定唔 work！你嘅「食唔晒d飯就收碗」本來已經係一個罸 (冇得再食)，佢亦似乎幾緊張 (可能唔係緊張冇得食，而係你嘅反應)，但你只係講，並冇嚴格執行，就助長咗佢「

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Re: 小朋友大脾氣,可以點教

okok SandraLo

I'll try to improve myself and work hard for my kid

about eating:
I'll try your method tonite:
1> no tea time after 6 pm
2> 8 pm dinner
3> less rice
4> no tv
5> 不要不停的提他或哦他

thanks for your response

hope to reading your further advise

btw, I have been praising him many many times when he was not doing bad things but he will quicly forget what I've praised him and do the bad thing again afterwards, eg he loves to watch different types of vehicles at the road kerb of the street, it's very dangerous and he will struggle with me every time when I pick him from school. and I have told him not to touch the wheel of bus and I have praised him in the street when we saw bus stopping at the bus stop, but seems that he always forget what I've praised him before and he's repeating the same malpractice. He knows he should not do that but he can't control. how should I do?
每次揍放學我都好提心吊膽, 唔敢同佢去唔同的地方, 佢心情好都拿拿聲&一路提住/讚住返屋企, 相反就罵住返屋企, 或者抱返去算數
6299 & 婆婆都怕咗揍佢放學/ 去玩(因為佢好容易'fing'開佢地隻手走咗去馬路睇車,又捉佢唔到) 個個都話揍佢放學/ 去街好似開大細咁, 好有壓力, 又抱唔得幾多, 又追唔到嘞, 真係驚有意外!

I know praising is workable, but is it necessary for me to praise him minute by minute to remind him he is good? pls advise, many thanks

u mentioned: Ignore 係唔俾反應
我罰我仔時我都試過在安全的情況下(在家)由他自己吵鬧, 但佢會追住我&攬實我對腳唔放, 同我講話佢冷靜咗啦, but actually he's not really calm down, he only wants me to hug him becoz once when I hug him, he lose temper again, so I will 放低佢 and repeat what I've told him <I will hug u when u calm down>, he will repeat & repeat the same act until several times and chase me around the house (usually last for more than an hour) until he could really calm down, 咁我就同佢講道理

==> do u mean that under what situation/ location (even in the street) he lose temper and hit ppl, we just STOP him and say NO to him? but he's too quick to hit ppl and we'r too slow to stop him....so he had been scolded by ppl in the street previously, and as him mum, I also suffered :-( :-(

for this, I'm just feeling frustrated about such act (esp affecting others), I'll get

for his act, but feeling :-( :-( at the same time

I know he's not the one who will hit ppl and he's not the worst, he will be good after some time and my LORD is always with me, HE will carry me thru, but u know, human is human! limited ability! I need

I just want to help him to be good and could set a good example / guidance to his little brother, I know I have to improve him and teach him well to benefit his little brother, if not, I'll have 2 little monsters!! then the situation would be much worser then today

about sleeeping:

問題係：佢搞嘢你又去話佢，咁佢就已經得逞啦！如果佢搞嘢你唔理佢，我就打死都唔信佢可以自己一個玩兩個鐘！

==> I have used to sleep with him, I'll close the bedroom door and switch off the light and stay aside with him until he sleep. but he will run away from the bed and open the door to run in & out from the bedroom, sometimes switching on & off the lamp, sometimes he will request to go to the toilet and he will play the watertap & pour water over the toilet, once he could escape from the bedroom, he would do everything he could to escape from sleeping, eg he used to use a touch to hit door/ window/ TV/ floor (I received complaints from the ppl downstairs) if the day he was tired enough to stay on bed, he would 'meet' u/ crawl on your body/ jump on the bed/ use blankets to cover his face (he said he acts like a monster wor) --- everything he could do to wake u up

, then how could I ignore him le?
I've tried to praise him when he stay on bed but he would acting bad very quick and forget my praising
how could I do?

thank you thank you for your patience and handling techniques, I know I'm not very familiar to use it and I'll try my best to remember all of them and use them!

唔好意思, 好多問題, Hoping that I'm not troubling u la, anyway, sincere thanks

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Re: 小朋友大脾氣,可以點教

twg :

今日响公司打緊一篇嘢，提媽咪容易犯錯嘅地方，但到走都未打好，返到嚟再睇你個 post，覺得有少少唔對路，哭鬧、發脾氣嗰啲行為唔難處理，但會打陌生人同會搞巴士wheels嗰度就有啲問題...... ..由於我打中文(手寫板)超慢，我想逐樣嚟，搞完一樣先一樣，唔好 miss 咗細節，盡量揾出做錯嘅地方，應該一定可以矯正得到！

我覺得小朋友瞓覺緊要過食，我想搞咗呢樣先，想問佢起身時間同午睡時間瞓幾耐，平日 diet 會不會有很多零食及甜食？
如果你想小朋友旱啲瞓，8pm dinner 太遲了，可否 7:30pm ? 等佢dinner完有多少少時間玩先上牀，另外no tea time after 6 pm，兩餐中間時間(2 hours) 都係太少，除非佢只係食兩塊餅乾，if dinner at 8:00, suggest no food/milk after 4:45pm！ We have to make sure that he is hungry !

