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I didn't follow strict the CIO method, coz according to CIO approach, it said we should leave the baby without holding her, stay for 1 min and then leave her even if she is still crying..

I choose to calm her down totally.. and repeated the 'sleeping' steps again before I leave the room.. may be this will take me much more time.. but I am comfortable with this approach.. rather than leaving her crying badly in her bed..

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原文章由 Happy小米 於 08-1-12 09:03 發表

carmen,

進進当時既sleeping都好麻煩.
要抱住先肯sleep.

后來太重(6个月, 20pds),抱到手軟, 6个月開始我又自己揍. 就畀dummy佢食, 睡了就拿出來. 但佢平時活動唔會食, , 直至19个月左右就同佢介了(好彩佢啲牙仔 ...

其實要BB乖乖瞓覺都幾難架,
子桐滿月冇耐(唔知係咪因為嫲嫲陪坐月果時成日抱)瞓覺勁扭計,
夜晚一要佢瞓佢就係咁喊,夜夜咁樣都唔係辦法,
根住我就同我老公一齊由佢喊唔理佢,每10分鐘就去安撫吓佢,
根住又走番出房,咁樣喊吓停吓,一個星期到,佢就可以自己瞓喇!!!

子桐一路到兩歲瞓覺都算OK,不過佢都係夜鬼要11點幾先瞓著,
點知到咗兩歲,我嘅麻煩又再嚟過,之前佢唔知因為咩事,
少少嘢就勁喊,仲一路喊一路尖叫,喊親就做咩佢都唔會收聲,
直到佢攰到瞓著先停(足足一個鐘),仲晚晚半夜就喊醒,
就好似小米所講,好似唔見咗媽咪咁樣好慘嘅喊聲,
為咗佢夜晚有覺好瞓(因朝早7點幾要起身返學),
我唯有陪佢一齊瞓,整整吓,而家仲要同我同一張一齊瞓先得,
雖然個個都話要佢自己瞓會好D,但係有時想實行真係好難,
而家唯有同佢一齊瞓等佢再大D先再諗辦法啦!!!
睇住佢喊完,半夜又驚醒真係好肉痛同我自己都好辛苦,

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發表於 08-1-12 12:48 |只看該作者

我覺得.. 忍住5分鐘黎比佢喊, 已經係我嘅極限喇..

有時4分鐘我就已經沖入去.. 不過, 我唔會即刻抱.. 我會鍚佢, 拍佢.. shu下佢.. 又攞公仔同佢傾計..

12點呢轉, 我入左房兩次喇, 不過, 我諗呢轉佢應該瞓.. 因為好似無晒聲.

要我企係房出面 for more than 5 mins.. I believe 我唔得呀..
我覺得, 係對我自己殘忍..

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發表於 08-1-12 12:55 |只看該作者

另外, 我隻豬呢期厭奶呀..
之前每次都食到 150-160ml
但自3個半月開始, 佢就只肯食100ml, 極其量 120ml

之前食得多, 戒左夜奶, 家陣食得少, 11:30pm餵完, 4:30am已經餓醒..

我見佢一餐只肯食100ml, 所以都起身比佢食,

actually, I dunno if I should feed her or not?!

如果唔餵, 佢全日都只係食500-600ml, (奶奶早幾日黎探佢, 問:佢係咪好似瘦左呀?) 所以我都又比番佢食夜奶..

am I correct?

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原文章由 alice78 於 08-1-12 11:50 發表

其實要BB乖乖瞓覺都幾難架,
...

睇住佢喊完,半夜又驚醒真係好肉痛同我自己都好辛苦

完全認同.. 個心都實晒!!!

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發表於 08-1-12 14:17 |只看該作者

哈哈..題外話.. 我著得返以前啲褲喇..

但個肚就好鬆.. (我著在兩日束衣.. 就放棄了

)
點算好.. 做機得唔得呢?

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發表於 08-1-12 14:41 |只看該作者

原文章由 CarmenK 於 08-1-12 14:17 發表
哈哈..題外話.. 我著得返以前啲褲喇..
但個肚就好鬆.. (我著在兩日束衣.. 就放棄了 )
點算好.. 做機得唔得呢?

咁快? 好嘢喎. 我都要半年.

个肚好松....係呀, 好似多左好多皮咁...
束衣我都試過, 但好辛苦, 揾自己"bun"

之后冇理佢呀, 橫豎都唔會着三点式..

都冇計, 做吓situp得唔得?

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發表於 08-1-12 15:06 |只看該作者

原文章由 CarmenK 於 08-1-12 12:48 發表
我覺得.. 忍住5分鐘黎比佢喊, 已經係我嘅極限喇..

