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Re: Any mother is living in USA now - Part ll

puibb 寫道:
各位美國媽媽：請問各位知道Oregen這個城市嗎？還有，如果想在美國就業，到New York好還是California好呢！
謝謝各媽媽的意見！

Puibb,
CA/NY 就業機會係DEPEND ON 你工作行業。CA天氣好﹐但比較乾躁﹐居住環境無噤迫﹐不過無車會好唔方便。NY天氣比較潮濕﹐冷﹐居住環境小﹐好多唔同種族的人﹐無車OK因巴士地鐵小巴的士好方便﹐其實我覺得有D似以前的HK。
如果係MEDICAL FIELD﹐ ACCOUNTING FIELD﹐ FASHION FIELD 就NY好D﹐但RESTAURANT打工就外州好﹐越僻的地方越高人工。
不過我覺得係邊個州住都差唔多﹐看你是個怕唔怕悶的人﹐比D時間自己適應&融入就OK。

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發表於 04-12-11 01:38 |只看該作者

Re: Any mother is living in USA now - Part ll

CHINGBJ﹐
澳門係咪又係左呔架?
我都好似聽聞之後CANCEL左要考FREEWAY﹐SINCE好多好多年之前有兩個考牌官同STUDENT考FREEWAY時入FREEWAY0個陣車禍死左。我0個時岩岩PASS左NEW LAW要考﹐我騰晒雞哈哈﹐需然係一次過PASS但差6分就唔PASS﹐哈哈。

GREENTREE﹐
我都希望仔仔將來返CHRISTIAN SCHOOL﹐D細佬易教&純D。你知唔知QUEENS有邊間好? 一年4000又唔貴0窩﹐普通托兒所都要450-550一個月。

MARBLE﹐
唔好操勞噤多呀﹐快生啦嘛。
我屋企7國噤亂哈哈﹐(其實係懶

)
我仲未PACK醫院野添。個房又未執連BB床﹐奶樽都未買。真係要同BB傾掂數叫佢唔好做出世。
我尋日產檢﹐醫生照SONOGRAM話BB係大隻仔﹐現在6磅半多D﹐佢叫我介澱粉質﹐要淨食菜&肉﹐如果唔係BB出世會9-9磅半﹐要開刀 :cry: 介口後都要看之後呢4-5個禮拜BB GROW成點﹐佢話第一胎過8磅好多時都要開刀架原來。
我心稔一係就醫生一早JUDGE要開刀﹐千祈唔好到時AROUND 個BB既WEIGHT LIMITATION 要試生生唔出先開刀﹐痛兩次﹐好唔抵。 :idea:

小肥佬﹐
你開刀生完MINI-MATT後有無食中國人0個D坐月既野?
表面傷口幾耐先埋?現在抱MINI-MATT時裡面個傷口有無隱隱作痛架? 開刀完後係咪出左院先畏得人奶? SORRY﹐太多問題﹐AIYA﹐我好驚要開刀呀﹐我想順產快D好返﹐可湊BB

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發表於 04-12-11 03:09 |只看該作者

Re: Any mother is living in USA now - Part ll

babygigi
你唔講都唔知freeway的故事呀..不過, 我就真係衰緊張, 學車時,就乜都得,連個教車師傳都我都不知幾有信心.但到個一刻,真係緊張到, 轉lane無用頭過shoulder,咁就" 你可以返DMV 啦."

你就好啦, 個醫生幫你睇,個時我嗰個用手摸吓嚟估亞仔有幾多磅 (佢話有七磅), 攪到我試生唔到, 又痛咗一陣(因為我之前打咗epidural,但開頭生唔到,所以要減藥嚟試生), 點知到最後要開刀,亞仔出世成8磅半..

..不過,記得臨入院時,食飽d先入呀,因為佢唔比你食,齋飲水/果汁架咋.我個時就真係食得兩塊bread.就餓足全日.仲要開完刀,又唔食得又唔飲得,仲要嘔tim.所以開完刀,個護士抱個仔比我睇時,我立即就諗"得啦,得啦,睇完啦,快d拎走佢啦,我想快d入房先慢慢睇,我好攰呀." 但係個護士好無意識咁走開,咁我就好似電視d媽咪咁, 做晒戲咁錫啖亞仔,佢先肯走咋.(不過,依家諗起都覺得自己好衰咁.)
其實我開完刀, 就上床,個護士抱個仔嚟時,我巳經餵佢,亞仔都算係咁,我第一次比個nipple比佢suck,佢就好自然咁"鍾"個頭嚟.個護士睇到都話"你哋好match喎." 我都唔知幾時個表面傷口好番, 因為我都無乜留意佢,d肥羔又蓋住晒,我根本睇唔到.

