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Re: Any mother is living in USA now - Part ll

Natmama,

乜w-2 都有fake?
係啦, 問下公司有冇得返part time 先啦, 唔好咁快quit 住, 好難搵得返好工.

babygigi,

你咁pro既? 你係牙醫呀?
我今日岩岩先至補返隻牙, 係因為上個月做左root canal, 今日補返, 不過個牙醫冇收我錢, 佢同我講happy holidays. 我真係有d 欣慰!! 不過出年一月已經有appointment 再補第二隻... 真係感到" 川流不息" ...我只我個銀行戶口....

小肥佬,

好多時姑娘講既食奶schedule 都係只頭兩個星期, 因為想bb 增磅,不過之後就係跟你個schedule 啦, bb 訓覺我都由得佢自然醒, 然係先至餵奶.. 佢肚餓會話你知... 所以我都好讚成feed on demand, 我覺得比較自然!

開心d啦, 個整鬼律師你下次唔幫襯佢咪得囉, 心平氣和人都靚d ...

你阿b 咁得意你幫佢影張聖誕老人相啦. 我都諗緊帶阿b囡去影呀... 第一個聖誕節我希望佢感染到d 聖誕氣氛!

leohannahchan,

dri_bottom 我地用過, quality 唔係咁好, 塊膠tape好易刮到bb隻大脾, 所以我地用white cloud, 佢地而家改善左添, 所以一路都用緊冇轉到.

greentree,

我背部好返好多, 我有買個d 膏藥貼之類, 貼左一日, 跟住就由佢自然好返, 今日都已經唔係好痛. 都算好得快, 我老公個同事同我一樣善親睇醫生連好返要成八個月, 我而家都有成日郁佢, 每次返完工郁下都覺得好d. 我都係犯賤... 要返工先覺好d.

:mrgreen:

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Re: Any mother is living in USA now - Part ll

SY_Mom ,
You are right, my son has constipation after he ate rice cereral. Then, 我叫奶奶煲七星茶(香港余仁生出的開奶茶, 很不錯)給他飲, 一飲即暢通。或者食香蕉, 大便亦都很暢通。

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Re: Any mother is living in USA now - Part ll

clarab,
好野, 有新的bb相睇! 你的寶貝女越大越靚, 大個引死的bb仔。女兒的衫仔好靚，有時幫阿仔買衫, 見到的漂亮的bb女衫都很想買, 的男仔衫大部分都唔靚。
我都想幫bb影聖誕相, 我見到baby talk裡面有三個小朋友wear著聖誕衫, 很可愛，所以想買一套給他。

babygigi,
我的bb五個多些。一出世時我tried to breastfeed, 但由於我唔夠奶, bb不夠食, 常哭，他的睡眠時間又差, 很災難。後來我看一本書"從o歲開始", 有美國版, 因原本是美國兒科ped. 出的, 很受影響，便跟著書中所教的做。由於我人奶不夠, 加上餵人奶太辛苦, 所以我索性餵formula，並按時餵, 很快bb便適應下來。書中說有穩定的饑餓週期, 才有穩定的睡眠。他現在睡得比以前好得多, 由於食野時間穩定, 他很少哭。肚餓也不哭。

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發表於 04-12-1 06:43 |只看該作者

Re: Any mother is living in USA now - Part ll

babygigi
等妳生完一齊肥肥

Leo
妳有無同醫生傾妳Insurane問題???

Natmama
我住在Walnut Valley and Morningside 果邊
近妳嗎? 妳bb幾大???
我大b明年先讀Pre school 會讀 The Cross
Ele school也係Walnut District讀
I am a full time mom
因我細b先得 6 mths old 大果個 27 mths
我想親手take care bb 到大
就算第日做工也做part time
my babies are the most imoportant in my life

小肥佬
妳老公有無找會計師報稅??
如有找佢幫手

Clarab
妳bb 一日飲幾多餐糊仔??
妳個女真係好靚
第日參加華姐選舉
我大女就真無穩
個個話佢似 daddy (我老公not good looking)

Marbel
just come back from Macy's
but 無buy anything
我想住3 -4月回 hk
so save my money

greentree
聽聞Walmark果隻diaper好正
有無試呀??
我一見到自已d相好肥
想屎呀!

