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我老闆真係好唔掂, 有d嘢我教埋佢點做佢都做到甩甩漏漏, 好難頂呀

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好媽媽勳章

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I probably need to switch maid next year as my current maid will probably retire. I hope I can find a good maid again.

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Hello,
I'm still waiting for my new maid to come. Hope she can come before we move house on 21/3. I'm still not yet pack the stuff.

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原帖由 honey2h 於 09-3-5 18:02 發表
我一向無咩中獎運, 我請到呢個工人, 都覺得中左獎!
唔洗灰心, 可能下一鋪會係妳!

不過, 家陣妳個工人, 都唔係好差啫!
妳要快D諗下計, 點樣同佢TRUST BUILDING!
否則, 佢個心吾係度, 好難合作...

...

2hma,

Please pass some luck (maid related) to me.

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原帖由 fsy 於 09-3-5 10:41 發表
tingfai,

你係咪諗住買蛇膽川貝未? 我都想買, 我近啲, 不如我幫你買埋. 你想買幾多?

安兒媽要唔要? 仲有無其他姐妹想買?

fsy,

Am I too late to add order? If possible, I want to try 10 bags.

蛇膽川貝 order: (@$15)
tingfai 20 bags
onyeema 10 bags
tvoincy 10 bags

total: 40 bags

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發表於 09-3-5 23:30 |只看該作者

I can't sleep tonight and want to share my feeling with you:

My work pressure is very high from the early January with the change of my subordinate. I always fail to sleep till morning and awake in the mid-night.

Both my EQ and temper are not so good as before. I even fell asleep before 10:00pm yesterday night without taking bath and teeth brushing with Kei Kei (let papa do them).

I don't have the energy and mood to play with Kei Kei during weekday. For Saturday and Sunday, a lot of household work to do and need to go for lesson with Kei Kei. There is insufficient time for me to relaxf.

I have a question to ask myself: Am I really need to work full time ? Should I need to adjust my attitude for my present job as so to strike a balance ?

It's easy to say than practice. In a logical way, I need to plan more carefully before making any decision.

1) Family; 2) Health; 3) Money; 4) Job satisfaction

How should I weight them ? Let's me take a review first.

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原帖由 bbpooh 於 09-3-4 10:08 發表
乜樹媽有左咩?

揶.......下星期三點同你地食飯.........

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go4baby,

You need to go bed early wo.

LOGOUT BK ! No more chat right now !

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I find this book and really agree with the following extract:

《一家爽一爽》是一家人的生活點滴，道出平凡是福，安穩是樂，幸福的源頭，並非源自物質上的滿足，而是來自一家人融洽相處。

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原帖由 Strawberrys 於 09-3-5 23:30 發表
I can't sleep tonight and want to share my feeling with you:

My work pressure is very high from the early January with the change of my subordinate. I always fail to sleep till morning and awake in ...

草莓,

我同你情況比較類似.......兩公婆要返工, 囡囡放學後又係要去婆婆屋企, 放工後又要趕接送, 又係無工人, 家頭細務又係自己做, 有時又要煮兩餐, 又要讀書. 有時好似好倦......但係我反而覺得開心因為依個係我選擇的生活.

好似今日咁係taste買完晒菜肉, 但突然唔想煮咪出街食. 我想講係有時唔需要俾咁多rule自己, 把自己拉得太緊太累. 唔需要去追100分, 因為今日勝過尋日已經有分加啦.
有時俾自己hea 下, 唔係太過份.

屋企既野做到咪做, 今個星期做唔到, 咪下個星期再做. 如果老公係度依依oo, 咪叫佢自己做. 個家大家有份, 大家都要返工, 唔可以要求咁多. 今天的生活係大家選擇, 當然要大家做返自己的本份.

至於工作, 哈哈....... 作為合約工人, 當然毫無上進心但唔代表唔盡責. 又係果句今日勝過尋日已經有分加啦.

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發表於 09-3-6 09:07 |只看該作者

go4baby,

You are right. I am absent minded that I put myself to a high standard as before.

I need to adjust my way of thinking. Same as you, contract staff may not be worse as a permanent staff.

I have to adapt to the life that I choose and accept all the pros and cons for it.

I borrow a book "Change your life in 7 days" from library this morning and see whether I have some findings from it.

原帖由 go4baby 於 09-3-6 00:53 發表

草莓,

我同你情況比較類似.......兩公婆要返工, 囡囡放學後又係要去婆婆屋企, 放工後又要趕接送, 又係無工人, 家頭細務又係自己做, 有時又要煮兩餐, 又要讀書. 有時好似好倦......但係我反而覺得開心因為依個係 ...

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Strawberrys,

Don't set too high standard for yourself. Sometimes, u need to take a break and hea hea.

U should compliment yourself for u have done a very good job without the need of maid/ helper.

Too much pressure is no good to our health!
Relax relax and relax!
Add oil ar!

原帖由 Strawberrys 於 09-3-6 09:07 發表
go4baby,

You are right. I am absent minded that I put myself to a high standard as before.

I need to adjust my way of thinking. Same as you, contract staff may not be worse as a permanent staff.

...

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原帖由 Strawberrys 於 09-3-6 09:07 發表
go4baby,

You are right. I am absent minded that I put myself to a high standard as before.

I need to adjust my way of thinking. Same as you, contract staff may not be worse as a permanent staff.

...

草莓, 樹媽講得啱, 有時真係要學識點樣唔好綁到自己咁緊. 你又要返工, 又要湊女, 又要做家務, 又要讀書, 仲有好多其他嘢你都想做. 人一日就係得廿四小時, 點可以同時間塞咁多嘢入去呢廿四小時入面呢? 星期六日又要帶琦琦上堂, 又帶佢去咁多唔同地方參觀, 返到屋企仲要做家務, 邊有得抖氣呀? 不如搵人同你做緊啲家務, 等你可以多啲時間鬆一鬆, 唔請工人咪請 part-time 囉, 一個星期黎1-2次齋做家務, 做完就走唔駛覺得屋企多咗個人嘞, 如果連 part-time 都唔想請, 就要同琦琦爸商量下點樣去分擔家務. 就算子進爸咁大男人, 無工人果排啲家務都係佢做多架, 我諗琦琦爸應該會明白.

草莓, 生命係用黎享受, 唔係用黎捱架! 如果你覺得抖唔到氣, 你做緊既嘢就太多嘞! 放鬆啲啦香港人!

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My character is non-stop and really too greedy to do multi-task all the time.

After evaluating the financial position for our present living standard, I discovered that we have no saving if only Kei Kei papa continue to work.

I need to re-arrange the time schedule and my attitude to both work and life.

Any good suggestion to me ?

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原帖由 fsy 於 09-3-6 09:40 發表
草莓, 生命係用黎享受, 唔係用黎捱架! 如果你覺得抖唔到氣, 你做緊既嘢就太多嘞! 放鬆啲啦香港人!

真係鍾意妳嘅偉論!!!!!!!!發人心醒!!!!!!

拷咗我個頭一下!!!!!

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