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Re: 小朋友大脾氣,可以點教

850212 寫道:
SandraL
我個仔呢排脾氣好大,佢就快4歲,佢以前都唔係咁的,好似每次放學經過一間小食店,就一定要我買野比佢食,到我買咗比佢食,如果有同學係度,我就叫佢請同學食,但佢唔肯請,我就攞咗一啲比佢同學,佢就即刻發脾氣,大喊,打我,要我買過,我唔買比佢,佢喊咗好耐,我都唔耐煩鬧返佢,呢啲埸面經常發生,即係佢可以為咗好少事,唔順住佢意思,佢就會喊,發脾氣打我,點講都唔聼,最後要我引唔住鬧佢,係好惡咁鬧佢,但我知鬧係冇用的,但我見佢咁我自己就好嬲,而家佢學咗我,我一大聲啲鬧佢,佢會向我尖叫,什至打我,我都唔知點先可以令佢冇咁大脾氣,可能係我生咗細女後冇咁好耐性,成日鬧佢啦,因為我之前真係好好耐性對佢的!

850212 ：

唉.....又係呢d......
如果你想先針對佢嘅壞脾氣、打人，就唔好complicate咗件事先，即係唔好搞嗰啲「攞咗佢啲嘢俾同學食」等等。

你嘅反應其實亦係大部份媽咪嘅反應 - 沉不住氣，鬧佢，佢就用尖叫、發脾氣來反抗！
首先你要睇番之前教点讚的post(almost every one )，一日幾次 (可能已經搞掂)，然後每次處理佢發脾氣時，必先要控制自己的情緒，全程必須和顏悅色，唔可以你重惡/嬲過佢咁樣 (佢會學咗同覺得咁做有甪)，由得他哭鬧，要給他知道發脾氣對你是沒有影響，也解決不到任何事！如他打你就捉住他的手，蹲下望著他好 firm (但唔係惡)咁話：唔得，唔可以打人！然後繼續行 (或做其他事)，期間佢哭或鬧或講晦氣說話，全部「不反應」(包括說話、情緒、行為等)，不須特別去叫他道歉或認錯，總之佢發脾氣你就由得佢！

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Re: 小朋友大脾氣,可以點教

Hi Sandra

thank you for your encouragement & response!

here's his weekday schedule:
wake up time: 7:30 am
usually he will finish 6 oz milk before go to school
breakfast at school: 9:00 am
snack at school: 10:30 am
lunch at school: 12:00 nn
afternoon sleep in school: 1.00 pm - 3:00 pm
tea at school: 4:00 pm
pick up from school: 6:00 pm
dinner: around 8:00 pm, sometimes 9:00 pm
<remarks: I & my 6299 lives in the same estate, after I gave birth to my son, I started to dine with them every nite (becoz they look after my son from 0 yr to 2 yr) so I could not control the dinner time. Recently, my son was accepted by a famous kindergarten and my husband wants me to train him well (eg learn to read, learn to eat, learn to control his temper, etc...etc...) so he separate my son & me to dine at home rather than dine with my 6299 ---> so I can't control/ change our dinner time>

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Re: 小朋友大脾氣,可以點教

twg :

so he separate my son & me to dine at home rather than dine with my 6299 ---> so I can't control/ change our dinner time>

you mean you have to dine with your son (two of you) at home ?

Also, I want to know "平日 diet 會不會有很多零食及甜食". (糖、薯片蝦條之類)

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Re: 小朋友大脾氣,可以點教

you mean you have to dine with your son (two of you) at home ?
==>YES

平日 diet 會不會有很多零食及甜食". (糖、薯片蝦條之類)
==> I usually give him 1 marshmellow when I pick him up from school (to encourage him to wear shoes himself and behave well on the way to home) a small bread + 6-8 oz milk at home after I pick him up from school (I already cut it starting from yesterday)

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Re: 小朋友大脾氣,可以點教

twg :

我問零食呢樣嘢，其實唔係淨想知食量，而係我知道外國有好多 research，講小朋友介咗甜食 (especially 朱古力) 及 junk food 後，行為變好咗好多，你可以留意吓佢食嘅嘢！

佢嗰"6-8 oz milk"如果係bb飲嗰 d 就太 heavy 啦，可改為豆槳，因為一下子乜都冇得食好似罸咁！
另外，你屋企是否就係三個人？有冇人幫手？佢扭唔扭你老公？

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