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發表於 06-3-29 23:53 |只看該作者

Re: Any mom living in USA now - Part IV

Dear all moms,
我終於又可以入到BK la.. 好掛住你哋啊? 各位媽咪, 你哋好嘛??

Clarab, muimui313,
肥bear終於去揾工喇..仲俾人請埋la... 人工係小啲, about $1200-1300/ month after tax. 但起碼夠俾Amanda day care fee, 水電雜費, 話晒都係income, 我嘅"付"担輕啲, 唔駛我做over time嚟應付屋企開資.. 加上佢終於肯登廣告租樓上2樓俾人, 起碼又多$1200-1300收入.. 我開始冇咁驚喇.. :-( :-( 對上幾個月真係好辛苦!
你哋知喇Amanda attend Day care since last October, 佢喺屋企又唔會去做家務, 日日只係睇電視, 上網打機睇報紙, 只係喺我返工嗰晚佢至去接女放學同煮飯 (我未瞓醒)..
我真係就嚟顛喇.. 叫佢去洗一"機"衫就好似委屈咗佢咁, 日提夜提住我幾多日前佢"幫"我洗咗機衫, 洗一次碗, 同Amanda 沖涼! 天呀!你係"住家男人"要我返醫院加班做overtime, 仲要返屋企做家頭細務, 煮飯買餸, 洗衫湊Amanda.. 你連Baby sit 都不如喇, 留喺屋企"把鬼"咩!
99開始對我好, 死肥bear 就越嚟越冇"普"...

我一上網就話我好唔去瞓覺.. 大佬, 你要我吊頸都俾我抖吓氣先喇! 好釆! 佢終於肯去揾工...

我宜家至知... 千其唔好spoiled老公, 咪佢哋只會得寸進尺!

Amanda返day care 好開心呀!

但就好电, 真係坐唔定..
５月８號係佢嗰班開母親節party, 我會影相俾你哋睇, 肥bear 老公應該請唔到假lu.. 有啲可惜!

各位.. 我同肥bear 冇事架, 我"sun"完就冇事架喇!

熟識嘅我你哋, 都知我嬲唔耐架喇! 而家舒服晒!!

好難log in Babykingdom.. 但我哋keep in touch 啊!
我哋new york 媽咪有多一個chat group喺yahoo group.. 所以可能會少咗媽咪上BK架!

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發表於 06-3-30 09:20 |只看該作者

Re: Any mom living in USA now - Part IV

Nillie,

咁就好啦, 肥BEAR去返工, 你就唔使咁煩! 一天都光晒, 賺多賺小都OK啦, 最緊要係你點用D錢啫, 真係食得飯落!

你奶奶點解對你好? 佢有無D乜野企圖, 你小心D啦!

AngieMami,

你好, 我搭下訕先, 開頭餵人奶係咁, 過咗2個星期之後你就唔使成日整醒佢餵奶. 佢肯訓先會長肉! 我頭一個成日食食下都訓著, 第二個呢就成日食, 不過過咗3個月, 佢就自動介咗夜奶同埋食得好好. 你加油呀!

mui mui,

你就好啦, 阿媽肯黎探你幫下手, 仔仔貼住婆婆咪好囉, 感情心厚呀! 你媽咪黎有無煮D好野過你食?

MrsYip,

恭喜晒, 我都好耐無上黎BK, 勁慢呀, LOAD到都LOGIN唔到.
MRSYIP多D休息呀, 得下就俾D相黎睇下啦! :D

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發表於 06-3-30 22:39 |只看該作者

Re: Any mom living in USA now - Part IV

Clarab,
我希望係99日久見人心喇, 我會小心架喇.. 我見過鬼仲唔怕黑咩! 我都知佢冇咁好C, 佢係"算C草".. 我好清楚.. 只要佢唔好再問我攞錢就得喇..
肥bear 帶Amanda去day care同出門口返工喇.. 真係還得神落!
Evie 同小B好嗎? 真係等家姐5歲就直入kindergarten, 唔去day care/ pre K?? Amanda 而家唔食唐人飯餸, 只食day care煮嘅食物style... cheese, noodles soup, baked cake, breads, juice, milk, cereal, oatmeal.. 成個鬼婆咁... 佢仲唔多講廣東話喇, 肥bear老公話到 Amanda 5-6歲, 送佢返HK過summer, 同公公婆婆住, 就會學識喎!! 有啲担心"添"!!
Mrs.Yip, Natmama, 小肥佬, shuba Inu, SY mom, Wendy, meeemeee, mui mui 313 and all others,
你哋個個要take care 好自己同BB啊! BB第時係點, 對人友唔友善, 心地好唔好, 好睇父母點教同生長環境.. 我望住我99同我老公9兄弟姊妹, 佢哋其實都係受害者.. 見住佢哋日日為爭寵, 爭過你死我活... 為乜呢... 真可惜! 咁難得一家人可以齊齊整整.. 唉! 我最多一年一次可以同我自己屋企, 成家人食飯, 我哋好珍惜, 影好多相.. 今年就唔駛諗喇, 坐飛機返HK 太辛苦喇, 我哋又要儲錢, 希望Amanda ６歲至再去HK探公公婆婆舅父亞姨... as 呢2-3年我哋一定要儲到錢買多間屋分租, 以後生活先至可以穩定啲!
各位,
take care, 我去瞓喇, 今晚同廳晚返醫院看夜, weekend for Amanda, 下星期一見!!!

