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Re: Any mother is living in USA now - Part ll

Whalebb,

Can you teach me how to cook the 白飯魚蕃茄粥 (ie. how much fish/tomato/rice/water) Did you have to test each food for 5 days in case of allergy?

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Re: Any mother is living in USA now - Part ll

Greentree,

For the bean and bananas, do you buy the jar babyfood or make fresh at home? I want to feed my bb some applesauce and banana but not sure if I should buy or make at home.

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各位
Peterson 今日判咗death penalty 啦...
唉,亞仔呢幾日都唔知仲乜, 一到bedtime, 又喊,仲要係好大聲, 瞌埋眼個隻,抱佢又唔得,一樣喊到拆天. 要"乙水"咗好耐,先得..昨晚,我哋忍唔住,佢喊我哋都強迫佢坐carseat,佢初初都有反抗(大約一分鐘),之後,搖多兩搖,佢就扯晒snort,瞓咗啦..但係我都以防萬一,等我瞓多一陣,見佢無仲瞓緊,我先放番佢係bassinet瞓咋..有無方法呀? 各位..

marble
我老公都有睇world poker 架..初初我會覺得幾好睇,但係佢哋做嚟做去,都係一樣, d 人我都睇都熟晒, 我一睇到table有d咩人,我就知個一輯我哋睇咗未囉. 記得我老公又係有一個friend 好鬼鍾意玩,一星期一定最少有一日去附近d casino玩poker.有一日,佢哋一家嚟我哋屋企,我老公居然播poker既dvd, 咁佢個friend一家,就話"可唔可以唔睇呀,我哋係屋企成日巳經睇架啦."

當然個結果係"唔得" 啦..

greentree

亞仔係勁锺意出街架,佢一出街,就唔多喊,但係返到屋企,又喊食又喊瞓..
我亞仔又係好鍾意睇電視,不過,佢仲鍾意玩個remote control , 我試過放晒d玩具同埋個remote control係佢面前,佢伸晒手去攞個remote control,都唔選其他玩具呀.

whaleb
你依家好d未呀?
你兩個囡咁勁, 開心屎啦...我無同mini-matt睇命呀..只要佢健健康康, 聽聽話話,開開心心,我就心滿意足啦..

我依家仲餵緊人奶架..前幾日我左邊boob,都係好痛, 可能谷奶加上我又係瞓住嚟餵亞仔,所以谷晒一邊, 咁我就massage吓佢, 係好痛,但係之後,就好好多,都唔係好痛囉.我趁減價時,買咗個學飲水既杯比亞仔, 我都諗住等亞仔大d就比佢用..你餵人奶時,有無比水比亞囡飲呀?

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Re: Any mother is living in USA now - Part ll

marble:
我收到你仔仔張相了,佢好活潑喎,似你定似你老公呀??

greentree:
你開始做運動未呀??你個仔好似食得好少咁既??
我個仔而家3個月,每日食6-7次,每次6oz,一肚餓就喊拆天,喂慢d都唔得,不過佢有次試過8個鍾唔食奶...
你係咪自己照顧bb,有無去做工??

whalebb:
點呀?你有無事呀??點解會咁既??
你而家係咪仲喂緊人奶??要小心啊!!!
乜六個月大要用學習杯???
咁d奶咀係咪要3個月換一次??

小肥佬:
唔知點解我個仔同你一樣,日日臨訓前都要喊下,有時抱黎抱去都唔得,每晚乙水佢訓真係好辛苦,有時佢要啜住我個度成粒鍾先肯訓,唔知係咪個個bb都係咁既!希望佢遲d會好d,,,

marble:
點呀??返工個邊係咪好忙呢??唔見你既.....

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Re: Any mother is living in USA now - Part ll

Hi Leohannahchan,
When I was pregnant with my first baby, both my husband and I thought the same...only want one baby. Then we've changed our mind and have one more when our daughter was about 3. Now little brother is 9 months old and I kind of regret that we've waited too long to have the second one!
I came to USA in 1989 and I live in Castro Valley, CA now . Hey, I lived in San Jose for several years and I was graduated from San Jose State U la. I will go to San Jose (close to Ranch 99) today for my work.
Enjoy the last month of pregnancy, I really miss that!!

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發表於 04-12-15 03:39 |只看該作者

Re: Any mother is living in USA now - Part ll

Meeemeee,

Woo you already in US for 15 years and you stayed in San Jose most of the time....

So, now you live in Moutain View..and we go to MV once a week as we go to the chinese church in MV.
I know 1 is probably enough for me as I want to work after my baby go to school as I hate doing nothing and stay home all the time....