有時4分鐘我就已經沖入去.. 不過, 我唔會即刻抱.. 我會鍚佢, 拍佢.. shu下佢.. 又攞公仔同佢傾計..

12點呢轉, 我入左房兩次喇, 不過, 我諗呢轉佢應該瞓.. 因為好 ...

喺房出面聽住佢係咁喊真係好慘架,
當時我同老公只可以你眼望我眼咁,都唔知幾辛苦呀,
真係好想即刻衝入去抱佢呀,
不過當時諗只要捱得到,佢就可以自己瞓,又唔會再因為要瞓覺而喊,
所以就死認囉!!!

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發表於 08-1-12 15:08 |只看該作者

原文章由 CarmenK 於 08-1-12 12:55 發表
另外, 我隻豬呢期厭奶呀..
之前每次都食到 150-160ml
但自3個半月開始, 佢就只肯食100ml, 極其量 120ml

之前食得多, 戒左夜奶, 家陣食得少, 11:30pm餵完, 4:30am已經餓醒..

我見佢一餐只肯食100ml, 所以都起身比 ...

carmen,
佢食得咁少,梗係要餵佢飲夜奶啦,
我記得rachel個女雪晴細個果時都唔肯食奶,
佢就餐餐用針筒餵個女食奶,仲餵咗好耐添呀!!!

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原文章由 CarmenK 於 08-1-12 14:17 發表
哈哈..題外話.. 我著得返以前啲褲喇..
但個肚就好鬆.. (我著在兩日束衣.. 就放棄了 )
點算好.. 做機得唔得呢?

你著得番以前d褲喇,真係好呀,
我到而家都著唔到以前d褲呀,
個個都話生完個肚鬆哂,
我都問過,個個都話搵唔到方法可以整番好佢呀!!!

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發表於 08-1-12 15:10 |只看該作者

原文章由 Happy小米 於 08-1-12 14:41 發表

咁快? 好嘢喎. 我都要半年.

个肚好松....係呀, 好似多左好多皮咁...
束衣我都試過, 但好辛苦, 揾自己"bun"

之后冇理佢呀, 橫豎都唔會着三点式..

都冇計, 做吓situp得唔得? ...

situp應該得架,
不過好難有恆心做呀!!!

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發表於 08-1-12 15:20 |只看該作者

原文章由 alice78 於 08-1-12 15:10 發表

situp應該得架,
不過好難有恆心做呀!!!

我都未做過.

今胎希望重少啲,減得易啲.

上次6週仲未見到心跳, 希望冇事啦.

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好似無咁快見到心跳.. 等我諗諗先.. 好似around 8-9 wks.. 先見到.. 好似係..

原文章由 Happy小米 於 08-1-12 15:20 發表

我都未做過.
今胎希望重少啲,減得易啲.

上次6週仲未見到心跳, 希望冇事啦.

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原文章由 alice78 於 08-1-12 15:08 發表
carmen,
佢食得咁少,梗係要餵佢飲夜奶啦,
我記得rachel個女雪晴細個果時都唔肯食奶,
佢就餐餐用針筒餵個女食奶,仲餵咗好耐添呀!!!

okok.. 咁都好啲, 我怕唔知咁樣, 又會唔會打亂佢瞓覺嘅 schedule..

好好彩, 佢每晚8pm就一定瞓著左.. 我到around 11pm, 就 dreamfeed佢.. (dreamfeed佢, 好神奇!!! 真係特異功能黎, 瞓住飲, 但每次都好準, 飲到100ml就停!!! 點搞都唔再郁口!!!)
之後, 我就尤得佢瞓.. 總之佢肚餓我就比佢食奶..
佢家陣通常 3:30am - 4:30am 就會餓醒.. 咁我又比佢食奶..
佢食完又即瞓.. 瞓到 8am.

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我個女由3個月開始就厭奶,庲後我就每次都係等佢訓著先餵佢食奶,食到大約6個月佢就唔肯訓住食,但係又唔肯自己食,我就諗到用針筒慢慢咁餵,因為雪晴個時要食6安奶,所以一餐奶都要餵成個鐘,再加上有時佢會成支嘔返出黎,加埋換床單幫佢換衫就成個半鐘,甚住我掌握到點餵先唔嘔奶,就係用針筒每餵一安掃一次風,之後就冇嘔過奶啦,我餵到佢一歲,佢先肯自己食返少少,大約4-5安,慢慢就肯自己食返啦,BB厭奶呢個過程真係好恐怖,佢真係可以成日唔食奶,我個時都湊到好沮喪,所以你要俾D信心自己,好快就捱過架啦,有咩唔明再問我啦.[quote]原文章由 CarmenK 於 08-1-12 16:13 發表

okok.. 咁都好啲, 我怕唔知咁樣, 又會唔會打亂佢瞓覺嘅 schedule..

