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Re: Any mother is living in USA now - Part ll

SY-Mom,

HAHA..你個仔D行為真係好似我個仔﹐ 佢又係成日想爬上去﹐ 而家佢鐘意係下面‘捐’過去﹐ 有時塞左係裡面就V WA V wa 咁叫。你形容個仔玩果個 vacuum cleaner ﹐ 好好笑﹐ 我可以想像到佢好嚴肅個樣﹐ haha....

Chingbj,

你可以到呢個網參考下
[size=large]Birth to 6 months

我個仔好鐘意呢 4 樣野。。。

呢個 swing chair 真係好好﹐ 有時行開行埋都可以﹐ 有時搖下佢就會訓著。

油脂粒個問題﹐ 我同意小肥佬既講法﹐ 如果唔放心你可以帶 vincent 去睇醫生。

小肥佬﹐

你做咩仲未買個 carseat 呀﹐ 佢會坐得唔舒服架﹐ mini-matt 張相好得意呀﹐ 佢好似若有所思咁

babygigi,

所謂相見好﹐ 同住難﹐ 你同你老公溝通多D﹐ 如果你係順產都可以唔使人幫呀﹐ 如果你開刀 (touch wood) 則雖要人幫﹐ 如果真係你奶奶過黎幫你﹐ 你淨係叫佢做家務同埋換片﹐ 唔好比佢餵奶﹐ 我奶奶試過幫我餵奶﹐ 佢居然 microwave D奶 ﹗﹗﹗ 嚇死我﹐ 同你老公講明要你奶奶做D乜野呀﹐ 到時 argue 就唔好啦。你仲有一個月到就生﹐ 保持心境開朗﹐ 人都靚D

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Re: Any mother is living in USA now - Part ll

babygigi

首先,你唔好唔開心,因為咁樣會影响你肚入面個bb,我記得我有咗mini-matt 既時,我一激氣,佢就會係入面郁吓..
我老公佢唔係咁相信我哋既中國嘢,如燕窩, 花膠咁.係我仲駝住亞仔時,每次煲親,佢都嘈生晒,又話嗅, 又話唔好食壞佢個仔咁, 又話點解d 燕窩得個小小,就咁貴. 又話,我唔應該信埋d 迷信嘢, 唔食seafood 咁..個時剛剛有咗,就搬屋,我唔係咁想幫手,因為我怕"唔怕一萬至怕萬一", 咁佢就講到今時今日,都話我lazy,揾藉口..

..初初都有d 怒架.但係一諗到會影响個b, 就唯有同自己講 "呢d嘢,都好小事姐,唔駛咁勞氣." 咁同老公慢慢講, 講得多,佢都費時理我.我都有同人講過, 我同老公既文化完全唔同, 點樣去妥協呢? 就係把佢既文化當笑話咁聽,唔好成為自己既壓力. 同埋, 你要知道, 一個大肚婆,有時諗d嘢,係會唔同咗, 特然覺得好多嘢都唔順利,好唔開心,但係你平心d,去諗吓,點樣令自己開心, 唔好受其他環境影响自己,畢竟你有另一個生命係你肚入面..正如marble 所講, 同你老公講多d, 千祈唔好只係放係心入面.對自己唔好架..多d上嚟呻吓啦.. 我個時, 只有我哥哥幫手煮晚飯比我, 我老公只肯幫我一星期, 之後,只有自己嚟, 個時,真係希望有人幫架..同你老公講明, 你奶奶到時做乜嘢角色, 咁樣就應該無乜問題..

.. 妨且, 都未到,唔駛担心咁多, 好好保持心境開朗.生番個肥肥白白既bb啦..
其實我覺得你老公唔係唔錫你,只係怕你餵全人奶辛苦.好似我初初,餵全人奶, 無奶比亞囝,我餵佢formula,佢喊到拆天,都唔肯飲, 係都要我既nipple, 咁個時我就係好辛苦囉..不過,你試吓比多d資料你老公睇, 你話時代唔同咗,我哋生得個b出, 梗係比最好既嘢比佢啦..你試吓,睇吓得唔得.(我好多時,都係上網揾資料,嚟說服我老公架咋.

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marble

多謝你讚佢..
我亞仔由一出世都唔鍾意坐swing (你第四個), 佢一坐上佢,唔夠幾分鐘,就玩晒拱橋, 係都想離開, 有時仲一邊坐,一邊喊.所以我都係放佢係地下, 等佢望住無人坐既swing,搖吓搖吓,佢仲開心.. ?-( 所以到今時今日,佢都無乜點玩過 (唔知係唔係亞仔太重,佢一坐上去d音樂就走晒音,要我把搖佢既speed整大d, 先無走音)...我亞仔又係好鍾意個uncle sun 架..佢有個toy, 上面有moon, sun, star, jupiter 吊住,佢成日都望住個太陽架...
至於嗰個infant swing, 我仲未開比亞仔玩..其實駛唔駛等佢識坐先比去玩呢?