But I don't want too much pressure from work at the same time

.....so, we will see.....hehe
Do you work now? Or stay home? I love go to Ranch 99 and Lion City and Marina.....e.t.c and I love go to Korean Supermarket to get their junk food...

Marble
So, you have to pump milk out and put into a bottle and feed your son?? So, you need to buy bottle too? I have Playtex Complete Nursing Starter but I don't know how to use...

I guess when I bottle feed, I will face so many problems...

Can you also send your son's pic to me?? Thanks...

Greentea
I hope breastfeed is ok with my baby as I don't like bottle feed, you have to pump, freeze, warm the milk before you feed your baby..

So, I wish I can breastfeed cos easy and fast....haha

小肥佬
Your baby don't like bottle feed and you are so lucky...you can save all the money on bottle warmer, bottle, bottle sterilizer, nipples.....e.t.c.

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發表於 04-12-15 05:01 |只看該作者

Re: Any mother is living in USA now - Part ll

chingbj,
恭喜你啊!! 你的仔咁大食。我想你的bb一定很大隻。我的仔屬中等size，he doesn't like to drink milk, he likes water more than milk. He will only drink milk when he is asleep. Fortunately, it is easy to make him sleep. After drinking some water, I give him pacifier, he will fall asleep quickly.
Chingbj, are you breastfeeding or feed your baby formula, or both?
I seldom do exercises.

I am a full time mom now.

Natmama,
Bean and banana 是gerber出的，我也試過給新鮮自己整的香蕉給bb吃, 都沒有問題。香蕉是在碗裡攪碎的。因為他現在食得少, 所以我費事用blenda整。bean一jar分兩次食。食之前我用frist year 出的bottle warmer 整熱先, 我不喜歡他這麼快食microwave food.

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小肥佬 and chingjb
我好d啦! thanks!
近排成日發夢訓得唔好
夢到老豆
上星期六去掃墓後就無夢但就病左
之後又成日夢到離開左我的兩隻愛犬.............
嘩!醒左成身汗同眼淚
我可能有神經病!!!!!!

我兩個bb第日有咁叻就好啦!
算命聽下算啦!

其實佢地唔學壞己好好
that's why我想take care佢地大
又要同佢地學琴和功夫
第日very busy!!!!!!!

小肥佬
妳係咪全日要埋身喂??
之前也有提妳用下奶樽ka la

我估唔到妳和我同一x遇哈哈哈
我5個幾月先喂水因人有奶水

Natmama
先保congee for about20分鐘先
蕃茄用熱水浸about 5分鐘 (之後好容易就去皮之後去"屈"cut細粒)
跟住等congee滾下ginger,蕃茄粒和魚
再滾大概3-4分鐘就ok ka la!!
妳也可加 beef, chicken or pork碎
若果唔想日日保
可一日保兩日份量放雪櫃

又或者夜晚用保熱水pot放米再加熱水(通常我用1/3碗米)
第日早上會變左congee
加水(do not add hot water)保滾就係congee la!!!
明嗎???

meemee
nice to meet you!!!

妳有無做工??:

leo
唔知係咪我太細過就做兼職
我依據家好enjoy做stay home mom

妳有無上喂人奶d course??
不過醫院姑娘會教妳
生前飲d 魚湯
易d上奶ka

學懂凡事感恩和感謝,孩子終身受用不盡

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Re: Any mother is living in USA now - Part ll

Natmama 寫道:
Greentree,

電子瓦煲 is called "crockpot". You can buy it at robinsmay and macy. Sometimes they will also go on sale at Savons.

Natmama,
Thank you very much!!!

Whalebb,
有沒有試下用hot towel 敷下啊？

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whalebb,
生命是很脆弱的，當經歷過至親的人的離世, 那種震撼和創傷是極大的, 有時午夜夢迴, 點點滴滴自會浮現在心頭。前几天我也跟老公談起去世的父親, 父親由發病到去世, 不到三個月, 快得令人難以接受, 說起這些, 我還是忍不住流淚。whalebb,人家說流淚可以醫治傷痛, 適當的眼淚沒有關係的。

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greenree
thanks!!!
我想我想太多啦!
自從生左第二胎後好似勁多野想
我以前好開心...