好好彩, 佢每晚8pm就一定瞓著左.. 我到around 11pm, 就 dreamfeed佢.. (dreamfeed佢, 好神奇!!! 真係特異功能黎, 瞓住飲, 但每次都好準, 飲到10 ... [/quote

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ic ic, thx a lot ar!!!
幸好我隻豬到現在為止佢無咩點嘔奶..只係唔肯飲多過100ml..

有時想話比佢再食啲添啦.. 一攞起枝奶咋, 佢就發爛喳..

有時, 幾日裡面都有一餐食到 140ml, 之後又係100ml..:-(

pump埋pump埋, 倒仲多過飲:( , 家陣我每樽只prepare定140ml.. 佢飲得晒我先再加奶粉比佢.. :cry:

原文章由 雪晴晴 於 08-1-12 19:58 發表
我個女由3個月開始就厭奶,庲後我就每次都係等佢訓著先餵佢食奶,食到大約6個月佢就唔肯訓住食,但係又唔肯自己食,我就諗到用針筒慢慢咁餵,因為雪晴個時要食6安奶,所以一餐奶都要餵成個鐘,再加上有時佢會成支嘔返出黎, ...

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tonight, my 99, and 兩個姑媽 (my husband's sisters).. come to my home for dinner..

when they know I let my daughter to cry continuously for 5 mins just to make her sleep .. they all scold me :-( :-( :-(

they said.. 教細蚊仔唔係咁教.. bb呢個時期正正係o係最須要mama嘅時候, (我完全明白, coz 我一入房, 同阿女講嘢, 佢一聽到我把聲見到我個樣就破涕為笑), they said 我應該attend her request (e.g. accompany her when she sleeps, say telling stories, singing songs, chat lar.. etc etc), but should not leave her crying alone .. this will destroy her trust of mama.. and feeling unsecure.. and this will seriously affect her (心理上).

99 said, she dunno what kind of 新理論, but she got 5 children, all grew up very good.. 個個大學生, 乖仔乖女, 懂事, 家陣個個事業有成, 雖然唔係咩大富大貴, 但都叫做小康之家, she said she never leave her children alone for BIG-cry.

I told them that it can develop her to be more 獨立.. she said this is crazy.. "Can sleep by herself = 獨立"
and 兩個姑媽都話, 獨唔獨立, 唔係自己識瞓就叫獨立.. 呢個係我想懶嘅excuse, 叫我唔好害個女咁喊法..
透過 pillow talk (story time ar, chat ar, etc etc) 仲可以benefit 親子關係, 都係train佢唔好抱住瞓, but accompany her by her bed.. giving her support and let her sleep sweetly.. this can be either done by father or mother, say alternative nights.. so they said I should stop immediatly for this nonsence training..

actually, 我企係門口聽住阿女都好辛苦,

heehee, I give up sleeping training.. hahaha..

and tonight.. my B sleeps on her cot.. I was sitting beside her.. telling her what she did today.. and what to do tomorrow.. singing lullaby, pat her... she was so happy, keep on smiling, and finally sleep sweetly.

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佢地都有道理, bb始終細, 可能你囡囡要大少少先可以自己sleep.

如你家人咁insist, 咪順吓佢地law, 陪bb sleep的確可建立親子关系, 到佢幾岁后, 才自己sleep都唔遲.

有研究話bb同大人瞓會更有安全感, 我朋友有三个b (第一个仔, 第二胎孖囡)所以依家大仔就同daddy 瞓, 孖囡就同mama瞓.

進進之前唔肯自己喺床仔瞓 (半夜醒左, 哭到抽筋), 都係同我地一齊瞓. 之后我听到lee 个研究, 就放心同一齊瞓.

其實我同阿哥細个果時咪又係同媽咪三个一張床, 都冇問題.

依家進進同工人瞓, 遲啲我都諗住同bb喺大人床瞓.

原文章由 CarmenK 於 08-1-12 23:57 發表
tonight, my 99, and 兩個姑媽 (my husband's sisters).. come to my home for dinner..

when they know I let my daughter to cry continuously for 5 mins just to make her sleep .. they all scold me :-( :-( ...

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原文章由 CarmenK 於 08-1-12 23:57 發表
tonight, my 99, and 兩個姑媽 (my husband's sisters).. come to my home for dinner..

when they know I let my daughter to cry continuously for 5 mins just to make her sleep .. they all scold me :-( :-( ...

carmen,

你依家有冇請工人?

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