學懂凡事感恩和感謝,孩子終身受用不盡

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Re: Any mother is living in USA now - Part ll

babygigi,

你老公都醒目﹐ 唔比佢亞媽係你地屋企過夜

﹐我老公都唔會留係醫院陪我過夜﹐ 因為佢要照顧個大仔同埋2 隻狗。

Clarab,

你個女好cuteeeeee﹐好靚女呀﹐ 佢頂冷冒同､埋頸巾係咪你織架 ? 好靚喎﹐ 我淨係識織高低針

Whalebb,

你就黎返香港﹐ 真係好喇﹐ 你帶2 個女返香港坐長途機會唔會好麻煩呀 ?你媽媽會唔會同你一齊返呀 ? 你係後生板黃杏秀﹐ 肥極有限啦﹐

leohannahchan﹐

我淨係隔日飲芝蔴糊﹐ 仲未有食 water melon ﹐ 我果個係仔﹐唔係女

﹐ 而定大慨重左 26 磅﹐ 因為我唔高﹐ 又肥﹐ 成個氣球咁﹐ 我睇返我係香港帶黎D衫褲﹐ 得個睇字﹐ 果時都覺得肥﹐ 115 磅﹐ 而家。。。。。。冇眼睇

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Re: Any mother is living in USA now - Part ll

各位,

真係多謝晒各位既資料..
我個搶錢lawyer 話, 今年變咗,要比埋Affidavit of Support 呢張比immigration . 我叫佢幫我申請時,仲未需要到,所以如果要佢哋fill out the form, 就要比 250 蚊. 由於個law 變咗, 佢收人哋既費用,都巳經由 1200 蚊變為 1680 蚊.

. 我問過其他律師行,佢哋都話要,但係只係收100 蚊左右..跟住我咪同佢講, 暗示話可唔可收平d,佢話唔得 "公司價", 咁到最後,佢話收 10 蚊 for notary, 但係我哋自己填, 我講多兩講,佢話最多我哋填完之後,比佢睇, 有乜錯咗,佢話比我哋知, 唔收錢..佢咁講,條氣都順d.. :-x

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發表於 04-12-1 07:18 |只看該作者

Re: Any mother is living in USA now - Part ll

babygigi
我都想同佢胎教,但係真係頂唔順d classical music, 對住個肚自言自語又唔慣,所以我都係順其自然.但係個時,我老公成日引我笑. 我一笑,我老公就會對住個肚餓"mini-matt, earth quake is coming",可能咁,亞仔依家都幾鍾意成日笑.當時我初初瞓得唔係咁好,到後期,就成日都想瞓,但係就成日要尿尿囉..幫我攪green card 係個lawyer 既assistant 嚟架..

whaleb

我老公有用開CPA嚟幫佢計稅架..

Natmama
乜 W2s 都有fake 架.呢張form 係for fewer than 3 years 既稅單.我老公超過三年,所以應該唔需要.thx

greentree

初初餵人奶,真係好辛苦, 又無乜奶,亞仔又吮到屎咁大力,我記得頭個一個月,成日上嚟呢度呻架. 我初初都有加formula ,係因為亞仔係頭一星期, 廋咗成 10 oz, 之後咪諗住谷佢囉.過咗一個星期,佢就肥番14 oz 囉. :mrgreen: .但係之後,我就全人奶..但係亞仔就變咗唔肯再用bottle,陰公..

亞仔由細到大,都好少喊肚餓,最多係喊住咁叫我返去陪佢.就算依家,佢肚餓.同佢講兩講,佢會唔記得. 當佢記得番既時,係巳經勁肚餓個隻,又唔見我餵佢,佢先會大喊..如果就咁肚餓,佢"吹", 就會望住我個breast,跟住就"咳咳咳..." 咳到我餵佢為止...可能係咁,佢大多數都瞓得唔錯架.

clarab
我老公都有話到咗christmas, 叫santa claus 同亞仔影相架.可能到其時.亞仔又喊餐勁既..不過,個次係baby r us 時, 亞仔個隻求救既眼神,想喊又好似唔敢喊既樣,我呢一世都會記得.但係依家佢先得四個月,同佢去studio 影相,會唔會太細呢?

marble
你個係仔, 咁有無名未呀? 好開心,就嚟有兩個新bb加入..會唔會餵人奶呀..其實第一次如果餵咗人奶, 到第二個會唔快d上奶呢? ?-(

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Re: Any mother is living in USA now - Part ll

小肥佬

你果隻 lawyer 都幾搶錢﹐ 收貴人地咁多﹐ 有好多野都可以自己填﹐ 不過又驚填錯彈返轉頭就哂時間﹐ 唯有揾佢地﹐ 我都係揾attorney 攪掂, 早幾個月我拿左 10 年 green card 喇。

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Re: Any mother is living in USA now - Part ll

marble

congratulations 呀..其實有無諗過申請citizen,好似煩少好多嘢咁...我諗如果我一夠資格,我會去考..
個lawyer 真係好鬼搶錢, 我以後,都唔會再揾佢呀... :evil:

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發表於 04-12-1 07:59 |只看該作者

Re: Any mother is living in USA now - Part ll

Whalebb,

My daughter is 4 months old and I'm also a full time mom. I don't have MIL or mom near by so if I go to work I will have to leave my bb with a stranger. I was thinking of asking if I can go back to work part-time but my husband said better focus on one thing at a time (of course bb).