..咁我餵亞仔時,又唔係好覺個傷口隱隱作痛喎,之不過,生完之後,頭個兩星期, 上床落床,就有點痛,就真..至於坐月,個時whalebb佢哋講,開刀唔食得補嘢住,因怕個傷口會爆, 所以個時我都係食雞飯,飲紅棗水.都唔錯呀.d朋友見到我,都話我面色,skin仲好過以前.. :mrgreen:
其實我個時都無諗過會開刀,所以好驚,個人係咁震,我老公仲驚到連亞仔出咗世都唔知,只係識望住我, 係d 謢士提醒佢"喂,你個仔出咗世啦,去睇吓佢." 佢先知咋.不過,之後諗番起,其實唔係想像中咁害怕,如果有心理準備,我都會選擇開刀..因為我試生個時,真係又痛又餓又暈暈地又攰.

不過, 人哋開刀始終都唔係咁好. 你放心啦,期待你個肥肥白白既bb呀

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發表於 04-12-11 03:19 |只看該作者

Re: Any mother is living in USA now - Part ll

leohannahchan,

多謝哂﹗ 仲有5 日就係結婚4周年啦﹐1

babygigi,

嘩﹐ 你個BB 都好大隻﹐ 你老公肥肥定好大隻架 ? 預計有成
9.5磅﹐ 勁﹗﹗﹗﹗﹗﹗﹗我上一胎都係開刀﹐ 原因係BB個頭過大﹐ 出世時有 7.11磅﹐ 我果時試生左2 個鐘﹐ 痛C我﹐ 生呢個BB由入院到生用左 17 個小時﹐ 而呢一胎我都係開刀﹐ 我好驚又好似上一胎咁﹐ 我唔想上面痛下面又痛 :-( ﹐

Clarab,

點解咁耐冇上黎 ?發生咩事 ?

Shiba-Inu

你係香港係咪好好玩﹐ 好 enjoy 呢 ? 食哂你想食既野未

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發表於 04-12-11 03:22 |只看該作者

Re: Any mother is living in USA now - Part ll

natmama,
前几天bb的大伯在公司拿了一些出版社送的sample故事書, 例如My pet turtle, The ugly duckling, 有很靚的圖畫, 我讓bb坐在我大腿上, 讀故事給他听, 他很乖, 坐定定听我講。等你的bb坐得好的, 你也可以說故事給她听。

有時一齊看減價紙, bb亦很有興趣。

marble,
Thank you for your information. 我想問如果煲魚粥, 你會先蒸魚, 後放入煲好的粥, 或是魚和粥一齊煲熟, 後者會不會較腥, 會不會放ginger?

Hi all,
開始餵bb食solid food真的要好多時間, 動輒一小時。

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發表於 04-12-11 03:33 |只看該作者

Re: Any mother is living in USA now - Part ll

babygigi
一定要補呀!
我生第一胎果時就係無補
仲趕住減肥
之後身體好差
第二胎勁補也無咁好

妳心情好番未?

小肥佬
妳老公有無計劃去 Casino again???
我呀媽又要去LV again 屎囉!!!
好厭呀!!
妳話果份form 6月可己交左
but still無聲氣

Natmama
果間學校在 Walnut High school 前d
我下星期一去之後話妳知
我每間school選在lunch time上課時同無appointment就去
因可以知真實情況
Diamond bar 有間好多人話好
點知d lunch好差
食石頭pizzle........
so far 最好也是 the cross
我想第日我地bb會有可能做同學呀!

學懂凡事感恩和感謝,孩子終身受用不盡

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發表於 04-12-11 03:47 |只看該作者

Re: Any mother is living in USA now - Part ll

greentree,

如果煲魚粥, 我會先蒸魚, 然後放入煲好的粥。蒸魚時拍 2 片疆 (or 切絲)一齊蒸﹐ 細細塊就得﹐ 過多會辣﹐ 咁就唔腥啦。

whalebb,

你媽媽真係好鐘意去 LV 喎﹐ 係咪好鐘意拉老虎機 ?