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發表於 06-3-31 02:25 |只看該作者

Re: Any mom living in USA now - Part IV

Nillie,

CHECK PM!!!

Clarab

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發表於 06-3-31 06:18 |只看該作者

Re: Any mom living in USA now - Part IV

Nillie,

Haven't heard from you in a long time la. I'm very happy that everything is working out for you and your family. Time flies...Amanda will be 3 this year and Natalie will be 2. We started researching on preschool options hoping to get Natalie into some part time classes when she turns 2. Same as you, I don't like her watching too much tv at home. I believe she will learn more while being with other children. Anyways, BK is really really slow. Maybe we can talk more on MSN. Take care.

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發表於 06-3-31 06:22 |只看該作者

Re: Any mom living in USA now - Part IV

Hello, US Mommies,

Yesterday was my newborn boy full moon la. Means I completed my " Sit Moon Period " la. My mom-in-law went home last weekend. I " FREEDOM " again ... la...la...la... but I busy again law... Lucky, my girl is going to school, so I only take care my newborn bb and home chores. Last night, our two kids slept early ( 8 pm ). My hubby said, tonight our kids are good, and our life seems back to normal. We turn off tv, and our home was quiet. My hubby has time to read and I have time to laundry.

Clarab,

Thank you and thanks your encourage when I worried about sit moon period and others. Now, so far so good! I am not yet mad, I still know how to say " Cheers ! " To feed my newborn boy, it seems fed my daughter. It made me recall my big girl when she was newborn. I really enjoy this moment!

MuiMui,

Happy Birthday ! Take one day rest, good ah!!! You can stay home with your family... heee...

I am glad to know your mommy in there. I wish both of your family have a great gathering! To enjoy every second right now. Did your mother used to Hawaii life? I heard my friend , Hawaii has good Chinese restaurant to drink tea. I think your mom can drink tea if she has home sick. :-P

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發表於 06-3-31 07:17 |只看該作者

Re: Any mom living in USA now - Part IV

Natmama, Little Fat Man, Shiba, whalebb,

I completed " sit moon " la.... busy busy busy.....

I have not stable sleep time. For me, no night or day time schedule. Night time is not sleep time, feed bb is often and newborn will wake up few times during a night. In the first month, sometimes, I sleep half hour and bb wake me up or my girl wake me up. My girl will downstair to find me every late-night ( go to pee pee ) since I move to downstair room to sleep. Thus, I can say, I just sleep half hour and then take care girl to pee pee, after not few mins, my newborn boy wake up again and I feed him again and again. Lucky, I still have energy! During night time, I was busy too! and need get up 6am to ready hubby and daughter's lunch box... etc.... Sometimes, bb sleep, I think I will call all of you, but I want to do home chores quick quick and then bb wake up again la...

Nillie,

Yes, I will do my best to take care myself and bbs, but I know I am not perfect. It maybe happen a mistake. However, I am a role of mother, so I just to do and learn the things everyday. I agreed with you, our kids will good or bad, it depends on parents how to teach them and how much the relationship with them. This point that is I always thinking about. To keep a good relationship with kids are very important. If kids has a warm family to grow up, they must full of love and nice. And become a positive person.

I believe time can tell people the fact! Your 99 change nice to you. That's good news! Take care yourself too!

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發表於 06-3-31 07:35 |只看該作者

Re: Any mom living in USA now - Part IV

AngieMame,

How are you doing? To feed newborn bb is a tired job, but it is worth. I easy to nap when I feed my newborn. You know, newborn is always sleep when they eat. Your bb fuzzy. Isn't she hard to find the nipple fit her mouth? Sometimes, my bb do same thing. I will put it to his mouth and let him to suck. Don't frustration and I see newborn look like a bird. To open their mouth and to find a food. Interesting! To wake bb up, you can use your finger to touch bb's neck, or to touch bb's feet. I always move my body ( when I hold him ) or say umm...umm... my bb drink again la... You can try try la...