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Re: Any mother is living in USA now - Part ll

小肥佬﹐

infant swing, 我個仔1 個幾月開始坐啦﹐ 個坐位背部有得adjust, 可以斜斜地比佢坐住。而家比佢見到仲想坐上去﹐ ､不過我唔比佢坐﹐因太重﹐ 一來驚佢跌親﹐ 2 來留返比個細佬

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Re: Any mother is living in USA now - Part ll

小肥佬,

hehehe...my natalie also likes to suck on me when i bath her. she would grab my finger and bring it to her mouth to suck if i hold her hand. yes, i started giving her a bib recently because she is drooling a lot. her neck turned red because of all her saliva.

i'm not sure if she is smelling food yet but i started her on rice cereal 2 days ago....of course very messy at first and half went to her bib. i don't notice any allergic reaction so hopefully she will adjust to eating with the spoon soon.

i spoke to whalebb on the phone and was talking about meeting you at monterey park for dim sum when we get a chance.

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Re: Any mother is living in USA now - Part ll

Marble,

My daugther also enjoys the above items you mentioned. My swing is a little different then yours, we have the Ocean Aquarium theme. Now that she is 4 months, she is not enjoying the swings as much as before and tries to get out by sticking her stomach up. We have the exact same play-gym and bouncer which she still enjoys. I noticed sometimes she would giggle and talks to the animals on the play-gym...kind of funny. I just use the bouncer to feed her rice cereal and let her watch TV. She doesn't have much tolerance for the bouncer toys anymore, she would get bored after 20 mins.

I just bought her the exersaucer last week and she is slowly getting familiar with it. She doesn't sit up very well yet so I have to stuff a towel in the seat to help her.

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Re: Any mother is living in USA now - Part ll

babygigi,

don't be sad la...i think it's hard for your husband to admit his parents are wrong in front of you. have you thought of asking your mom to come over for a month and help you out?! that's what i did when my sister-in-law offer to help me...i just told her my own aunt will be helping me instead.

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babygigi,

唔好唔開心啦, 開心d 個b 生出黎都易湊d 架, 唔係扼你, 呢d 係胎教!!
你奶奶老爺既為人, 你老公係好清楚, 但係佢唔係你面前話佢爸媽都係孝順佢地姐, 你唔係唔岩, 不過可能你老公唔想你多心先咁講. 你樣樣都激氣會激親自己, 你心平氣和當聽唔到, 咁你既生活先會愉快d, 你唔好期望佢地會因你而改變, 包括你老公, 所以你要學會左耳入右耳出呢一招!!

你奶奶黎幫你, 你咪叫佢幫手煮紅棗水呀, 煮2餐呀俾你食, 你到時間餵奶就唔好理佢, 若果你想絕d剩係全心全意餵人奶就連奶樽都唔買, 奶粉又唔買, 咁佢地都耐你唔河. 若果你未買奶樽可以用呢招, 若果買左就要同你老公講想試下全人奶, 叫佢支持你, 你同佢講產後易有抑"屈"証, 若果佢唔支持你做既野你好易會病, 好難醫咁話, 唔好唔話定俾佢知囉!!
不過好多媽咪餵人奶一開頭都有補奶粉, 我都有, 每晚一次, 但係個幾月之後阿女連個一餐奶粉都唔肯飲, 咁我就開始全人奶餵到今時今日, 唔好放棄呀, 餵人奶小朋友無咁易病架(最起碼頭6個月), 咁你都無湊得咁辛苦.

Marble,

我阿囡佢從小坐swing 到8個月大, 佢好鐘意, 一開頭我唔開swing既function, 佢成日可以訓成3-4個鐘, 我幾happy. 而家nap 每次都係個半鐘... 搞到我人都謝晒!!!

chingbj,

我睇過書話d 油脂粒係會自己退, 唔使特別查野, 我個囡係3-5個月其間有起過d 好油脂粒, 好細粒, 同埋附近d 皮膚好乾, 咁我都係幫佢查baby lotion 就算, 我話過俾ped 聽, 佢望過都話ok, 無問題, 而家阿囡完全冇左果d 油脂粒及乾皮膚, 唔知係咪冬天乾得際容易有呢, 你都就快同阿b 做well check-up, 係咪? 順便問埋ped 啦! 穩陣d!

whalebb,

我記得我細個既時候都有玩阿媽既化裝品... hehe... 俾你講中左!!! :lol:

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babygigi:
我岩岩生左vincent個時,成日同我奶奶嘈家,好彩個時我亞媽由澳門過黎陪我坐月咋,如果唔係真係有排嘈.
我地通常都係為左湊bb既問題而嘈,eg,喂人奶咁,佢成日話唔係咁既姿勢,但係個姿勢係d護士教我既...佢成日都要我跟佢以前既方法,又另外佢成日趁我同我老公走開左就喂bb飲葡萄糖水,我老公同佢嘈左好多次,佢先肯收手.
不過生完之後個人會好累好累,成日都想休息,咩都唔想做家,所以如果有你奶奶幫下手都好既...
好似我咁,因我要開刀,就連起身都要人扶,真係超辛苦...
你要同你老公好好傾下,因為我生完後好似有產後抑鬱咁,
會無端端喊,有時都唔知為咩事家,有時又會發老公脾氣,
個人好似好唔開心咁,情緒好唔穩定...都有同老公成日嘈...
不過而家唔怕了,有個仔仲開心左,不過好小可以同老公親熱下...

你而家千期唔好唔開心呀,要開心d,同你老公傾多d,叫佢了解一下你既心情,到時你奶奶話你個時,你就唔好理佢,有咩唔妥向你老公發洩下,唔好收埋係個心度,因為真係會好難受!!
一個月好快過咋....

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Re: Any mother is living in USA now - Part ll

Marbel ar Marbel
Do you know which website I could order "bra bra"??
(for breatfeeding ka wor) Anyone know???????I want order from HK but need my hubby pick up then mail to me. U know.............

學懂凡事感恩和感謝,孩子終身受用不盡

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Re: Any mother is living in USA now - Part ll

Whalebb,

You can buy breastfeeding bra at nordstroms or mimi maternity. The nearest one for us is at Brea Mall. I like the nordstrom ones because they are by Wacoal. Mimi Maternity has their own brand.

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marble.小肥佬:
你地買左咁多玩具比你地仔仔既,你地真係錫佢地了..
我屋企地方太細,想買多d玩具都唔得,我只係買左床頭轉轉下既公仔比佢咋,仲有兩件細細地既玩具...
marble:唔該曬你比我個site,咁多種玩具都唔知買邊樣好,
真係好想買曬佢,不過no money....
因為要儲$下年返澳門......

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whalebb,
you can chk out at http://www.breastfeedingworld.com/Nursing%20Bras.htm
or..
www.motherhoodmaternity.com under nursing dept.
i think this is perfect but it's kinda $$$$:
www.glamourmom.com

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各位﹐
好多謝你哋D意見﹐0個日我呻完即舒服晒。
我會找個機會好好同隻衰佬溝通。
thank you =)

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Whalebb﹐

我上次都係O係 Jcpenny 買﹐ 果時有 discount, 而家佢地又 online sale . 你睇下。
JCpenny

有幾個比你睇下

Shop.com

[url=http://www.onehanesplace.com/cgi-bin/ncommerce/CategoryDisplay?cgmenbr=1600000991&cgnbr=D100000000&

=1&V=B]http://www.onehanesplace.com , playtex bra buy 3 get 1 free[/url]

http://www.sierrablue.com 有 free shipping

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Re: Any mother is living in USA now - Part ll

Chingbj

地方細唔代表冇玩具玩呀﹐大有大玩﹐ 細有細玩﹐ 我屋企都唔大﹐ 有時咪帶佢出去行公園比佢睇下野﹐ 行下咁。你諗住幾時返澳門﹐ 我記得D牛/豬肉乾又平又好食﹐ 諗起又流口水

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Re: Any mother is living in USA now - Part ll

Chingbj

marble 講得岩呀, 大有大玩呀,細有細玩. 我有d玩具都係好細架咋...如波仔, 吊嘢, 車仔(只係for 手推)咁.其實我哋都無買過玩具比小肥佬,個d全都係人哋送比亞仔玩架咋...
你就嚟返澳門啦..你就好啦...我昨晚先諗起如果我返香港,一定要食好多小食,如雞肉乾咁.. :mrgreen:

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Re: Any mother is living in USA now - Part ll

你地知唔知我食緊咩呢 ? KEKEKE.... 係雞仔餅呀﹐ 好好味

﹐ 早2日食香蕉糕﹐ 真係好耐冇食過啦。你地鐘唔鐘意呢D野 ?

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我想問下NURSING BRA﹐NURSING BIB﹐NURSING TOP邊樣好D? 我怕我奶奶會想看我畏奶﹐我好

架。所以唔知邊樣好D

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babygigi,

有咩好睇﹐ 我就會 lock 門唔比佢入黎﹐ 如果佢想睇﹐ 你著邊樣都冇用﹐ 佢想睇下個孫係咪真係飲緊奶。

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