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小米,

哦~~~~~~~:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

原來你已經靜靜地起咗革命 tim

各位兄弟姊妹，我哋要加把勁 la

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發表於 07-12-31 11:34 |只看該作者

eeee, 大家加油!!

快啲一齊黎傾吓tor 仔經啦.

好想今胎係囡, 但好似形住係囝.

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原文章由 lckyw 於 07-12-30 08:51 AM 發表

ALICE, WINNIE, VICKY 快D加多2錢肉緊啦!!!
快D出去買件情感睡衣著下啦!!! :loveliness::loveliness::loveliness::lovel ...

情感睡衣

我驚我d雞皮嚇c我老公

大家都努力d啦:loveliness:

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小米,

恭喜你呀

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各位靚太,

我 send 咗 D 相比你哋 la，去 look look 吓

Iris,

我冇你 e-mail 呀，你 pm 比我 la，我 send 番 D 相比你！

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原文章由 Happy小米 於 07-12-31 11:34 發表
eeee, 大家加油!!

快啲一齊黎傾吓tor 仔經啦.

好想今胎係囡, 但好似形住係囝.

小米~~~
我一定追住你架

,
而家仲咁早,未知嘅,
你已經有進進喇,咁胎係囡架喇,
仔就留番比我啦

!!!

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原文章由 lckyw 於 07-12-30 08:51 發表
小米

WOWOWOWO .....so happy for you

ALICE, WINNIE, VICKY 快D加多2錢肉緊啦!!!
快D出去買件情感睡衣著下啦!!! :loveliness::loveliness::loveliness::lovel ...

lckyw~~
性感睡衣.........
我睇我著咗之後我隻佬就即刻咩mood都冇哂呀!!!

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原文章由 vickylui0421 於 08-1-2 02:06 發表
各位靚太,

我 send 咗 D 相比你哋 la，去 look look 吓

Iris,

我冇你 e-mail 呀，你 pm 比我 la，我 send 番 D 相比你！

vicky~~~
收到喇,唔該哂你呀!!!!

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發表於 08-1-2 10:40 |只看該作者

各位靚太~~~~
新一年話咁快就嚟到喇,
我祝靚太們一年靚過一年,
老公聽聽話話,愈搵愈多錢,
各位少主健健康康,快高長大!!!!

係喇......好快就到農曆新年喇,
我哋嘅團拜去邊度好呀???

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回覆 #269 alice78 的文章

雖然遲左幾日, 但有心唔怕遲..hehe.
我都祝各位媽咪係新的一年心想事成, 要乜有乜呀..當然最重要係全家上上下下都身體健康啦!

小米, 恭喜恭喜呀..可喜可賀呀

vicky, 我email 係 [email protected], 那就麻煩你啦..thank you..

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Freak,

我 send 咗 D 相比你 la！

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發表於 08-1-10 13:31 |只看該作者

咁多位靚太太,

我有些疑問..

有些朋友, 總叫我不要抱bb太多, 一吃飽, 便應該立刻放下, 不要養成她要睡在你懷裡的習慣, 這習慣不好..

又有些朋友, 卻說, 既然你有時間, 又不用工作, 為何不好好享受一下孩子睡在你懷裡那種甜蜜, 有很多人, 想好好抱一下, 都沒有機會.. 等她大個了, 你想抱佢都未必比你抱..

其實, 咁應該抱定唔抱???

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發表於 08-1-10 13:32 |只看該作者

其實抱住黎陰佢瞓, 除左怕chi身之外, 有咩唔好呀???

原文章由 CarmenK 於 08-1-10 13:31 發表
咁多位靚太太,

我有些疑問..

有些朋友, 總叫我不要抱bb太多, 一吃飽, 便應該立刻放下, 不要養成她要睡在你懷裡的習慣, 這習慣不好..

又有些朋友, 卻說, 既然你有時間, 又不用工作, 為何不好好享受一下孩子睡在你 ...

[ 本文章最後由 CarmenK 於 08-1-10 21:15 編輯 ]

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發表於 08-1-11 19:09 |只看該作者

Can anyone tell me which one is correct?!

http://forum.baby-kingdom.com/viewthread.php?tid=964128&extra=page%3D1&page=2

http://forum.baby-kingdom.com/viewthread.php?tid=873740&extra=page%3D1&page=7

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發表於 08-1-11 21:35 |只看該作者

seems 我有點自問自答..

i read a number of documents .. specifying different approaches of sleeping method..

1) CIO (Cry It Out)

Step 1
Put your baby in his crib when he's sleepy but still awake.

Step 2
Say goodnight to your child and leave the room. If he cries when you leave, let him cry for a predetermined amount of time. (See "How long should I leave my child alone?" below.)

Step 3
Go back into the room for no more than a minute or two to pat and reassure your baby. Leave the light off and keep your voice quiet and soothing. Don't pick him up. Leave again while he's still awake, even if he's crying.

Step 4
Stay out of the room for a little bit longer than the first time and follow the same routine, staying out of the room for gradually longer intervals, each time returning for only a minute or two to pat and reassure him, and leaving while he's still awake.

Step 5
Follow this routine until your child falls asleep when you're out of the room.

