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不防用住SWADDLEME, 直至TRAIN好先放棄, 改為當被用

個個B一開始TRAIN都喊到飛起, 你睇返樓上D例子, 個個MAMI都係咁....要有信心啊!

原帖由 joyceyyk 於 10-5-2 19:42 發表
irenehyw，pyjess,

我其實都唔係好想用SwaddleMe, 不過佢皮膚唔好，由得佢揉面R頭會整到紅哂,跟住會開始敏感,之前就係咁搞到眼附近紅哂同埋生野,佢仲R 得緊要。同埋用左佢又真係安穏左好多，對佢黎講好似咁樣真係會有安 ...

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我見到幾樣野

A. 6個月大, 食150ML好似太少, 我記得3個月都食160ML...有無記錯呢?

B. 日頭唔NAP, 0830挨到1200, 即係全日只瞓8.5小時或7.5小時, 太少喇, 日頭要NAP, 晚上要早瞓....BB最好1900-2030晚上瞓, 不過因為我係在職媽媽+夜返, 要有親子時間, 所以SET左2230瞓

C. 沖涼時間太晚, 有D BB沖完涼會清醒D, 所以瞓之前30分鐘都唔應該沖涼, 有D, 就RELAX左, 會想瞓, 你睇下自己BB係邊種...

原帖由 史科菲 於 10-5-3 01:47 發表
求救 .....

我個B 6個月,日日臨瞓不停CRY & SCREAM, 佢兩星期大時有好似肚風喊, 之後好小小, 但係每晚沖完涼佢就會開始狂叫同"摟"個身, 打直抱會好小小,直至佢飲完最後一餐奶粉12點幾先瞓.

近日佢摟得好西利, 兩隻 ...

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未掃好風, 所以喊?

原帖由 airyaoi 於 10-5-2 22:39 發表
irenehyw,

依家餵食都算幾定時, 只係爭玩同瞓。可惜瞓真係好難操控到。

我見佢扭得咁緊要, 都會摸o下係咪肚仔凍, 但通常都係暖o既, 手腳o既溫度都無問題。所以除o左絞肚痛之外, 都無乜頭緒...

頭先有兩次都係餵完 ...

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pyjess,

你真係好有心機覆呀。

我阿B 琴晚係完全破解到張SWADDLE ME >_<，我仲岩岩先買多張替換！！

結果，我地無用Swaddle Me,要不停幫佢執奶咀，如果唔係佢就喊，我老公又忍唔住佢喊，要抱佢（抱即唔喊），我又唔想話佢好抱個女，因為佢返工佢當呢D 係親子囉，不過好彩佢無抱到佢訓囉，一收聲佢就放低阿B。但好奇怪，抱完，阿B定返落黎，跟住又肯訓。不過我幫佢帶手套因為唔想佢又R 損囉，佢隻右耳已經傷痕壘壘。。。。。

今朝又係咁，我同佢糾纏左大半個鐘，要抱一次先得，同埋執左唔知幾多次奶咀。。。。。唉！！而家又要驚第時唔知點戒奶咀喇

原帖由 pyjess 於 4/5/2010 04:23 發表
不防用住SWADDLEME, 直至TRAIN好先放棄, 改為當被用

個個B一開始TRAIN都喊到飛起, 你睇返樓上D例子, 個個MAMI都係咁....要有信心啊!

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原帖由 pyjess 於 10-5-4 04:34 發表
我見到幾樣野

A. 6個月大, 食150ML好似太少, 我記得3個月都食160ML...有無記錯呢?

B. 日頭唔NAP, 0830挨到1200, 即係全日只瞓8.5小時或7.5小時, 太少喇, 日頭要NAP, 晚上要早瞓....BB最好1900-2030晚上瞓, 不過因 ...

Thanks for your reply, your feedback is valuable.