BK is really slow, but I am lucky today... So that I can type more and bb is napping too! bye

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發表於 06-4-3 22:00 |只看該作者

Re: Any mom living in USA now - Part IV

Natmama,
yeh.. as you know, it is not easy to LOGIN, it takes too long..
Amanda attended Day care for 5 months la.. 而家做咗teacher pet, 日日 Ms Angela前 Ms Angela後... 真過隱!
佢會有份喺Mother' day celebration 表演呢... 我同肥ｂear仲緊張同興奮過Amanda呢!
開頭俾Natalie返半日係會易適應啲架! 我哋俾Amanda attend russian day care, 上課就有native speaker教佢, 其他時間佢班主任就同Amanda講russian.. Amanda識答Ms Angela單字咯! 喺屋企, Amanda就講唐話同英文, 但我哋發現佢中文發音好差..*sigh*.. 但我哋又做唔到啲乜.. 希望佢聽多啲, 會pick up 好啲喇!
Mrs. Yip,
坐完月都要小心身體啊! 小心腰骨呀!!

Clarab,
MSN你 when you online.. ok?

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發表於 06-4-4 06:09 |只看該作者

Re: Any mom living in USA now - Part IV

sy-mom
唔一定架
我也是用英文win
我記得要裝一隻software好用似叫big5
如果講錯請不要見怪
因我電腦知識有限 hehehe

yipyip
有空我會電妳
上一次我有電番妳但妳busy無接
呢排我要陪多d媽咪
因我舅父出了事她好不開心

angiemama
開頭果兩三個月會辛苦d
但bb大d食得其它野就無咁辛苦ka la
我也喂了23個月
下個月bb就 2yrs old
但我會喂到佢自已唔要先停
加油呀

nillie
我老公也不是贊好多錢
交埋家用的和女女返學錢再減埋零用
每月得番5,6百元入saving
但只要一家人開心咪得
好似我和老公share一部舊車用
無以前買咁多衫
出街飲下茶行下market
又無欠card數或任何債
己好滿足啦
因為我地知足常樂囉

學懂凡事感恩和感謝,孩子終身受用不盡

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發表於 06-4-5 00:23 |只看該作者

Re: Any mom living in USA now - Part IV

whalebb,
問題就喺度, 佢成日用credit card幫屋企人找數, 下下幾百幾百, 從來唔見佢哋還.. 唉!!
我份人工要供2架車, 所有家用, insurance, 牌費, Amanda嘅開資.. 你老公有担起頭家, 所以你可以放心照顧2個女, 我beside做工, 我重要做哂家務, 煮飯, 湊女, 買餸一腳踢...一頭家唔係一個人嘅責任...我好慶幸佢去揾工, 雖然自佢去工之後佢更懶, 但屋企起碼多份收入, 我唔洗返醫院over time 先喇... 我已經唔寄望佢會幫我手做家務理家..

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發表於 06-4-5 21:44 |只看該作者

Re: Any mom living in USA now - Part IV

對唔住呀, whalebb, 我啲說話太'掘'.. 噚晚同dorisbee傾電話, 佢話見到我post上嚟嘅message, 今日我再睇番, 都發現自己嘅言論過激.. 對唔住呀! 我俾自己嘅"嬲"cover咗理智.. 我好小EQ咁低.. Any mom living in USA係個好supportive嘅forum, 我唔希望大家因為我唔成熟嘅言論而有心病.. 其實, 因為屋企同肥bear嘅問題, 我已經屈埋好耐.. at least 年半, 我知佢受到嘅打擊好大, 俾家姐賣咗公司再吞晒啲錢.. 又俾細佬cheat咗3萬幾蚊.. 呢年半嚟, 我從嚟都唔提, 係因為我明白佢有幾傷.. 我日日要逗佢開心, 喺佢面前就扮開心.. 其實我真係笑唔出, 年半喇, 我真係好累.. 之前返overtime因為要清佢幫家人喺costco, homedepot, 同ikea其他地方碌嘅card數.. 個個月如事.. 我真係好驚.. 佢一日唔揾工做, 佢啲家人就會call佢去担去抬仲要倒貼.. 我點去expect每個月要overtime幾多日至去cover到佢哋嘅card 數.. 所以since佢上星期揾到工做, 我個心而家變得'定'好多, as week days 冇人可以再call佢去碌card找數同做免費司機. 之前,平時我休息佢又喺屋企, 我根本冇得上網, 我所有friends又係佢嘅friends.. 我根本冇人可以傾... 又唔講得俾香港同澳洲嘅家人同朋友聽.. 因為佢哋會好担心... 不過, 我上嚟"呻晒"...同噚晚又有dorisbee開解, 我冇事喇...
各位, 放心喇, 正如你哋都知我永遠嬲唔耐, 肥bear 啱啱開始返工, 佢都要時間適應.. 我會好好照顧佢.. 嘻!

