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發表於 05-7-27 15:15 |只看該作者

Re: 老婆不愛我

同意dummypimp所講!已經講了18頁paper，好多媽媽什麼請求kk已經說晒喇!

現階段係幫moon_moon在將來所行的路扶助她。kk回來否已不重要!

而且kk可以放下咁多年的感情，同新的太太生活，可見他已經愛那位新太太很深，就算kk再回moon_moon身邊，都存在著很多的危機。

moon_moon :

將來你同kk是怎樣，冇人知，亦唔好再存有希望。
maybe佢地長久與否。
maybe你兩復合與否。
maybe你遇到更好的男士與否。
現在要好好堅強努力沒有他而自己生活。

我小朋友已經12歲，在小朋友7歲的時候，他遇返舊情人。後來承諾不再找她。當然好似好多男人所講，都係因女方有不對，所以先迫他找第3者啦。佢仲好乖話改mobile no. 及比我check佢，佢又話以後唔識女仔。當時佢認錯都好乖仔咁樣。
往後生活我時時都check佢，仲又另他同事女友對他有意。又話人地喜歡他都冇法。
then佢又在電腦上識女仔，又比我check到佢又同返舊女友有contact。又睇雞網，仲係睇近佢返工果頭(可能好多老公都有睇，不過佢file花晒，係唔係應該顧吓我感受才去睇呢?!)
而且我有感而發，如果他次次都令我不安及生氣，我老左，我會全心照顧他嗎?他會全意照顧我嗎?
既然比我知佢又同舊女友有contact，唔想再活在恐慌中。
今次比我拆穿他同舊女友有contact，他比我更惡，對我說 : 而家冇野咪得lor! :evil:

所以今次，係我叫他搬走的。你地可以講我間接拆散尼個家。

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發表於 05-7-27 19:58 |只看該作者

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Klk Klk

No doubt every individual has a right to seek his own happiness, but please remember everything comes with a cost. In your case, you have to pay for your current happiness with your new lover by destroying your own family and taking away the happiness of your wife and children. Please think again whether this is worth it? If you think it is, go for it but don’t regret. Because from that moment on, you can no longer call yourself a good or responsible father because it is clear from your action that you are not. You are willing to trade away the happiness of your children for your own selfish desire.

Moon Moon, I am sorry I can’t give you any good advice, I know you are in a very difficult position and being a women and a mother my heart goes all out to you and your children. All I can say is that in this difficult period, don’t be pressured by other people into making a decision either way. You know yourself and your situation best, just follow what your heart tells you and do what you think will make you and your children most happy. From your post, I believe you are a mature and rational women who won’t do anything silly. If you think you need more time, then take more time to let the pain ease before deciding. In the meantime, spend more time and have more fun with your children so that the 3 of you can get some distraction from the unhappiness. You know we are all here for you and will support you whatever decision you make.

I am a Christian, I believe something good will come out in every bad situation. It’s all within God’s plan, I am sure you will become a stronger and better person after this experience and so will your children. The 3 of you will develop very strong bonds which will last a lifetime. Not every sets of mother and children have strong relationship. God bless you, you will be in my and my baby’s prayer.

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發表於 05-7-27 21:18 |只看該作者

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Dear BK friends,

I don't know what to say, but all your kindness and best wishes really makes me feeling warm and a strong support for me and my kids!! Me and my kids are highly appreciate for all your kindness.

God bless you all !!

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發表於 05-7-27 21:29 |只看該作者

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moon moon ：他一定在怪你說了他不想你說的話，他真的被鬼迷了，還當自己是受害者呢？

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發表於 05-7-28 09:39 |只看該作者

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Dear moon moon:

努力，重新振作，王國好多媽咪都支持你，仲有你的一對可愛寶貝架仔女．．．

betty

NNN

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發表於 05-7-28 09:48 |只看該作者

Re: 老婆不愛我

Dear All:

Agreed
亦風寫道:
moon moon ：他一定在怪你說了他不想你說的話，他真的被鬼迷了，還當自己是受害者呢？
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各位：

睇晒所以留言，男的愛等三者愛得全無理性同理智，不付責任，女的愛男愛得到現時仍然如痴如醉，真的要問一句，嘆一聲，世間情為何物∼

另覺得呢個標題較為貼切：我老婆愛我，我不愛老婆．
個人意見．

留言∼klk.klk先生：知你再也不會上來，只是發洩心頭憤，對你段段留言，數臭及羞辱一個你曾經深愛過而現在不愛老婆的人，而現時仍然深愛你的老婆，處處維護你，包容你，你這行為實在可恥，你是受害者嗎？？？真的狗屁不通，什麼歪理，你可曾醒一醒，問一問自己你是一個男人嗎？吾好意思，我實在氣憤難擋，忍不住埋生攻擊．

moon.moon：你也得醒一醒，問一問清楚自己，理性及理智一點想一想，不要再沉迷，執著下去，每一段婚姻一定要相方一同努力維繫和付出，每件事盡了自己最大努力同責任便無愧於心，最清楚整件事的就是你自己．

klk.klk先生：對吾住，我也為免再有滋擾，遲下也會把所有留言都刪除了！以後也不再上來！

甘多位，得罪晒！

痴痴

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發表於 05-7-28 10:43 |只看該作者

Re: 老婆不愛我

亦風, 痴痴

I think this is the last time I joined this forum. I thought he get hurts with what I said yesterday, this is not I want, this is why I did not responds what his points until now. I just want to remove the misunderstanding "I don't love him and leave him alone purposely" he was having on me. I don't know whether he will see this message, but I just want to say this... Although you will feel I am crazy, but my love for him will never die..... that's true... as I have really love him for 20 years and this love will be continue even what decision he made....