妳可否問妳老公填完擔保書後(I-864) Affidavit form後
仲係咪有form 交叫365 or要交USD$365
我今日called去問
等了半個鐘先有人接
查到我case still in processing
跟住話咩"365"我聽唔清楚
我大女cut 左我線
再call叫我留口訊

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greentree:
我仔仔都算幾肥下,因為佢好為食,成日見到人食野,佢就會望住曬,
有次我食朱古力第落佢個口度,佢即刻丫大口,好似想食咁,幾搆笑...
我而家跟緊人奶+奶粉,通常早上食人奶,夜晚飲奶粉,不過d人奶開始少左咁....

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Re: Any mother is living in USA now - Part ll

小肥佬,

I always give Natalie a bath before her meal before bedtime. After the warm bath, she is more relaxed and once I give her the bottle, she will fall asleep. Try using the Aveeno Lavender Bath, it may help calm mini-matt. :wink: :wink:

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發表於 04-12-15 08:51 |只看該作者

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whalebb

唔好諗咁多,有時我都會夢到我老豆, 醒咗之後,都會好唔開心, 更加會喊起上嚟.但係時間一耐咗,其實我都無咁傷感,只會好唔開心,過一陣,又會從新振作.. :wink: ..有時我哋沒有工作忙的, 諗嘢既時間多咗, 就會諗下個d,又諗吓另一d嘢, 便會越諗越復雜..所以我成日都好想揾其他嘢做,如讀書, 唔駛好似成日個腦都唔知諗乜架..

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greentree

其實每次我堤起我老豆,我都好唔開心架.記得初初知道佢去世後,正如你所講,真的很震憾.(因為我亞媽喊住咁係電話講比我知這個消失,但係當時我亞媽太傷心, 根本佢講得唔正,我聽到"你亞麻(grandma) 死咗.點知返到屋企,見到我亞麻走嚟開門,我先知,簡直好愕然.) 雖然我老豆生前最錫係我, 但係我沒有係任何人面前喊過, 我看著我d亞哥喊了,我都沒有,因為我當時同自己講"我唔可以係亞媽面前喊,因為佢需要一個好堅強既人係佢側邊照顧佢. 我喊只會令佢更加傷心".
我還要安慰著我那傷心不巳的母親.那段日子, 獨自痛哭,真不是味兒..雖說時間久了, (九年了), 我的父親還是我一生之最愛, 無人能取替 (我也是這樣對我老公說的).

leohannahchan

講真, 餵人奶真係慳唔少架, 有時睇到d奶粉都唔平,初初隻衰豬仲肯用奶樽時,我都有比奶粉比佢,好似食兩食咁就無咗一大半啦..

natmama

我睇書,佢都有講到,話臨瞓前同佢沖涼加埋massage, 餵埋奶,佢就瞓得好d..我都有諗過,但係都係自己又衰lazy, 想佢一痾完大大, 就即刻同佢沖涼,唔想等咁耐,怕自己到時唔想同佢沖涼呀.. :mrgreen:

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發表於 04-12-15 08:56 |只看該作者

Re: Any mother is living in USA now - Part ll

Whalebb,

Thanks for the congee recipe...let me do the allergy test on my bb and see if she can eat tomato and white fish. If you breasts hurt, you can try using ice pack and put under your armpit.

Greentree,

I think jar food is a lot easier la. Let me go get some too then. I also bought a bottle warmer so don't need to microwave bb milk/food. :mrgreen: :mrgreen:

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發表於 04-12-15 09:11 |只看該作者

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marble

我唔記得同你講,我收到你亞仔d相啦,佢好正經喎..第一次個d,好得意呀..nice job ..

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發表於 04-12-15 14:59 |只看該作者

Re: Any mother is living in USA now - Part ll

Whalebb,
Nice to meet u too! Where do u live? I have 2 kids, daughter will turn 5 on Thursday and baby son just turned 9 mos.
Yes, I do work.
My friend will buy me the "Chinese Hand-written Board" in Hong Kong. Can't wait to write Chinese like most of the USA moms.

Leohannahchan,
I live in Castro Valley, not Mt. View. Yes, I do work. Are u in North San Jose?

Natmama,
If u run out of congee recipe, try the followings:
zucchini, squash, carrot (not too much as the baby's skin will turn yellow), broccoli with chicken breast. U can do mix veg. or just one kind. My 9 mos old son loves any combination.

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ALL:
好慘呀!頭先個仔唔知點解唔肯訓覺,訓一陣又喊一陣,超辛苦,搆到我同我老公都發曬脾氣,都唔知幾時先可以舒服d...

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發表於 04-12-16 05:12 |只看該作者

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Whalebb,
我昨天問過我老公, 他說他曾交過$365, 至於什麼時候交, 他說要看回record。今天晚上再告訴你。希望你老公可以早日來美!!!!

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