A) 食奶都係一個問題,佢由幾到都食好少奶, 佢出世5磅7安士,起初用chuchu奶瓶都唔到, 我地去健康院好多次, 姑娘就教我地用nuk 出奶多d食快d. 一向如果食得太快會嘔. 150ml好多時都會要食一個鐘, 分幾次先飲得晒. 佢3個月都可以食到150ml 之後180ml都可以, 不過4.5個月開始唔鐘意食奶, 再減返到150ml.
最近呢個星期,因為佢開始米糊(ok鐘意食) 我唸咗兩個方案, 請問可否俾意見?

1) meal由5次改為4次-每次180ml, 時間為 09:00, 1;00(米糊) ,5:00(米糊), 9:00 最後補小小等佢瞓.

2) keep住5次(150ml/each)但係每餐之間其差3.5HOURS, 時間 08:30, 12:00, 3:30, 7:00, 10:30 bath at 9:00. 儘量令佢10:30瞓.

B) 我呢幾日開始叫個工人記低佢sleeping time. 發現佢有時都會nap 0.5hour or sometime 1.5 - 2hour, according to the timetable you suggested to others, I will ask my maid to wake her up if she slept overtime and maintain the circle within 4 hours.
we are working parents too and we want to play with her so I will try to make her sleep at 10:30.

c) 佢會係沖完涼relex想瞓的bb, 因為佢初生時有肚風問題, 所以我地prolong 沖涼時間, 等佢舒服d. 佢沖完涼會開始開脾氣, 我估佢想瞓.
而佢大個咗日頭nap的時間短咗而我地無 review the timetable – but I think is time to review now.

[ 本帖最後由史科菲於 10-5-4 14:44 編輯 ]

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無錯, 我叫過幾位湊開B O既長輩上O黎睇O下乜事, 佢O地一睇就話我隻衰B係扭抱。真係激死我~~我之前係跟你個方法, 拍2分鐘->離開->拍2分鐘->離開...D長輩話要狠心D, 等隻B死O左條心唔好再扭。睇O黎我都要等耐少少先理佢...

我都想學按摩, 依家搵緊課程資料, 有乜好介紹? 希望學O左之後隻B舒服時我(耳根)又舒服啦~

至於掃風中途喊O個樣, 我其實想繼續掃O架, 但係佢掙扎住咁擰來擰去, 令我掃唔到, 扶都扶唔住佢大小姐呀。但係之前明明無呢種習慣, 我又無改變掃風手勢, 都唔知佢呢兩日發生乜O野事咯。

原帖由 pyjess 於 10-5-4 03:58 發表
1) 你可以好似樓上講咁, 要瞓時, 整返醒佢, 等佢見住你放佢落床, 否則瞓住落床, 會覺得"瞓之前同之後, 有野唔同", 就會死撐住唔瞓

2) 睇你忍唔忍到佢喊20-25分鐘, irenehyw用等20-25分鐘先去睇佢O既方法, 因為喊左 ...

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張SWADDLE ME, 當被用喇, 無所謂O既~

如果抱一次就得, 咪抱一次, 不過當然係愈少干擾愈好喇
用手套OK, 反正都只係瞓覺時用, 到真係TRAIN好左, 就唔會忟抓面, 先至唔用手奪

其實最好好少樓上講, 瞓著之前攞走個奶咀, 因為一瞓著, 奶咁跌左, 就係"瞓之前同之後環境唔同", 一定會喊

原帖由 joyceyyk 於 10-5-4 10:11 發表
pyjess,

你真係好有心機覆呀。

我阿B 琴晚係完全破解到張SWADDLE ME >_

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Both proposals are OK, but i prefer 4-hour cycle. If the baby can sleep for 10-12 hours at night, then make it nap for 1 time and last for around 2 hours.

Yup, for sure, never nap for over 3 hours, and should wake up before 1700 if you want it to sleep at 2100.

You are a good mom and you really understand your baby well!

原帖由 史科菲 於 10-5-4 14:42 發表

Thanks for your reply, your feedback is valuable.