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發表於 06-4-9 14:28 |只看該作者

Re: Any mom living in USA now - Part IV

Nillie,

Amanda is smart girl wor...can speak russian already. My hubby and I are hoping natalie can learn some spanish becuz LA is full of hispanics :lol: :lol: :lol: From watching Dora the Explorer, she is starting to count in spanish...hehehe. :mrgreen: :mrgreen: :mrgreen: You are very tough girl for keeping all the family issues inside for so long. It's good you can vent to us on BK. I know it's hard to share those issues w/ family and friends. Hopefully after your hubby gets into his new job, his family will leave you guys alone. It's just not right for them to keep on taking advantage of you guys

Best of luck.

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發表於 06-4-14 02:26 |只看該作者

Any mom living in USA now - Part IV

Natmama,
Dorisbee同so cloudy已知咗我屋企嘅問題喇, 正如你所講, 我真係覺得好難開口.. 好在佢哋真係好好, 打電話俾我, 開解我... 我都提起勇氣問肥bear, 每個月開支幾多.. 亦要求佢唔好亂洗錢, 而家佢返工, 冇咁多機會亂洗錢.. 而佢又開口要其中一個姑仔找咗2個月costco嘅數... 户口可以鬆動啲!!
我其實想Amanda學spanish架, 但Daycare冇老師教spanish, 佢哋russian多, Amanda正班主任係russian, 副班主任係西人.. 冇得揀, 唯有到佢4歲上pre-K時至學喇.
學校after school (after 5 pm)都有俾Amanda睇Dora呢.. 但Amanda pick up唔到, 可能佢年紀太細.. 一下子又廣東話, 英文同蘇聯話,

真係學到亂晒籠..

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發表於 06-4-14 12:43 |只看該作者

Re: Any mom living in USA now - Part IV

hi everyboby:
I am chingbj!!
Long long time no see!!! how are u??
baby kingdom site is too slowly ...
I just say hi in here......!!! ^-^
Take-Care!!!

chingbj

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發表於 06-4-15 07:07 |只看該作者

Re: Any mom living in USA now - Part IV

Nillie

我無咩呀!我邊樹會咁易、男女男、仿而且我覺得無野呀
其實我係想話只要一家人生活得l開心己好好但我不知妳老公和屋企關於錢的事我唔好意思就真 :lol: 我唔識講野、、、總之希望妳的問題解決到

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發表於 06-4-17 21:26 |只看該作者

Any mom living in USA now - Part IV

Whalebb,
我知只要我哋仲係一日住喺new york, 問題係唔可能解決, 佢哋好似花粉症hayfever咁, 年年月月都會disturb你, unless你以後唔住new york.. otherwise, 唉!....
肥bear老公嘅家人, 不提也罷, 永遠只有佢哋叫你去做嘢, 山長水遠去佢哋屋企幫佢哋換燈泡, 車爆呔就call你去換呔, 個個月一去costco買餸就搭單, 永遠叫你唔好攞去佢屋企(因為唔想開check 找數), 次次叫你攞去99喥, 原來係我哋出錢同出力, 佢哋就去分.. 99成日提住個個月有千幾銀開支(幫肥bear 二哥供樓), 無非係要我唔好意思出番份.. 但我係一毫子都唔會再出.. 之前肥bear開廠揾到嘅錢, at least 1/5嘅錢俾99袋晒落袋, 就算佢大洗, 都夠佢洗過世.. 唔好以為咁講嘢我聽我就會心軟, 我嘅唔好係太容易原諒人, 但肥bear家人只會得寸進尺, 肥bear再敢攞我份糧嚟倒貼佢家人, 我就會自已去chinatown開過個私人户口改direct deposit, 睇佢到時仲有冇閒錢養閒人, 佢9兄弟姐妹而家揾錢都多過我哋, 點解要我哋個個月幫佢哋買餸(次次at least 5-6佰蚊), 永遠冇人嚟找數.. 肥bear而家返一至五, 9am to 6pm, 星期六返學, 冇機會俾人洗佢做嘢,洗我錢, 希望嚟緊嘅日子會好啲! 因為我真係好攰喇...

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發表於 06-4-18 01:33 |只看該作者

Re: Any mom living in USA now - Part IV

大家好, 我住在nj, 有一個3.5個月的bb仔, 依家變了全職媽媽。

謝謝Nillie_Mami話我知這個Topic, 不過真的很慢, 我係打中文初哥, 慢上加慢呀.

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