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發表於 04-12-11 04:16 |只看該作者

Re: Any mother is living in USA now - Part ll

babygigi,
唔好意思, 我唔知queens哪間school好。不過, 我地可以慢慢打听.

你的bb好大隻, 我的仔出世時都未夠六磅, 可能是咁樣, 所以我生得比較容易, 用了二十多分鐘生了他出來。

是wow, 你要同醫生講清楚, 否則上下痛真是很辛苦。

marble and babygigi,
I am excited that your angels are coming soon.

小肥佬，
你的新居環境如何？要不要執屋？你平時煮什麼給大肥佬食？
今天是星期五，真是好, 還有二個多小時, 老公就放工la. :wink: :wink:

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發表於 04-12-11 04:17 |只看該作者

Re: Any mother is living in USA now - Part ll

whalebb
唉..估唔到你同我既情況都一樣.
我老公巳經訂咗christmas 去san diego 連casino個間酒店. 好似三日兩夜..真係好屎厭呀..遲d佢會去LV,一星期,佢都費時睬佢呀..叫佢自己去囉.. ?-(
你話入息証明個份form呀? 我到時interview 時比埋個考官

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發表於 04-12-11 04:22 |只看該作者

Re: Any mother is living in USA now - Part ll

whalebb,
我的老爺話他沒有什麼特別興趣, 唯一的是買六合彩, 他買的很多。你阿媽的興趣會否就是去casino?

marble,
Happy Anniversary!!!

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發表於 04-12-11 04:31 |只看該作者

Re: Any mother is living in USA now - Part ll

greentree
新環境比起而家住緊既area 係好d, 對亞仔第時入學都好d.執屋? 梗係要啦..不過,都等埋大肥佬先一起執..
其實我唔駛煮飯比佢食..佢唔係咁鍾意唐餐架...所以絶大部份(根本上自大咗肚之後), 都無煮過飯比佢食..

.咁佢會出街食囉... :mrgreen:
不過,搬咗之後,我會開始煮比佢食, 一嚟可以慳錢,二嚟可以控制吓佢d calories..佢咁屎肥.

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發表於 04-12-11 04:42 |只看該作者

Re: Any mother is living in USA now - Part ll

小肥佬﹐
你講得生MIMI-MATT過程&畏奶過程好攪笑

聽你噤講完好似開刀無噤辛苦0波。

MARBLE﹐
我老公唔係肥又唔係大隻﹐佢163磅﹐5‘10
我又唔係肥又唔係大隻﹐未有時106磅﹐5’6
都唔知點解BB噤大隻仔﹐醫生問我食咩﹐我話我平時食牛扒﹐菜。飯都唔係食好多﹐不過日日飲好多鮮奶&由朝訓到晚。佢問我係咪食左好多保野﹐我話無呀整係頭4個幾月飲左幾次燉雞湯。醫生話可能遺傳﹐因老公40WK出世時9磅13安。我36WK出世時7磅幾。

WHALEBB﹐
我心情好好多喇﹐THANKS。不過都係怪怪地噤﹐一時好掹架﹐一時又少少野都笑到好勁。
我都聽人講話生完頭一胎如果保得好﹐身體會仲好過以前。
我奶奶好熱情噤褒緊薑醋﹐又話生完整生化湯﹐雞酒等。
我好怕0個D味﹐都唔知用咩籍口推佢好。

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發表於 04-12-11 04:52 |只看該作者

Re: Any mother is living in USA now - Part ll

GREENTREE﹐
其實BB最緊要健健康康﹐輕D容易D生﹐媽媽同BB都好嘛。
係呀﹐你同MARBLE都話上下痛﹐我好蠢﹐稔左好耐個‘上’係指邊度

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發表於 04-12-11 06:06 |只看該作者

Re: Any mother is living in USA now - Part ll

Hi everyone:

Haven't chat with you all beautiful moms for a while, all the babies and kids have grown up so fast and healthy!