I think we live very close to each other. It takes me about 5 mins. to drive to "The Cross". It's too early for me to think about school for my bb yet but she will probably go to Oswalt Elementary because it's 2 blocks away.

Is it hard to take care of 2 babies? I think it will be better when your older one goes to preschool. We should meet up for dim sum.... :lol: :lol:

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發表於 04-12-1 08:08 |只看該作者

Re: Any mother is living in USA now - Part ll

Clarab,

What a cute bb!!! I love her scarf, can you tell me where you got it so I can get one for my bb too.

I will ask my boss if he would allow me to work part-time, but I thing the chance is low. I am an accountant and the job requires a full time person.

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Re: Any mother is living in USA now - Part ll

小肥佬

其實我而家可以申請 citizen 啦﹐ 我個 lawyer 收 500 ﹐ 幫我搞﹐ 而家諗下比唔比佢幫我定自己搞。好處就返香港可以留多過半年同埋唔使比D immigration D 人問長問短﹐ 上次我返香港 2 個星期﹐ 都要問問問﹐好 C 黑人憎。

greentree, 小肥佬

小B暫時叫 Kyle, 仲未 confirm 係唔係呢個﹐ 你地有咩好提議 ? 我都係諗住餵人奶﹐ 方便嘛

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發表於 04-12-1 09:38 |只看該作者

Re: Any mother is living in USA now - Part ll

natmama
我也是5分鐘就到the cross wor!!
我係 across to the Liberary入去果度
近Valley果邊
係啦!得閒去tea呀!或者等我開番車去 visit 小肥佬

:cheeze
咁妳咪好悶妳屋企人全在HK嗎????妳來了美國多久???
妳在邊間醫院生?\
我在Whitter長老會生by Dr Yen

我家姐也是accountant 佢office在 Target果頭
嘩!妳好叻果然係 natmama
我就無野叻仲一事無成唔做工也唔會"哂"
唯有努力做個好媽媽希望在人生做番一件成功的事

其實我真係唔會比人take care bb
因我成日見報紙有意外發生
最worry是被寵壞(我大女就係)
若果經濟許可妳自已 take care到bb返學先出番來做工

小肥佬
擔保書我也有填是我家姐幫我
好似清身家咁
妳或者問妳老公個CPA help help
第日等妳搬左來visit you ar!!!

Marbel
我真係好肥呀
食完三日buffet肥左好多
我喂人奶又唔減得住:cry: :cry:

學懂凡事感恩和感謝,孩子終身受用不盡

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Re: Any mother is living in USA now - Part ll

學懂凡事感恩和感謝,孩子終身受用不盡

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發表於 04-12-1 14:59 |只看該作者

Re: Any mother is living in USA now - Part ll

greentree,

actually, banana is constipating for babies. same as apples.

my baby never had "hoi nai cha" before. i asked my mom to buy a pack or two for me, but i've never cooked it for him. both my mom and my m-i-l don't know how to cook it.

do u know how to cook it? and how much and how often i should feed my bb (now 19m)?

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發表於 04-12-2 00:26 |只看該作者

Re: Any mother is living in USA now - Part ll

SY_Mom,

有冇俾阿b食多d sweet potatoes? or more mixed veges?

Marble & 小肥佬,

我返香港2個星期都好似你咁俾海關d 人話我仲乜留係香港咁開心要返黎美國! 吹到我啤一聲...我話我老公係呢度囉! ?-( 我都係諗住入籍啦, 起碼唔使再咁煩又呢樣果樣... 我諗住自己申請, 平d慳返多錢買野丫, 唔益d lawyers!! hehe

小肥佬, 講真, 我個囡6個月去影相都係影到人都顛左, 記唔記得我提過影左4 張先有1 張, 阿囡仲要係人地鋪頭拿起條毯就想訓覺. 要就岩時間, 唔好阿眼訓時同佢影, 唔係會激c 你!! :mrgreen:

Natmama,

你可唔可以搵到d part time 幫人book keep 呀? 咁你咪可以全程係屋企做工囉, 連車都唔使渣. 我個老公個親戚係咁樣一邊湊女一邊幫d細公司做book keeping, 真係唔錯架, 諗諗佢啦!!

個囡條Scarf 係bk 一個媽咪織俾佢, 真係好多謝佢. 我自己原本想學織, 不過真係太蠢, 學唔識!