Step 6
If your child wakes up again later, follow the same routine, beginning with the minimum waiting time for that night and gradually increasing the intervals between visits until you reach the maximum for that night.

Step 7
Increase the amount of time between visits to the nursery each night. In most cases, according to Ferber, your baby will be going to sleep on his own by the third or fourth night — a week at the most. If your child is very resistant after several nights of trying, wait a few weeks and then try again.

How long should I leave my child alone?
In his book, Ferber suggests these intervals:

First night: Leave for three minutes the first time, five minutes the second time, and ten minutes for the third and all subsequent waiting periods.
Second night: Leave for five minutes, then ten minutes, then 12 minutes.
Make the intervals longer on each subsequent night.

Keep in mind that there's nothing magical about these waiting periods. You can choose any length of time you feel comfortable with.

(Reference from BabyCentre.com)

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發表於 08-1-11 22:38 |只看該作者

another approach is called the No-Tears Method:

What do the no-tears experts say?
A number of people who deal with sleep issues professionally have written books in favor of no-tears methods. Pediatrician William Sears, parent educator Elizabeth Pantley, and registered nurse Tracy Hogg are three of the most well known experts.

Here's a quick guide to those three. To learn more, look for their books or find out more about their methods online by following the links below.

Pediatrician William Sears and family: The Baby Sleep Book (Sears website)
The method
Sears emphasizes a nurturing, child-centered approach to sleep and warns parents to be wary of one-size-fits-all sleep training. He recommends patiently helping your baby learn to sleep in his own time. He encourages co-sleeping, rocking and nursing your baby to sleep, and other forms of physical closeness to create positive sleep associations now and healthy sleep habits down the road.

Parent educator Elizabeth Pantley: The No-Cry Sleep Solution (Pantley website)
The method
Pantley offers a gentle and gradual approach to all aspects of sleep, customized to your baby's needs. She recommends rocking and feeding your baby to the point of drowsiness before putting him down — and responding immediately if he cries. Parents are urged to keep sleep logs, nap logs, and night-waking logs. Pantley also describes a six-phase process for teaching a child to sleep in a crib.

Registered nurse Tracy Hogg: Secrets of the Baby Whisperer (Hogg website)
The method
Hogg agrees with Sears that sleep associations should be positive but disagrees with his techniques. She cautions against letting your baby depend on "props" such as nursing, patting, and rocking to get to sleep. Instead, Hogg recommends that you go to your baby when he cries, picking him up and putting him back down as many times as necessary. She considers her techniques a middle ground between attachment parenting (such as Sears) and CIO techniques (such as the progressive waiting approach popularized by sleep specialist Richard Ferber).

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發表於 08-1-11 22:44 |只看該作者

finally, I combined these 2 approaches ..
and I start to apply to my B tonight..

she cried for 10 mins (each time 5 min)..
then she sleeps by herself..

hope my B also like this approach of sleeping ...

[ 本文章最後由 CarmenK 於 08-1-11 22:47 編輯 ]

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原文章由 CarmenK 於 08-1-11 22:44 發表
finally, I combined these 2 approaches ..
and I start to apply to my B tonight..

she cried for 10 mins (each time 5 min)..
then she sleeps by herself..

hope my B also like this approach of sleeping ...

carmen,

進進当時既sleeping都好麻煩.
要抱住先肯sleep.

后來太重(6个月, 20pds),抱到手軟, 6个月開始我又自己揍. 就畀dummy佢食, 睡了就拿出來. 但佢平時活動唔會食, , 直至19个月左右就同佢介了(好彩佢啲牙仔都整齊, 可能食既hour唔係太長), 之后到依家就係陪佢sleep, 佢唱吓歌, 講一論嘢就會睡著.

我贊成如bb需要, 可畀多啲comfort佢, 抱吓佢, 等佢知道ma ma在他身边. 但不贊成无時无刻都抱住唔放. 除了佢會極痴身(到佢好重...抱到你想c....到你要做家務, 開奶/cook mum mum時, 到佢連涼都唔畀你沖時....你就知), 可能佢會覺得畀人抱係必然....咁佢再大啲會否冇人抱住就好冇安全感呢...只是我个人想法..

但个个b既性格都唔同,有啲b好細巳好獨立, 有啲b要大啲先得, 好难一概而論, 我覺得順住佢地自己既性格/發展而去放手 (let her do it by herself) 比較好.

找一个最适合你bb性格/發展既方法罷.

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原文章由 CarmenK 於 08-1-11 22:44 發表
finally, I combined these 2 approaches ..
and I start to apply to my B tonight..

she cried for 10 mins (each time 5 min)..
then she sleeps by herself..

hope my B also like this approach of sleeping ...

我記得你講果啲方法我都試過, 但隻豬哭到"掀斯底里" 用头仔hit床仔/拉啲床圍...可以哭一个鐘....有時哭到累睡了, 但會突然驚醒哭, 你听得出哭声係好痛苦, 好似ma ma唔要我喇..咁...

試過幾次后, 自己都係唔忍心...

畀佢哭, 就畀dummy佢.

[ 本文章最後由 Happy小米於 08-1-12 09:15 編輯 ]

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