I was sick twice within a month of time, feeling terrrible and tired, Did you guys start the christmas shopping yet? There are only 2 weekends left before the holiday, need to go and shop shop shop la.

babygigi:
Pregnant women are very emotional and is normal, just try not to think too much and hope you will feel fine. After you have the baby, is very easy to get depression so you better be careful and I remember after I had my son, the first month, I was so emotional, just a little tiny thing, I would get upset and cried and I don't cry so easy before and I couldn't explain why to, so just make sure you have somebody to talk to and turn to whenever you feel blue, if your mom can come for "sit moon" for you it will be the best for you and your baby.
Actually, I was feeling up and down in the past 2 months too and now I am getting better and like the prenatal book said, the first 3 mos and the last trimester is normal to be moody gar!

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發表於 04-12-11 06:37 |只看該作者

Re: Any mother is living in USA now - Part ll

無錯我呀媽最大興趣是去Casino
佢係玩21點呀
唔係玩機呀!
成日玩到2.3點am要我拉佢上房

小肥佬
如果我呀媽同妳老公一齊玩就大鑊...

greentree
妳去唐人market買白色魚仔"保"蕃茄congee比bb食
好有營養和唔怕有bone
拍兩塊ginger就得

babygigi
妳奶奶幾好
"保"野妳食我就........
我自力更生因我呀媽唔識
佢生咁多件也是我老豆"保"
佢仲同我一齊食仲要批評........
不過至少我第日識幫兩個女呀!

其實我大嫂比起妳老爺奶奶咁本無得比
佢地做咩出發點也係為bb和妳地
只是大家意見不一
我大嫂簡直terrible

佢哀到我爸過身也唔比我哥來送他最後一程
因$$$$
仲有我呀姨托佢比USD交比我70 yrs old的姨婆
佢竟然換左HKD200
有人比手信我呀爸呀媽
佢竟然落格以為我地唔會知一係就減量
我以前老豆和呀媽返香港買野
返到美國唔見好多仲有d偷龍轉凰
佢個仔來美國讀書竟然一毫子生活也不比
我呀爸呀媽去佢屋企住就叫我呀哥問佢地拿錢
總之數之不盡.........更離譜也有
Anyway我地一家當佢係animal咪唔理佢

so希望妳不好"男女男"妳老爺奶奶

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發表於 04-12-11 07:33 |只看該作者

Re: Any mother is living in USA now - Part ll

cutie_mommy,

Congratulation ﹗ 保重身體, 幾時預產期呀 ?

CUTIE_MOMMY 寫道:
Actually, I was feeling up and down in the past 2 months too and now I am getting better and like the prenatal book said, the first 3 mos and the last trimester is normal to be moody gar!

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發表於 04-12-11 07:53 |只看該作者

Re: Any mother is living in USA now - Part ll

CUTIE_MOMMY,
wow.. you finally come back haha.. so how r u now? still being sick?
i didn't ask my mom to come over to sit moon with me since she has a job there in LA and my older sister just gave birth to my niece like a month ago.
i don't want my mom to come too cus my hubby and i will not be able to bring her anywhere mah.. don't want her to stay home all the day with me when she comes all the way u know.. =) plus, my mom is not those old fashion mom ga.. she doesn't know how to sit moon .. i even had to tell her what i read on BK here (what to eat after giving birth), so she could cook for my sis last month when my sis was sitting moon hahaha..

WHALEBB,
哎﹐心地唔好的人有好多好多。
你都唔好噤激氣啦﹐講真﹐我稔你阿哥都知你大嫂係一個咩人。我稔佢都幾難過架。
我其實唔係話(男女男)我老爺奶奶既﹐就算之前結婚0個D野都好﹐之前搞緊婚禮0個時我初初都忍架﹐因老公好(男女男)佢地要點點點﹐噤我都係老公面前同老爺奶奶講好說話架﹐不過後來實在太過份我先同我老公COMPLAIN。不過我個人今日BAK BAK BAK 完就無野架啦﹐一陣又KAKA笑。
所以我成日同老公講屋企有個顛婆佢要應付哈哈

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發表於 04-12-11 07:56 |只看該作者

Re: Any mother is living in USA now - Part ll

cuttie m
我好高興呀!知到呢個消息好似自已有喜咁exciting!!!
恭喜妳!!
時間過得好快.我地都做左chat friend二年啦!

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發表於 04-12-11 08:05 |只看該作者

Re: Any mother is living in USA now - Part ll

babygigi
我無成日想起我大嫂
佢唔值得我唔會咁笨去為呢d人唔happy
只不過我候先夢見我老豆.........

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