BettyLam, thank you for your support on me and my kids.

BK friends, I think I will not join this forum again as everytime I typed, I will just keep crying......

But I really want to keep talking to you all as you all really makes me feeling warm, highly appreciate for you all, talk to you may be in other topics in the near future....

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moon moon

我們以妳為榮！

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klk.klk 寫道:
為免再有傷害，我把所有留言都刪除了！以後也不再上來！

做成傷害既唔係你係BK既言論，係你真實生活裏所做既每一件事!!

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klk.klk 寫道:
為免再有傷害，我把所有留言都刪除了！以後也不再上來！

睇得出呢個人幾"小家" !!!
為免再有傷害, 你就唔會識第二個;
為免再有傷害, 識左第二個,你就唔會唱你老婆不是而令你表面好過;
為免再有傷害, 你老婆清楚表達愛你, 你就唔會心虛仲把所有留言都刪除;

為免再有傷害? 當然啦, 其實內心最受傷害的是你, 你要面, 衰左唔認, 做事唔得光明磊落, 小家, 心虛,.....

四五十歲人黎架, 呢道只是綱上留言而已, o甘都心虛把所有留言都刪除?!?!?!? 乜刪除所有留言可免傷害人架咩

原來比烏龜更縮骨同蠢

廢人見得多, o甘懦弱同冇男子氣概既失敗者, 你都算稱王,....如果你早幾十年出世, 你一定是見利忘義的漢奸狗賊,....

最幸福其實是你太太, 能離開你這極品...

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dummypimp

good talk!!!

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AllyChan 寫道:
睇完 moonmoon 寫

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Re: 老婆不愛我

唔知大家仲有冇記得有個topic叫 "兩難局面"，那位爸爸都係識左第3者，知道自己不是，得到大家的炮轟，最終都係將所有留言delete晒架呢!

佢地兩個d作封好似，連對家庭及網上的留言之行為都一樣。

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發表於 05-7-28 16:35 |只看該作者

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dummypimp,

Totally agree!呢個男人真係極品!睇佢d回應,真係火都泥埋,攣都想講到直!一開始就誤導大家,說老婆不愛我,其實自己已變心,在找藉口,又唔坦白,講d唔講d,自己可以上來留言,但又要老婆不可在這裡留言,比人篤爆了有婚外情,又得不到支持,就刪除所有留言,真係好頂你唔順.相反你太太一直啞忍,只望你回心轉意,你覺唔覺羞恥.

moon_moon,
From your message, I can feel how tough you are and how true you are. I think that's what you want to express from the bottom of your heart. But just because your husband doesn't want you to say and you don't want to hurt, you keep it as secret. You are really a good mum. That's why your kids love you very much. You are also a very good wife. A very considerate, patient, mature, smart, true person. If I were you, I will leave kk. I think you will relief faster. It's not worth to love him. He cannot give you happiness anymore. Enjoy the life with your kids. May be you can find someone who appreciate you in the future. You don't know.

Bk moms will always support you. Please talk to us when you want to. Take care!

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發表於 05-7-28 16:37 |只看該作者

Re: 老婆不愛我

那些把自己陷於兩難局面的人，都是醒極有限的人，有自唔在，自找麻煩。

如果我是他們，一比較有外遇後將會受到各方壓力和難題，就什麼興緻都退了吧。

什麼新歡舊愛，一過三年兩載，就都一個模樣。

現在你覺得愛得要緊，是那化學作用還在。

愛的化學作用退了後（專家說last for年半），男人多會後悔為何當初會為這剎那的激情付出那麼多呢？

他們不說出來，只因後悔已太遲，而男人都是愛面子的。

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dummypimp 寫道:
[quote]
klk.klk 寫道:
為免再有傷害，我把所有留言都刪除了！以後也不再上來！

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dummypimp好野, 一矢中的!!!
大家無謂再勸佢回頭啦, 冇用o架, 人都走埋去同佢個寶貝雙宿雙棲, 過泰國快活, 勸都冇用. 但最激氣到依家仲扮受害人, 仲要喺度廢"up", 真係火都黎埋. 呢啲男人執到都喊3聲, 佢唔識寶拋棄個好老婆, 後果自負. 可能moon_moon今次因禍得福, 離開隻衰野展開新生, 話唔定快樂過以前. 最慘係啲仔女o者, 唔知有個咁衰既老豆, 我諗你啲仔女慢慢大個懂事就知咩一回事, 等你仲扮偉大慈父