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發表於 04-12-2 01:21 |只看該作者

Re: Any mother is living in USA now - Part ll

clarab,
梗係唔係牙醫啦。叫我再讀多幾年我稔我會發顛﹐哈哈。
係呀﹐ROOT CANAL之後FILL返個隻牙﹐多數醫生都唔收錢架。不過有D就收﹐但ROOT CANAL價錢就會平返D。因為好多病人ROOT CANAL完見唔痛就唔會再返黎補牙﹐但到出事就返黎嘈﹐好得意

GREENTREE﹐
你講個本書*從0歲開始*﹐英文係咪叫*YOUR BABY‘S FIRST YEAR* 唔知係咪我看緊呢本﹐又係PED出既﹐不過我看到第9週﹐仲未看晒。
噤你現在仲有無餵仔仔食人奶?我SCHEDULE左12/21上BF CLASS﹐希望呀仔唔會早產。
今日倒狗屎﹐無得去街街﹐慘。

WHALEBB﹐
我無影相兩個月啦﹐稔著唔見﹐無噤眼冤﹐呵呵。
現在鏡都好少照。
其實做媽媽先係最叻﹐好TOUGH既JOB黎架﹐又好有成功感

我都期待期待~

MARBLE﹐
我老公﹐唉~有時比佢激到CC下。

唔之係咪陀BB會噤﹐好多好小既事都會比佢激到眼火爆。佢又唔同我嘈﹐搞到我又唔同佢嘈﹐剩係自己谷埋谷埋﹐有時谷氣得濟都會喊。

不過我稔佢都好慘﹐屋企個顛婆成日笑又成日喊﹐都幾無所適從

哈哈﹐我又淨係識織高低針。好想織野比BB但唔識織。
我都有食芝麻糊﹐不過一個禮拜食一次。

小肥佬﹐
我之前試過聽CLASSICAL MUSIC﹐但成日聽左無耐就訓著左﹐好悶。我有同BB傾計﹐不過講黎講去都係3幅被﹐例如叫BB起身呀﹐叫BB訓呀﹐叫BB錫DADDY MOMMY呀等等。。返而老公唔知點解好多野同BB講﹐唔知點解噤好想像力。
有時又呢埋同BB講野唔比我知佢講咩﹐好攪笑:mrgreen:

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發表於 04-12-2 02:39 |只看該作者

Re: Any mother is living in USA now - Part ll

Marble
Kyle 都唔錯呀..Kyle : (Irish/Gaelic) Possibly a place-name referring to " the narrows," "a wood" or "a church." 之前,未同亞仔有名時, 都諗住係用Ma 開頭既名, 同埋要係Irish name. (因為我老公係有四分三係irish既自統,同埋全家d仔女,都係用M字開頭, 如marty, maureen, mike 同埋我個衰佬matthew 咁). 點知個衰佬係都話佢個名最好..頂.. 我真係好想亞仔個名, 唔好好似"亞美" 呀咁,就街都係..但係都無計..

至於,攪citizen,我個friend 話,填表好快, 自己申請唔係好煩..我到時,都諗住自己攪..唔再相信個d 搶錢lawyer :evil:

clarab

個scarf, 真係好靚,我記得好耐之前, 有個朋友(不過,佢巳不在人世,都係得四十幾, 好唔開心),佢教我織scarf, bb sweater, 大人的vest..唔好睇我針線乜都唔識,我都織過以上既嘢架. 不過, 唔記得晒lu..

..不過,每次諗起織嘢,都有d唔開心,就係我老豆在生時,好想我織一件背心比佢,但係我好lazy, 係咁拖..點知到最後,都無織到. 好內疚.不過我亞媽仲誇張.織比佢,織咗成十年,拖咗我老豆不在,都未完成..

..不過,事隔咗都有成十年都嚟緊.所以都無乜話太感傷.. :wink:

whaleb

你個女女,好得意喎..影多d嚟睇吓啦.
好呀..等我新屋乜都攪點晒,到時邀請你哋嚟坐吓.到時大家既bb又可以見呀面,做個好朋友.. :mrgreen:

babygigi
我有咗時,返而d 皮四無咁大, 仲開心咗好多..我成日同我老公講"如果你想一世有好日子過,就比我生多幾個囉.

" 但係佢都係唔肯,一個夠晒數.

我有咗時,我老公都有同個肚唱歌同講嘢. 有時佢太攰, 我叫我同亞仔講d嘢啦.佢就會對住個肚講" good night." 咁就去瞓.頂.
講開狗屎,又俴我諗返起一件事.話說我去探我亞哥,同屋主有兩隻boxer. 有一日,我同個兩隻狗去backyard 玩,點知見到地下有一舊比人/狗踩扁咗既狗屎, 咁我心諗"又唔知邊隻衰嘢踩中, 又要我同佢哋洗腳,真麻煩." 點知返到個patio,一睇.頂,原來係我中招.攪到我立刻洗鞋.仲要洗好耐tim.

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