A) 食奶都係一個問題,佢由幾到都食好少奶, 佢出世5磅7安士,起初用chuchu奶瓶都唔到, 我地去健康院好多次, 姑娘就教我地用nuk 出奶多d食快d. 一向如果食得太 ...

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只要你KEEP住日日都唔抱佢瞓, 唔用抱去安慰佢, 佢大概幾日就會慢慢明白, 嘻嘻, 我地D衰BB學野都好快O既, 當然有D係硬頸B, 好似樓上LOUISE25 個B一樣, 當然仲有家人配合O既問題, 我唸, 你家人都幾配合你TRAIN佢O既決心, 感恩~

其實按摩好易, 上網搵一搵BB按摩, 學幾下手勢就OK, 我都無專登出去學, 我自己睇書學, BB好鐘意同我地有肌膚之親O架~

我隻B都唔易掃風O架, 所以有時佢坐O係度掃, 有時放上我肩頭, 有時輕輕搖...睇下呢D方法會唔會SIDE TRACK到佢, 令佢無咁唔舒服

原帖由 airyaoi 於 10-5-4 23:58 發表
無錯, 我叫過幾位湊開B O既長輩上O黎睇O下乜事, 佢O地一睇就話我隻衰B係扭抱。真係激死我~~我之前係跟你個方法, 拍2分鐘->離開->拍2分鐘->離開...D長輩話要狠心D, 等隻B死O左條心唔好再扭。睇O黎我都要等耐少少先理 ...

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唉, 教人教BB瞓, 我自己一掂張床/被就手腳都痕, 起水POP, 瞓唔到....

有無人知點解?

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原帖由 pyjess 於 10-5-5 13:03 發表
唉, 教人教BB瞓, 我自己一掂張床/被就手腳都痕, 起水POP, 瞓唔到.... 有無人知點解?

會唔會張床有虱?你試下買煙霧滅虱器,同埋換個D床單被單,睇下會唔會好D?

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唉
我而家應該要從新ＴＲＡＩＮ過，阿Ｂ又死扭爛扭唔肯訓,又用唔到張ＳＷＡＤＤＬＥＭＥ。諗起ＴＲＡＩＮ佢時佢要喊好耐好耐我就驚，仲要趁老公唔Ｏ向度先ＴＲＡＩＮ得,佢實忍唔住要抱。

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其實我尋日已經換左, 今又仲痕, 所以要求救....有其他MAMI話係塵蟎; 聽日, 我就會同佢地死過, 有殺無賠!

因為我唔睇D講害虫節目, 所以都唔知原來對塵蟎過敏係咁~

原帖由 louise25 於 10-5-5 22:03 發表

會唔會張床有虱?你試下買煙霧滅虱器,同埋換個D床單被單,睇下會唔會好D?

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其實最好同爸爸溝通下先, 因為佢都想BB好, 不過唔知有咩方法啫....
俾段片佢睇, 話佢聽會點做, BB有咩反應, 話佢知, 你好需要佢支持

原帖由 joyceyyk 於 10-5-5 23:00 發表
唉
我而家應該要從新ＴＲＡＩＮ過，阿Ｂ又死扭爛扭唔肯訓,又用唔到張ＳＷＡＤＤＬＥＭＥ。諗起ＴＲＡＩＮ佢時佢要喊好耐好耐我就驚，仲要趁老公唔Ｏ向度先ＴＲＡＩＮ得,佢實忍唔住要抱。 ...

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我第一次上呢留言, 不過已經追左呢個post好耐架啦! 將d info過濾左訂出左自己一套訓練啊b既方法. 唔使3日就ko左隻b啦....keekee

講下隻b有d咩問題先, 佢2果月大就自己介夜奶, 開頭几日around 23:30就訓啦, 不過之後就慢慢扭到02:00先肯訓, 不過隻b就唔使抱訓, 可能佢岩岩出世時我唔會抱住佢訓, 咪咪眼就放佢落床, 所以佢習慣左, 無抱訓既問題.
睇左呢個topic之後就知道隻b應該系作息無規律既問題, 所以同屋k人傾左, 每日timetable系:
07:00 milk
11:00 milk
12:00 bath
15:00 milk
19:00 milk
22:00 milk
23:00 sleep until 07:00

nap既時間控制唔到, 因為我日頭返工, 主要系婆婆幫手湊, 加上隻b有少少厭奶, 所以佢想訓都俾佢訓, 惊佢食少左會瘦, 不過食奶就要跟timetable, 第4餐之後晚上19:00盡量親子時間, 隻b玩到21:00會眼訓, 我會俾佢訓15mins, 甘呢段時間會做下剪拍甲, 聊下鼻屎&耳仔, 15mins之後就搞醒佢玩到差不多22:00就喂佢, 到23:00左右放佢落床俾奶咀佢, 熄燈, around 10mins就訓著架啦, so far上星期日到今朝隻b都可以配合. heehee...我都覺得好自豪, 因為屋k個老人家開初都反對甘做, 以家無晒野講啦!!!

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Finally read all your replies & thanks for yr time on all comments, suggestions and encouragement towards us, 俾到我好大的鼓勵 to move forward on training.

In fact I’m not a gd mum as I’m very bad temper & NO patience, I can’t control myself when she cry & scream.
When she was 2 weeks she started to cry because of 肚風, I yelled her and 打佢 pat pat, she was scare and – I am 非常內疚. I am afraid that I will lose control and hurt my babe. I told my hubby that I don’t want to be mum-I rather single & care free.

I agree very much with you that “教育有用論” 小朋友係要教的, 否則就唔使返學啦. 而且佢地的心態真係蝦得就蝦,

Just a little share: Yesterday, 惠氐姑娘hotline called me and we discussed about the sleeping problem.
She told me that babies’ 新陳代謝 is 3 times more active than day time since they are getting taller.
So quality sleeping would be very important for them.
大家要堅持, 共勉之

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Back to my problem, I implemented new schedule two days ago (make the whole schedule earlier), drinking part is OK – maintained the same volume and finished all the milk by 10:30.
She is awake and in good mood when she finished all the milk.
I put her back to her bed and give her a 紗巾
tell her that she needs to sleep, last 2 days she started to cry right after I put her down, I went out of the room and let her cry for a while and come back.
The 1st day she cry until 12:30 and last night she cry until 11:30 but finally, I hold her for just few minutes then she slept.
(Before we started the last meal at 11:30 and she usually tried and started to cry until 12:30)

I suspected that she may not really want 抱抱, 因為通常佢係close eye and she cry even I carry her. when she want to sleep 佢好鐘意將個面貼向BED邊, 個口吸下吸下, 我估佢好tried 但係知點冷靜. 咁代表咩?
我今日會試下放個pillow 係佢身邊. 咁係咪一直要放到天光?

另我發現佢日到都可以nap 1 – 1.5 hour per section, then she will sleep 13.5 hours per day. 咁日頭nap
是否要一樣train?

因為工人習慣抱佢sleep, she think it is a must – last night when i was doing the training my maid carry her and I ask her to put her down – my maid and babe was very surprise. 本來Babe crossed her eyes, calm and almost ready to sleep, she opened her eyes and look at me and then look at the maid when she heard that – 好搞笑.

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勁勁勁! 多謝你幫大家打強心針, 歡迎你加入KO BB同盟~

原帖由 lolo1112 於 10-5-6 12:34 發表
我第一次上呢留言, 不過已經追左呢個post好耐架啦! 將d info過濾左訂出左自己一套訓練啊b既方法. 唔使3日就ko左隻b啦....keekee

講下隻b有d咩問題先, 佢2果月大就自己介夜奶, 開頭几日around 23:30就訓啦, ...

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